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dustydee:
Why don't you ask them to move to Nigeria to join you since you have a job and it will be easier for them to get a visa? I say that because getting a tier 2 visa is quite difficult if you are not a medical practitioner. while they are with you, she could still make do with her benefit (assuming they keep paying her). Marry her, that way she could then apply for a spousal visa for you (may be difficult as she does not earn enough). You can then continue your search for a route to the UK via tier 1 (Exceptional Talent Visa), Tier 2 or Spousal visa.

That was my hope. it did not work out as planned, I am without a job. Yes, she suggested coming over, let's be honest, who would allow such suicide mission from where there was education, etc to Nigeria where she might not be able cope with conditions. Fingers still crossed,am believing I get a good Job soon, only this is taking like forever. Thank you for your input, really appreciate...we rise by raising others, one love!!!

Lexusgs430:
How does she intend having you in the UK ?

We talked yesterday or a day before... Here is our conversation.
[11/5, 19:18] Leila Kamara: Better now
[11/5, 19:18] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: Cool Cool
[11/5, 19:18] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: Are you on PIP
[11/5, 19:18] Leila Kamara: No
[11/5, 19:19] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: Been asking questions on my best option to relocate and I was advised to ask what your proposal is
[11/5, 19:19] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: On this matter
[11/5, 19:19] Leila Kamara: OK
[11/5, 19:20] Leila Kamara: Do you mean how or where?
[11/5, 19:21] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: I mean what your take is on the subject matter. Both will be suggestive especially as it concerns UK
[11/5, 19:23] Leila Kamara: I don't know about how. But if you could get here we could live together.
[11/5, 19:23] Leila Kamara: It just depends on how you are getting here that's all
[11/5, 19:24] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: I guess this is sufficient for my helper to sort me out
[11/5, 19:25] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: He appears to be willing to help he needed me seek your consent
[11/5, 19:25] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: I have not been able to call because of the tariff charges over here,please bear with me
[11/5, 19:26] Leila Kamara: That's OK

Is this really happening

Hi,

The first thing to note is this, I have never been to a medical school at least not any that I can consciously say but a trial will convince you on what I am about to tell you.

Are you suffering from any kind of ailment- this will certainly be your last bus stop. All I expect from you is absolute faith and believe in the following steps.

First ask yourself this question if you are Ill, is there anyone I hold grudge against or I don't want to forgive, the best part is letting go and FORGIVE

After you have done that, tell yourself you admit all your faults in the time past and believe there is forgiveness for admittance

After that, if you were a chronic fornicator, liar, thief or whatever stop it immediately for immediate result.

Are you set to take this decision? If you are still reading then your solution has arrived. Stay away from food, water, do not wash your mouth, do not drink water, do not take your bath for three days, for example, you will start from say Saturday 12midnight to Tuesday 12midnight. That Day agree within yourself not to go back to any evil mentioned above or any, on that last day, just kneel, put your face on the floor three times and inscribe three zeros in a drop of water in a cup and swallow. After, this, drink only hot tea followed with juicy fruits like orange, water melon etc... Make sure you do not eat for another three days but maintain fruits as you have the ability to buy.

On the seventh day run a TEST come back to testify!!!

The cause of the effect is SIN-EVIL

I can see plenty testimonials from today.

Lexusgs430:
How does she intend having you in the UK ?

She said it will take time to sort things out. For example said she wanted to be alone now though she said it will be nice to have me around.

I know she is worried because I don't have a job and you know what it means living off a meager sum given by the government. Honestly that was part of the reason I got frustrated because of lacking in certain responsibilities. God help me I need a job

Lexusgs430:
Is she receiving PIP payments? You truly have a magical cassava + condensed milk ......

PIP really don't know what that means...I don't want to start asking about her finance if you get what I mean.

@My cassava got plenty of milk, very funny...I was actually celibate before I met her. Loneliness caused my tilting!

I think she is a PAYEE OF THAT PIP shit. One time she was complaining about money too small to take care of her..

So, what next Bruv!!!

Lexusgs430:
The moment you come back, you must be prepared to hit the ground running (office work or not ).........

My biggest concern is, assuming she is a British subject, she would need to earn £18,600, to qualify for a Spousal visa application.

So this issue is not as easy and clear cut as it originally looks (not unless their is something you have not already mentioned).......

Brother she is epileptic she cannot work.

Let me believe my prayers cured her because she also said she was unable to bear children from her doctors report I questioned that authority with a command which fell on me either as the victim or the fortunate.

This is why I need a job more than ever to assist her look after our baby together ....Hope I am very clear as I can?

Lexusgs430:
This statement means she is on some sort of benefits, the moment your name pops up at that address, she would be invited for an interview (if she has not already declared your occupancy)....

