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mutter:
Many Men and women that reach a mature age before getting married are very difficult to live with.
They are set in their ways and do not want to make much change or just cannot make the change.
They have their lifestyle and cat adjust.
When a man in this situation marries a woman, he usually marries a younger woman who completely adjust to fit in to the man`s lifestyle.
For women it is nearly impossible to get a much younger man to marry.
Furthermore the man sees himself as the head of the home and does not want to marry woman he cannot control.

It is possible that the man really wanted a serious relationship but then he found out he could not cope because he could not be the man he wants to be in this relationship.

Women really need to stop looking for ready- made men and be ready to build with a man.

Best said so far.

Ikengawo:
incase you forgot

Forgot what?

"If you put a goat where yam is, it will eat it. If you put people where money is, they’ll steal it." - Goodluck Jonathan


Saharareporters said all that is needed to be said well:

"On the criticism that his government is not committed to curbing corruption, the President went on a homily of the “goat and yam”. Don’t start wondering where Jesus Christ narrated this parable in the Bible. You will only find it in the transcript of the President’s chat. It is the President’s own construct to justify his belief that it is normal for people to steal and cheat unless you take away the opportunity away from them. Not being corrupt is for lack of opportunity; not a result of any enduring personal commitment to the values of basic honesty or a moral resolve to act right for social good."


Afterall, corruption is not stealing.

blackfase:
Gov. Fayose said the tape is real.....
Musiliu ObaniKoro said the tape is real........
Adesiyan also affirmed and said the tape is real.....
But just like the chibok saga, oga Ade at the top, Mr Jonathan says it is FAKE!
Geh geun.......

The man is just so stupid.

bigfrancis21:
The net worth figures are open to discussion. Most of her net worth, if true, might not necessarily come from singing but from investments she's made.

How do you know?

What research did you do or did your source do?

Like if she cares.

She will soon state it is all a lie and accuse them of being part of a plot to humiliate her husband.

So he needs to announce he is going "to expose"?

Just like he needs to set up a committee "to see if criminals are criminals"?

Clueless and indecisive man.

charles009:
Hey guys,

I got married to my wife last December, we have been living happily. But last night, events took a bitter twist. She woke me up 2.09am today and started raining abuses on me. Be for I could talk, she smashed my phone on the floor.

The question is why is she angry? She read an exchange of sms between me and a certain girl. I stead of her asking questions, she went extreme.

I don't visit her phones and I expect her to do the same. Am still asking how she managed to get the password.

Though she has left the house this morning with some of her baggage, I am determined that I am never going to allow her enter my house again.

Now I ask?? Is it right for her to breach my privacy and get into my phone?

Call her.

Ask her to come over to talk.

When she comes, ask her what the issue is.

Then she will tell you the issue, which for reasoning sake, I will assume is this chat with the girl you talked about.

After she does, ask her to unlock her phone.

Stroll through her BB and whatsapp chats one-by-one (including with girls), then you will see that most women are hypocrites.

She is most likely doing the same. Check conversations with girls because she can store a man's name with a female name.

Even the ones castigating you here are doing the same thing with some male admirer.

ThoniaSlim:
Nope I can't!

Why not?

clevvermind:
that was why i have the right to say no. It either he understands or back out.
I dnt want that. Simple.

Yes, you have the right. But you don't want that because you felt jealous, not because you wanted to "help" him.

We are not kids here.

You have exercised your right and shown what type of friend you are. If he is smart, he would convert you to "acquaintance" and never be there for you if it does not benefit him.

clevvermind:
why would i be jealous? If i want to get a babe too, i would. But i have changed so much and i want him to know that. He can stay in my house as he want with his real babe but not with a strange babe.
I would nt encourage him to be changing girls like wrapper. I like sticking to one lady and i want him to do the same. It would help him.
I also thought of the possibility of my things missing if i allow him to use my house. Girls of nowadays can't be trusted.
I thought about many things that i did nt include in the original post. It would make the post too long to read and i dnt like typing much. Thanks.

Who are you to tell him who to fraternise with?

You feel free to change but who are you to demand he does?

What difference does it make to you if he stayed at your place with his girl or another girl apart from hating?

You were jealous and hating jor. If I was him, you should know our relationship is just for socialising, I aint got your back.

We can smile and hang but when the chips are down, you would not even see me next to you. O-Y-O (On Your Own).

Awwww!

See how deeply moved Jonathan is from his facial expression.

Clueless finally shows his care and compassion, to the people that have been suffering for years, one month before elections.

He now cares, his monstrosity of a wife is not accusing them of being liars and only conspiring to humiliate her husband.

Useless and clueless man.

clevvermind:
i don't think what i did was wrong. in short, i was helping him. he should stop that lifestyle and focus on one lady.

No, you were not helping him. You were jealous.

You never mentioned trying to stop him or advising him to stop in your original post. I am sure you were just jealous.

Not allowing him to use your house does not stop him in anyway from doing it.

With your kind of help, who needs wickedness?

clevvermind:
and again, if my things got missing, i can't ask him to pay back. the lady may steal my things and i can't blame anybody.

This is just an after-thought you came up with.

