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Satan66:
Dumb mentality.
My golden rule has always being;
Don't touch my phone and I won't touch yours.
If you got a problem with that then we go our separate ways

First time i am gonna agree with satan and i feel bad about it.

ImaIma1:
As it is now, my husband says he's taking me on a date, where would he take me to that he would spend 2k? Mama Nkechi's joint? Or to the roasted yam lady down the road? Let's just stay home and watch EPL mbok.

Stop thinkin like a wood digger. Your entitlement mentality is just too cringy. Be humble and be glad for whatever he brings to the table. Then you too should strive to bring sth to the table.

Wallade:
Do you realise that there is a possibility of moving that relationship with your girl to another level. If you end up in marriage to her, your friends should get to know her someday.

I must say that your "Kiss and Tell" friend would have to be matured to handle the imaginations and thoughts that will spring up in his head after/upon meeting her to prevent the lady from feeling embarrassed; him feeling awful or getting ideas.

You have never said anything to any of your friends about your bae b4?

badoh:
What if you ended up marrying that lady, imagine the way your friend will view her that you have bleeped shit out of her during your courtship.

Every girl have been bleeped shit out of. Excpet my friend's and my sisters.

Wallade:
Divay22 and MariaLavina, let me burst your brain: if you know how childlish your current man can be, you wouldn't be on this thread crucifying Gaspardd.

Your day of reckoning is fast approaching; I can't wait to see if you will kick his balls, bolt out of the relationship or make it a big issue.

Reason why i said one of them is just too naive, but she wouldnt know now. Her eye go soon clear.

Wallade:
Gaspardd is very guilty of "Kiss and Tell". He needs to improve on his level of maturity in relationships.

In as much as i agree to this, but then its funny how NL makes me feel like what i did is woeful. That goes to show that NL is kinda of decoupled from reality.
Talking shìt with your friends is normal but as long as you know the boundaries. I wouldnt do sth of such if the guy knows this particular girl in person.

Legolast:
This is my 5yrs in a relationship with my bae, I normal and I don't do that. Kindly apologize to your bae, you're wrong this time bro.

Ofcourse maybe 2 or 3yrs into the relationship i wouldnt feel the need to do that anymore, but i just met this babe like 3mths now, shes been a good girl atleast and i have known this guy since 2015, although we dont live in thesame state but then its just that we duscuss life, things and kinda dont hide ridiculous shìts that happens to us and instead of dishing out wise advices like socrates, we just laff it off and kinda dont take it serious.

ImaIma1:
You should know that his Modus Operandi is to always come and justify his actions.

He goes on a 2k date and then turns around and blames the girl for buying stuffs. Now he says hurtful things about "his bae" to his friend and instead, he blames her for going through his phone.

He is never wrong... always right

I know when i am wrong and i wud humbly admit it, one time i cheated on ex bae, i was caught red handed and i remember i was begging profusely. Kneeling down begging in public and shìt. That i was wrong and i know so, but with this? I am not at fault.

funkyjms:
Gaspardd my guy, make I no lie you, you ef-up!
It's not a crime to be caught in some fvckt up situation, handling them is the key. You're bad at that.
You really need to learn how to handle some situations.

Teach me bro

anthonyuncle:
guy,
u messed up big time.
that was immature of u,
her going through ur phone ain't a defense at all

I should been suspicious from the moment i wanted to give my fone? Or i should have knelt down to pray for Gods interventions after the whole fùckup? I dont get my messed up part oo.

johnkey:
hahahaha I guess I'm abnormal then...

boys still dey get best friend?

na my clients be my best friends haha.

Well then if u re 100% truthful then u re abnormal bro

AntiBrutus:
Exactly o.

Dude must be one wicked producer. Using the whole NL to play

Thing is you ladies cant think like a man, when i said a bae came to visit me, niggas understand what that means.

