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alBHAGDADI:
We only added to the sarcasm

Sure thing boss - sometimes sarcasm is the only way to communicate with these lazy, entitled scums of women we have nowadays.
The saddest part is the silly OP and her feminist minions find this childish post hilarious

But jokes aside, this gist reminds me of the girl who wants to marry my brother.

She cannot afford her own car but requires my brother to drive the latest Peugeot 3008. Still lives with her parents and doesn't even have a job.. yet expects my brother to finance her lifestyle. She brings nothing to the table except her used up v-box. Then she has to guts to act like a "prize". My brother is expected to pay bride price to marry a liability .

Women of these days , SMH

J4JUVENTUS:
Funny you
Women of these days eh.. You couldn't wash your clothes yourself,you want a visitor to come and do it for you

D guy sef de do like M*mu.. If I was the guy sef,seeing the dirty clothes alone sef.. I don jakpa...cuz i wouldn't want someone to come rubbish my home with dirty clothes

xteve:
What!!! He didn't follow your mum to the kitchen?
Ode. No be only kitchen, he would have followed her to the oza room.

alBHAGDADI:
After serving him a poorly cooked meal, you now expect him to do chores. Your sister better thank her stars if he returns for her hand in marriage.

I hope u n*ggas aren't this dumb.
OP is clearly being sarcastic.

CrazyPros:
The most miserable life one could live is allowing others define success for them.

Adults should define heights they wish to attain at each age bracket and work towards it.

Each age bracket presents its challenges, the objective should be to emerge from it with the least possible damage to body and mind.

True talk

Marriage can be a huge setback to ones growth and freedom.
There's a doctor I know. All his mates have left for the abroad - all doing very well now making between £60000 to £80000 working for the NHS.
My guy desperately wants to leave but can't because of his wife's sentiments. Hasn't marriage become a clog in the wheel of his progress?!

truthsayer009:
Obviously you aren't thinking in a practical & logical way, you women always have an issue with people speaking out the realities that surround your daily life that can actually help you in a long run. You want Princes & Castles story, a horse riding Prince coming to pick you up with your gold shoes.

A woman working for the sake of working just to show her husband that she can, is a NO NO to me. How can you be doing a job of 50k with an expenses of 58k. At the end, every single numbered point you mentioned there MIGHT happen. OP can invest in other ways to train his wife for better jobs, companies want people with rare skills & not hiring by emotions.

You couldn't have said it better.

cococandy:
1) Your ‘valid’ points are that women can’t think in a practical and logical way.
2) she won’t make a tangible contribution in the family.
3) she will cheat on him because she goes to work and is now too big to be a housewife (conforming your misogyny and the trick men like you who use house wife role to limit women).
4) she will only help her family and herself.
5) your sure the job will only bring nothing but misery.

All of these are based on “facts” right?

So logical

Ok woman, you have won the debate. You happy now?!

@OP as you can see, these female creatures cannot be reasoned with... you are free to take the advice of NL feminists at your own peril.

cococandy:
No woman here made a logical comment yet you went ahead to post a very biased and misogynistic response to OP’s post. Very practical and logical.

Spare me that "misogyny" bullcraap!
I have raised valid points and anyone with a brain can see that.

Don't listen to the advice of the females here .. most nairaland females do not think in a practical and logical way. Tell your wife to put her emotions aside and be grateful you are out there busting your a** to provide for the family.

Acidosis has made the most sense so far, but I must add that "job" will bring nothing but misery to your marriage. Let me spell out why:

1. As you have calculated, it will actually cost you an additional £8000 (approx.) for her to take that job. Money that can be put into better use.

2. She will spend an average of 15hrs each day away from home, leaving a house help to resume the role of a mother to your children.

2. None of the money she makes will be a tangible contribution to the household - she will probably use her chicken chomp salary for her own upkeep and her family.. while you are expected to continue carrying all the financial burdens alone.

3. God forbid with all these sacrifices you make to accomodate her desire to be "independent". She starts cheating on you with a colleague like a lot of these lagos married women do - especially when they start feeling like they are too big to be just a "housewife".

4. Even if she doesn't cheat, she will still become unavailable to you due to exhaustion and stress. Working long hours for little pay will not give her the fulfillment she's looking for.

Martinez39:
Why do people take things too seriously? What's bad in joking about skin colour? This generation is filled with snowflakes and people really need to have a thick skin. The point of the comedy was that Lupita is too dark in complexion.

Shut the fvck up. This is why our women are bleaching their beauty away. As for me, I love slim chocolate girls and will choose a Lupita over a cardi B.

tpacalipse:
I never knew I had a colleague. Lol.

Oh yes. We living the free agent lifestyle over here

Timih:
She's not... We didn't have maid before.. We just employed this maid because she just gave birth and we just relocated few months ago....our plan is when the baby is old enough, the maid will go.. The maid's work is limited

Good.

But just so you know, that 14 year old girl you employed is a CHILD just as your son is. It could very much be a mutual affair between them.

I know your madam will beat that girl once she hears of it but I must warn you that if she lays a hand on that girl child, she will never know joy over her own children. Mark my words.

I'm just warning you ahead of time. Protect and guide that girl like she is your own. If your wife cannot correct her in love, then send her back peacefully.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] That woman is his wife...the mother of his children and the only person after his mother to have his back.He's gotta do it right and he's gotta do it right by her at least if not for himself but for his kids and their posterity because they all gonna be f**ked if the marriage goes to sh**t. [/color]

Likewise she has to do right by HIM.
If you like, lick, suck and fvck her from morning to night. A woman who isn't into you will never be satisfied.
Married or not.

I don't mean to gloat over your son's misfortune but this is what happens when a mother leaves the raising of her children to outsiders. Let me guess your wife is too busy to take care of the kids right? Because shes a "modern working class woman".

