wizboi26:
There is this girl in my neighborhood, I asked her out she complied. But she told me dat she has a boyfriend but she agreed to date me. Most times I feel bad knowing dat she has someone else. She claims she loves me but I didn't ask her out early, knowing dat we ve always been close pals. I ve asked her to break up with the guy, but she said she can't cos the guy has not wronged her in anyway. And dat it has not been long they started dating. What should I do should I just forget about her and move on with my life or fight for her love, since she agreed to date me even though she has another guy? Could it be true dat she loves me? Am just confused cos most times I feel like doing things for her, when I remember dat she is not all mine, I wouldn't like to do it

stay der until she carry someone else pregnant con give u

lavylilly:
ADVANTAGES OF MARRYING A VIRGIN WOMAN.

1- No STDs

2- Higher chances of faithfulness. One that has defeated fornication, can defeat adultery.

3- You are sure your firstborn is yours. 30% of firstborns in Nigeria belong to other men. Paternity fraud is common with nonvirgins.

4- Unique spiritual bond. There is a unique bond when a husband has sex with his virgin bride, especially if the man is also a virgin. Honeymoon of two virgins(virgin bride + virgin groom) is awesome.

5- A great role model for your kids. Having lived a life of sexual purity, she is in the best position to guide your kids in the right way.

6- Brand-new has a special kind of feeling.

7- You don't want to hear another man launching a single 'I hit her first'.

8- She won't compare you with others. Her only sexual experience is the only one she is having with her husband. Therefore she is contented. Those who are not virgins will compare you with 100 of their exes.

see broda ,broda wey mumu..eye don see

Ayofaks:


Awon omo l'eyin Shina Peters abi Obey ni?? E ku ise Oluwa

na naira Marley... Aye by titled

Depriest2020:
I don't know if it's sex you miss most about him? If it is, then I advise you be collecting from your ex till he comes back. But don't forget to apologise to him.

will u tell ur daughter or sister to do likewise
.werey

Ayofaks:


May your helpers mind their business when you need help

Aye yi o le o, (Aye yi o le)
Aye lo m'aye le, (Aye lo m'aye le)
Ninu aye lo ti di f'aye, Aye lo m'aye le,
(Aye lo m'aye le)

Aniekpeno11:

Have you asked who the voice is?

Eloimii..d name

It might be ur natural destiny or coincidence if u don't like it..change it with ur mouth

Leave him alone, let him enjoy it till last.time is coming where he will b begging u to understand him..we do pass ham den....na time !!!!

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love. Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then
Recently, I search on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him,, she delete the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront. The man in question is almost 54 and I am I late 30s.

relax bro..track her closely and don't make her suspicious.. U will caught her red handed ..dis is wat I called play along..I ve help my mummy to caught my dad with dis logic..it might take time..BT it worth it

It is easier for a needle to pass through the Carmel den a rich to enter d kingdom of God..well prosperity shouldn't b measure with material tinz only .even money doesn't guarantee good life...

Some people should jst forget heaven...

ERCROSS:
Greetings to the elders in the house, I mean the married folks ooo. If you ain't married, oya join the queue.

I'm naturally attracted to intelligent ladies. In fact, it's a priority for me when it's time to choose a life partner partly because I'm sapiosexual and because I kinda believe intelligent women would make the best wives.

If you don't know what sapiosexual means, read https://thoughtcatalog.com/january-nelson/2018/05/12-signs-you-are-a-sapiosexual-someone-who-is-physically-and-mentally-turned-on-by-smart-people

Now, back to the matter. From my experience, intelligence should be everything a man wants in a woman. Well, asides beauty cha. As ah no fine, my wife ghas give our children hope naa.
I found out that it's easier to get the intelligent ladies to reason along with you, plan your life with you, contribute to your life meaningfully. They barely have this female entitlement mindset. I don't even know how to put all my experiences into words.

Mind you, being brilliant is different from being intelligent. I would like to learn from the married and unmarried folks, your experience with an intelligent lady either as your girlfriend or wife and your opinion on if they make the best wives.

forget intelligence wen d real test come intelligence will disappeared, den u no d real value of her..jst few can withstand

Buy aboliki rub.#300.tank me later..

emmysolo2001:
Good evening everyone,
Well today I don't know exactly how I'm feeling but I'd love to go straight to the point..
My boyfriend and I are going 2ru stuffs now he say I don't respect him and I accept that fact cuz I always walk out on our arguments,quarrels and so on but I'd never walk out on a normal day I walk away because I don't want to say what I'll end up regretting,I know myself and if I talk back at him I would speak out of line that's why I always walk away.....

This is probably the only bad character I have and accept I have
So recently I started chatting on WhatsApp because of school stuff so I could know wen we have lectures and so on and he hates social media but I asked him if I could and he agreed but now because my ex school mates added me to a school group and while posting pictures on the group the posted a picture of my ex and now he is upset I'm seeing my ex and that I'm chatting with guys and so on.

