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Victornezzar:
Yup I know..... The lockdown is really stalling things for me

I've already made arrangement with a Farm owner so I can spend some time in his farm

Victornezzar:
Naaaah

I'm just asking..... Don't have knowledge about this

Victornezzar:
How will it shoot out when it's being covered with palm leaves??

Yampotatocarrot:
Thanks... Was it soaked in water or just left in the bag?

Yampotatocarrot:
Thanks... Was it soaked in water or just left in the bag?

Yampotatocarrot:
How soon after getting from the poultry it did you apply the manure?

Lordsonn:
Greetings to you all. I want to go straight to the point. I opened this account because of my marital problems.

From the day I met my wife, she was after marriage. In less than two weeks of meeting her, she started pressurizing me to meet her family members which I succumbed to.

These are what she told me at the beginning of the relationship:

1) She had HND from Kaduna Polytechnics
2) She has Diploma in Computer Science
3) She is a professional cake baker
4) She was three months pregnant
5) That she was 27 years

My discoveries after marriage:

1) She doesn’t have any HND, infact no good WAEC result
2) She cannot even connect laptop to printer and print. She don’t know much about computer at all.
3) She doesn’t know how to bake cake. I discovered that the cake I asked her to bake for me, she gave the contract to her friend.
4) She was never pregnant. She had fibroid and that made her tummy big
5) She was 33 years.

NOTE: the reasons why I believed all she told me at the beginning was because she was a prophetess in her church. She speaks in tongues and prophesy many times and most of the prophecies came to pass.

I was even surprised that in less than two weeks of our relationship, she made move for sex and we started having sex. I did not even think of pre-marital sex because I thought she was a holy woman.

The problems after marriage: several people began to beg me to forgive her and continue with the marriage. I find it difficult but she was still living in my house. I was just being forced my her family and her family members persuaded some of my family members to beg me too. I tried to love her but hatred for her was just building in my heart.

The fibroid surgery was successfully done and she got pregnant and gave birth to a baby boy. I thought the coming of the child may make me to forgive her but I could not recover from her betrayal. I even hate her more.

She wrote WAEC last session and got nine credits but the memory of her betrayal is giving me a lot of psychological trauma. I love an educated woman and cannot see myself glued to an illiterate woman in the name of marriage.

Major problems that made me sent her out:

1) She refused to go to my church. She always want to go to her church and even want me to join her there which I refused.
2) She doesn’t like education at all. She hate going to school and will never carry book to read.
3) Anytime I have disagreement with her, she will call her elder brother. And they will come and talk to me, sometimes in a very condescending manner
4) She is not submissive, very arrogant and talks with anger, authoritatively.
5) She is a societal woman, she loves joining several associations of women and be going to meetings every sunday which I don't like.
6) She value clothes more than human being. She can use any money from the family purse to buy Hollandis, lase, George etc just to dress to her church for show off. I am introvert but she is extremely extrovert.

I sent her out of my house three weeks ago. She is trying to come back in the disguise that she doesn’t want her child to be only one, that it will make the child suffer in the future but I told her I cannot allow her to my house again. I love my little child and I cannot live with such a woman who is full of lies and pretense. I just have hatred for such kind of people.

What do you think I should do?

Ilamina:
Its Benue not akwa ibom

FatherBona:
My fellow Akwa Ibomites like if you agree with her

Joedave25:
Having sex everyday as a couple trusting God for the fruit of the womb is not even the best.Ask Medical doctors in the house.I am also writing from my experience.......So chill

humilitypays:
it seems you ladies are all pretenders always pretending not to love sex but deep down your hearts you all are sex maniacs just waiting to get official marriage ticket to start fvcking around like rabits


What do u mean they are newlyweds 2 years of fvcking is new to you What's special about sex Can you and those ladies complaining of their husband not touching them for months swear that u ladies haven't been fvcking since you were 18 or 20 or something Are u people not supposed to be tired of it by now Nonsense!

humilitypays:
it seems you ladies are all pretenders always pretending not to love sex but deep down your hearts you all are sex maniacs just waiting to get official marriage ticket to start fvcking around like rabits


What do u mean they are newlyweds 2 years of fvcking is new to you What's special about sex Can you and those ladies complaining of their husband not touching them for months swear that u ladies haven't been fvcking since you were 18 or 20 or something Are u people not supposed to be tired of it by now Nonsense!

humilitypays:
it seems you ladies are all pretenders always pretending not to love sex but deep down your hearts you all are sex maniacs just waiting to get official marriage ticket to start fvcking around like rabits


What do u mean they are newlyweds 2 years of fvcking is new to you What's special about sex Can you and those ladies complaining of their husband not touching them for months swear that u ladies haven't been fvcking since you were 18 or 20 or something Are u people not supposed to be tired of it by now Nonsense!

humilitypays:
any married man with kids still fooling around with girls having indiscriminate sex is not reasonable. Something he has been having since teenage, some started massive fvcking of different ladies from high school, it will shock u to know that an average Nigerian man of 3yrs have fvcked more than 20 different ladies before he gets married, so what else is he looking for He should be retiring from that stressful exercise called sex and focusing on other issues of life that will prolong his stay here on earth.


Focusing on training his kids to be the best in the society, helping people overcome life challenges instead still wasting his time and energy on having sex every now and then.


