Msfaith2000: Am totally confused, anyone is free to judge me but I need an advice on what what to do before I commit murder. �� I was having an affair with a married man. Although he promised me marriage . I accepted him because he was helping my family alot because am from a poor background. He told me that his wife has been an unable to give him a male child that she has four girls for him. He promised that if I can give birth to male child for him that he will marry me and change the life of my family. So after some months I got pregnant for him and we went to scan and scan detected that it's a baby boy. We became happy so out of excitement the father of my child rented an apartment for me. So when it was time for me to give birth I was in labour for 3 days, because of it my mother went to see a spiritualist. The spiritualist told my mother that the man's wife is not happy with me after that he told my mother to perform some rituals, after my mother has done that,I gave birth and it happened to be a baby girl and to my greatest surprise she has a down syndrom��. Immediately my baby father saw her he left us in the hospital and I never saw him again. Ever since then I have been suffering with the child. The baby is three months now. Last week I went to the man's house to plead with him to be taking care of the child's welfare or I will drop the child in his house. The man said that he can't father a child like this that she is not his daughter. And I attempted to drop the baby the wife came out and said that I must leave with the baby that she can't take care of another woman's child. Ever since then i feel like killing the baby and myself. Please I need an advice because tears has been my food for the past few months now.���
Just carry the baby to a motherless home and next time stop opening your legs for promises. Leave married men alone and try to be productive.
MsZee: I am going to go straight to the point. The reason why I decided to write this was because of a thread I read on Naira land " I was a husband" where a devoted wife changed to a demon over time. Please husbands, boyfriends, brothers, sisters, if your wife, girlfriend, sister is an avid reader of Stella Dimokokorsus blog, please, please, please, find a way to stop her. That blog is anti marriage, anti good, anti men, anti fairness, the kind bitterness spewed on that blog against men is very alarming. Women are encouraged, cheered, applauded for being demons in their marriages. I believe that posters wife is a full fledged member, cos that is their MO.
Sisters, please for your own good and minds health, don't get entangled with that blog, its owner and members. They are too deranged. Thanks
I sometimes heard that women are their own problem, never believed until I saw this your post. SDK blog is like every regular blog, why are you trying to bring her down . Did the poster of “I was a husband “‘ever mention that his ex wife was an ardent reader of SDK?? Well no need to say much cos you look like a desperate lady trying so hard to seek for the “I was a husband “ poster’s attention probably because you heard of how much he earns, if I check now, I will see that you are following. Why not shoot your shot directly instead of trying to bring two women down at a time!!!
Tasha7: Hello, I am a black woman born and raised in North America and married to an Igbo man. We have been in a long distance relationship for the majority of our relationship. We got married almost 2 years ago while still long distance and he recently immigrated to Canada in Jan 2020 under the spousal sponsorship. He has a wonderful bond with my mother and sisters. (my father has passed). I have met his family and we get along very well.
Everything was going well until I was looking up something in the search history of the laptop we both share and stumbled across emails he had recently accessed. Please note, I could not read the email itself, I could only see the subject lines in the search history. I will attach pictures if possible. It wasn't a normal email account like yahoo or Gmail. It was from a website called: Roundcube webmail. I had never heard of it before. Anyway, there were a bunch of emails forwarded from a hotel in Istanbul where people were being asked to pay their outstanding hotel bill (unfortunately I didn't take a screenshot of the hotel stuff). In addition to that, there were emails to 2 different women (named Wendy and Elizabeth) with the subjects: re: Thank you for written, re: back from customs baby, re: I am so happy our paths have crossed re: I am writing you with much sadness in my heart etc. I will try to attach the screenshots I took.
Lastly, within the same search history, my husband seemed to have been looking up songs like: 'what songs make a woman feel confident about herself' and 'what if I never get over you', and 'songs that make a woman feel beautiful'.