So you must hit the ground running, if she decides to give you second chance. So what is lost in benefits, is gained through employment earnings.

If the council provided her with accommodation, hopefully it's a council flat and not a privately rented accomodation. She would also lose her housing benefits.......

Glad you see where I am driving at. The big question is what do I do? Actually was thinking it will be nice getting a Job is it possible. what steps should I take? She is already too stressed, yes she says she needs my presence but how do we survive? if for any reason I want to GI back there for me daughter and look after her this time plus get a JOB

Lexusgs430:
It's kinda strange you did not see this rare breed in her, in the past ..... Not a time to kick a man, when he is already down .....

What is her perception about your proposal?

Complaining about backlog of debts ordinarily she is consenting I don't want to be a burden but a backbone to lift her up.

Last we talked she said it took five months or more to convince council that I was no longer with her, so you see, going through process again might paint her negatively-we know how the UK works, I may be wrong but my perception!

dustydee:

Why nah? Can't you give him the information here or direct him to the other thread?
Freeze007 head to the migrate to Canada thread and ask your question there to avoid stories that touch.

Regards Brother...
We are a great Nation and good people no matter what the SELECT FEW DO to daint our image

Obrigado

blinks022:
Ok That's true, some people prefer to talk in private, but for the sake of otherr people that it will help, you can try the MPNP if you hav a sponsor in manitoba, or express entry if you have a masters degree and ur IELTS is upto 8.0 I hope that helps

I do not have M.Sc. All I have is Bachelor in Engineering plus a certification in safety that covers five category under OSHA-Occupational Safety and Health Academy.

I don't not also know anyone in Manitoba matter of fact this is my first time looking at this option with no one in mind.

Somebody's suggestions will help a whole lot

Lexusgs430:
You cannot undo the past, but I feel it's your present condition in Nigeria, that enabled your looking backwards. Now your discarded options, seems to almost becoming a moment of redemption..........

Is your babymama currently in another relationship? Thank goodness your mental health, is in a good state at the moment........

She is not

We been chatting for some time now only seem a little worried about doing it by herself...She is a rare breed always wanted a complete family unlike the "USUALS" - Single parenthood

Hello Nairalanders,

There is something bugging me for the past 5years. Let me try and make this very honest, true and frank. I feel very bad for the treatment I gave to the mother of my daughter, something I keep regretting.

In October '12, 15th had the privilege to study Water Resources Engineering and Management(M.Sc) in Sheffield, within that period one thing led to the other, part of which was boredom, loneliness plus the fact that I was really struggling with my course-which led to depression. Within this period I slided a bit, that is, lost focus completely from the original purpose that I got neck deep in internet for all the negative reasons apart of defrauding.

At some point, my grades was so bad I was advised to change but insisted i wanted to continue assuring my HOD I was going to do well. This did not happen as my stay became a complete waste of resources-this I am still regretting. However, something should I say fortunate or unfortunate happened, got a girl pregnant. I must say that at that point I was too naive to handle the situation that I left her to fend all by herself, still beg God to forgive me. Cut long story short, I did not want their Immigration to catch up with me as soon as it was time to leave had to leave. Bear in mind my condition was exacerbated that it threw me into a psychiatrist hospital, that's how bad it is when trying to get your head around how to leave with the shame of not successfully fulfilling the conditions that took me to the UK in the first place when I did not come from a wealthy home but an average family all that put together aggravated my condition. Plus the problem of getting a girl pregnant where I was struggling to survive in a complete strange Land.

Travelled back to Nigeria and condition as been somewhat difficult thank God been able to top up with a good area I am in love with- Health. Safety and Environment. Matter of fact certified by Occupational Health and Safety Academy.

The problem now is, I am truly feeling very empty because I miss my daughter, talked with her mum, she appear to be struggling doing it all by herself. Last we talked she complained about being in debt, I want to go back to her to assist her, yes, it is very hard too in Nigeria but with the latest qualification in my portfolio perhaps finding a good job there in UK will ease a lot of burden for her. Thing is, how feasible is it getting a Job there from Nigeria?

I have tried applying for jobs in the UK from Nigeria there seem not to be any luck. I really don't want to go back using her as an edge but I would love to give my daughter a good life as her Dad. As am typing this, my baby been asking about her Dad and the last we spoke on whatsapp she seemed very shy but lacking fatherhood something I could sense.

Please FAM, I need professional advice on the best way to tackle this in the most legitimate way possible. I believe in monogamy, I would love to take my position as her Dad, what should I do? Also being that I think UK may have laws that are quite intimidating, I had thought securing a job and inviting for visits but as we all know it does not seem to be working as planned. Someone should please advise me on what to do.

