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Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by ginggerxy: 1:15am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123:she has given you all evidence you could ever want . You don't check a smart girl's phone and get evidence from a chat with other guys, try checking her chat with friends or her best friend. 5 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by megatron7: 1:17am On Jan 16, 2021 |
I don't know why God create these girls they will just be fucking with someone's heart 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by NobleDeSage001: 1:18am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Your fiancée is definitely cheating on you. Although, they may not have been involved physically, but emotionally, she is cheating. This is the worst from of cheating and she throwing it to your face recklessly. Your fiancée is very immature to understand the heavy responsibilities that come with marriage. I believe she must be under 23 and is still at a 'hoeing' stage like many describe them. The fact that she struggled with you over her phone is an indication that she was hiding something. She is very good at covering her tracks. Her involvement with another guy even after engagement is a huge red flag and a sign of what is to come later in marriage. The moment you a misunderstanding, she falls back to another man for support and she will do it audaciously. Would you want to marry a woman that will continually give you heart ache? Would you want to marry a woman who lacks respect for you? It is better to have a relationship called off than to have a broken marriage. Make up your mind. 3 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Kayyus09(m): 1:26am On Jan 16, 2021 |
I don't know when ladies will stop falling for this trick over and over. No doubt, someone else has appeared to be more caring to her. Now she's forgotten how sweet it was at her previous initials. You aren't doing anything wrong by shifting your mind. I can as well say, if you truly love her; and may seems you lost when she's gone, make her realise she's going astray. Why? She may never come back eventually! The one you're getting into, how sure are you it isn't same scenario? This day, its seemingly hard for a single guy to win a lady's heart over and over again. Guys, maybe, we should focus on something else. 3 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Vicyace: 1:34am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: Talk about leaving no shred of evidence for you to capitalise on. You don’t even need to call off the engagement. Just continue to live happily. By the her mental health has been restored, you would have moved on positively with your life. She can keep the ring. 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by jesmond3945: 1:34am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123:what you are doing is wrong, your woman deserves privacy. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by DNAreplication: 1:37am On Jan 16, 2021 |
oginga: oginga:guy na person wife you dey call public dog, you no serious |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Vicyace: 1:38am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: Hacking your partner’s WhatsApp is enough reason to break up. Trust is non existent |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by TruthSpeaker: 1:39am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: You have not done anything yet, she might still be outsmarting you by immediately deleting conversations after they are made. She might even reserve the romantic part for just real phone calls instead of bitching with WhatsApp. Personally I’m convinced the so-called friend is fucking her really hard and probably even better than you do it with her. She might just prefer to settle with you for convenience sake. You failed to profile the dude to know if he is financially doing better than you. You have already seen a future cause of hypertension, so you better leave her for good or begin to groom a sidechick for the future. Apparently she already has a loaded spare dick. 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by dayorich: 1:39am On Jan 16, 2021 |
I have tried to send you a private email but Nairaland returned an error message but I don't know if you still received it. Please, teach me how l can have someone else's WhatsApp on my phone. I urgently need it to check and prove something. I beg you in the Name of your God. Thanks. Serene123: |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by friendl: 1:46am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Chairman,.....of course your mind have told you everything The holes ain't royal ,..bet she is from mbaise 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Godbless3(m): 1:54am On Jan 16, 2021 |
My opinion and advice is just move on it is finish between you guys. She know you be provoke, jealous and angry to the point that you may want to wanna starting looking into her chat and she prepare to fight at that moment thats the reason of the statement "a wife beater". You were just a backup incase the main generator fail. Girls spend their hard earn cash to appease the gods (backup guy) and not the main guy and play their card well. Just a friend simply mean someone (1st choice) is eating the kpekus just like you but is yet to propose while am your frodo (ring bearer in lord of the ring). Enjoy. 3 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by gregyboy(m): 1:56am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Isokoson1: Lol |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hangulsaram: 1:58am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Skepticus: gregyboy:What most of us did n’t understand is that the real marriage is the traditional marriage where the parent of the lady gave her out to the man as his wife, wedding is just like committing the marriage into God’s hand. So when one sleeps with a woman in situation like this, you are sleeping with a married woman. 