I confronted my husband that same night. It was 2am. He was already sleeping. I woke him up bc I wanted to catch him off guard. His explanation was that his friend in Cyprus had a bad internet connection and asked him (my husband) to look up something in his friends email account. He insisted that he had no idea what his friend was up to, as it was none of his business. In the process of me confronting him, he grabbed the laptop from me and deleted the search history. I told him that was making him look real guilty and I started packing my things to leave. He pleaded and insisted it had nothing to do with him, it was his friends email account blah blah blah. I wanted to believe him but some things just didn't add up...like why was he looking up those songs if he was just checking his friends email for him? His only saving grace was that the subject lines were written with poor grammar and my husband has excellent English speaking and writing skills.
Fast forward a few weeks later, my husband left the bathroom to put out the garbage and accidentally left his phone in the bathroom playing music. This is significant because he has never parted from his phone from the day he arrived. He sleeps with his phone beside him. He showers and uses the bathroom with his phone beside him. When he cooks, he keeps his phone beside him. The day in question, I went into the bathroom and locked the door shortly after he left the bathroom. Side note: I only lock the door bc sometimes he jokingly sneaks up on me to scare me while I am in the shower, so to avoid being snuck up on, I sometimes lock the door. I digress. I commenced using the bathroom when I noticed that hubby left his phone on the side of the bathtub with Nigerian gospel music blasting. I was shocked! It was the first time he was separated from his phone! I didn't touch his phone and started using the bathroom. Within 15 seconds, my husband started knocking on the door saying he really needed to use the bathroom and wanted me to open the door. He was saying he really needed to pee. I asked him to hold a minute, because I was on the toilet. He said he didn't believe me and then things escalated from there. He started pounding really hard on the bathroom door, demanding that I open the door because he really needed to pee. He was eventually pounding so hard and yelling to the point where he started to lose his voice! I was freaked out! I told him to hold on and I would be done in a minute! But he wouldn't listen and eventually broke open the bathroom door by force...there is literally a large crack down the bathroom door now. I was shocked. Beyond words. Once he broke down the door, he quickly did a scan of the bathroom and saw his cellphone was right where he left it. I didn't touch it. Then he was more calm. He then reiterated that he really needed to pee and went into the shower, pulled the curtain and turned on the water.
I started freaking out. I started yelling telling him that he was a liar and if there was any doubt in my mind he was hiding something, I need not doubt it anymore! He broke down the bathroom door NOT because he really nedded to pee, but because he was so terrified I was going to snoop through his phone! Of course he denied it. He was saying that if that was the case, the first thing he would have done is grab his phone. I responded saying that he's not stupid, if he grabbed his phone first, it would have made him look guilty. After that blow up, we stopped talking to each other for days...
And here I am today. If anyone could provide me insight into what is going on, I would be so appreciative. What is this hotel stuff and what are these msgs to multiple women? I am thinking he may be involved in a 419 scam or his friend is a yahoo boy....but why is he using such poor grammar when he speaks and writes excellent English?
I am so stressed over all of this that it is literally consuming my every thought. My husband only denies everything and gets defensive then ignores me if I keep pushing for answers. Outside of this incident he is incredibly loving and affectionate and treats my mother so well. He cares so much about what she thinks of him.
I have turned to this forum with the hopes that someone would have more insight into what is going on. Thank you so much to anyone who has taken the time to read this very long post and respond. I truly appreciate it. Again, I attached photos, but scratched out names just in case.
Thank you,
Tasha
When it comes to a cheating spouse, I will advice you not to panic and get worked up cos eventually he most definitely will get caught in his web. One day when you stop giving a damn, you will get information on what he is doing, everything will
STORM21: We collect N1,500 from customers – 13yr old victim
Twenty-four girls who were trafficked from Akwa-Ibom State to Lagos, for prostitution, were rescued at Abbatoir, Agege area of the state, by the Police, Thursday. Arrested, were four men suspected to have brought them. The girls whose ages were between 13 and 22 years, lived in shanties, where their male customers patronized them. They revealed during interrogation that they collected N1,500 from their male customers but had to reduce the price because of the impact of the COVID-19. Activities of the traffickers came to limelight, following a report of the disappearance of one of the girls, by her relatives in Akwa-Ibom state. It was gathered that during investigation, she was traced to the shanties in Agege, where she was engaged as a commercial sex worker. Surprisingly, a team of policemen who went for her rescue, discovered that she was not the only one brought into the state by the syndicate. During profiling, one of them disclosed that she was 13 years old.
