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acedsportsng:
Okay. I will create the group and drop the link here

hi, I'm having issues logging on to the WhatsApp group can you send thwlibk Or number to my email
nonsoflora2@gmail.com

acedsportsng:
I'm having a problem sending through email guys. I'm thinking of opening a telegram group, it will be easier for me.

What do you guys think?

hey dear, what about through WhatsApp?

Richdad50:
No woman deserves this level of open shame even if it as a result of cheating. A real man breaks a cheating relationship without much ado or noise. He quietly walks away to safe his pride and that of the cheater.

#Richdad

I like you

You seem like an easygoing guy

why do you post those pictures after all your comments though?

UyaiIncomparabl:
I'll recheck on the Personality types.

Lol. I'm not choleric. I don't care about leadership, nor being bossy. I'm very non-challant

I'm Mel-Phleg.

mel- phleg is infj in 16 personality types
from some of your past topics I doubt you are an infj
Infjs are known as the counsellors.

I could be wrong though

nonchalant is a good way to describe phleg-chlors . The choleric nature doesn't seek leadership per see and is fluid or like water but can be very stubborn and sarcastic when they need too. they are also funny ( in a nerdy way).Some people also think they are lazy or take time to make decisions. Its not really true. They just like to take their time to consider every possibility in sight to arrive at the best possible decision. They are logical thinkers too and creative. They are also very intelligent too. Albert Einstein is a good example

If it won't be too much to ask dear, I would like you to google INFJ and INTP ( phlegmatic choleric) and get back to me .

Its important to be sure of your type from there you will know how to deal with the world.

UyaiIncomparabl:
The strong head no be here o.

My personality type or temperament?

well there is there is a 16 personality type theory by Carl Jung and there is the temperament theory by Tim lahaye ( choleric , melancholic, sanguine, phlegmatic

although I think you are a phlegmatic - choleric

am I correct?

ubunja:
if Davido proposed you would you turn him down?

ahahah ubunja

please don't kee me with laughter this morning

This strategy was what we used in jss1 to win argument " if 2face propose shebi you wee say yes" lool

Baba just take your L and go

omg
you mean Jeff "nerdy" bezos takes nude pics too hahaha
wow
Kongi is a freaking bastard mehn
turning big men into small boys

ubunja:
so you can't explain your attack on celeb GFs?

Jealousy will end you. No celeb will ever date you. Forget and Die

see this one o

looool

the best you had to say was "no celeb would ever date me " hahaha like seriously

I mean I always knew you weren't that smart but with this comment you've just taken stupidity to a whole new level

2buffagain:
Madam, you are being illogical.
What is this "test with suffering" you are talking about?
Explain further how I was "testing her with suffering" and then maybe I will answer your question.

I'm not against being careful for gold diggers

I mean , they are everywhere
Even me as a lady won't like fake friends who are only with me for what they can get.

Nothing wrong with observing someone you are about to get married to closely too.

However I don't understand how you offered assistance to someone you claim to care about and were still hoping she would reject it to pass some test.

I mean you said she was I dire need at that time.
If my friend or partner is in dire need of money and I'm capable of helping, the last thing on my mind would be a test of that sort to prove loyalty or something else

Many people would totally fail that test not because they are gold diggers but because they wouldn't expect such test at such situations from a friend or boyfriend.

If she stole your money or was too demanding that's a different case but she was in dire need of assistance

In my short sojourn in life I've met many people who reject presents at first instance to appear modest.

To me it doesn't prove anything and only shows a fake and pretentious nature.

while some others are just too timid.

I see people testing "wife material" by how well she can peel cassava , fry garri and all sorts of hard labour.

Definitely , a wife is first a home keeper before anything else. However the world is changing and a lot of things are so unnesary.

You do not test a gold digger by her refusal of money you gave her. You test her by how she manages the money you spend on her. what she spends it on. How she treats you when she needs money vs when she doesn't.


Many Nigerian babes are now very smart.
shebi na to reject money , sweep house enter main road , wash all the clothes in your box and say yes sir even when he spits on you. Any lady can pretend to have these qualities to get the ring.

you understand ?

Also I find it distasteful when men describe other women they had intimate relationships with in the past as b1tches, cunts etc.

