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KingOfTheDamned:
Hehehehee

This is what happens when you work for a coming and witness them cheating your country and you don't speak up or care as long as your salary is paid ...

One day they will treat you as they treated your country

The economy hardly affects them but the situation of oil theft in the country is forcing Shell to leave Naija and the staff are not finding it funny.

Most Shell locations are currently grounded with minor activities going on. This is as a result of industrial action embarked by the staff of the company.
Shell is planning to sell all their assets in Nigeria and the workers are simply demanding that severance package should be paid before they are Transferred to the new company.
Actually a wise decision because the new company may not afford to pay the large amount of money Shell usually pays their workers.

That's a good one

ObosiUkwalla:
2.6 sir and I will make payment tomorrow morning pls

Victorngada20

That's a good offer, also interested

lecowas:
Is it supposed to be 6.5m for 2004 corolla, u might be the one high on tap water

crestedaguiyi:
Thunder fire you op, 600k for tokunbo bus.

You even get mind double the name, Nissan Mitsubishi

lildush:
Please go n wash this car and the engine.. take off that seat cover as well... It will add more value to the car

Very good advice, I will also add that the picture should be taken in a good environment so it doesn't look like a stolen vehicle... Marketing strategy.

I am not using paving stone, only concrete work on the piece of land.

My mason sent a quotation of 80 bags of cement, 5 trips of stone and 5 trips of sand for 6 inch thickness paving work on a 50ft x 60ft piece of land. Please can the experts in the house help to look at this to see if it is feasible. Thanks

MikoB:
Hmm, for those still believing that Tinubu is Buhari's candidate, at least you can rest now.

When the chicken head is cut off, the torso would still be gyrating until it finally dies. Na proverb oo.

This proverb na strong one

Okay but APC's best chance of defeating incumbent PDP lies on Prof Barth Nnaji. The governorship should be forgotten if they fail to field the erudite Professor who laid the foundation for transformation in the Power ministry.

Prettylitlady:
Goodday NL members.. I am here for any matured advice I can get as I understand we have matured people here who can talk senses into my head and make me realise one or two things.

I am in my mid 20's, I dated my Ex for few years, we were both students then in one of the West Universities (graduates now) and I really loved him, it was true love I felt for him to be honest, he wasn't working, I don't demand for money from him or anything, I sell clothes, shoes, bags and do other small businesses while schooling, that's how I foot my own Bills and also give him money sometimes when in need. His family knows me, my family knows him like we were so much in each other(or so I thought). I saw no other guy except him, I built my world around him, we were best of friends as I am an introvert and really don't keep friends so he was my all.
Even though it was a tough decision to make, I had to break up with him due to the following reasons;
1. He has beaten me once and promised not to do it again but he still slapped me in every slightest provocation.
2. He wanted to go into yahoo yahoo. That's not the kind of partner I want, I want a legit hustler not a fraudster.
3. He sometimes cheats on me and I will forgive him always. He tells me I am the main while the others is just for cruise that every guy cheats
4. He suddenly started smoking and drinking due to friends influence I guess (Eew, I don't want that)
5. He is Lazy, always wanting big money buh doesn't want to work. I told him to Start from somewhere after our graduation no matter how little buh he won't heed.
6. He always talks dirty with his female friends even in my presence, I wonder what happens behind me.

I ended the relationship after so much talking, pleas and counselling hoping he will change but he didn't. I dated another guy 2 months later, I know nobody is perfect but trust me when I say my current guy is all I ever wanted in a man. But the truth is I really do not love him that deep, He treats me fine and all but I still feel something for my ex maybe because I was already soo used to him. My boyfriend has told me to go back if that's what I want because he doesn't want a divided attention. I know I can't break up with him because it will hurt him so badly and my conscience won't even allow me because he has done literally nothing wrong, yes we normally have our ups and downs but he hasn't done anything worth breaking up over with.