When asked what she came to do in Lagos, the teenager, boldly declared that “ I came to hustle”. But some of them said they were tricked with employment promise by the agents, only to discover it was a prostitution job. One of them, said, “ I am from Oron, Akwa-Ibom State. I came to Lagos in January 2020. I was told I was coming to work as a maid only to discover it was a prostitution job and I could not leave because I didn’t know anywhere in Lagos. “At first, we were collecting N1,500 from customers. But when business became bad, especially because of the Corona Virus, we started collecting N1000. We pay N1,000 daily for accommodation. At the end of the day, the agents would collect the money realized from us. The Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Elkana Bala, who confirmed the rescue of the girls said the men arrested were the brothel managers. He gave identities of the managers as Okon Felix, 32; MichaelEtim, 22; Victor Asuquao, 35 and Goodness Ebiefie, 32. Names of the rescued girls are Precious Okon Edet, 21; Offong Mary, 19; Favour Bassey, 22; Blessing Steven, 17; Success Edet, 20; Ndifreky Okoh, 24; Queen Odoh, 21; Alice Edet, 20; Blessing Esin, 21; Mary Etim, 20; Faith Sunday, 25; Sonaj Beauty, 23 and John Agnes, 13. Others are: Miracle Effiong, 23; Oriong Patience, 20; Effiong Blessing,20; Vivian Edet, 23; Amanda Effiong, 14; Joy Timothy, 21; Edet Patience, 20; Sunday Glory, 20; Goodness Effiong, 19; Sandra Okon Effiong, 20; Gift Emmanuel, 27; Precious Okon Edet, 21, among others.
Parents never learn. Giving your child out to someone you don’t know isn’t to serve as a househelp just because of empty promises isn’t right.A lot of children are trafficked this way
iod69778: I am a 40 year man living in the states. I am considering ending my marriage which is without a child at this time. Childlessness is not the only or most important reason i am considering ending my marriage, there are other reasons which are not relevant to this discussion. My question is, should i try to date and find love again or just find a surrogate mother to have kids for me soon, considering my age? My main reason for considering surrogacy is because i am a very busy man with work and career focus, middle class American. It may take time to find the right someone.
Please be mature with your comments.
If you claim to be very busy with work then surrogacy isn’t the best option
evansjeff: Recently I've been very bothered about myself. I'm a guy of around 30 but some things that still worry my heart is really disturbing. I will start like this.
1. Something embarrassing happened some time last year when I travelled home for visit. They bought a goat and was looking for who to kill it, me knowing I'm the most senior man at home jejely went into ghost mode, everyone started looking for me, in the end I had to come out but shamelessly told them I can't kill it. They had to call a 16 year old opposite neighbour to do it while my younger ones helped him hold the goat. I couldn't even stand the sight of seeing the goat struggling for life while receiving knife in the throat. I left there immediately.
2. You might think it's normal for goat until I tell you that I can't kill a chicken or rat, last Christmas, I badly wanted to buy a life chicken because I beleive it's more healthy, but who will kill it? Bae was around, I don't want any embarrassment so I jejely bought frozen chicken . There is a wall gecko strolling around my room for weeks now, but I can't kill it, it becomes embarrassing any time I have a visitor
3. The most recent is, there are two birds trying to build a house in my lobby, I kept destroying the house but they didn't give up, it got to a point, I felt bad for the poor birds, what if they don't have a house? what if I'm the one building a house with all my strength and government keeps destroying it? I had to leave them to build. My neighbour said he killed the birds that tried doing that in his house but me can i do that? No. i just tire.
4. Lastly, When travelling and there's an accident, people rush out to watch but I dare not else the trauma will remain for months, I can't stand the sight of blood and body cuts.
Any time I think about killing an animal, I ask myself, what if I'm the one being held by boko haram or killer herdsmen and about to be slaughtered? How excruciating the pain can be.
Any time I think about crushing a cockroach, I ask myself, what if I'm the one trying to cross the high way and dangote trailer crushes me?
So guys, am I normal? Do I need to see a doctor or a psychologist?
