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TinaAnita:
Well said dear.

Let me just say this:_ The fact remains that baba is not ready to wife her so OP must be prepared to parent her child with or without his support.

It is essential to note that she won't be satisfied/happy no matter the financial assistance he renders for the baby's welfare as what OP really needs goes beyond that. She needs his love and that's one thing she may never get while marriage is out of it.


Baba can easily move on with his life with another woman but can the same be said about OP? How many Nigerian guys/men would agree to marry a lady with excess baggage? I mean with another man's child?

I have a girlfriend who happens to be a single mother and I can tell you for free that she is still paying dearly for her pathetic decision. The father of her 5-year old child doesn't give a hoot about my friend. All he does is to call once in a blue moon and say "make sure you take care of my daughter, nothing must happen to her and yada-yada-yada. He never asks how she is faring or if the baby has eaten or something. He never asks if the baby needs something. This was a guy she was madly in love with and did everything humanly possible to please him but he still left her for someone else.

I am pretty certain your friend is unlikely to be a blameless saint victim as you try to paint her.

There is likely to be a reason why the guy did not want her but wanted some other girl.

dominique:
So you're OK with dating a girl you don't like until the one you prefer comes along. How will you feel if someone does this to your sisters and daughters.

Women do that to men too everyday.

It is called life.

Live it and get on with it.

JerryTemi:
Hey you up,I don't think your name is now men or maybe it is now. Keep running mouth like tap without control,so the men we are talking about is your type and the person that got a lady pregnant and all of a sudden you just found out that you don't love her for keep really,please let me be ooooooooo because not everything that wears trouser that I consider as a MAN.

He knew he did not love her before getting her pregnant.

Most likely she knew he did not love her before becoming pregnant too.

Park the sob story.

JerryTemi:
Chai Jesus men,men uhmmmm you don't like woman but she is good for you to put your stupid thing inside uhmmm chai God save us. See them there running their mouth,insulting her like they where there when everything started. God will judge us all according to our different wickedness.

Please get it in your head that 'fcking you' is a completely different thing from 'loving you'.

It is not everything or everyone you use to achieve a desire that you love.

I might drive a End-of-Discussion, that does not mean I love the car. My love could be with a Ferrari or a G-Wagon, but the End-of-Discussion helps me achieve my desire to move from A to B comfortably in an air-conditioned car in my current state and within my current budget.

Once my status changes and my budget has improved, then I would attempt to get the car I love.

gist212:
https://i0.wp.com/www.primebazemedia.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/Chiwetalu-Agu-Chioma-Chukwuka-Uti-Nwachukwu.jpg

Stanel Group has endorsed Popular Nigerian celebrities, Chief Chiwetalu Agu, Chioma Chukwuka and Uti Nwachukwu as their brand ambassadors.

The Chairman and CEO of Stanel Group, Mr. Stanley Uzochukwu disclosed this while receiving the trio in his office on Saturday in Awka, Anambra State.

It could be recalled that Stanel Group commissioned its Stanel World in Awka, Anambra State on Friday and unveiled its entirely new products and services ranging from Stanel Tyres, Stanel Engine Oil, Stanel Gas Cylinders, Farmers Market, Chicken Republic (acquired franchise), Automated Car Clinic and other First Class services.

Unveiling the brand ambassadors on Saturday, Stanel Group Secretary, Chief Emeka Etiaba, SAN, said the official crowning ceremony of the signed ambassadors would take place on Wednesday, 12 July, 2017.

"Stanel Group Secretary, Chief Emeka Etiaba announces that the Chairman and CEO of Stanel Group, Mr. Stanley Uzochukwu, has appointed Chief Chiwetalu Agu, Chioma Chukwuka and Uti Nwachukwu as their brand ambassadors".

Are they planning to sell their products in the East only?

AmadiAba:
By Emeh James Anyalekwa

50 years later, Igbos own about 70% of the real estate in Lagos, Abuja , Port Harcourt and most other major cities in Nigeria without controlling the Niger Delta Oil.

Is this from Ipobogle as well?

AmadiAba:
By Emeh James Anyalekwa

About 40% Of the Oil in N/Delta are located in Igbo Land.(Abia, Imo, Anambra or parts of the Igbo lands in Rivers & Delta states)

Was this also from Ipobogle?