I just need advice on how I can get this my ex off my head for good. We don't communicate, I have deleted all his numbers, We have been separated for few months now but I still think of him every single day even when I have a good guy already. I don't know what is wrong with me pleasee

You took the right decision by breaking up with such a character as he will frustrate your life if it ends in marriage. Missing your ex happens to everyone even married people too but it diminishes with time. Learn to love your current bf but please stay away from Premarital sex.

Destiny2015:
Ajala the traveller

And he is yet to visit many state in Nigeria and solve security and hunger issues. Worst president in Nigeria history.

Metrix147:
Entire South-South, South-West Should Support South-East Presidency, That's Only Fairness I Know — Orji Kalu



https://abntv.com.ng/news/entire-south-south-south-west-support-south-east-presidency-thats-fairness-know-orji-kalu-video/

I strongly believe that Kalu is more interested in Senate Presidency and will most likely support Tinubu and then gets rewarded.
The meeting he had with Tinubu is still very suspicious.

majamajic:
Worst governor in history of nigeria

It should be that any one declaring for president should resign his current position

Na because you have not been to Abia state. Okezie Ikpeagu is a definition of failure.

ChildOfDoom:
Aside my intellectual ability, nothing else to benefit from me in matrimony. I just hope no one is deceived by my innocent looks or gentlemanliness. Lot's of skeletons in my cupboard.

- no sexual satisfaction for her as I have a weak erection due to years of self-service

- no ability to hold a home together as I am wayward, a chronic punter and profligate spender. How possible will it be to save and take care of my family. I can barely feed myself well.

- I have got anger and communication issues. Hard relating well with the opposite sex

- I have got health issues based on an obnoxious lifestyle devoid of proper healthy living. I doubt if I will make a good husband or father having failed on my own.

Working on all these vices; but I guess there is little or no chance of a 30-year-old changing again

Please don't give up, God can help you.

Oba with some swag will surely be missed by Nigerians, may his soul rest in peace.

The big question now is what happens to those beautiful wives, just asking for a friend

TheRareGem1:
This is the truth and nothing but the truth

So help us God. The start boy is the best candidate

Mariangeles:
It's simple na.

Just pay for an online cooking class for your wife, make una start to dey enjoy all kinds of delicacies.
I recommend @foodbyhilda. She dey cook fire!

Thanks

Nairalandhotboy:
We just dey start

Abeg where una de see this kin chop. I wish my wife can prepare Oha soup. Na delicacy be that

cremedelacreme:
You for kuku make am 4M. 2008 Corolla for 3.550M, some of una no get conscience I swear.

exactly

Location?

Fayemi's political father said non of his sons is old enough to contest, please he needs to discuss with oga at the top before declaring for presidency.

Dreamhighnow:
In Osinbajo I trust

If osibanjo doesn’t win APC primary then I switch to Peter Obi

And if Peter Obi doesn’t win the PDP ticket then

I no say Nigeria is ready to suffer another 8 years

What more can we say, you have finished the work.

Okay

The game is over, this is the candidate to take power from the governor. He is quite popular with the people but I pray he won't be like Rochas that disappointed Imolites

My brother, you did the right thing by rejecting him and for sure God will provide another job. Please take a step further by opening an email account with a different name if you want to be anonymous and forward this information to all your contact in Chevron including the man's manager, supervisor, JV director and every other person that matters in Chevron. Evil thrives when good people keep quiet, that man needs to be exposed.

Sixfiguresmart:
Happy to get an oil and gas job. Dream come true. Everything was perfect with me. 3 years into my job, a new boss showed up. A light skin Nigerian male. His wife and kids were in Canada. I visit the gym 3x per week.

He requested to go to the same gym. Pretended to work out and asked that I mentored him. It all happened fast. I thought he was responsible as he was married. He started touching my body inappropriately. Caressing my chest holding my arms. Thought he was enamored by the muscles only. I would somehow break him off and redirect him to the session.

Then, after work it was about meeting me, talking to me, confiding in me. Initially, I was happy to build a close relationship with a boss. Of course, that's my career growth right there.