I am just that way, I can’t kill nada even with a gun to my head. I feel pity and all that , there are a lot of us.The day I saw an accident and the dead bodies I cried from Odukpani to Akwa ibom and I was in trauma. No need to see a Doctor for that,it’s absolutely normal every body doesn’t have to be hard
ken711: I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.
She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.
Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......
She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)
I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....
Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.
The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...
The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........
Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...
Please help!
I dated a psychopath some years back and the experience was just traumatic but I have gotten over it. Just act like you sow a seed into her life and call it quit. She cheated on you twice and after you forgave her she went ahead to distribute her number cos of trying to raise house rent and she probably slept with them plus she is threatening violence. Just break up and get your sanity back, her home has influenced her and nothing can change her unless she decides to change. You don’t want to be a scapegoat like the ones we read in news about a angry lover. She is not worth your stress and sacrifice one bit.
GAZZUZZ: 4months later Nigeria has only officially recorded less than 200deaths. Will people stop dying because of the existence of covid-19? Corona will clearly not be a problem in Nigeria . Every one should learn to drink chloroquine once you feel any symptoms .
How can you sit behind your phone and advice people to self- medicate on Chloroquine? Are you a Doctor??, you really should be banned for this statement
gowonmaharajah: Lol,simply say that you ain't proud of your ugly face.
You are a very stupid bastard, who is dragging beauty with you? From your statement one would know that you are a low-life trying to be important. Goat
I look younger than my age, it’s cool sometimes to confuse my enemies but sometimes it’s annoying . One would look at me and be asking me “ you are in SSS what class”? 2 months ago one person I went to visit with my parents asked me if I have written Waec
Egeonu11: A young promising boy murder in owerri IMO state.
A young guy by names Leo was kidnapped around willow wood hotel in owerri IMO state since last week by men in uniform from the Nigeria Army they carried him along with his car to Anambra state collected all the money in his account killed and murder him and sold his car ES350 car.
They young boy lost his mother earlier this year and still miss her mother burial that took place last week Friday.
The person that killed him was a sacked Nigeria Army personnel since 2013
What a wicked world
Nigeria is no longer Save anyone
Blood of Jesus...they wicked people still left his hands tied even after death!!!! The soul of that guy will never Rest In Peace until they all die, they just organized their funeral.
backtalkG: I visited my home town some where in kogi state and like on previous other occasions everyday I was regaled with assorted soups of bush meat this morning my brother came back early from farm with a weird wild surprise I'm not sure If i have seen this kind of animal before and if it is fit to be eaten your advice is needed guys
Bollove: Futurejoy , Hmmmm .... Women sha ... see Jamb Questions ... if the guy is a player now e for use reverse psychology for you and u go fall yakata.... That dropping out killed the vibe !!
Lol....Girls don’t have chicken brain. I grew up in the midst of guys and reverse psychology or not, I would not have fall cos I wasn’t determined to fall for it or him. The time wasn’t even there
Bollove: Babe, no matter what ... You are a woman .... All the questions you asked that dude was very weak and if he is an OG , You will get played easily.
Even me online self knew the reason why you gave him that little chance was because you needed someone to share emotions with and He failed to meet that standard ... So no need going further !
You got the fact that I needed someone to share emotions with then . I asked him those questions cos I noticed somethings about him , I I just wanted to confirm if he was reasonable. There is no need for so much words, I believe he has learnt his lessons and has developed himself to be better because I am doing same. We keep learning right
About 10 years ago in Lagos, my mum came back from work and sent me on an errand to get somethings from the street directly opposite our compound and it had just rained heavily that evening. I carried the torch and went out as I walked into the small street which is opposite our house , I had a strange feeling but I kept walking while I kept pointing the torch into the grass on the sides of the street as I walked .I saw the weirdest thing ever, I saw a lady on white laying down on the grass with her face to the sky and the rain drops falling on her, her eyes was closed . I couldn’t take a deep look, I just ran off to buy whatever, on my way back minutes later I checked again and she wasn’t there. I couldn’t tell my mum cos she would think I didn’t want to go out to run the errand.
