₦airaland Forum

ImaIma1:
Forget all this your protest and placard carrying. Men are waking up but they are still marrying Nigerian women. All this fussing can't change it.

You can make a point like a sensible man that you are trying to portray yourself to be without sounding bitter and offensive

ImaIma1:
Just look at how verbally abusive and insulting you sound. And you think you are better than the Nigerian women you slander.

The opinion of an egocentric chauvinist doesn't count. You can marry a woman from Byzantium for all i care.

JoannaSedley:
I was waiting for you sir. You have insulted women enough on this forum so amma ditch it out to gauge your feelings.

Seem I hit below the belt, innit?

bukatyne:
@bold:

What did the men contribute in this scenario?

JoannaSedley:
This lazy boy again. A lazy boy from a lazy family raised by a lazy Mum, Aunt, sisters and grandmums.
Every women in this boy's family are so lazy even the girls he dates and sleeps with. His disdains for women obviously stems from the lazyass female species that birthed and nurtured him

I creatively spits on your female genealogy for doing a bad job

ImaIma1:
It is men in this country.

A lot of them get married and become lazy bums. Their wives wash their clothes, takes care of the house and kids and still works and brings money home...sometimes even more money. And the men will still not be satisfied.

Theyoungmatron:
|Every other things like what When you are not feeding your family as a man, it nullifies every other thing you are doing. A man that waits for a woman to feed him. A man that shares his god giving responsibility of putting food on the table with his wife, that man is less OF a man. The new generation of men has watered down their responsibilities to the extent of delegating FEEDING, SHELTER AND SCHOOL FEES TO THEIR WIVES and still expect to be respected.

Let the wife provide the money, let the man buy and cook, i think the woman will agree to this since we are in the era of delegation

LilMissFavvy:
I don't know your background. In the background I come from, women bring money to the table. Women bear children. Women care for the kids. Most women care for their homes, while the busy ones pay a househelp. Most women contribute money to build houses with their hubby. Why do men keep talking about bride price? BULLLSSHIT Some bride prices are so meager and cheap, some low key weddings are so wretched, yet a man will still brag that he spent money. Some women contribute to foot wedding bills, yet at the end it is a woman that has to LOSE HER FATHERS NAME to bear the name of a strange man.

spongeisback:
All this boys that come on the Internet to bash Nigerian women I wonder if they're normal or just plain stupid. Yeah yeah women are crazy but what about men? What about me and you Nigerian women are gold diggers please where's the gold they're digging?this country WHERE MAJORITY ARE POOR. most of them grew up in homes that their mothers are breadwinners but the whole "man code" bullsh>t won't let them say the truth. If their mothers didn't struggle they wouldn't go to school or even eat, many of them still eat mama thank you till today. They see the struggles and pain of an average Nigerian woman but they still bash and abuse her. Dear women don't let this ignorant mofos push you or make you feel inferior or inadequate we see you and your struggles everyday.

breakerofchains:
Nothing.

So can you gtfoh...

My sisters above, whenever a man asks you that stupid question, tell him "nothing". He should go Bleep himself.

The last thing you want is for a male creature to put you in a corner where you feel the need to prove your worth.

We don't do that here.

Gaggi:
As for a wife:
1. she cares for you and your kids if any.
2. She helps you become a father, if you have kids.
3. She is a confidant and is there during good and bad times, she cries and laughs with you.
4. She ensures your money is not frittered away, at least for the sake of the future of the kids.
5. Lastly, takes care of your sexual needs.

As for a girlfriend.
1. She takes care of your sexual needs.
2. Refer to #1
3. Refer to #1
4. Refer to #1

bukatyne:
@genq:

I could flip the narrative and say because a number of women can cater for themselves, they really do not need men.

Here in Nigeria, most earning wives jointly provide with the husbands in addition to handling most of the chores.

In fact, if all a man can bring to the table today is provision of money, he is fast becoming a liability.

Men particularly need a working marriage for old age.

Ranchhoddas:
Fool.
There are over 2000 dollar billionaires in the world. You mentioned less than 10 and say it is most.
Oya take am!

Ranchhoddas:
Are these the only billionaires in the world?

What a foolish thread.

goneinahrtbeat:
My husband just confessed to me that he cheated. He's really sorry and says he won't do it again. He doesn't know why he did it but it happened twice with the same person( Does a person make a mistake twice?) I'm hurting really bad right now and I feel I wasn't enough for him and that's why it happened. Before now, our relationship was wonderful. So much so that people envied us, friends and family. Till tomorrow, they think we're perfect together. We really loved each other but I guess I loved him more than he loves me and he knows. I'm willing to forgive him and make our marriage work no matter how hard it is. Somehow, I feel I should met this person he cheated on me with. Do u think it's wise for me to meet this person? I'm just curious to know what she looks like. Will it hurt me more or give me some kind of closure? Pls advice. I'm devasted

ifyalways:
Most often than not, it's people that are "suffering/enduring/managing" their marriages o ; case study NLD.

My Mercedes is bigger than yours mentality

Whatever floats anyone's boats sha