Sorry to inform Emeh, even Ondo State ALONE is producing more oil than all the 3 Igbo oil-producing states COMBINED!

Even Lagos is producing more oil than these Igbo states now.

https://infoguidenigeria.com/oil-producing-states/


Oil production in all the Igbo states is LESS than 3%, where did you see 40%, anuofia?

http://thesummary.com.ng/index.php/news-categories/national/item/4242-list-of-oil-producing-states-in-nigeria-see-amount-each-state-gets-monthly-based-on-13-derivation-you-will-be-surprised

And Oil production in Rivers and Delta states are not from the Igbo-speaking areas. Nnamdi Kanu might have claimed that, but that is nonsense.

AmadiAba:
By Emeh James Anyalekwa

UAE has more Oil than Nigeria but Oil accounts for only 5% of their GDP (Ask Google).

Which fake Google is Emeh James Anyalekwa using?

Ipobogle?

Is this 5%?

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/0c/United_Arab_Emirates_Export_Treemap.png/280px-United_Arab_Emirates_Export_Treemap.png

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Economy_of_the_United_Arab_Emirates#Diversification

In 2011, oil exports accounted for 77% of the UAE's state budget.

quid:
Na they have a flag. Waiting for yoruba equivalent of Nnamdi Kanu

That one easy na.

They should go to Aro Hospital, they would find one EXACTLY like Nnamdi Kanu.

quid:
Movers of Oduduwa republic na

Smokers of the Igbo they are supposed to be moving?

quid:

Who are these mad people?

Warship:
Only in a Nation filled with goat brains that people take the voice of few serious over a Referendum.


Referendum will say it all.

I am sure referendum in the old Eastern Region would lead to a definite "No".

Even if it was done in the South East alone, even though it is likely to be a "Yes", I doubt it would be by a majority over 70%.

As for the old Eastern Region, I don't think the SS people are that enamoured about people of the South East.

Lets be frank, we really can't say the SE are populated with people that have one of the highest 'goodwill' amongst other Nigerians.

Cooly100:
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You are a joke...You should focus on Nigeria without the Biafrans..

Well, all those listed are Nigerians, not Biafrans.

ojobekehinde:
Forget those tribes OP,if biafra have their way today i mean refrendum.nigeria can never and will never remain the same cos most of those tribe will either join or go their own way.mark my words.

They would never join Biafra.

It is not possible.

I don't think they love Igbos that much, nor do I think they would think a country dominated by Igbos would be favourable to them or better than what they get in Nigeria.

They would rather have their own country. That is the only other alternative option for them, not Biafra.

amachuk:
But you didn't include Anambra in your list, I thought Anambra also rejected Biafra. also include ebonyi, if you doubt ask Umahi, IMO nko? ask Okorocha in fact, you can say that Igbo rejects Biafra, na jealousy go kill you, Biafra matter go strike you with madness, isee, iseee, iseeee. I expect the moderator to ban me, I don't care.

Many would.

You want them to end up in poverty when their valuables are hardly in Igboland?

chimeee:
the ones that are creating this posts are not from ss, that are elements that are out to sow seed of discord between ss & se, ignore them, they feel miserable about ss & se making up biafra.

SS people are angrily telling you they are not part of Biafra, you are still insisting they are?

Are you sure your name is not Nnamdi Kanu?

Dedetwo:
Biafra must stand even it represents the only Igbo land. There are people in the neighboring country willing to join Biafra. Besides, there are redoubtable cowards on the list above. Most of the folks would rather die of cancer than challenge the Yari.ba and political elites from northern region of Nigeria. The mounted propaganda against Ndigbo has its roots imbedded in a noticeable fear.

Which people from Neighbouring countries?

PapaBrowne:
We don't prefer to be part of Nigeria. Given a choice, we would rather be with our South East brothers in a separate country than with Nigeria.

However, we would only do such on an equal pedestal and Biafra led by IPOB doesn't represent that as it has chosen to largely make itself an Igbo movement. That's the only problem we have.
So don't be decieved.

Nonsense!

I am sure you are speaking for yourself only.

