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Born2Breed:
A woman only behaves like this if 1)There is someone else in the picture. 2) You did something that has really offended her.

Sit her down and talk but start like this...Present her with a gift and then start the conversation with an apology..."pet name" ( I know I might have offended you,please forgive me...)

Lmao. He should present a DISRESPECTFUL woman he is housing and feeding with gifts. All because he is deprived of a stale fishy vag

Rajosh:
Forget that thing. Lukaku is as useless as the Letter P in psychology.

Lool
But there's a reason why the Brits chanted this for him:
"Romelu Lukaku
He’s our Belgian scoring genius
He’s got a 24inch pen!s
Scoring all the goals
Bellend by his toes"

Lukaku leaving is the beginning of the end of Man U.

Mutendiwashe:
I recently read a story of a woman who wanted to divorce her husband because he was being unfaithful and abusive. To my surprise many women were calling her weak for making such a decision. The woman in question is financially stable and the husband was actually living off her. I feel she was justified because who wants to continue a life of buying her husband underwear so that he can take it off for another woman? My question is why are other women willing to tolerate an unfaithful and abusive husband rather than divorce and start over?

Now this statement I highly doubt.

What kind of senseless post is this.
Of course it's normal! It's only natural that she had a househelp growing up and now that she's married, her dustband has resumed the duties of the househelp.
What a lucky man.

Amuocha:
UK is useless as Theresa May's Brexit bill

If you live in this glorious garbage bin called Nigeria, you have no right to call any other country "useless".
Just sayin'

alphaNomega:
Canada is a more regulated country than the U.K. There are already steps to tighten their immigration policies especially from Third World nations.

As they should

Mancala:
Contrary to popular opinion, there are not that many Nigerians resident in the UK relative to other nationalities. Not sure why you think there was ever an incidence of mass migration. I don't think that has ever been the case. It only seems that way becasue there are concentrations of Nigerians in certain areas of the country. The Nigerian population in the UK is estimated at between 180k and 230k give or take. Poland, India and Pakistan have the largest populations of foreign born citizens in the U.K. with the Indian population estimated at about 1.4 million.

My broda don't say what you don't know.
Have you attended FoL in London? If you see crowd, your body go shock! Have you attended a match in the UK where Nigeria is playing? Have you seen the number of rccg churches in the UK? Have you wondered how everyone in Nigeria seems to have one or two friends /family members in the UK? That country is currently holding the largest chunk of all our citizens abroad.

Tina26:
you see where you missed it. Canada is targeting a certain calibre of people who are the working class ( express entry) who are already rich and comfortable in nigeria with also students from rich backgrounds. there is no chance for visit visa cum illegal immigrant. being an illegal in canada is same as suicide. the uk system allowed every tom dick and harry nigeria to come in doing yahoo, scam and illegal immigration. so mr man nigerians cannot cast canada

Certain calibre of people indeed let's watch and see..

Massive Burna Fan
But prefer his old hits to the new ones

Rock Your Body
No No No
Touch Your Toes
Like To Party
Soke

It is undeniable that in the last 5 years, there has been an upsurge in emigration of Nigerians to Canada - this can be likened to the mass emigration to the UK which took place in the early 2000s (and is still ongoing amongst doctors today).

The UK (especially London) has now become an extension of Lagos - Nigerians turned areas like Peckham and Woolwich into Lagos-like slums and UK lost its glory in the eyes of some of us back here in Nigeria.

As mass emigration grew at an alarming rate, the UK then decided to tighten their immigration policies, scraping the post-study Visa thus sending students back as soon as their studies were over - This in turn made Nigerians retort back by somewhat "boycotting" the UK - People began to speak on how the UK is useless, how people are doing menial jobs etc.. youtubers and nairalanders posting content to discourage people from relocating etc.. (classic case of rejecting before being rejected)

Today, we see the same cycle being repeated with the mass emigration of Nigerians to Canada. It is fair to say that in the next 20 years, it is highly possible that mega cities like Toronto and Vancouver will be laden with Nigerian-infested slums similar to Peckham and Woolwich in London. Then the over-familiarity will launch the same vicious cycle of bad-mouthing Canada.

After Nigerians ruin Canada and Canada begins to close its gates to us, Nigerians will once again flock to the next "trendy" country and the cycle continues..

sooperrescue:
What I was expecting from this post was that it uses this oil and it works with that fuel. If they are not available, then it is not for Nigeria. The car recommends Total Activa and it is also Turbo powered which the Op has cleverly omitted. This post is not for the Nigerian market. There's no fuel and engine oil for the car. It is time we settle for Nigerian spec.