I mean, maybe they treated you bad but you chose to be with them and sometimes like attracts like.

ubunja:
so you are better because you only attacked the GFs of celebrities??
What a dead way to think.

we all definitely can't have the same opinion

You think my opinion is crazy and I think you are a frustrated beta male seeking relevance on nairaland with your wack ideas.

Take it easy boo and don't drink panadol for other peoples headaches

ciao.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Every frigging day! The friction is just too much. We have tooooo much issues I can't deal. He's too argumentative, defensive and thinks he's better than you in all ramifications, never agrees to your opinion, Infact he knows too much. I'm like that too, and that causes too much friction. I don't want two perfectionists as partners. I'm seriously pressed. We have too many differences than similarities, and that's not too good.

But then, I think he's the most sincerest, blunt, truthful and faithful person I've ever known and will ever know in my entire life. I don't think I'll ever meet someone as sincere and true to me as he is. I think he's the best, truth be told. He's literally my best friend and supporter, but I think he deserves better, maybe not better as you may think, but someone better to accept his perfectionism and flaws too, likewise me.

I don't know what to do.

hmmm truthful and faithful na wetin me I dey find but that strong head ehn I understand where you are going

what's your personality type?

CreamyBanana:
i go soon marry am. i love her like die. i never dey ok financially but i don save wella and i go marry am this year.

awwww
Im so happy for you both

its quite rare to see a guy still crazy about his girlfriend after nine years

sha don't let the love change when money comes in

ubunja:
the irony.
You bash women but complain when other men bash women. I laugh.

I bash women?

haha I laugh in Spanish
there is a difference between romancelanders who call all women hoes ( including their mothers) and me describing a certain percentage according to the way they have projected their image

If I call someone who steals for a living an armed robber , am I bashing him?

if I call someone who makes a living from being a nusinace and terrorizing the neighbourhood a lout , am I bashing him?

If i call those who make promises they know they won't fulfil every four years politicians , am I bashing them? uhn

stop being an hypocrite.

2buffagain:
I wonder why women feel it is okay to shiit-test men.
Obviously it is to determine if the person you are about to give the better parts of yourself to is actually worth it.

So if you do that to men, you'd be a fool to think men of high value are not testing you right back.
Even God will test you.
You want to test and you don't want to be tested. Are you a lecturer?

oga , I asked you a question which you cleverly avoided my question

So I ask again , if you were marrying dangotes daughter or DJ cuppy , would you carry out such shitty test on her? would you test her with suffering?

once again I pity your babe. ciao

Amakavula:
Thanks babe, for the compliment. I take everything you said with keen interest. Appreciate the love, I was just tired of the woman bashing.. " we are sluts , today. Whores tomorrow ".. see if someone calls you a slut everyday and you agree you render him powerless.


I just needed to make them aware why we can't give them a chance. most are just low lives with no ambition.

No woman wants to be trapped, "making it "
with a loser , we want more than just the lazy word of love they throw around.

exactly
many are just low lives with a narrowed vision

You see ehn babe, those guys who come here to bash women na them gangan dey worship fine girls

It is the frustration that leads them to talk like that

most just say the opposite of what they do in real life to appear as alpha males or like players but you see ehn , real players and alphas don't bash women at all. If anything they know how to make women feel special because they understand that the more comfortable a person is, the easier it is to exploit their weaknesses.

Just ignore these guys.

No one takes nairaland romance section too seriously not even the regular commenters. lol

stagger:
Ibani and Igbo.

Igbo was King Jaja's native language as an indigene of Amaigbo, Imo State before he was captured as a slave. Ibani is the language spoken in Bonny, which Jaja picked up growing up as a slave in the Anna Pepple House before he got his freedom. He had a personality clash with Oko Jumbo, and both led the 2 factions of the Pepple House before Jaja decided to resettle in present day Opobo with his own faction.

So technically speaking, the Opobo people are Igbos by origin and many of my friends from there are all Igbo speakers, even though there is now a conscious attempt to deny their Igbo ancestry.

did you get all these from studying history in school or you read random books?

2buffagain:
Men just need to get on their grind.


Don't go out seeking relationships with women. Don't take women seriously unless SHE proves herself different.
Most won't stick around when serious trials come, so you can't take an attache like that seriously.