I miss these beautiful people in my life. Life is hard here in Nigeria at the end, our child has a kind of special emotion we cannot fathom. Initially thought I was never going to see them again but I feel this strong connection that is begging to be united with them.

I anticipate good advise on the way forward

cheers!!!

izzy4shizzy:
I have been thinking about paying of tithe and I have been caught in between two thoughts, now is paying of the 1/10th of ur earnings to the church that is referred to as tithe only or paying that 1/10th to some other purpose which u feel more satisfied with..

For example, would it also be tithe if I give my tithe to someone sourcing for funds to treat a terminal illness?

Because sometimes, I don't really think the church needs my tithe but they stress so much about paying. Now the million dollar question is, is it paying of tithe i.e one tenth of ur earnings generally to whatever purpose you see fit or paying it to the church

As the Holy Spirit just ministered to me, Tithes should be forwarded to attend to charity-those in need

Hello Nairalanders,


I am here for advise. I am single who wants to start afresh in Canada I.e Career, family and others as the case may be suiting my financial muscle.

I have in mind to work and reside in Canada, I do not mind starting off as a voluntary worker until I get used to what works best for to make a decision in the mean time your suggestions may be suggestive of more to my limitations hence the resolve to ask opinions..

Can 2Million give me the basic from application to all what not if nor how much do I need to budget it will not be a problem getting the cash all I need is the best for me in Canada.

Bachelor Degree holder plus a Safety Officer with a renowned body(Occupational Health and Safety) it could be an amateur, I would not mind getting all I need to make job scouting easy for me


thanks in anticipation to your honest opinions and advice

Andyblaze:
Don't let the white man steal your culture

#Tell them

Naza25:
They are calling him the jagaban of the universe? An ordinary human being? One day the real jagaban of the universe will put him in his place

Very Soon

Bluezy13:
My deposition mattered the moment you brought your disposition to a public forum where it intercepted my attention.

OK. thanks but no thanks


You are a good man!

Bluezy13:
The law does not recognize "wishful" thinking. It affirms.

Secondly, the law of attraction obeys stepwise affirmation, not folly exaggeration.
You can't affirm that you'll own an estate when you don't even have a room block of your own.
You must first affirm that you'll own a house, before you can affirm that you'll own an estate only after you must have attracted the affirmation of owning a house.

Exaggeration is an abuse of the law.

Today you are hearing the new law to wealth

I just need a little effort which is in typing and saying it loud.

You must not commit to this theorem it still does not stop what is affirmed!

We have what works best for all of us. Whatever rock your boat is entirely up to you, rest assured what works for me may not necessarily work for you, if that's what you think about becoming a gazillionaire good thought as for me, I am sure of what I think, therefore your concept does not apply to me...

Live life as you wait for the TRUMPET!!!

It'll sound real soon.....

ElidaxZiel:
That's the spirit, you will definitely be

Amen!!??

ElidaxZiel:
A lot of people use this words on a more physical level but there is more to it .

You are a product of your belief.
Believe you have it , definitely you will have it

On a Metaphysics level (spiritual )

The poor believe he is poor, and the host of Universe bring him more of it

Same goes for the rich

I will be the first Gazillionaire

Mark my word

Hi Nairalanders,

First let me use this medium to encourage us on present situations besetting our nation, youths- do not despair as there comes light at the end of the tunnel, that said I have issues with coming to terms with a certain MIGRATION BROKERS FIRM, they are a world base platform looking into employment for those who want to migrate to a few country they can influence. my question is, has any one gotten VISA with these MIGRATION BROKERS?Anyone with ideas should clarify me/us should there be other weary nationals hoping to be cleared too. "make we no enter one chance". They accepted my application but are asking for $75 for legal matters to help secure a visa from whoever employs since they push CV to the necessary agencies requesting for applicants as they say and would help you secure an employment letter which eases VISA application(they are also a legal firm).

Please folks come to my aid,I need concrete testimonial if anyone has used them before.

Regards
freeze007

Hi Nairalanders,

I am in need of Note 3 Infinix. Any one willing to sell his or have where you suggest I could buy the phone any where in Akwa Ibom?

Reach out to me via, 09023662377

cheers

xtravanganza:
If I ware to be davido, I would make a movie like documentary or a reality tv show about life in camp. The fun, the thrills and the excitement that come with it...
Men that's real cash just for airing it.
Cc lalastica

Let me suggest it to him let's hope it pays...

anayolity:
My Adaeze hot pass this girl nah.....

Baba God watsup nahhh...

I don pray , i don work both hard and smart.... Watsuppppp ... this is not the plan.... pick up this call.

Better things to carry money do yet no level.

I no give up sha..... i still trust you for the matter

That's the spirit...it is time for Him to pick our call!