Which one is Nigerian spec again?
I only posted this to showcase this beautiful ride.
Note: not all Nairaland visitors are living in Nigeria.

For as long as wicked lazy housewives keep enslaving children (all in the name of househelp) things like this will continue to happen.

GloShare:
How many days will it trend before he's forgotten?

Sowore should move on after his release. Nigerians don't deserve help.

Sad but true

The most pitiful thing is that those who participated in arresting Sowore are also victims of the failed government and systematic rot.
Yet, at the command of their slave masters, they arrest (and possibly torture) a man endeavouring to set them free. The black race is cursed beyond redemption

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Peugeot 3008 rear
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How does the Peugeot 3008 drive?
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How much does the Peugeot 3008 cost?
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MobilityExpress:
That's how many of these people live fake lives. They will go to Shopping Malls and see items with ridiculous expensive prices and they will rush to pay. But when they see corn seller on the road struggling to feed her 7 children that calls this same corn N100, instead of them to pay immediately, that's when they will remember they have PhD in economics and start pricing useless price like, if e gree 3 for N50, I will buy. Pathetic. Some will be pricing car like Akara but when they go to places like Elizade or Coscharis and those ones use price cut their neck, they will be smiling sheepishly and won't talk like somebody wey get boil for tongue

LordKO:
Conceitedness is God's gift to small-minded people like you and your ilk. I mean, it smacks of mental parochialism for you to continually dismiss and deride others or cast aspersions on them, either directly or indirectly, just because they do not share same myopic thoughts like you. In fact, any sane person who reads through that your first post will see that you based your wack submission on assumption - assumption remains the mother of all nonsense. Sane people make contributions based on fact available, not assumption.

Next time avoid deriding others all the name of trying to appear wiser and civil than them. Who conferred you title of the wisest and most civil person alive?

The OP's wife isn't a deity, as someone stated, and deserves no worship. Self-esteem and politeness beget respect, and respect is reciprocal. People should stop enabling nonsense under any guise.

Stop being conceited.

Thank you!

Donald3d is so effeminate to me. Spilling trash to appease women on this site I doubt if its actually a man behind that account.

A fool is often "wise" in his own eyes.

sassysure:
I wonder why u said only experienced married men.

Some men are not married yet has more experience in marriage matter than the married ones.
Also why did u exclude women?

Anyway,

I stopped reading at a point.

Ur wife has gotten what she worked for, a ring on her hand.
When I saw, she cook for me, do this and that, I knew she is out to hook up by any means necessary.
She never did hate her ex remember?
Just that the guy don't want to settle down so it's possible She was still attached to him emotionally. Okafor's law may have played out significantly and she got pregnant, pressured u into marriage. Marriage after two yrs of graduation cos she was pregnant and u did wedding of 2 million with borrowed funds.whom were u trying to impress?
What manner of man are u?

Don't u have a voice?
What makes you the man of the house if u can't stamp your authority?
I am not saying beat or abuse her but talk like the head of ur family. Let ur wife stop trampling on your manhood.
Her excuse that her ex called her first is extremely childish.
So u guys still keep in touch with ex's?
There is a reason why they are called ex. Unless you are colleagues, u guys don't have anything in common.
That was where u would have scolded her seriously still keeping in touch with her ex, yet u are apologising.
What are u apologising for. U went to work. Birthdays will continue coming. Is she a kid that put so much meaning into birthday?
Why the fuss?
She has never stopped her relationship with her ex and the guy is ok as long as she dey open her leg.
Now, small soft words from him and she is admitting she never liked ur people.
Pls do give her the needed break.
Don't disturb her during the break and also make sure u provide for the kid, go and see ur child. As her only general things concerning ur kid and go ur way.
If u ignore her( u give her so much attention),she will be confused and start seeking u out.
If she eventually come back for talk, read her the riot act.
The relationship is still early and it's better this early than late.

It's hard but start seeing urself as a single man once again.

If u have the money, do a DNA test to be sure u are not training another man's child.

What a woman!
Her self entitlement is too much and she successfully played u.

U were a fool in love when all the signs are there.
Why will she insult your people? What did they do to her?
Why didn't u call her to order?
Are u even a man?

Some ex will do anything to destabilise ur marriage especially guys if u give them the chance. And they will end up not marrying u.
If ur woman had loved u, she will tell you that her ex is contacting her.
I so much hate pretenders.