Not until, this night, he invited me over to his lounge. As soon i arrived, he undressed to a G-string, I was dazed for real. He tried to kissed me. I blocked it. Then, came the love, the feeling, and sex plea. So, I took my leave quickly. Felt disappointed and betrayed. I told no one but my bestie who laughed over it and made a mockery of the whole thing. Telling me that he would have busted his ass for the money.

All I needed was my job and no drama. He advanced toward me several times. Showered me with expensive stuff. I rejected everything he offered. I couldn't shake him anymore, no hugs, nothing. I felt truly perplexed cos he was very connected and has brothers and relatives in top positions in Chevron. I met with him, talked to him man to man politely. He told me he had been in it since he was 14. I asked him if he would love that life for his kids. He said, no! So, I told him that I have a faith, a conscience and a commitment to my God. That I would not entertain homosexuality. So, after more attempts, the hate set in.

Well, my final year in Chevron was horrendous until i finally got axed 17 months after my new boss showed up. I moved on with my dignity but with a bigger lesson in life. I kept it a secret for many years. Only my bestie new about it.

Many men are victims. People hardly believe the few who cry out. Many will question the authenticity of my history and blame me afterall. Making it harder for the next man to come out.

Many argue that they will beat, hit, or punch a man for advancing toward them. There are consequences. Read your room. Justice hardly comes in a world of injustice. Sometimes, the best thing to do is walk away.

One of the most beautiful piece I have read on this forum, thanks for sharing this candid experience. You were just sincere with the narration and a lot of people will be healed. Just couldn't stop reading.

chioma134:
This post was triggered by an earlier post I saw where the poster was having long talks with his friend's wife. I've been in a similar situation. I changed location and had to be separate from my family due to work. I was lonely and needed a friend. I talk with my husband regularly, but his interests are not my interests, so I find that besides household and family matters, we have little else to talk about. I found myself talking to this guy I met when I went for an official assignment. We started as friends, but we became attracted to each other. So when I travelled back to base, we started these long conversations. We're both born-again Christians and both married, so we kept to certain boundaries. I enjoyed conversing with him more than with my spouse. I became consumed with thoughts of him. He also expressed his desire and attraction towards me, but we laughed over it as jokes.

My husband noticed the conversations when I travelled home and became suspicious. He forbade me from speaking with him. He had never seen me have long talks with any friend, talkless of a male one. I informed my friend and he said no problem, he would wait till I travelled back to work base before he would continue. He later travelled to meet his family and conversation became scanty. I realized how much I was addicted to him when I couldn't talk to him as much as I wanted. He returned to base and we continued like before.

I started praying for God to help me overcome these desires. Maybe he also felt the same, because for some reasons I don't know, he reduced the frequency of calls and chats drastically. I didn't try to find out why, just thought the time-off would help me clear out immoral thoughts. But I got hurt when he acted indifferent on one occasion when I felt he should have shown more care. I asked him about it and he pretended not to understand what I was talking about. I read the writing on the wall, and decided to play along. So I said "bye. It was nice meeting you." Part of me was grateful it ended, another part was wishing I could still be with him. I love my husband and children, I cannot come and scatter my home.

He thought I was joking. I was no longer responding to his chats, and when I did, only with monosyllables. He became hurt and accused me of going silent on him. I told him he started it. He wanted me to become defensive, but the Holy Spirit whispered "keep quiet ". So I allowed him rant without saying anything. I thank God I didn't, because I would have exposed how deep my true feelings for him were.

Right now, he chats once in a while, just general "how are you". I say "fine". My feelings have healed and I thank God we didn't continue because I wouldn't have been able to stop myself from an affair if we had eventually had any physical contact. I can categorically say I'm no longer in love with him.

I penned these down for those struggling with similar situations. Just cut off the relationship. Stop conversation, chatting, or physical contact. Then pray for God to help you overcome those lusty feelings.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

Where have you been, welcome.

Quite surprised that people are still allowed to put up structures under bridges in 21st century. The government has a lot of work to do through environmental officials. We can't continue to live in the stone age when the rest of the world are advancing to the future. My two kobo.