EzeUche:
Even Ohanaeze and the SE governors have rejected it.

But does that means the Igbos have rejected it.

A referendum will let us know how the common people in the SE and SS feel about Biafra.

If you are so sure about this rejection conduct a simple referendum and there should not be any worry.

It is telling you that, if a referendum takes place, the majority "Yes" would be lower than the noise.

vanbonattel:
All the tribes you listed above have their governors meeting with at their political capital in Enugu this very minute

Political and economic capital in the South is Port Harcourt.

It appears all the major tribes in the South South reject and do not desire to be part of Biafra and prefer to be part of Nigeria instead despite the desperation to include them in Biafran maps.

Ibibio rejection of Biafra
http://sunnewsonline.com/including-ibibio-in-biafra-map-an-affront-group/

Efik rejection of Biafra
https://www.naij.com/1113743-nnamdi-kanus-ipob-warned-by-efik-group-leave-biafra-shenanigans.html

Urhobo rejection of Biafra
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/11/urhobo-denounces-inclusion-in-map-of-biafra/

Anioma rejection of Biafra
http://sunnewsonline.com/stop-dragging-us-into-biafra-anioma-people-of-delta-tell-agitators/

Ogoni rejection of Biafra
https://www.naij.com/1109544-stop-associating-ogoni-biafra-agitation-group-warns-asari-dokubo.html

Isoko rejection of Biafra
http://mashable.ng/isoko-is-not-part-of-biafra-isoko-development-union/

Annangs rejection of Biafra
http://tribuneonlineng.com/not-ready-slaves-biafra-%E2%80%95annang/


Surely this means Biafra is not viable?

valnelly:
As I write this.... I'm filled with so much hurt and regret.
My girlfriend whom I thought would be patient enough for me so I could get married to her has broken up with me.
I met her while I was writing my final year project in Yabatech about 4 years ago. We were cool together and the distance between us didn't mean that much to me even though she stays in ikorodu and I stay in surulere. The problem started when I gained admission to Unilag due to my decision for self development. I'm 31 years old and she is 25.
During the last 2 years I noticed she has changed drastically I notice that she now has stuffs like new shoes and new bags. Which of course ordinarily she wouldn't have been able to afford. The only time we see is on weekends and that's because she is still in Yabatech schooling and sometime when she comes like that she acts funny with phone calls. The way she talks to some certain people so suspicious. But none the less she always feels cool with me and always wants to be around me. Could it be because of sex?

I noticed that she behaves single at school and even on social media. We do not chat or use social media, we added each other but at a point I had to take her off because she doesn't portray any thing that shows we are actually dating...i took her off all platform of social media and she wasn't perturbed about it. I don't actually know what's going on in school or her place of residence but I have a very strong feeling that she has been cheating on me and some other guy have been buying her things I can't get for her. But on top of this she was actually looking for school fees and I was deploying all methods to make sure she pays this on time and that alone made me confused!. We had a heated argument on Sunday and she was yelling and talking back at me... I left the house for her in annoyance only for me to come back and she is gone. She left a note that says that she is no longer interested. Guys please what should I do. I love this girl so frigging much. I can't sleep or think straight right now. It's almost impossible for me to start all over again. I feel hopeless. Please guys your advice!

It appears she just played no 5, 6 and 10 here on you.

https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils

You got played.

teacher4ever:
May Almighty Allah forgive his sins and grant him eternal rest. Amin

However, I remember Engr Kure as one of d worst Governors whose performance was not worth mentioning.!!

While you will continue your eternal suffering on Earth.

heybel:
I was offered to new teaching job today, one is secondary school and d other one is primary school wit dsame salary...but d owner of d secondary said i must spend a term witout quiting i.e if i secure a beta offer within dat term,i cant go for it,bcus they hve to tell d part teacher taking dem bfor to stop cuming...but d primary said anytim i wnt to go no problem...pls advice me

Please, I beg you in the name of Jesus, don't take any of the jobs.

Don't go and destroy the lives of innocent kids as a teacher when your grammar is this poor.

Raina80:
Don't ask a guy question's you don't like the answer to. Having 1 previous lover does not make a man honourable neither does having 50 make him a slut. Most women always equate sex with love.
That's were problems begin.

