₦airaland Forum

Magnoliaa:
Chai. And I missed this. Oh, God, why?? ?? Time is running out. See lost opportunity for over three years. Omoooo. What is wrong with my relationship life? Shower your blessings on me, O Lord. Please. Is someone doing... ah.

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.Don't give up yet.. his number is still up.

lilvicky68:
Lol..e don reach like this?? Hustling dey take different forms oh..

My brother, the hustle is real o.. ...Even with his poor diction and zero punctuation? ,...This boy no rate woman at all o

khia:
Uche is ready to be the loving husband and father to her kids that she deserves.

Then why marry another man in the first place...Uche must love second hand good

It's a proof that men are mentally and emotionally superior than women...we are not equals in thinking and relating.
Any man whot treats a woman with same standard he treats his male friends will end up in serious headache, disappointment and heartbreak. Treat them like children

khia:
She's not single, she has Uche, who is the better man

By the time she's thrown out of her matrimonial home, I hope Uche won't disappoint her by marrying her

escapefromusa:
They will never ever talk about the girl because each and everyone of them is engaged in or at one time engaged in the same olosho runs Chidinma was into.

@romanoff sapphire littlelois, uyai and the others.

This ashewo Nigerian girls have decided to engage in .. is a full time and lucrative venture.

Because at the end of the day someone will still drool over their big nyash and sagging breast.

They full Abuja.. they like selling mens clothes and accessories

Yeyenatu's

Those fools should never be taken serious...that one called big toe is just too sentimental on men arguing round a circle..
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I pity men who would wife them

khia:
Naw!!!! Uche isn't new, he's that man who has been in her life for years, you know, that man who was always her friend. Uche has always secretly loved her, now her selfish husband has opened the door for Uche. Kudos to Uche.

No one..by the time she's officially out in the street...no one will care if Uches arms and bed is wide enough to save her from the depression of singleness

Biglittlelois:
Your brain is definitely upsidedown that's why you can't see the correlation;

Stealing, robbery, yahoo is wrong same as having side chick

Stealing, robbery leads to loss of properties and sometimes loss of lives while adultery/side chick can lead to loss of properties, diseases and sometimes loss of lives

If you still cannot see the correlation due to your lack of comprehension or cognitive desonance because of your beclouded reasoning and emotions which resulted to you quoting me with insults and referring your deluded self to strawberry pills swallowers, do not ever quote me again.

In plane terms u are a murder apologist.... a a stone hearted fuul.
equating armed robbery to having sidechicks......how dating a young gal should lead to death tell me if the gal is not a murderer like you
..It's like saying anything that can lead to disease and loss of property should therefore be met with death...wicked soul

khia:
It doesn't have to be the same scenario, her husband has an immature mind and will continue this behavior until one day he kicks her out and Uche is waiting there with open loving arms and wipes all the pain away.

She can go and meet Uche no wahala...from meeting Uche, one day luck will run out for her and she will end up on the street like others like her by the time she's divorced.
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khia:
He left his wife alone, in the dark, with no security. In a marriage there will always be disagreements, but he has now proven to her that her safety means nothing to him, she can not trust him like a wife supposed to trust her husband,

This act of his will always linger on her mind and she will now protect herself from future harm. She will never forget what he did and will always have somewhere else to go when he throws her out or locks her out of the house.

Ladies if you have an immature, uncaring husband like this wife, please put yourself first and make provisions for your safety.

All this mean nothing... The most important is that she won't try that same shit with him again.....

Biglittlelois:
The way some of you think ehn,It's just like saying one should venture into stealing, armed roberry, or yahoo thinking he'd always go scot free, when we all know there will always be different terrible result, same way with having a side chick, it is wrong in the first place and always end up in devastating consequences like broken marriages, sexual diseases, HIV, even AIDS, and death etc, why not avoid it in totality to avoid stories that touch.

The case of chidimma/Ataga, even if she had an accomplice or there is a conspiracy behind it according to what is going round, the point is she was used to get to him, if he had kept his diick solely for his wife, we wouldn't be talking about it right now and he wouldnt have died shamefully, no one is saying what she did was right or applauding her for it, its simple, cause and effect, prevention is better than cure, a lack of it, or a terrible outcome.

So In your dictionary, armed robbery and stealing which usually end in killing the victim is of thesame gravity with dating a lady by mutual consent without intention to kill? Your brain must be upside down to equate both
I see why redpillers are always insulting how you all reason.. very callous humans

This saga makes me fear women the more...
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Men need to know whom they are dealing with..women have assassin mind

khia:
Is his wife his child? Next time his wife will be wiser with a back up plan. Uche will be on standby.

Women should be treated like children at best. ..
I don't expect you to understand. And I have no time to explain

Though it's a bit Harsh but u have sent a strong message and that's fine. Next time she won't try it as she knows if she's does it will come with dire consequences. That's how to handle a woman..
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If u allow bad behavior, they will disrespect you and do worse.

I love when men assert themselves not some pvssy as men whose wives turn to doormat, who will beg when their wives is wrong.
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The point is punish a woman if she shows bad behavior, or else..she will do worse tomorrow and get bolder ....