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Pcstradamus(m): 1:59am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Don’t be deceived, that girl is going out with that guy you are suspicious of. She is trying to use that to blackmail you emotionally. You have seen the signs, run now while it is still day. The night comets when no man can help you. Serene123: 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by gregyboy(m): 2:05am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Hangulsaram: That's true |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by stormborn28(m): 2:22am On Jan 16, 2021 |
CalliDora1:hmmmmmm |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by NoToPile: 2:23am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Loool for 2weeks you have not been flowing well and another girl is feeling vacuum of your fiancee You all deserve each other 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Mayflowa(m): 2:30am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: Why are you sneaking? Such advantage is shameful. Decide your fate without hitting her below the belt. If she really care about you, she won't allow two weeks to pass. Maybe you should call her once more and see if she regrets her action. If she doesn't, you need to think twice before taking further steps into the relationship 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Lexusgs430: 2:30am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: Just dump her silly ass, and pass me her number........ 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by fredopareto(m): 2:32am On Jan 16, 2021 |
I hate dis word..."She is one girl that every man will like to have as wife" ..nobody will Neva marry a double dated woman..so notin good abt her..except if she is good on bed 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by dnoblest(m): 2:35am On Jan 16, 2021 |
This guys story is just about advertising his hacking skills and you are all here believing his made up story. Serene123: 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by CSNg: 2:43am On Jan 16, 2021 |
OP came here for advice but deep down in him, he doesn't want to leave the lady in question. Oga swallow your own tablet. You have already made up your mind not to leave the girl based on your defensive posts in her favor so why disturbing us? 6 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Dottore: 2:45am On Jan 16, 2021 |
ogashman:Did you actually write the last paragraph? Call who, and tell him what. Like seriously? What kind of phukery is that. You mean you can pick up a fight with a stranger over a woman especially when she's not yet your wife. Even if she's your wife, go and settle your issues with her. Did u read anywhere that the guy kidnapped or raped her? My dear that's the easiest way to mess up your life. On a lighter note the stranger can sue your dirty ass and make u spend through your nose for ever imagining harassing his life. How did it even sound in your ear "leave your woman alone" Was another person not fvcking her before you met her. Your type is the reason why women use men as trash. Nonsense. 4 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by toprealman: 2:55am On Jan 16, 2021 |
InfernoNig:In summary, apparently she is cheating and baba is cheating too. 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by triangulation: 3:03am On Jan 16, 2021 |
dayorich:I can teach you. I don't know how the private mailing thingy work on Nairaland. If you can drop your WhatsApp number here, I will chat you up 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by efavour: 3:09am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123:why should you let her do her wish. Couldn't she have reduced the calls for your sake or tell the guys that you don't like him calling so much if they are just friends. Two is company three crowd. She has already brought in a third in the relationship in the name of just friends. You better don't start what you cannot finish. If you didn't walk out now, you might end up walking out in the future after the wedding. Believe me, you can't take the disrespect. Talking out of experience 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by West2019(m): 3:17am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Marry her tomorrow she will be fuckin like a public dog . |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Okuda(m): 3:22am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: hook a bros up. loooool |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Okuda(m): 3:26am On Jan 16, 2021 |
SocialJustice: terrible person how? oga he is doing whats necessary that concerns the rest of his life and you qre calling him a terrible person. wetin he do? na una go dey talk say checking your partners phone is a no no but i put it to you, what is privacy in a relationship when you both have seen your privates already? 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Noah2gud(m): 3:33am On Jan 16, 2021 |
As it stands, the so call friend has taken over her. Just have to move on with your life. Also check my signature. Thank you all 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Happy2020: 3:42am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Some women are awful bitches. How can you play with a persons heart like that and sleep at night? Why not just leave the guy and go on with your life? Let him find someone that’s loyal and committed to him. What’s hard about that? 4 Likes |
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