The girl I'm dating long-term now earned that spot by refusing to take my money when I offered it to her while she was going through a tough time. She earned my respect by her self-restraint...otherwise she would have been one of the many faceless cunts/mouths I have brutalized, poured in and discarded.

I pity the girl she doesn't know the kind of person she wants to end up with

A man that refers to other women in this manner.

I wonder why men think it is OK to test a woman with suffering.



oga tell us the truth, if she was dangotes daughter or bill gate's daughter would you test her with suffering?

na wa ooo babe
see as you just dey write with so much confidence gbaaaaaraaa like that

Yes women are naturally attracted to power even in the animal kingdom the strongest male among the herd gets all the babes because they believe they will get strong and healthy babies in return when they mate with him.

Same way when a woman sees a potential mate searches for security. Security financial, emotional etc. she wants a man who is strong enough ( confident and financially stable to defend her and her ofsprings)

That of cause is nature

The same way men are is naturally gravitate and go crazy for the most beautiful and curvy lady in a group. What they see is someone that is feminine enough to reproduce beautiful ofsrpings for them

along the line though things change. A lot of women are becoming independent (especially In more developed countries ) and just need a man to show them love and support .

same way men are beginning to want more than a trophy wife that they can show off to their friends and looks good in pictures

I know you write to attack those guys who sleep on romance section all day and get their self esteem from bashing women.

However with this your write up you are only reiterating their beliefs.

NA MONEY SURE PASS.

ALL WOMEN ARE HOES AND AFTER THE MONEY.

JUST MAKE MONEY AND ALL WOMEN WILL BE AT YOUR BECK AND CALL.

You are an intelligent lady as I've seen from your posts.

now take a good look at the kind of airheads who flock around the likes of davido , flavour, 2face, and other stars you mentioned. Yes ,I called them airheads. It won't take one more a few seconds to be around these types to know that their self worth and validation comes from their ability to grab a "succesful" man. Even if they are suffering and smiling

Now do you really think you are half of the worlds population ( which o believe are women) any good by comparing them with these few women you just mentioned.

Do you really think you are doing your brilliant self any good by comparing yourself to them.

Yes the ability to be a provider is a paramount issue , but there are many women who look beyond that.

Life isnt black and white my dear. It comes in shades of grey.

A lot of men don't know this but as they hammer on character being important many ladies too consider it.

So as a guy reading this before you say your girl has bad character , check yourself. Find out if you are also husband material. Do some self analysis and know if your kids can look up to you and copy some of your habits.

I hope you would consider the depth of mating, relationship love and marriage and not just scratch the surface based on something you read and your little observations.

peace .

AmConfused:
exactly. you're very right. You just described perfectly the situation I'm in.
so now I'm supposed to let go of someone that's been completely good to me for two years for no just cause other than the way I feel. Easier said than done ☹️☹️
I actually do love and care for the guy.. just that he loves me more while sometimes I'm just indifferent.

I've tried to be honest to him, giving him reasons why we can't work. for where? every reason I give he gives another to debunk mine. he desperately wants me to stay and the way he treats me right dissolves my defences.

why exactly do you want to break up with this nice guy?
is he boring or to timid ?

or is it his Intellect or ' za oza room' ?

kbk online helped you to raise 70m through his platform and you blocked him without letting him in on further events

why didn't you cry out to daddyfreeze when you had the problem. afterall Daddfreeze also has an online platform.

Humans are wicked
you say you are running away for security reasons

abeg is the person who helped you raise the money also a security threat to you that you blocked him?
The people who contributed nko, don't they deserve to know every step you take to make the money is spent well

I still strongly believe this man is a scammer and is just using public sentiments to syphone money

He only came out to diffuse the tension

Another Williams uchemba

humans are gullible aswear

That will be one of the clause I'll set before getting married to any man.

it will be vice versa

It goes beyond reading phone messages

Its a matter of trust. Trust is the major building block for any relationship from start to finish.

If you can keep secrets from me and I from you, how can we be one flesh.

The reason many relationships are situationships and spouses are flatmates is lack of trust and commitment.