Trailblazer1:
Just read your bio and don't see the need to respond to you further.

Ori e buru...
Look at Africa as a whole...look at Nigeria as a whole......dimwitted idiorts like u think the biggest problem for us is our sexual affair?
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All of u pray every night to secure Western visas, a place where sex is liberated and free..yet we can only dream of their life..low thinking fuuls

Trailblazer1:
You can't make sense with all the foul languages in your post.

Idiots like u dnt deserve civil engagement cos ur messed up psyche won't comprehend...
How does ur question make any sense if u don't reason like a cave man...whose useless ego thinks sexual affairs is the genesis of pain we have in the world...

Romanoff:
How is it moral kill a person please?

Did I need to state it for your clarity?

They were both immoral sir.

Immorality oozed all over that story. From drugs to adultery to murder.

I rest my case.

That's what ur logic is implying...since u dabbled in to moral moral... that's why I ask u his death must be moral to u....
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They were not both immoral on thesame scale....one is pure evil, evil and more evil.....they are not on same scale! Don't be callous..
Evil if they are on same scale...does two wrong make a right? It's like ur comprehension skill is low..cos that was the last question I asked u

Romanoff:
Without morals, our society decays.

I will stick to morals any day. Cause it's lack of morals that made that girl date a married man, it's lack of morals that made the man commit adultery with a girl he's old enough to father.

Like it or not, it all boils down to morals.

So all the people having secret affair are the one decaying ur society..why not go and murder all men and women having affairs..and let us know u want to change this world to heaven..
TO UR your eyes it is also moral for him to die abi?
it's also moral and just for the lady to murder her for having affair and enjoying together?...
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But u people say two wrongs don't make a right....why is two wrong suddenly making a right to you people......
To you..the man is immoral....the gal killing him is even a worse evil, immoral and and wicked lack of moral...which equals two wrongs even though one is a graver evil..does these two, moreso, disproportionate evil, make a right?
U people are unbelievable...It's same reason I have little regard for the woman psyche cos the logic usually always sentimental, sentimental and foolish at best

donbachi:
Side chicks done give So many wives tearful nites.
Dat is the reason for So many divorces today.
Cos a woman out of pains laid a cures on them..dat they will never find peace in their own marriages,for making husbands not love them solely.

Guy How does this make sense to you.
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How does it justify a person brandishing knives and stabbing a gentle man severally to death. Can't u use ur head?
Is human life so worthless that u people prefer someone die for having affair?

Romanoff:
Those who get killed by their spouses are a different thing entirely. No one deserves to die the way the man did.

But it still doesn't change the fact that he as killed by a "Side piece".

Your logic is warped, sentimental and unbalanced. You people feel laying with a side-chick is a grave enough offense that death Should be justifiable? ......
Death by a spouse is different u say? How? One is a legal death cos It was done by a legitimate spouse? while the other is illegitimate death? Please make it make sense.....c'mon
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A gal murdered a man she's dating, who has been financing her and people are focusing on the moral condition that brought them together....for real? You people are low-key abbetting murder...and it's shameful, callous, and inhumane of u lots

Having Sex is not a big problem of this world. Infact having sex is human need like food.
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The problem of this world is ignorance and wickedness....and the list goes
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1 Poverty
2 Hunger
3. War and Insecurity like Bokoharam, etc
4 Bribery and Corruption
5 Greed by employer, politicians and capitalist
6 Wickedness and evil toward your neighbor
7 Injustice against less privileged.
8 Unemployment
9 Racism
10 Murder
11 Natural disaster
12 Matanal and infant Mortality
13 Disease
14 Road accidents.
15 Illiteracy
Etc..
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All of these listed problems are the greatest problems facing our society today, If solved..eatthe will be a better place
OP, Oya tell me and low minded people like you...how has premarital or extramarital affairs contributed critically to the problems above? Abi are you people so dimwitted?
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The whites men have tried so much in their society to tackle most of the problems above and they live better and longer than us....while they are sexually free..And we pray to obtain Visa to go there
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Africans are the most stupid people on earth, focusing attention on trivial issue....
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Very stupid question.

Romanoff:
Ever heard the saying, if there's no crack on the wall, the lizard will not gain access?

There are people like this all over the world, it will do you good to avoid them by protecting yourself from them.

Even God is aware of such people and that's why the bible is against mingling with strange women.

How about people who got killed by their own wife, who got murdered by their own husband?.....what did God say about them?.
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How about people abducted and killed? What did God say about them?
.How about people robbed and killed...How should they have protected themselves from their killers?
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No matter the excuse to kill, anyone who killed is pure evil, simple.
Let's stop justifying murder by saying he was killed for having sex, killed for this,.......he was killed because He met an evil person....and such person should suffer for the crime....
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There are millions of people in the world today who are having affair that never died through murder...many grew old..many are ur pastors, Deaconess, mentors...this moral vomitus is stinking...
No one should be killed for having affairs.