Do you equate sex with love?

Tamee:
Are we done here

Everyone can receive emails.

You just need to send a request for permission to send a private message to a NLer, and when the NLer is notified by NL through their email address that you want to send them a message, if they want you to speak to you, they just need to reply through your personal email address to that notification email sent by NL.

Then you can both be exchanging emails offline.

Elshahzad:

What is this:

"Turn N12.5k to N50k within 2weeks. Sign up HERE.. Dnt reg if U're nt ready to pay. Pls"?

All of a sudden, the white husband became a black husband in this picture.

www.nairaland.com/attachments/4677858_20161230194626_jpeg80f937309d1fb9833bbcf450d2ae79b8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-azKoJ64Mw

three:
Very 'informative' infographic

Okay so first off it isn't any wonder that the Ministries with the largest budgetary provisions are headed by the most 'controversial' ministers?

Having a 3rd of your budget financed by deficit is simply ludicrous and in the current socio-economic/political environment simply wishful thinking (Oil revenue has been massively eroded due to Bombings)

Oil revenue and Non-Oil revenue are almost equal (this simply assumes that we will make as much money from agric, and not much else as we make from oil..., Really?)

The sum of N529B for works, power and housing is grossly inadequate as there already is a funding deficit for most FG contracts so this is like throwing money into a bottomless pit - summary - we're going to be hearing many many more excuses)

Meanwhile why is the FCT getting a whole N37B (okay now I understand why Bala Muhammed's son allegedly has several supercars and properties) on a serious note it would make sense if Lagos, Kaduna and Portharcourt shared this sum as intended abinitio.


Den come oh! dis $30B wey PMB wan collect by force, d servicing dey inside d N1.6T abi e go still join am!!!

Why is it ludicrous?

Can you explain?

Mr Ibu, na you go die next for Nollywood.

Useless idiot!

https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2016/nov/07/african-nations-attempt-suspend-un-united-nations-lgbt-rights-monitor-vitit-muntarbhorn

[size=18pt]African nations attempt to suspend UN's LGBT rights monitor[/size]

African nations are seeking to suspend the work of the first UN independent expert charged with investigating violence and discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity.

Botswana’s ambassador to the UN, Charles Ntwaagae, said on Friday that African nations want the general assembly to delay consideration of a Human Rights Council resolution adopted on 30 June that authorised the appointment of an expert to monitor LGBT rights to discuss “the legality of the creation of this mandate”.

Ntwaagae told the 193-member world body that a general assembly resolution introduced by African nations seeking a delay also calls for suspending the activities of the first expert, Vitit Muntarbhorn, from Thailand, who was appointed in September, pending a determination of the legality.

The assembly is expected to vote on the African resolution on Tuesday.

The Human Rights Council resolution establishing the LGBT expert was adopted by a vote of 23-18 with six abstentions, reflecting the deep divisions internationally on gay rights.

The UN has worked to improve the rights of the LGBT community in recent years but has repeatedly run into opposition from some member states, especially from countries in the Middle East and Africa as well as China and Russia. According to a UN human rights report last year, at least 76 countries retain laws used to criminalise and harass people on the basis of their sexual orientation and gender identity or expression, including laws criminalising consensual same-sex relationships among adults.

Ntwaagae said African nations “are alarmed” that the Human Rights Council is delving into national matters and attempting to focus on people “on the grounds of their sexual interests and behaviours, while ignoring that intolerance and discrimination regrettably exist in various parts of the world, be it on the basis of colour, race, sex or religion, to mention only a few”.

African nations are also concerned that sexual orientation and gender identity are being given attention “to the detriment of issues of paramount importance such as the right to development and the racism agenda”, he said.

Ntwaagae said African countries want to stress that sexual orientation and gender identity “are not and should not be linked to existing international human rights instruments”.

Muntarbhorn, a law professor who has been on the council’s Commission of Inquiry on Syria and previously served as UN special investigator on North Korea and on child prostitution and child pornography, was given a wide mandate by the Human Rights Council for three years.

It includes looking at ways to overcome violence and discrimination against people on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity, addressing the root causes, and working with states to protect lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people.