I'm a lady but I will say that we naija ladies are mostly pretenders.
The reason why it was said that more than 50% of the first child don't normally belong to the husband. (Na DNA specialist for Lagos talk am o)
Mtcheew

Thank you ma'am for speaking the undiluted truth.

madridguy:
This is not a battle field. Make your point and respect others view of point.

Dude don't try it. Being a simp apologist will always backfire. Those who see evil and sit back without speaking up are just as evil as the perpetrators.

Yes, I know I may come off harsh in my tone but it's because of how deeply passionate I am about this matter.

Society has programmed men to be weak and subject to the fluctuating emotions of women. Don't get me wrong, I love and respect beautiful women who are smart and hardworking (and there are still lots of them around)

But most women we see in this generation lack grace and true inner beauty. Men are getting weaker by the day. The true essence of masculinity is lost and if we continue like this, society will plummet into ... only God knows.

Gloriagee:
He does have dignity, I think. He's just completely stunned by it all. He's the calculating kind - the type that doesn't act till the proverbial straw touches the camel's back. My prayer is that he doesn't snap one day and lose it all.

@op - marriage counselling and yeah that DNA

He has no dignity because he is still living with an abusive woman and asked us how he can CHANGE her.. meaning he wants this sh** to work!

There's no human being in this world that should sit there and allow someone continually abuse them without fighting back. Male or female. Women have taken liberty for way too long because society demonizes men for fighting back.

Worst part is they are in the US where a woman will commit all sorts of atrocities and still have the audacity to call police. Trust me, if she's gonna call the cops, imma make sure that arrest is worthwhile.

Its 2019 fellas, enough of this nonsense. Toxic Femininity is alive and well.

Gloriagee:
Not condoning the knocking out bit at all, but this is cray like is it by force to greet a pastor for God's sake? What kind of rigorous religion are we tryna enforce in this country? Come n greet pastor...I no gree, then it turns to insult. Which one is more important to God - to greet pastor or to treat another human with respect.

Any woman who exhibits such characteristics as the OP's wife seizes to be lady and must be handled like the animal she is.

You guys wanna be equal right? Then you can equally get an ass whooping just like any other dude who tries to disrespect me. Miss me with that bullsh***.

OP has no dignity or self respect.

Anonymus010:
NB: This is
2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense
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Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed).

She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

If this isn't abuse, I don't know what is...

Sorry dude. But if a b!tch tries this sh** with me, il knock her out. What rubbish!

I will keep preaching that every man must #MGTOW.

Most Nigerian women just like OP's wife have the following characteristics:

1. She doesn't work - she's being housed for free by a beta simp husband (who also pays all the Bills + her personal expenses).

2. She can cook but refuses to because of a false sense of "liberation" fuelled by modern day feminism.

3. She cannot do chores and will probably hire househelp even though they live in a rented flat

4. She brings absolutely nothing to the table.

5. Has a culture of "give me" she will demand your time, money and attention. She will not only take away your finances but your self-worth too and gives nothing in return.

6. Full of insults. No manners at all. Can insult your entire lineage at will yet you cannot fight back without being labelled an abusive husband.

7. Will cheat on you (especially if y'all reside in Nigeria).

I thank God for YouTube channels like CoachGregAdams who are unrelentlessy speaking up for us brothers. Men have been shamed and abused to the point of emasculation.

Lastly,

OP are you sure you're the father of that child?

I can't believe in this day and age, a young promising bachelor wants to play stepdad to another man's seed.

Do you know what happened to Zion Williamson's stepdad? - the old man spent years training that boy and making sacrifices for the b*stard and his mother who he married. What did he get in return? Dude made it to the NBA and didn't even acknowledge the old man once. The mother (who did nothing) took all the glory.

Bros, I say all this to say, don't be the clean up guy.
Wise up.

J4JUVENTUS:
No ,I'm not dumb dude..
Didn't you see the part where i wrote "Funny you"

Sorry bros, no vex.

ImaIma1:
That's how you guys sound when you spill the same things. It's good to see you getting worked up over it

Lol. You'll be damned if I get worked up over this trashy post or any other stupid post made by the OP.
This child called LillyVal actually has a thread called "can men make women happy without money?" .. As if it's a man's job to make you wh0rees happy. Women are naturally miserable and discontented creatures and any simp who endeavours to make a woman happy is doing nothing but hitting his empty skull on hard rocks.

sisisioge:
Easy nau...its a joke! Chai...where did your sense of humour travel to?

It's a joke? Wow! you don't say!
This is the funniest sh** I've ever seen in my life!