9.15 BURY THE DEAD AS I HAVE TAUGHT

I have taught you not to keep funeral parlour and mourning houses. That when somebody sleeps in the Lord, you should call some brethren, the number is not important. Together you should give thanks to God and then bury the person quickly without embalmment of the body or putting it in the mortuary, or doing any such worldly and unnecessary things to the body. Avoid mundane and worldly ceremonies and activities. I have given you the necessary way to conduct a burial ceremony. This ceremony is enough. The important thing is to thank God our Father and pray and commit the member's soul to God. The person is on transfer and not dead as you call it. But it is surprising that you have refused to heed this vital instruction but you continue in the ways of the world.

9.16 THIS TEACHING IS FROM HEAVEN

As I am standing here, delivering this gospel, I am speaking to you and the whole world from heaven. So that no one would say I did not hear. You are inexcusable, I repeat. These teaching could be likened to the rejected stone by the builders which later became the chief corner stone. I did not come to receive praises, honour and vain glory of men but I have come with the knowledge of truth and to impart same to all who want to be taught by me. I am not after the effect of the cause but the cause of the effect. All those who commit sins are slaves of sin and we have no room for slaves in this Kingdom. Christ said: "Every doer of sin is a slave of sin" If you start to practise these teachings from today, you will see changes in your life. Let us be thankful to God, because if I did not come, the whole world would have perished. For no one would have taught you about God. Therefore, if you have problems it is because you do not practise the teachings of the Holy Spirit.


THANK YOU FATHER FOR THIS RECONDITE WISDOM from Leader Olumba Olumba Obu

SCIENTIFIC REPORT ON PREMARITAL SEX

THE DNA
If you have sex with a man, his DNA lives in you forever.

A research by university of Seattle USA has proven that.
There is now a greater understanding of why God asks us not to have sex before we get married.

This research proves that any man, that a woman has sex with leaves a part of his DNA in the woman.

The man who has had more sex with her, leaves more of his DNA in the woman. So when a woman ovulates, the eggs that she produces contain more of other DNAs.

So we need to educate the girlchild to remain a virgin till marriage.

Anytime you have sex with another man you become one with that man (spiritually too) and carry the man's DNA.

At some point when you have too many of the male DNA in you; you change, because your cells are changing.

That also proves why when married couples live together for a long time they end up looking alike. The woman's DNA changes when she has sex with men. This is very serious.

The world should know this and stop silly sex promotions.

It is bad than good.
Unfortunately women are the victims.

This was found out in many other research articles mostly released this year. So it is new and we all have to know.

The fact is, women retain DNA from every man they have slept with.

Cells transferred from a man to a woman during intercourse become integrated into the woman's body after sex, every single time they have sex.

This study found the presence of genetically distinct male cells in the brain of women. This also means these other male cells will be found in a foetus when the woman gets pregnant.

(This is called microchimerism.)

Every male you absorb sperm from becomes a living part of your life. Sperm is a living substance. Living cells. It enters your bloodstream and collects in your brain and spine.

Stop experimenting with sex.

When the sperm enters a woman it swims until it hits a wall and then seeps into your flesh.

If it's in your mouth, (abomination) it can get into your nasal areas, behind your eyes and even your inner ear. It then enters your bloodstream and collects in your brain and spine. You can never get rid of it.

It becomes a part of you forever. These are the true consequences of sexual intercourse.

Original research is from University of Seattle and Fred Hutchinson cancer research center.

They accidentally found this when they were researching to find out why pregnant women carrying boys get men neurological diseases.

This is real and not a joke.!!!

Stop having sex if you are not married.

And stop having sex with other than your husband, for the married.

The consequences of doing this is devastating.(Bastards)!!
No wonder the world is the way it is!

Say no to sex when not married.
Say no to EXTRA-MARITAL affairs also.

INFOBIZ3:
THIS WORLD IS A TESTING GROUND FOR US, ANYONE WHO FAIL GOES TO HELL, AND ANYONE WHO PASS GOES TO HEAVEN.

I'd agree with a little "Clause"- Love of God, endures...


You would be made to get it right, to get heaven at last...No one should perish is Gods slogan

This morning I woke up from the dream that numbers like this was in my examination paper.

5/8*8/5=12

Any good interpreter here,what could this entail

cheers
freeze007


Mode I don't mind if this hits front page!

KELVINXY:
This is a masterpiece

you can say that again!

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
To be honest, that drawing doesn't look like Davido...

And chioma...

jolyment:
She might see the potentials or know that you are hardworking.

It is suicide...that amount is not even sufficient for me alone let alone a family....Its good to identify a potential but we must be frank to ourselves.Thank God I left her,otherwise, the next step would have been trying to put in for me