Another one When I was small about 7 or 8 years old , We were staying in a compound that had 2 flats up and 4 rooms/parlor down. The house was very beautiful but the toilet and bathroom was at the end of the passage. My parents don’t keep a peeing bucket inside the house like our Yoruba neighbors do so whenever anyone is pressed at night you gat to go down to the toilet to do the do. Since i was the smallie, my dad usually take me out to pee in the toilet in the midnight. On this particular night I was pretty pressed and I went to my dad in the room and I tapped him that I wanted to pee. My dad with his sleepy eyes told me to go towards the door that he was coming behind me. I got to the door and called him and he still kept on saying he was coming but he didn’t leave the bed. The pee was almost coming out so I quickly opened the door and stepped into the passage. There was Nepa light and i looked to the left, I saw it was a long walk to the toilet at the end of the passage so I decided to go right which let to the varenda and the outer compound space. I got to the varenda and decided to survey the compound that midnight and as I stared directly at the gate , I saw a woman with a black cloak . I relaxed on the railing and I kept on staring at the woman and she kept staring back. I wasn’t scared at all, she kept staring till she turned into a cat and ran down to the end of the compound. Immediately I continued my journey to the gutter to urinate and walked back without fear back to sleep. I didn’t tell my parents till today
Another one
My mum step brother came to visit us in that same compound that I mentioned above, my mum’s younger brother brought him to know our house since he just came to Lagos. After the meet and greet they had a delicious meal and then they both left to my mum’s younger brothers house where he would be staying. Every night my sibling and I do sleep in the parlour since we stayed in a 2 rooms apartment back then. In the midnight of that day when my step uncle came to visit, I woke up that midnight and I saw my step uncle sitting on a chair in the parlor directly opposite where my siblings and I were sleeping. I though he spent the night with us so I slept off. In the morning, my immediate elder bro went to ask my mum where our step uncle went to, my mum said he went with her other brother to his house. My brother argued that he saw him in the parlor at midnight, my mum laughed. He kept insisting and that moment my mum knew he wasn’t joking.I quickly chipped in that I saw him too but no one took me serious. Las las he was taken to a church for serious prayers and 3 days dry fasting and I really thank God that they doubted my claims hence I wasn’t part of the fast.
Speak2klein: In 1780, Thomas Peters was fighting for the British in the American Revolutionary War. A black loyalist, he resettled in Nova Scotia, where he became a politician and one of the founding fathers of Serra Leone. At the time of his death on the 25th of June, 1792, he was a Nigerian, American, Canadian, and finally a Serra Leonean citizen.
In this video her great-great-great-granddaughter, Juanita Peters, who is a celebrated actress, a renowned writer, and a respectable historian shares the real story of how blacks first migrated to Canada and how Serra Leone was founded by this amazing Nigerian.
Please watch, enjoy, comment, and subscribe for more interesting history about Africa.
I have no doubt about her statement cos our neighbor back then in Lagos happens to have come from Sierra Leone and she was married to an Igbo man. Her pidgin is just too Nigerian for someone who wasn’t born and raised in Nigeria.
missimelda01: Bread and Ewa agoyin seems to be the most popular food in Lagos state, enjoyed by both the rich and poor.. most people like it because it's very filling , funny enough I don't like it because it's a heavy meal.. I like to keep space for other goodies
Check my signature, I've got something interesting for you.
emusmithyy: "Terming your standards as pride shows I'm ignorant?"
I don't have to know you BUT this is social media and everyone parades what they're not, especially.
If you are that beautiful, hygienic & know what you want, you'll be proud enough (like you did when using that poor guy to shine) to display some of your pictures or dropping your Social Media handle. Otherwise, humble yourself and quit forming woke!
And please, using "because" instead of "cos" won't kill you. Jeez!
I don’t have a low self-esteem brother, so I can’t come online to claim what I am not. We are all created different or should I say we were all raised differently. And I can never drop my social media handle for nobody for you to verify anything, the only reason why you are taking this personal is because you probably have those attributes that I listed. I have nothing to prove to anyone, take it or leave it, I am done having this conversation with you.
Frankcallys: I've had so many near death experience in my life but the last one, I stared death in the eye and God said to me " My boy, it's not your time to go, relax and let me take control"
Please don't mind my grammatical errors. English is not my first language biko.