You know the possibility of that is low. You only brought it up after someone stated on this thread that it happened to him.

sexyseun:
@ OP.. what was your rationale behind refusing him access to your apartment? is it because he wanted to bring in a side chick to sleep with or you dont want to encourage him to double date?, i still dont get it.. i thought guys use their friend's house a lot for fun. I am not supporting your friend's action, neither am i supporting you too... But if one reads clearly, its either 1.You are jealous about the guy. 2. You dont have a current girlfriend while he has 2 or more and 3. You are not as successful as he is.

Bite me if you can but the truth is your conscience is killing you now because you had no reason to deny him your key, abi shey na yur prick im wan use ni?

He is either a hater or a not too good friend.

I would just turn him to a friendly acquaintance.

clevvermind:
One of my friend called me yesterday that he will be taking one his new babe to my house. I asked him if it was just an ordinary visit, he said no that it was not an ordinary visit, that he intend sleeping with her. he said he needs some privacy in my house for at least 5hours, that he will come to collect my house key.

I asked him why he wants to use my house since he has a well furnished house? He told me that he doesn't want his real babe to walk into them accidentally in his house, that he needs a place like my house where his real babe don't easily visits. He said he was afraid that he may gets caught by his real babe cheating. I then told him that my house is not available that he should go and book a hotel instead, that i don't allow such thing in my house. I told him that i'm very sorry that it can't be possible. He then cut the call. I guess he was angry for my refusal to grant his request. i have been trying to reach him on phone since but to no avail. I would try to go and see him later.

Please is what i did wrong? Should i have left my house for him and his babe to do such thing?

You did not act as a good friend.

But that is not a problem, if I was the one, I would pick up you phone call. I would not say anything and I will hang out with you as usual.

But the day you need my help badly and I have nothing to gain from helping you, I would tell you 'No, I am not a charity. Go and meet Oxfam'.

Our friendship get level.

Jonathan has made it clear that French lives are more important than Nigerian lives.

Jonathan: President of Nigeria.

Are these universities or secondary schools?

Her husband just announced they are serving N30K pork pies for campaign lunch from the presidential annual food budget and she got excited.

He might be a homosexual.

He likes showing his body but yet one does not see him with a variety of girls despite him living in Nigeria where girls throw themselves at rich men, talk less of rich, famous men with good bodies.

This picture is too gay.

Most of them have very bad personalities generally.

bukkyzems:
now dis ain't sexy for me. she reminds me of biology (amoeba) in my sec sch.

I guess you failed in biology at secondary school then?

You should have listened more and read your books then since amoeba refers to a cell that is shapeless due to its ability to alter its shape.

Firefire:
SLS further stated that he has not and will not contract a marriage with any woman under 18.

But you will not also advise your followers against it ?

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Let us say NO to girl-child marriage in Nigeria.[/size]

You forgot to put on your spectacles?

Responding to a question about marriage between adult men and underage girls, the Emir of Kano stated that he fully supports the right of children not to get forcibly married before attaining the constitutionally stipulated age of 18 years.

That is not his wife.

That is some other woman's wife.

lalasticlala:
We can authoritatively tell you that the late Prof. Charles Bruce Powell was supervisor for his Master’s and PhD in Hydrobiology.

This Professor needs to be tracked down and arrested based on the law GEJ himself signed.

It is illegal in Nigeria to be gay.

This man is gay. There is no way anyone would supervise a man as idiotic as GEJ and then approve for him to be awarded a PhD except the person is getting some pleasure from the backside orifice.

This is why GEJ pardoned this thief.

This is how GEJ's government fights corruption.

GEJ is really the "The Jesus Christ of Nigeria".

Shameless people.

iconize: I asked; what are those services modern cities are to provide.

Thank you!

It seems Sagamite is right that you always run from questions.

It is a challenge for you to define a city, so it must be that you don't know what one is.

Ibadan and Kano are cities.

iconize: Not when you've not listed those services a city should provide and also tell me how many of them your Nigerian "cities" provide.

Services are what modern cities provide.

What I asked for is the definition of a city and a modern city.

Thanks.

iconize: Nah! I didn't mean that statement.

Take a chill!

Okay, define what a city is and then what a modern city is.

iconize: You brought them in to save you but they've successfully "taught" me something "I never knew".

Bros, do you just pick accusations from thin air and throw it like this?

iconize: You don't need to declare me the winner because I'm already the winner.

I'm not a primitive person like sagamite.

List those services a modern city should give/render to its inhabitants, and let's know how many of them your Nigerian "cities" provide.

Bros, what about the questions I asked you first?

Misogynist2014: 720k is even more than the population of some countries . THE CHARACTERISTICS OF CITY ARE :
* A large town.(Town has population of 10,000 or more)
*Has a greater population than town but less than 500k
*It gives more services than town.
So Sagamite and iconize,I think I have solved the puzzle and the looser knows himself

Bros, we apprciate ur puzzle slving bt make we give am chnce to expln b4 we declare winner.

iconize: What are you saying?




And sagamite told us a city is determined only by its population!

Now list those services a modern city should give/render to its inhabitants, and let's know how many of them your Nigerian "cities" provide

I am asking if you did not know that some countries are less than 720 thosuand people, so if a place has up to that, that is a very high population that makes it a city? I am also asking if you did not know that the term urban only pertains to cities?

Why don't you just define a city for us as Sagamite has been asking you?