Divay22:
Childish monkey, that's what you are.
I would have kicked your balls before dumping your sorry ass. (if i was her. But hell no! I can't date a kid like you)
The situation of the country has not only affected your pocket but also your brain.

Good thing u re purging right now. But then i hope u re not d psycho type that snoops around like a pig.

CorGier:
Mine has been close-marking me like kilode. She's always snooping around my phone. Gallery, contacts, call logs, text messages and even Whatsapp. It's feel like mans has no secrets anymore... for a private person like myself it's been so depressing fam.

Okay last week we get to see each other after a couple of days apart, and first thing chick does is stylishly situate herself between my legs so she could sniff at my privates. I'm fücked.

Seriously i would dump her ass if it was me.

Biglittlelois:
I'm wondering when he suddenly has a girlfriend, or maybe the independent sweet collegue didn't tell on him at work and accepted to be his girlfriend.


It's only immature fvckboys that talks about their sexcapades.

Modified: Ladies, if you are in a relationship with a guy who passwords his phone or doesn't allow you touch his phone, know that you are only for chop and go, and he is cheating, do not be sweet talked to accept such insanity.

Your naivety literally makes me feel dizzy

molybdenum0012:
Oo, I would not commend you for what you did, but then your babe is wrong for intruding into your privacy without your permission.


Truth be told, most guys says alots of stuff with their best friends. And it does not mean they don't love their girl friends. It is just like that for some guys.



The only mistake you made was not passwording your phone. No way a lady would not like to check her BF's chats.

Next time you should be more smarter.

It wasnt the back torch she used, it was d screen torch, so that it would provide minimal lighting and stuff. I removed the password cus if by chance or by mistake the fone goes off she wudnt have problem getting it back on.
And on a second note, this dude doesnt know this girl.

AntiBrutus:
Despite the fact that you go on 2k dates in borrowed clothes, you still have guts to gossip about your girlfriend in such manner?

You girls do thesame also. Beside the dude talks about his personal stuff too, and he doesnt even know the girl in question.

MrBrownJay1:
Newbies giving their opened phone to their women hoping she wouldn't snoop.... GEt real bro

I have learnt my lesson. I think i got carried away too much by the morning groove.

QueenSekxy:
Gossip with a friend using your woman, I mean your real babe? How would you want that friend to see her tomorrow? Do you have sense at all?

She should do herself a favour and dump your puerile ass. Honestly, you have no shame.

Stop taking things so hard, all normal guys do that. Your guy does that too if he is normal.

Bae came around last week friday to leave on saturday, all went really nice and we said so many sweet nothings to eachother. Saturday morning at around 4am, she wanted to ease herself but there was no light so i gave her my fone as a torchlight for visibility and stuff. I did that out of my church mind as in its d logical thing to do. But i never knew pple have got some twisted sense.

After a very long time bae was still inside the bathroom, initially i heard some sounds of water dropping but that was like the first 5mins, 1hr in, all was still silent which raised some concerns but since i didnt hear any yelling or distress shout, i didnt want to intrude.
Finally she came out, kinda bashed into the room, i was thinking the sweet times would resume but instead she threw the fone at me in rage and said some things i couldnt make out. Later she yelled angrily that "i hope tyler(not real name) knows that i just came out of bathroom"
In shock i asked who tyler is, but she looked at my fone and rushed outside again. That was when i realised what she was talking about and i immediately felt weak. I kinda collapsed in bed afterwards

Tyler is my best padi i gossip with about things, we say shìt just for the lols. I was kinda talking to him about how a girl is coming over for weekend and how i am prepared to bang the shìt out of her, how she wants to really get married, how i am not ready for now and you know, all those talks guys talk with their fellow friends just for the fun of it. And i can say this authoritatively that all guys have this type of friends they shill with and just discuss stuffs in a ridiculous way.
Well bae saw the chats on my whatsapp and that was what pissed her up. But then i gave it a thought and i realised the whole shìt is kinda fùcked up, Why would you be snooping around on my whatsapp without my permision? What kind of sick psycho does that? That really pissed me off in return and i bashed in on her and gave her the full undiluted piece of my mind.
She was shocked tho but i knew i was right. It was supposed to be used as a torchlight and not for you to go FBI on my personal stuff. Like there is a sayin that if you push a goat into a wall, invading its boundry, its going to fight back. Thats for a goat, how much more a human being. She really crossed the boundary and i have the right to be pissed.