17th May 2016, just 4 days after my birthday party I had in our business center. I was in my office with 5 other people, 10 minutes later 3 of them left remaining myself and another friend sitting right behind me. We were just discussing about... Yeah, soccer!
5 minutes later this guy walked into the office, pulled out 9mm pistol and pointed it directly at my face. Just 1.5 meter away from me. When I looked up and stared him right in the eyes, he corked the gun and I stood still. When I screamed JESUS!!! he looked at me lowered the gun and shot me on my kneecap. I fell down, he walked past me and turned the gun on the other guy sitting behind me, shots started ringing out rapidly.
I sprang with my right leg that was still okay and dashed towards the door as fast I could. I started hearing shots after shots while I was hopping outside, but at the door, I hopped into the second guy, we both landed on the ground. His 9mm stainless pistol fell on the ground. I quickly sprang up again and keep on hopping and screaming JESUS!!!
He picked up the gun, dashed into the office and continue to empty his magazine on the guy sitting inside the office. They shot him 17 times all over. They came out and walked to their Golf 6 Gti and drove off.
By then the street was already empty, people disappeared on hearing the rapid fire from those guys. 5 minutes after the gunmen left, I hopped back into the office with 2 guys that came around, we picked the one that was shot 17 times, put him in the car and we drove straight to the hospital.
When we arrived at the hospital, the doctors and nurses tried to save him, 7 minutes later the doctors came to me and from the look on their faces I knew immediately that the guy passed on. They focused their attention on me and when the cops arrived at the hospital. The doctors referred me to the biggest hospital in Africa, the cops and an ambulance took me there to Soweto Chris Nani Bara hospital.
Immediately they wheeled me into the emergency ward, I fainted. I lost a lot of blood, my kneecap was shattered to pieces. I was shot around 11:17am but arrived at the emergency ward by 12pm. Why the late? It's another miracle I will tell another day.
I woke up 2days later, my kneecap was changed by the best recommended doctor in the whole of Southern Africa! Guess what? He is a Nigerian! Dr. Okafor. Before I fainted at the emergency, I heard him saying "Nnaa, I was told you are from Nigeria and an Igbo guy. Ngwa, relax ukwu gi ga adi mma ozo"
After the surgery, he fixed my leg again. Though I still have stainless steel in my leg, walk normally with only the scare to show for it, I would have been dead if not for Almighty Lord's intervention. I would have uploaded the pic of my knee after surgery but it is a very gross kind.
All I have to say is THANK YOU LORD that I am still well, fit and alive.
I had already fainted and when I opened my eyes, we were outside our compound with people gathered around giving different suggestions to my mum on which hospital is best . My mum rushed my there and I was admitted for another 3 weeks and there was no improvement plus they were kinda fetish. I was rushed out to another hospital at Egbeda one night when I started convulsing. At Egbeda , I spent 2 days there again before convulsing again and I was rushed to Agege General hospital . The day I got there, I was admitted and they connected the drip, blood and oxygen before I went into Coma. In Coma, I only remembered sitting on a stone and crying for a long time then a man came in white and sat close to me and asked me my reason for crying. I told him I was tired of all the drips Nd injections that I can’t take it anymore and If i was going to continue being sick then I should die. He said “Ok” and walked away . Almost immediately I felt a cold shiver in real life as my spirit jumped into my body and I let out a very loud scream, I started shouting for them to off the fan and they replied that no fan was on.Doctors and nurses ran down to my bed side and I could hear people jubilating in the whole ward . I couldn’t open my eyes and the doctors that were there had to guard me on how to open my eyes.
When my eyes was finally opened, I was told I had been in Coma for close to 3weeks Nd I had stopped breathing for awhile and just as I was about being wheeled out to the morgue I came alive. It was a miracle, I am a miracle and I believe in miracles. Thank God for everyone that interceded in prayers for me.
OriOko88: Lol. D guy don suffer. Naso u hate him??
I didn’t not hate him, He was just tried to change cos I spoke to him about it at some point . Even if he sees this thread, he won’t be angry cos we later spoke about all these. But at that time, I was not too happy.
emusmithyy: Not your speck. He's uncool. Hygiene issues.
Wow, just for one person?
