₦airaland Forum

realtalk19:
I met my neighbour in the compound when I moved in and as such was friendly and nice to her in every way.(she is a stark illiterate that has a ghetto,razz mentality and upbringing)

You are extremely rude for this statement. But to answer your question, simply move out.

zeb04:
too bad for your family.

I was expecting a better come back than that. Lol.

If the reverse was the case, your wife wouldn't hesitate to manipulate you into getting those sycophant inlaws out of the house. You did the right thing.

missjo:
Everyone needs someone to love and be loved by, whether that happens within the context of marriage or via long term relationships,it really does not matter. Men need women for this as much as women need men, it's natural.

As much as you do make some valid points,your tone of delivery is too confrontational especially when you use words like incomplete. This will surely put your target audience on the defensive.
Peace

Thanks missjo, would tone it down a bit. I'm just a passionate guy that's all

zeb04:
look at this idiot.
I should carry my married status on my head. Because I want to please two faceless sons of bitches.


You are a fool .you and Nwanneni. And your sluts of a mother didn’t train any of you right.
Next time I will carry it as plaque .

Lmaooo

I love it when teenage baby mamas with receded hairlines get butt-hurt by the sad truth about their miserable lives.

Zielle:
Won't waste time replying ur comments again

For your own sanity I would advise you don't. You don't want that smoke with me woman. Trust and believe.

zeb04:
I am married, suck on that.

Hahahahhaa. Married indeed.
This child called zeb04 actually believes that portraying herself as a married woman would give credibility to her vacuous statements
Pick yourself up darling, I know nwanneni's comments really hit home

What's happening here
nwanneni don vex o.. lmaoo!

doitforyou:
Also, how can you be an independent thinker when you are parroting the same misogynistic view that a women only has value when she is attached to a man? That's not an independent thought, that's the thought of a brainwashed woman.

Female logic 101: you are brainwashed if you believe your value is attached to a man but you are not brainwashed for believing your value is attached to the false sense of importance you get from an office job where you:
1. While away your precious time in front of a computer screen.
2. Submit report to your boss on a daily basis (probably a Male boss).
3. Get paid 150k - 200k to spend 3/4 of your adult life sat on a desk with your fellow slaves co-workers (who hate your guts are in constant competition with you)
Kudos to you empowered women! The ideologies of your western slave masters is where your value lies!

Zielle:
I dunno bt her career bc don't watch her movies. I cn only speak on what i knw. I sd blessing bc she was all over the news after her breakup wit Niyi Johnson, peeps calling her all sorts of names. I'll call it a blessing if someone dt was once fired nw has a better job (better boss, better pay, happier overall), or someone dt was once sick wit malaria but nw healed, or someone that lost a love nw has a better love... like Toyin. Blessings come in different forms! Anything u desire dt u end up getting is a blessing to u. Marriage is only a blessing if a woman desires it n ends up getting married. Some women don't want to get married or hv kids, believe it or not . Hv a Prof, very intelligent woman in late 30s, Director of a big department, very rich, she is in a relationship but she don't desire marriage or hv kids. Her boyfriend is on the same page, they've been dating for 3yrs but don't wnt marriage or kids. Told my class these things. Believe it or not, plenty of women out there like her! For the ones dt desire marriage, they fink it won't happen to them when it's only matter of time. One twin YouTuber married as a virgin at 31 this year. Her twin sis been married for 5yrs wit three kids. From her vids, all her family thought this YouTuber wud be single forever till she met a great guy at church last yr. Marriage na turn by turn.

As per the Dana Ekwueme vids, nvr heard of her before. Maybe she did sound like a hypocrite. YouTube watchers are ready to call out anyone who is, don't mean they're jealous. Hv to find hers n Jackie Aina's videos to see for myself thou.

Another long contradictory stupid post. The bottom-line is a woman without a man is incomplete and that's why your so called "rich professor" friend still found herself in a long-term partnership despite her refusal to sign a marital contract. Despite her academic/material achievements she still needs a man for validation at the end of the day.
Men can MGTOW if they choose but women cannot - it's simple nature.

Zielle:
Where did i say everyone's marriage will be like hers? Referenced her situation as an example... to be patient, no rush . Late marriages cn fail similarly. I knw two other divorces (men) older than her. As for her, she knew the man 7months before they got married, sd she wanted the quick marriage. Where did i gloat or make jest of her. Sorry if the post hit a nerve? She's my friend, very sweet girl, wud never mk fun of her situation

Friend indeed, and that's why you were so quick to gloat over her divorce because she "rushed into marriage". Of course being the 'right time for marriage' expert that you are
Some of you ladies don't even realise how crazy your uncontrollable jealousy makes you sound. Irrational creatures.

baby124:
Your ban is coming . I like little boys/girls like you. What have you accomplished in life? LOL. I think I hit a nerve on the joblessness part

Grow the hell up baby!

baby124:
I don’t have time for little boys and girls who can’t put their hands over their ear yet. That nuisance will soon get a ban . Quick to mention what marriage?