Romanoff:
Please go through all of my posts, I am strictly against premarital sex and adultery. And I agitate for women especially to close their legs till they are married, make their own money so they can know why they are getting into a relationship.

Don't come at me with that gender war BS, I am not here for it.

How many of you want to have the discussion of shunning fornication?

If you are a realistic thinker, if u can critically weigh issues with sound reasoning, it would be clear to you that no one, not even Gods command, can prevent man from having sexual affairs because it's part of being human, it's our innate flaw, it's our factory settings, and it has been from the beginning and will continue....and people cheat for diverse reasons.....The question is: is it right to murder someone for cheating? Is that what justice means to you?

GraceofGod1:
Why would a woman even think of stabbing anyone in the first place?.. Let's not picture this from just an angle, the deceased was a martial athlete, how was she able to overpower such a complete man?
I think there's more to the story other than what the suspect told the securities.

You said martial artist? This perspective is laughable.
Even Samson the most powerful man in the Bible was brought down by a small woman...That shouldnt be the question. Anyone can be stabbed to death in his sleep by a gal of 15 let alone a gal of 22....The question is investigating the matter to the end and serving justice to said man...unless we want to become a society who justifies cold murder

Romanoff:
If you open your doors to strange women, especially as a married man, anything can happen to you.

You could have STDs, some of these women are destiny killers and glory stealers, some are money grabbers, some will eventually lead you to an early grave, in the case of Mr. Usifo, a disgraceful one.

It's why the book of proverbs kept singing it like a song.

If Chidinma was the one murdered in cold blood, would you justify her murderer by saying, that's the result of dating married men and as if to say it's expected that married men Should go around killing young ladies they date?
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Or are u the one going to stop gals from dating married men...and if they do.. should their death be justified? Or their killer be talked more about...and brought to justice?
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A lot of women have been exhibiting a very disturbing 'fishbrained' counter intuitive logic on the murder of Ataga by his alleged side-chick. They have also, from the crypt of their cold heart, wished the same end to other good intentioned men with side-chick, a symptom of inhumanity and lack of value for human life if you ask me.
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How easy was it to rejoice and look away at the gruesome killing of a man whose only offense was dating. It became so easy to deny a man of humanity, his right to life, right to pleasure as long as no one was violated, but to mock his murder for caring for a young gal? What is the foundation of such logic if not sheer vindictive wickedness cloacked under morality.
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There's no where -moral- or philosophical teaching- in the world where an amorous affair is a crime deserving of cold murder, except probably in the stone heart of a woman and some uselessly low thinking child men on this forum.
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Extramarital affairs may come with certain risk; life itself is a risk. Homicide many times happens between married couples. We condemn the one that happens btw two couples but now rejoice over a premeditated horrible one because It was done by a side chick? Is that what retribution is all about? Death? For sex between two consenting adult by one of the partner? Is the value of life so cheap that we should justify death by sex? Will God create such system of justice?
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Every human, I believe, has a right to privacy. Extra marital dating is a private affair both men and women indulge. No matter the moral trope attached to this issue, extra marital dating is a human reality which happens regardless of our mores or values, and we can all agree it's a part of our social, biological and psychological sexual condition as human in general, is there a solution to it? There will never be!
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Should therefore exhibition of this human intrinsic make-up be vindicated by death?
Please, I want you idiots to lecture me about justice and morality, because morality is here being adduced as the pretext to gloat over the death of this man. Where is humanity? The murder of this man is not justice. It's pure evil no one should support.
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Does morality even trump humanity? Is death the justice for a sexual affair? Even if it happens as a consequence, should it be encouraged? I believe the gloating remarks so far is a symptom of a diseased worldview, or values that is rooted in a very distorted foundation of morality, perhaps popularised by Christianity, of which stinks of wanton hypocrisy, lack of compassion and even misrepresentation of what morality implies as taught by Jesus himself.
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An adultress in the Bible was to be stoned to death, from a moral angle we can liken the sin of this man to that of the adultress. Jesus however stopped the brutal murder of that woman.Today, murderous women and stupid men are mocking the death of this man just like the Pharisees would have jubilated over the death of that addultress!
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This logic is really sad. If the young lover of a married woman murder her in such a cold manner after caring for him financially and sexually in secret, will it garner same reaction? If so, how then are we different from the Pharisees Jesus condemned? Why do we encourage murderers? or is the society safer with more murderers than with more people caring and and enjoying themselves in privacy?

Ignorance everywhere. Shiorr.

In this life, it's like there's no rest for job seekers.
From one wahala to Another.....let him get the job...and u see him heave a sigh of relief..
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This life na scam..cos of job..person go go through hell. Why? Even when u are ready and qualified..u no go see the job...
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This world is to me not designed with equity or fairness. Many people just come here com suffer..
That's why There's no rest for job seekers.

Hammyaladin:
Are there Minimalists in Nigeria?? like do NIGERIANS practice minimalism, Essentialism


The picture below is that of a famous Japanese Minimalist known as, Fumio Sasaki..

I practice digital minimalism. Or I'm a digital minimalist.