Well later she traveled back all moody and stuff. She msged, telling me how wicked and insensitive i am for not apologising for what i did. But then i told her that i apologise she felt bad but i still maintained that she was in the wrong. If she hadnt behaved like a psycho, she wouldnt have felt bad. Next time stay on your lane.
She is still mad at me but i blame her 100%.

Evercurious:
Goodluck and God's Grace in all your endeavors. And always keep it real

Thank you very much. I wish you all the best too. May you be a giver/princess and not a beggar.

Bayur01:
Only God knows all buh it's good to have ideas and be diverse. I prayed you hit it even bedore the 5years you set for yourself. It's grace and putting effort. May the lord shower you blessings and keep guilding you.

Amen thanks bro.

Bayur01:
At some point in cryto, it's good and better to hold money in the bank than buy cryto coin. I remembered a friend that bought load of TRX and ripple then thinking the coin will keep mooning. It didn't even after TRX owners held some events that suppose to boost the coin then. I was lucky to sell when the whales were pumping it then. Cryto is calculation and luck. It can make someone rich overnight or poor overnight. Attimes, it will tie down money and one might wait forever for the coin to moon again.

I sold all my coins then, gain in some and lose in some before the market turns a deep red.

Started fish farming and I bought a truck for transport business. I recouped back my capital now with the truck and currently earning 500k+ on it monthly. Inline with some other businesses.

Crypto is all about knowin d right time to buy. Its d babsic knowledge. I have other plans also i will start workin on later in near future.
And i guess now that u re atleast living the dreams u can afford 100k date?

Bayur01:
2m + in naira. Yeap shitcoin buh we made money from it and many more. I wish u best of luck in cryto. I once do cryto trading and I made good moeny before the market turns red.
Know when to buy and when to sell and don't rely on that to make money in 5 years time . Exploit legit business opportunities around you and thank me later.

I dont trade, i just hold
I once had 35k usd in verge but i didnt sell, now its arnd 1k usd. Now in bear market and i bought many more. Well like i said its all gamble and lets see how it turns. But you think i shld hold my money in bank while i look for other things to do?

Bayur01:
Future plan and investment is cryto right....lwkmd...he is buying cryto coins to blow in five years time. When they are local farm product he can buy and sell in 2-3months time with much low risk.

Soya beans @december to this period have increase by 40% profit, dry groundnut have increased by 50% profit, red oil loading e.t.c. this is heat period you no fit buy ice block @#80 and resel it @#150 In areas were there are no light abi.

Person wey they think of cryto as investment in this current time unlike before oo doesnt know anything about bizness And investment in real world.

You know all when it comes to investment?

Bayur01:
To me this is wrong, why borrow a car to go on a date?
Even yourself borrowing cloth to go on a date is wrong too. You suppose to wash and iron the one you have. Package yourself well with the little you have and you will be respected. Stop seeing yourself as cheap and living cheap like you claimed but add value to yourself with the little you have.
For you to borrow cloth means you wanna "impress", for you to even go with 2k equally means u wanna "impress" but you couldn't afford more than that not that you can't spend more than that.


People like you are the ones that will spend lot of money to buy new cloth and shoe beacause of a date[ . if you av money. Whereas, a sharp and broke nigga will just use sweet talk to control the babe come in house and have fun without spending upto 1k self.

I am cheap and i live cheap. I can say that now, cuz thats my reality. Maybe things wud change later on, i dont know and thats outside my control, but i derive joy in things other than things that re material. For instance i love listening to the sound of a running river, i love seeing d smile of a baby.