Dyna is that you? Go and do something useful with your life and stop being a nuisance on Youtube. Shouting like a screeching monkey. With nose like McDonalds sign

Lol. There she goes like a little kid - Go ahead and pull the strings of your moderator 'friends'

nwanneni:
whoa!!bro that woman doesn't brag at all and I think she is accomplished.
I was the one that brought up her marriage ish,not her.
Go easy on here o,before you blast osibanjo wife someday

Well she has no right to measure the happiness of another human being simply based off her youtube videos. Likewise, based on the long stupid statement she made on this post, I could also assume baby124 is a delusional, miserable, ill-mannered, male-dependent 'feminist' with a false sense of self importance. It's only fair.

Zielle:
Single women shudn't be jealous of married women . A girlfriend of mine rushed (she told me she edged on the marriage) into marriage in her early 20s, she's divorced nw raising two kids wit the help of her parents, hasn't remarried. Look at Toyin Abraham, thank God her relationship wiv Niyi Johnson ended, see how God blessed her nw. Everything in life is turn by turn. When ur own time comes the ones ahead will envy u .

My point exactly. See what you did there? You attributed Toyin's new marriage and child as a 'blessing' - not her career

baby124:
Well, I didn’t marry at 23. I married much later. I didn’t and couldn’t imagine marriage at 23. I was not raised to see myself that way. Neither will I mock anyone unmarried in their 30’s. Everyone with their priorities. You don’t project your values and insecurities on others. We should all maintain our lane abeg. Not everyone will and should get married. So, the constant unsolicited advise from people like this who have barely been married for a year is hilarious. She doesn’t even know if she would still be married or happy in the next 5yrs.

Fact also is being married or in a relationship with a doctor is not glamorous. It’s a boring and lonely life because they are always busy. Then the psychological toll they have to deal with which passes on to their partner is not a joke. I know because I dated one and ran for my life.

Maybe that is why this Dyna is giving unsolicited advise because she’s not a happy person, like she would like others to believe. There are even internet pages on how to cope married to doctors. Lol. Not a happy existence . No different from a single parent, so why the boasting. Your sister must worship her husband because she appreciates and knows the sacrifices he has to make being married to her!

What exactly has Dyna achieved for herself to boast about in her own life that is not somehow attached to others Internet and YouTube gives everyone a loud mouth. The audacity of this woman though? LOL. Perpetuating and promoting all the evil women have to face. Why always the jobless ones? Cause they are truly miserable.

Now listen to me you spoilt uncouth braat - I did not create this thread for your senseless feminist rants. Who made your miserable self the judge over her life choices? Who appointed you the minister of happiness?

I noticed how you were quick to announce your 'marriage' in a pathetic attempt to add credibility to your long baseless rant. Yet you failed to mention what else you have achieved in your miserable life that makes you superior to Madam Ekwueme.

You women hate each other so much that you cannot disagree without ripping each other to shreds. It's entertaining to watch but very telling of the wicked and bitter nature of the female species.

bukatyne, yes - we may disagree on some matters and might have bumped heads a couple of times but I do respect your stance on a lot of topics.
..and no, I don't have a disdain for women - I simply stand against what the modern day woman has become.

Back Story
I became aware of the youtuber Dyna Ekwueme after she made a popular video advising Nigerian youths to stop going abroad for thier studies. Drawn to her enthusiasm and unapologetic way of speaking, I subscribed to her channel.
Recently, Dyna made a video in response to a popular youtuber called Jackie Aina who recently got engaged and then decided to use that opportunity to encourage her single subscribers that "marriage doesn't define a woman". Now her motives may be genuine but the skepticism in me made me believe that she only made that video to hold on to her subscribers (who are mainly young single girls) by appearing to not place much value on marriage.
To cut the long story short, Dyna made a video debunking Jackie's claim and stating with clear logical facts why marriage brings fulfillment to a woman's life. She was met with a lot of hateful, bitter and backhanded comments by mostly single or unhappily married Nigerian women.

My Observations

1. Dyna recieved so much hate because she is a young bride (23 year old), married to a doctor and now expecting their first child - this is something a lot of these post-30 year old hags have not been able to achieve.

2. This young lady now had the guts to flaunt what they wish they have to their faces, expressing how fulfilled she feels by being a wife and mother - so they hate her for it and result to vicious cyber attacks, name calling and lecturing her on how being married with kids is nothing to be proud of

3. A lot of these women who insulted Dyna are not single by choice. In fact NO woman is single by choice - Biology has wired them like that. Everything a woman does is so that she can be desired by a man. That's why you see 30 "strong independent women" shaking their assss on a music video of one male artist. They live for male validation. So next time you see a single woman claiming she is happy, just know that she sleeps on a cold bed every night crying and longing for the touch of an Alpha male.

4. It was sad to see that many of the pathetic ladies who insulted Dyna then went on to launch their own YouTube channels just to address Dyna - because clearly, leaving one hateful comment wasnt enough to express the utter bitterness they feel each and every single day knowing that no man wants them. So they console themselves by waving the banner of "marriage doesn't define me".