Go and ask women abroad how they manage to work full time and still raise their own children without househelp. Unlike these ones in Nigeria who after just one child, they can't do chores again. House helps are then put in place to assume the duties of a wife and mother.

Your son is one of many children out there suffering the consequences of these lifestyle choices.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Okafor's law comes strictly to mind here...But on a serious note,brotherly...If she said she wants to be serenaded before the action then, gaddem it, you shove enough love smoke up her ass...if she said she wants you to pound that sh**t before she cums then you pound that motherf**Ker like your life depends on it. But what is sad here is that you only blow smoke up your ass at worst and at best you expect others to blow smoke up your ass...You don't consider the feelings of those around you and it has come and bite you in your ass.You are the head in the house therefore you must take the initiative...to lead you must show example.Ok, you want your wife take the initiative in lovemaking, why don't you start by making that experience a thunderous heavenly adventure for her....you f**king blow her mind away that she literarily wets herself just thinking about sharing the same bed with you.[/color]

This is why men will forever stay losing in relationships - keep doing everything to satisfy a woman who refuses to be satisfied.
He should spend hours licking that wound in between her legs right?
What does she do for him in return?

I swear Nigerian men have turned to veggies
Every day some SIMP is in the family section complaining about the b!tch he put a ring on. It's disgraceful!

How did we men fall from grace like this? You put a roof over some woman's head and she still has the guts to reduce you to nothing.

OP I suggest you look up Coach Greg Adam's videos on YouTube and claim your balls back.

#MGTOW

Women only stick together when it's time to collectively uphold their promiscuity and financial dependence on men. This is called "Feminism".

But.. the minute she senses that the other woman is more beautiful or gets more Male attention, the b!itching begins..

Never take their online solidarity seriously.

Another pathetic marital story

Yet, this Saturday, another fool will get married to an unstable modern woman who brings nothing to the table but a used up punnaa and a truckload of stress and heartache.

Almost every married man I know has turned to an emotional tampon for their wives.

Is the juice really worth the squeeze?

Wanna hear some bitter truths?
1. She's ungrateful.
2. She doesn't love you - you probably weren't her first choice for marriage.
3. She's probably seeing someone else.

Solutions:
Either:
Continue being her beta Male simp
Or
Man up and #MGTOW

Same way we should all shame that jobless old witch called Kemi Olulouyo for revealing the identity of Biodun's 3rd accuser.

kiyosaki1:
Any proof ,don't just think that everyone on the forum are inept as you . Do you know thar soft drink as shelf life ? So you are telling me that the krest you drank had five four years shelf life?

*facepalm
I've seen a lot of dumb monikers on this forum but today I must confess that kiyiosaki1 is at the top of the lot.

kiyosaki1:
So anyone that has a contrary opinion to your view had been bribe, well it works in either way, for you to arrive at the conclusion, it's obvious you had been bribed also to defame Biodun .

Omo forget that talk. Biodun na ashawo

This is sounding like an abroad ( UK ) scenario.

LearnITsmash:
I support daddy freeze interviewing this man and exposing the lies that we have heard from a fame chasing lady

Don't be stupid

Biodun you better confess and repent.. or else, what happened to Eddie Long will happen to you.
God will not be mocked!

Kingosytex:
This woman's doggedness is top notch. Every man dreams of such a supportive, caring and understanding woman like pastor Modele


She has really stood by her husband through thick and thin. I pray that the truth prevails

Sure! and he rewards her by constantly philandering.
She's nothing but a fool.

Laughing at the comments so far.
Women are very funny creatures. Don't mind all these their online solidarity. In real life they are full of hate and envy for one another.

Ask an average female employee whether she prefers a Male boss or female boss. She will choose Male.

Why?

These women understand each other and hate themselves for it. They know that a woman in a position of power often manifests into an uncontrollable, irrational, power hungry b!tch.

elektra:
Good. You and the men you just described should pack your load and drop yourselves in a deserted island. Why the f-ck are you wasting your talent struggling for limited resources (with women) in civilization when you are built to survive in deserted island.

Look at this f00l.
Civilisation that was created and developed my MEN.

This is why every man needs to MGTOW!

Another indecisive, selfish lady ruins the life of yet another SIMP who foolishly got down on one knee to marry this irrational being. After milking him dry, she decides he is no longer what she wants in her life now seeks her "independence" to wh0re around and be single again.

Woman, never forget that the wall is undefeated. You WILL age. You WILL end up lonely and you WILL regret every stupid action you have taken in your youth.

OP, I feel your pain.
Although rather than nursing hatred, why not sit down and have a man to man talk with pops? let him explain his life choices before you conclude.

This woman has spoken nothing but the truth

Jayslicky:
I think there is something your father and mother are not telling you, it is either your mother cheated on your father and bore him bastards or he is just a useless man, cos i don't know why a man will abandon his children without even contributing financially to their lives. As for your mother, she is a very toxic and pathetic person, why should she poor out her frustrations on you?
My advice for you is:
1. Please invite some relatives of your mother's family to do a meeting between you and your mother and ask her the reason she hates you so much.
2. Threaten her that you're going to commit suicide, if she doesn't tell you the reason she hates you. I said threaten oooo, please don't commit suicide.
3. Put her in prayer.

If she doesn't still change after this, then you have to find a means to leave her house, since you have a SSCE certificate, you can find a little job to sustain yourself, I pray you succeed and live a normal life.

I agree with the bolded - that's likely why she said you are the reason your father left.
Do not. I repeat, DO NOT threaten suicide. Knowing how heartless your mother is, I doubt she gives a f**

Hold your head high and stop seeking the love of that woman who simply birthed you. She is not your God. Find a community that will become family to you.
Lastly, ask your parents for the truth about your birth.