I hope you're sooooo beautiful and hygienic because I see pride all over your writeup. Lots of low-budget girls forming posh in our streets.
I don’t have to tell you if I am so beautiful or hygienic. That I have taste and know what I want should tell you that I respect myself and would not like to settle for less. If you have no standards , I have standards and terming my standards as “pride” shows how much of ignorance you have cos you don’t know me. If I am proud, I won’t reply this message .
Starberg: That's far from the truth... The reason why you declined was because of his response.
If he had said " baby common, you can never get pregnant. If I never had clue, I would have impregnated all my exes. Besides, if we should have sex, I've read many articles online on ways to prevent pregnancy" Then you will be more interested to know what he had read. If he is a smart guy, he will put in more puzzle state till he get down with you.
If you know me in person then you will understand that trying to impress me repulses me. I understood that tactics and I had certain principles that guard my actions back in school. Unless I was drugged, I wouldn’t do certain thing and that’s why my activities back then in school was triangular. Hostel, church , class and cafeteria. I barely went to visit my female friends outside school...I think I went 4 times throughout university. Sometimes things happen to us because we put ourselves in the position for it to happen.
OriOko88: This is one of the reason a lady should not be told the truth all the time. Na scope be their medicine. He could simply told you u wouldn't get pregnant and end d convo there, instead of telling you d whole truth, he would hv got down with you. He goofed big time
Even if he had told me the truth I would not have fall. I didn’t even want to date him, I only liked him from a distance, his closeness to me revealed how uncool he was and how he was definitely not my speck plus he had hygiene issues.
MannieA: If the man is ready to take care of his child and spend sometime with his child then the woman should let him do so but if he doesn't come looking for his kid at all and doesn't want to be part of the kid's life then I don't see why the child would grow up and start looking for his dad. A man that didn't give a f**k about him when he was a kid? That's just weakness and stupidity.
Starberg: Mine was when my girlfriend invited me to her parent's house. She persuaded his brothers to excuse us and took me to her parent's room to have her on their matrimonial bed.
I even asked her to take me to her room, but she insisted I do it right on her parent's bed that her room is untidy. I was tempted to try it, but I had a second thought, and left to the sitting room.
I cracked my head to think of any and I actually got to remember one. I was in 200L second semester and my ex broke up with me, there was a guy in my class that used to look at me in a lovely manner and I never gave him audience each time he tried speaking to me. Last , last I gave him the audience few months after my break up. We got dating for like a week and this my colleague started asking me to visit him at his cousin’s. He claimed her house was very comfortable and spacious plus she was out of town. In my mind I was like “how dumb can this guy be “ ....well , I told him No cos I truly didn’t like to visit guys in secluded places but I told him we could hang out that evening on campus. I took him to go and eat and after that we sat down close to the school chapel and we were talking. I started feeling cold and my voice was shaky, the next thing he said was “if you are Hot I can keep you warm”. I was like how? He said we could go to a corner and do it......I was dumbfounded and angry. I told him to escort me to my hostel that I want to go make a hot tea and he did . We don’t allow male visitors into my school hostel. Later that night, he called me during the night call and we spoke. I wanted to know how sensible and decent he can be cos I cannot date who I can’t marry (all these while he agreed to my 1 month dating probation). I asked him that if I had agreed to have sex with him and I got pregnant what will we do about it, I made it clear that I don’t support abortion. He said we will keep it. I was like but we are both students and incapable of raising a child and he said he will tell his mum, that he is even the only child and his mum would be happy to take me in
I said ok, so how about our academics? He said we will drop out of our school and rewrite Jamb and start in another place and his single mum will support us. I was pained and disappointed in myself for even giving him the chance to ask me out. To cut the story short, the next day in class I called him aside and I told him that we can’t date and I am sorry if I gave him green lights. Baba kept begging me till year 5 and my friends didn’t stop yabbing me about dating him cos they thought we were actually dating and the guy was clingy and my reply till today is that I was”hypnotized “ Sorry for the long read.
Family › Re: I Feel Like Killing My Baby And Myself by Futurejoy(f): 8:11am On May 16, 2020
? Are you a Doctor??, you really should be banned for this statement
you sure he wasn't joking about it?