4. These women cite 'career' as the other alternative to fulfillment when in fact nobody enjoys the 9-5 life.


The Inevitable Aftermath of Feminism
The female empowerment craze is a relatively new phenomenon in Nigeria which is why women here are yet to experience the aftermath of feminism yet. It is your white masters abroad who have begun to reap the repercussions of this toxic movement. White women are now getting into their 30s with high body counts, no man, no kids and a bunch of cats and dogs as pets to fulfil that nurturing instinct that biology causes every woman to have. But hey! They have their 9 - 5 slave jobs to give them fulfillment into their old age!

Curses only affect those who believe in it.
Those white devils go around causing havoc around the world, incurring the wrath and "curses" of many - yet they remain the most prosperous and progressive race.
Whilst the races (blacks and Indians) that hold on to dark customs and superficial belief systems continue to wallow in state of perpetual rot and backwardness.

hurthubby:
Your language is rude and crude. You are married for 7 years only. Wait till you get to over 19 years of marriage with teen children before you know that it is another kettle of fish. Thanks anyway

This response you gave to JudgeOGBUNABALI tells me all I need to know about you. Do you have sons? (that's if they are even yours) Would you rather they turn out spineless like you?

Why shout "19 years of marriage" like it's some achievement? When you only stayed in an abusive and useless marriage for this long because you are WEAK!
It is simps like you who have allowed women emasculate men to the point of no return - this is why more of us younger dudes are joining the MGTOW movement.

You've already put in 19 years of hard slave labor. I'm sure 19 more won't kill you.

CsRockefeller:
An unintelligent comment.

Zeb04 is clearly a child

If we see a pic of the so called wife now, i can bet my balls she's some local, old, haggard looking thing.

goodgirl2409:
UPDATE.
I want to add that it is not sexual incompatibility.
When he is in his happy mood, I would even be tired of his endless gist. S-x will be very great. He is kind and caring. Such a wonderful man. In fact an angel. He would even wash my underwear’s and clothes.
.

So, what's the use of announcing this fact? So we should all bow down and idolise you because your husband washes your undies? Quite a pathetic attempt at emasculation But come to think of it, this could be why he's pulling away sexually.
You shouldn't expect a man to see your dirty undies filled with vag!nal slime and still look at you the same way. Check your hygiene.

goodgirl2409:
My monthly salary is 300000 and my husband earns more

I have a strong feeling that this is a lie.

Anduku:
Trump had nothing to do with his death and he had no files in Donald Trump. As a matter of fact, all the files relating to this case that has been released so far implicated Bill Clinton and other top Democratic party members like Bill Richardson and George Mitchell. The only thing that links him to Trump was pictures and videos of them partying together which Trump himself admitted to but said he broke up his friendship with him when staff at Trump hotel reported to him that Epstein had acted inappropriately with them.

Wrong.
Epstein's butler also mysteriously committed 'suicide' sometime back after he threatened to release a list of his boss's accomplices. Trump's name was said to be on that list.

JOHNSONSOLAFUNMI:
Clinton, trump, prince Andrew, ex prime minister of israel, the royals and powerful people are linked to Epstein

Don't take side, all I know is the powerful and the rich can do anything and get away with it

You know how many powerful are linked to this man and his sex trafficking group, many would have go down with him if this didn't happen, sometimes the conspiracy theorist are real, the rich controls the world

How can someone who's on 24 hours surveillance commit suicide, and I'm sure the footage will not be released to the public

it continues ....

Spot on

Sylraph1:
R I P

Am very sure that the billions he left behind will be utilised by the government for the betterment of the people.....

But here in Nigeria,the Money will be shared by some greedy bastards then will come out tomorrow and us that 3 MILLION Nigerians has been lifted out of poverty

#FAILED COUNTRY

What's this one saying

AwkaetitiBabe:
You'd prefer the woman houses and feeds the man?

God forbid. If a woman like this should house and feed a man for just one week, believe me, she would literally have him on his knees wiping her a** with his tongue every time she's done taking a dump - and this will be the least of it.
Pardon my choice of words.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Take it easy Abeg. Does MGTOW translate to being disrespectful to women?

You can call it what you like. Have I lied?

Born2Breed:
Housing and feeding?? You refer to a wife and mother of his kids as someone he is just feeding and housing.

That's exactly what she is - a woman who he got down on one knee to receive the "honour" of housing and feeding her for the rest of her life ...and what does she offer him? Disrespect, feminist ideologies, feeling like shes to "independent" to cook and clean up for her husband .

She most likely doesn't work, and contributes very little to the household but yet she feels she deserves so much honour because she happens to have a hole in between her legs which she uses to give birth to kids (with a 30% chance that they could potentially not be his). Go check out the statistics on that.

Then in most cases, these kids will grow up to appreciate the mother's "love" whilst forgetting the fathers sacrifice - how he worked so hard to provide ALL of their needs which is the truest & greatest form of love and protection.