The US deputy ambassador, Sarah Mendelson, expressed concern at the African resolution, telling the assembly that the Human Rights Council has approved numerous resolutions on people experiencing violence and discrimination, including those belonging to minority groups.

Mendelson said the African measure would have the general assembly reopen a Human Rights Council mandate for the first time and could undermine the council’s ability to function.

She urged the assembly to support an amendment expected to be introduced by Latin American and Caribbean nations that would remove the African call to delay the Human Rights Council resolution and suspend Muntarbhorn.

Francesca Cardona, speaking on behalf of the European Union, stressed that countries must “protect the human rights of all individuals without distinction of any kind”.

She said any attempt to call into question the legitimacy of the council resolution establishing the independent expert to protect against violence and discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity “has no legal foundation”.

LGBT rights programme manager at the International Service of Human Rights (ISHR), Pooja Patel, said: “This move is harmful to non-violence and anti-discrimination efforts in relation to lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans people around the world. It will also entrench an ugly precedent whereby the [social, humanitarian and cultural] committee could effectively reverse any decision by the Human Rights Council, completely undermining its integrity and independence.”

The co-director of ISHR’s New York office, Eleanor Openshaw, said there were no grounds on which to question the legality of the expert’s mandate. “The legal validity of this expert position is rooted in principles of non-discrimination and universality of human rights as enshrined in the Universal Declaration on Human Rights. It is very much in line with the council’s responsibility and obligation, as articulated in its founding documents, to promote the universal protection of all human rights and fundamental freedoms for all.”

When some of us were saying GEJ was a foolish slowpoke who was too stupid to know what was going on under him, his wailers no gree hear.

The crooks were very happy to have such a Mumu in power so they can loot the country dry.

This one don cook finish.

Kirikiri straight.

InMyOpinion:
[size=15pt]However you viewed her dad does not make her a b-i-tch- mind your language! [/size]

As long as she is proud of her dad and tries to promote him, she is a super b-i-tch.

A fat one at that too.

ChangeIsCostant:
Sagesse Gumsu, daughter of late military Head of State, Gen Sani Abacha, has shown that she's always been a "daddy's girl" as she shared a throwback photo of cool herself rocking his coat while on a trip to Beijing, capital city of China in 1991 (25 years ago)... ...

Sagesse Gumsu, who is currently based with her family in Cameroon captioned the throwback photo; #tbt 1991...Beijing.feeling cool ..wearing my father's blazer.


Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/11/throwback-photo-of-sani-abachas.html

Fat b-i-tch, daughter of a psychotic murderer.

The idiot did not go and see the judge with a brown envelope.

If he did, he would have got 6 months and a fine of N30,000.

arlomah:
The Nigerian Slum and Informal Settlement Federation, group which is the coalition of waterfront settlers in Lagos State has demanded the immediate retraction of the eviction notice issued to waterfront settlers in the State by Governor Akinwunmi Ambode. The seven days eviction notice and plans of demolition of waterfront structures was announced by LASG on Sunday, October 9, 2016.
The group which comprises members from over seventy informal settlements expressed shock when the government issued the eviction notice few days after it staged a peaceful protest on Tuesday, October 4, 2016.
In a letter addressed to Governor Akinwunmi Ambode which was obtained by InsdeMainland, the group expressed its concern stressing that the development “seems to be a continuation of the anti-poor policies of Lagos State which we protested last week.”
“We belong to the city and we have a right to the city as well as a right to shelter and livelihood. Forceful eviction is not only unlawful, it is also ineffective. It will also not solve whatever problem your administration hopes to solve,” part of the letter reads.
Consequently, the group announced plans to proceed on a mass protest if the government does not officially retract the eviction notice by the evening of today, Wednesday, 12 October 2016.

http://insidemainland.com/2016/10/12/group-ask-ambode-retract-eviction-notice-waterfront-settlers/

cc @lalasticlala

If it is unlawful, then no need to even protest, they should go to the court of law.

Useless people.

GalaxyCommodity:
Good evening, Pick Up can be arranged when payment is made. call 07034953399.
Kind Regards

WHAT

Is it not free?

If you know you were going to charge, why did you not put the price up?