Bayur01:
Let me have the list of coins you bought? And from which exchanger platform you bought them...

I will tell you if you will make money through this in five years or not...
I sold hydro(333,333), organic and many more token worth 2 million plus then. Hydro which I received as free airdrop on 3 diff accounts.

If cryto is what u plan will lift you up in 5 years to come then I can boldly tell you to work on your mentality and exposure.

I don't have issue with your 2k date. We spend base on our class and taste e.t.c but your mentality towards life is poor. You in your former post tagged yourself cheap and claims you live cheap( that's a very bad qualification of yourselve because it will cloud your judgement and dampen your aspirations).

Then your stance saying 2k date is the cool date is wrong, it can be below 2k or above 2k depending on your pocket. Inshort no standard amount just spend within your class and no over do for any girl because she will still open leg for another guy.

2m usd?
I hold Skycoin and OST and i use binnance. Small bags of verge in bittrex.
You see, it took me about 7pages b4 i cud talk about crypto which i really didnt want to. I had to make mention of that cuz pple think i dont have a life. Same thing i think u re assuming. And you shld understand that for me to know about crypto, i am atleast exposed enuf to know about some other things. Cased closed.
And oh..hydro is a shitcoin

ImaIma1:
Their is a time for everything. A time to save and a time to spend.

If you invite someone out on a a date, it is doesn't seem like a time to save.

Some people are making it seem like eating on a date is an abomination... that it is gluttonous. Someone even said he would order doughnut and water even without asking. The orientation is different.

And i think there is a misconception about the word "date". It seems there is another meaning in Nigerian English these days.

Well i had to google it, cus i see u re interpreting everything in terms of food.

olaboy1:
OP don’t let anyone misstate your frugal lifestyle as stinginess, it’s the Nigerian mentality creeping in. I know someone popping champagne during his paid job, only for him to start begging for money 2 weeks after loosing that job.

It’s the Nigerian style to shame and punish you for your frugality in one of the poorest countries on earth. I can assure you that your mentality will take you to a higher ground and don’t let the nay sayers change your mindset towards money, remember what they say about money in economics “a scarce commodity”.

Here in Europe a date is just a cup of coffee, please don’t let those hungry mofos convince you otherwise. If you are a serial dater like me, you would run into some dates where you or the girl just don’t feel any sparks, so it’s better to keep the spendings very basic on a first date.

You get a +1 rep from me for your attitude towards money and future plans and investment.

Thanks for the props bro. Really appreciated. Fake pple here acting like we re on a 700usd minimum wage and shìt

GreenWhiteGreen:
Just admit you are broke and stop talking about saving money for some bushittt investment.

Ive admitted to this already, i aint denying it.

speed99:
Good day.
I understand you are a gentleman and have an acceptable level of self awareness and education. With this in mind, were you truly comfortable borrowing a shirt from your neighbor for a date? After the date, why were you disturbed, worried about your "reputation"
Would it not be self denial not to tell yourself a simple fact? Or, "creased" clothes? Perhaps what you made up for in frugality you had so lost in tact and wit? We aren't perfect, it's not about who is right but what is right .. enjoy your sojourn

Pple borrow cars to go on a date, so whats d big deal?

Acidosis:
So after making all the crypto billions, you will still settle for 2k dates? Some people had already achieved your 5 year targets, and they have chosen to raise their game. You cannot force a 2k date on everyone. With 2k, you won't even get a plate of food in some restaurants. Life is in classes, so is our pockets. Like I said in your previous thread, how much you spend on your date isn't so much of an issue for me, but seeing how you sat to calculate a 2k expense with no room for contingencies shows an innate issue. You need to fight it.

All is still a gamble, but if i ever achieve my target, become a millionaire, then i can do whatever the Bleep i want. I can choose to go on dates with empty pocket or i can choose to go on with whatever amount i want to. But for now i need to be sagacious in my spending hence the cap.