We live in an age where people are public with their private parts but private with their phones ( a gadget, material thing, inanimate object)

OneCorner:
Every madman or woman is always dropped from a Benz and it’s a yahoo boy that drives it

you dey mind these yeye bloggers

na them be the real yahoo with their fake story

nurey:
yes I still do

how much per bag ? how many paint of garri in a bag ? where do you stay?

nurey:
A reliable product with solid engine but still body falls off and deshapes easily in minor brushing

OK

Do you still sell the bags of garri

nurey:
There are some certain Nissan years that have issues. You also have to note that Toyota is still top in reliability hence reason why it is expensive and holds its resale value.

but same can't be said for Nissan which is actually better and more rugged than Toyota in certain segment.

1. Nissan Murano. came purely with CVT transmission people didn't realize CVT is different from Automatic so the pour ATF fluid instead or CVT fluid hence the gear pack up in no time. Though the gear from factory too dey one kind due to the fact that Nissan is a pioneer of CVT transmission but as time went by they perfected it in later models.

2. Nissan Altima and maxima. the 2002 to 05 years of this Nissan too had CVT that's why it's damn cheap the gear too dey pack up with or without regular recommended maintenance. before those year and after those years were OK. Apart from transmission those year had some other minor factory design flaws.

3. Nissan quest 2005 to 2010 this one too has CVT that's the major fault has a known factory defect that was latter recalled. You can know the affect specimen by running a VIN check.

All other Nissan are good but are cheap due to the body, a lot of they just fall apart on heavy use especially when used in bad road, body starts falling like London bridge.

There are many Nissan that actually hold value as close to Toyota as it can be.

1. Nissan Xtrail very solid CUV and expensive as tokunbo and Naija used.

2. Nissan Sentry with the QD engine this one doesn't fall apart like it's close siblings I wonder why.

3. Nissan pathfinder. 2003 and 2004 especially, them cost like mad and they are indestructible (metaphor)

When buying a Nissan always check the body for rust and be weary of deformity if panel beater hit the boot for adjustment, front bumper go fall of, if he hit the door suspension go bend nah joke ooo

what of Nissan sunny?

LastDance:
Marry me or i move.

Dear ishilove there is more to their relationship than meets the eye, you can't use the relationship between Charley and his wife to determine relationships of nowadays.

You can imagine ladies like toke makinwa or Tonto dikeh giving their men the marry me or i move ultimatum.

So you expect every guy in a relationship to just get married to their girlfriends, even those ladies with questionable characters or bad traits.

The reason why Charley boy eventually got married to her was because he saw the very good traits in her, she was not like the financial parasites we have nowadays.

The epic cheaters that sells their vagina to the highest bidders for money.

The wife of Charley boy was not a cheat but the ladies of nowadays will actually tell about two to four men the "marry me or i leave ultimatum'

So any mugu that falls becomes the highest bidder.

Listen and listen good, No man on earth will see a very good Lady and not plan on marrying her.

If you are a lady and your boyfriend is taken too long to propose or he isn't showing signs of commitments, it is not because he is not ready for marriage, It is simply because he is having second thoughts on you.

Charley boy had no second thought on his wife and that was why he went on to marry her and as you can see, Their marriage is going strong.

you simply didn't comprehend what charly boy's wife or ishilove was saying at all

"Marry me or I move"
its clear
if you think I'm not good enough , let me go and be available to other serious people. No one is forcing anyone to marry anybody.

if you think her attitude is bad breakup with her let her move on with other options.
You want to receive wifely benefits from a lady you won't marry abi?

I blame women who get carried away only to find out after two years if sex, cooking. cleaning that they are friends with benefits.

codemaniacs:
the type of affiliate marketing I started with was based on me getting commissions from the products my referrals where buying and the next type I did was based on PPS which is Pay Per Signup which means I get a commission for every person that signs up using my affiliate link, referrals from the United States where worth $5 per sign up so I focused on getting referrals from the U.S using ads and I spent $50 daily on ads for some days and got 2 signups daily ($10) but $50 for $10 revenue was a bad ad spend.

I noticed that most of the people making money online own the products or were into dropshipping which mean buying products from china for $20 and selling it around $70 - $150, I did not have the money for dropshipping so I chose coding.

there is no goldmine anywhere.. if there was a goldmine people especially Nigerians will keep it to themselves.

so to answer your question? I didn't make much money because

- I was a novice (I'm still a novice with experience).

- I did not know the right ad to buy.

- I did not know anything about niche marketing.