I have never cheated on this guy,for 3yrs I have loved,played and ignored my self just so he could be happy and when we have issues he goes out till night before returning home and when we fight he's the first to talk and apologize but I'm seeing a new side I don't understand.....I'm confused does he still feel the same way I do

person wey Neva marry no get marital issue..

She Neva start crying..tell her to relax..mak she go dey collect her drug jare.

Bennysam:
Let her go then because marring your age mate is not
Advicable

special adviser to Abba kyari ..tell us d age DT is advisable ooo

iykemoney90:
I have been dating my girlfriend for 1 year now. All my life, I have never seen a girl so nice and caring like her. She loves me so much that most times she puts me ahead of herself in so many things. I love her as well but the issue now is early this year, she told me, she will want to marry as shes not getting younger, we are both 29 and she has so many suitors coming to ask her hand in marriage.
I'm not ready financially for marriage I must say but she told me to propose to her, that she ready to wait till I'm ready or I should let her marry one of her potential suitors. I don't wanna propose and wait for long before wedding and we all know the Nigerian factor, no one knows the time things go better. Now she's saying she's not convinced I love her that much. I don't want to marry her and let her or my unborn kids suffer in this life.

What do I do?

very easy..buy aboki ring to propose, at least if doesn't result to marriage at last u no lose anytin...

Disappoint her b4 she does..begin prepare ur mind..other wise I can see Man's in black suit

[quote author=Trayceey post=88687052]Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever. In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again. When I met my man,he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because if this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband. Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me , what do you think? Should I borrow him?[/quote do it for God

I am not necessarily looking for advice, I just want to get the story out and maybe get some other perspectives...waste of time..

daddytime:


Yeah, I've got six sisters and five daughters.

Send your test.

don't b in a haste bro..relax..wen it is time..u will remembered dis..just like wat happun to uncle peter

daddytime:
For the single fact that the relationship was founded and consummated on the altar of deception and outright falsehood, you have the liberty to take whatever action that is pleasing to you.

However, whatever action you'd be taking should be taken very far away from her. In other words, vanish (find your level, disappear) from her make she no even get your bearing.

Relocate elsewhere if you can to go start a new life with another woman.

You'd be granted a divorce on the grounds of deception by her but why tow such an expensive route if you can't afford it now.

Some disappearing act dey worse pass divorce sef, na she go come dey look for and beg you to divorce her make she fit move on las las

This my advice for you no be carry advice oh, na level wey I don do wey work for me.

Good luck bro.

u get sister sha..remember u go born girl one day ooo..word re power..u might b tested on ur word to justify u soon

Obidikejr:

Like bro, The guy is not wise at all at all.

abi..him fit do him own like DAT ni

MistarT:
Pls guys i need your candid opinions, is it okay if my wife works under someone (male boss) you know all the official trips can instigate feelings between them, and infidelity might creep in.

even she is a full house wife,,dey will still Bleep her,... Wat I do is..I give my self a rest of mind

Some word re not meant to b say,some action once taken might not b reconcile.Simple presentation of word and action in a humility manner might ve save many home.common pounded yam cost her marriage..lesson64:-devil don't come in form of human ,is in us likewise holy spirit. It depends on how u let dem use u..b careful in all ur doing

Emytexboy:
moderators, please don't deplete this post, unless you want to add to my Misery, I so much love this girl and she has been a perfect woman to me and made me happy, and gives me courage to be strong that all is going to be fine, but she told me in the past four days now that she never loved me and can't keep pretending, she said it's not because I am financially down but it's the reason that she has no feelings for me at all . I thought it was a joke until she ignored me completely till this moment, after all my plea, I find it difficult to love a woman but when I do, give all my heart to it, and it's affecting me, who can replace this woman in my life and make me happy again?

tank jah she spoke out...she is d most honest person on earth

Keziehenry:

nice. maybe you should ask the voice who he is and watch what the voice will tell you.

OK..BT I assume dey re messenger of God...so I take most time to believe cus devil can manipulate tinz

Keziehenry:

really. that's good cos the spirit will help you not to make mistake in life. but can you ask the voice a question?

yes..like I ask dem question on why dis why DT abt my life..I was told..not Naw BT d future..

Keziehenry:

explain pls

mostly I hear voice clearly preaching to me about life either in Christian or Muslim.. Sometime we talk but I don't see dem and most time dey tell me wat to do or wat will happun which it will come to pass..e.g wen I was in skool I was told DAT I will graduate wit 2-2..with everytin I put in place.. I till end up with d grade..many more

if it doesn't work for u doesn't mean it won't work for other..
Along d line..if u ve a change of mind..what will u tell dose u ve misleaded. Pls bcareful on wat u share..
Everytin DT happun to u either good or bad..reason it is called LIFE