Something must be wrong with the husband psychologically or mentally or hormonally. If the op is saying the truth, it is abnormal

Flier:
Not all of them goes back to it,but I think it also depends on tribe
Most Igbo ladies don't go back to their past after getting married, let's say 5% goes back compared to
Yoruba about 50 percent goes back to their past while
South South people about 90%

humilitypays:
Why must they complain

twice a month is okay for married couples....they should devote their time to other things of life, life for a married couple is not just about sex.....if there are kids, let them devote more time to playing with their kids....teaching their kids computer appreciation, how to paint, and other stuffs.....people are making sex sound too much of a big deal....something they have been having since they were teenagers, na wa o

humilitypays:
Why must they complain

twice a month is okay for married couples....they should devote their time to other things of life, life for a married couple is not just about sex.....if there are kids, let them devote more time to playing with their kids....teaching their kids computer appreciation, how to paint, and other stuffs.....people are making sex sound too much of a big deal....something they have been having since they were teenagers, na wa o

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

ikorodureporta:
Source: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/lagos-bars-private-schools-from-online-teaching.html

hotmediatv:
Relationship counselor, Blessing Okoro revealed why she stopped sleeping with men for money in an Instalive conversation with Denrele.

Recounting what happened during an outing which made her take the decision while still in the university, Blessing Okoro stated that men who pay for sex, talk to women in a demeaning way.

According to her, an older man who she and her friends hanged out with, asked her to give him a bl*w job at a hotel in a condescending manner. She further revealed that this made her cry and pull out of "runs".

See video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I772ygNJXkc

NwekeUG:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/04/just-in-police-arrest-illegal-chinese-miners-in-zamfara/amp/

KikBuhari2Daura:
BY RENO OMOKRIAPR 27, 2020



Source: http://saharareporters.com/2020/04/27/satanic-trinity-el-rufai-his-son-and-his-wife-reno-omokri

buikem2:
The other day I was at a supermarket and there was queue. One Chinese man tried to enter and everyone started shouting at him to leave there before he would give them virus.

I went to defend the man and told them to be ashamed of themselves. The people left the man and faced me oh. Ahhh. But the Chinese man couldn't face the disgrace and left hastily.

Racism isn't good, whether done by Chinese or we Africans

SultanOfPuna:
Long story short.. she is a single mother and lives next floor. Our first sex was last night in her place. No problem her son was sleeping.

Now Today around 11am I go back to fvck her again but her 2 year old son is running round the house (no light to play chu chu tv for him to watch and stay one place)..
Mind you she was still on night gown and her nipples were poking Tru.. I was Hot and ready but the 2yr old son just dey spoil my parole. He wanted me to play with him but konji dey wire me.

Now after I made the son stay one place and went to her room to try my luck
We started kissing, smoching then we started action..
2 mins into the sex, here comes her son smiling with remote control in his hands standing at the door trying to signal me to play peekaboo with him.
I sighted him but still continued the action.
The lady was untop me in cowgirl style
So she couldn't see him
Next thing I know the boy enters the room and literally poke the remote control on my dick while mumbling baby jibberish..
I had to stop and his mom was kinda embarrassed and scolded the boy to go back to palour.
She said we should stop that it's inappropriate for her son to see her like that..
But I disagree that a 2yrs old does not know what sex is and will not think it deep like an adult..
Also he will never remember such a thing if he grows up his memory has not even formed yet.
So this kinda caused an argument between us and she refused picking my calls this evening.. it is what it is.
I've known her since last year I moved in the compound.
Was I wrong??

creolehunt:
I just thought about the girls I've been with and noticed a certain trend. This isn't even about the girls themselves who are excellent human beings, but their families.

First girl I dated revealed to me that the dad died of suspected poisoning and her family were chased out of the family house. Her eldest brother is an area boy while it seems things aren't working out for her other siblings.

The next ones dad was late too, one of her sisters is separated from her husband while the first son of nearly 40 has nothing doing.

The other ones history is that her dad is late too. The eldest sister is cohabiting with a man. They have 2 kids already without being married. Her other sisters bride price was just paid after having 3 kids with a man.

For the other one, her dad is late too, died quite early. The eldest sister is in her 30s and unmarried. Her other sister has 3kids for a man who she isn't married to and now they are separated. Things aren't just working for her people.

The one I just met recently told me her parents are late. Lost both of them to suspected poisoning within the space of one year.

I keep wondering if this is some sort of coincidence.

Collegenews:
As the title says, have you ever been stranded while travelling especially due to lack of fund?
I had similar experience once, I was travelling from Abuja to Lagos 2015 and I had just #800 on me.

I took a bike to Federal college of education, Zuba. Trekked down the road and waited for like four hours looking for a free lift.

After the prolonged exposure to the scorching son, an old man in his say 60s driving a pick up truck loaded with food stuff finally slowed down to pick some passengers, I lied down flat on the road to beg him not even minding the other passengers there. I told him my plight and he had pity on me.

That was how he dropped me at Ojota and I found my square root.

I was left with #220 after I got home.

Share your experience.

pennywys:


The rate Nigerians are eating snake now is alarming

I can remember about ten or fifteen years ago in our community eating of snake or any cripping things was forbidden, but now boys at home are eating everything.
I wonder how life and times changes
Tradition forgotten