- I did not know where to advertise my affiliate links.

- I did not know that if your ad is profitable the CPA (Cost Per Action) companies can stop your ad and use it for themselves.

- I did not know that the people making the most money own products.

- I did not know about dropshipping.

- I did not know how to create a product.

- I did not own a popular website with thousands or millions of daily visitors.

- I did not own a popular product.

- I did not know how to build a customer base using free products.

- I did not know that most of the people who buy ads had loads of money. for example, I was spending $50 daily or sometimes $300 for 5 days on an ad that was getting me U.S signups and there was someone else buying that particular ad so I guess I was frustrating the person because the person bought it for 1 month and when that month finished, the person immediately bought it again for 4 months, I realized I didn't have the same capital as that person and that ad was the only one getting the signups.

- I did not know it was better to blog about the affiliate products that I was marketing which means creating and owning a blog for affiliate marketing in general or that specific affiliate product so that I don't spend much on ads.

I did not know a lot things and this is after 4 - 6 years and spending most of the ₦450,000 start up capital I had buying ads. so I would always advise anyone to get a job because online you're competing with different people especially if you want to earn in dollars..

its better to focus on your own country and dominate locally first.

let me stop here....

thanks for this detailed explanation.
I wish you goodluck in your future online endeavours

codemaniacs:
over 4 years ago at the beginning I was doing affiliate marketing (but not seriously as in everyday) and I made over $210 in about 2 years from spamming my affiliate links on Nigerian blogs and some foreign blogs.

I was also learning how to code which taught me how to create mobile apps and web templates that I could sell, but each time I submitted my apps and templates were always rejected.

2 years ago I tried adult affiliate marketing and made over $23 but it needs to be over $100 for me to be able to withdraw it.

last year, I decided to try coding templates and apps again and submit them to free directories and surprisingly they got accepted.

so to answer your question, I am not selling anything yet.

I am building a website that may or may not bring revenue, right now I have over 130+ active users using my templates and apps, I will create premium versions of those templates and try to sell it to those 130+ active users who are already using the free templates.

hmmm a long journey without much money made

why do you think you didn't make money from affiliate marketing though? I see people advertising everywhere that its a goldmine

codemaniacs:
if you want to be an entrepreneur in Nigeria then its better to be an offline entrepreneur.

online entrepreneurship is very difficult and takes time if you don't have capital or time to advertise yourself.

if you have a shop (offline) in a populated area then u can make money.

I've been trying to be an online entrepreneur for over 4 years and I haven't made monthly revenue.

a job is better unless you have sponsors.

what are do you sell?

sometimes I wonder why people do this to themselves because of a degree. I mean failure is bad especially when your mates that you played and studied with seem to be doing better academically.

However when compared to business men who lost their whole capital , investment or even other peoples money because of a bad decision in business or unforseen I feel getting a 2.2 or 3rd is nothing compared to this.

You can't dust yourself up she. you get an F or 3rd class then how do you want to face life.

You think school is hard , wait till you graduate and face real life. wait till you graduate and enter the jungle then what you thought was shameful while in school will become child's play. Eye go tear.

You are still eating your parents food and you say you are depressed because you failed a course. Wait till you graduate and no job for a few years. Your once loving parents will be a Thorn in your flesh reminding you of your failure then you will know life isn't a bed of roses.

what am I saying , when one avenue fails its okay to cry but after you cry , pick yourself up and keep pushing.

Its better to fail in school ( in a secured environment, with free pocket money etc) and learn from it than to come out and fail.

TechCapon:
her intention was pure no doubt. The problem was that when it wasn't working, she should have said the truth instead of telling endless lies to cover it up.

Do you know how many billionaires who have gotten away with such things

she was probably just among the few unlucky ones. Maybe she didn't settle or silence the right people or took certain people for granted like the story of Barry minkow.

Nbote:
How she was able to pull off dis scale of fraud with d public eye on her still baffles me.. She was using bottom power jare.. Becos it's obviously only bottom power dan can make a man not use his brain well

so the biggest male fraudsters in history also used bottom power abi

she obviously used something greater which has been proven over time by conmen to work on even the smartest people-
Appealing to the inner greed of people.

These rich men are the biggest con artist but its also easy to scam someone when he feels he is untouchable.
Pride goeth before a fall.