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vickydevoka:
Whether man or woman u suppose exit papa house b4 30. I de jobless still leave my papa house at 30, today I’m a millionaire in naira. Omo las las everybody go de alright. All this university graduates are the cause of their problems, submitting cv everyday like their papa na Admin officer

flokii:
I'm not asking people to live beyond their means.. Just stating the way things should be in the ideal manner. It can be slightly different in actual sense.

I know parents don't usually want their kids to leave especially their favourite ones but then one has to find his/her path in life and taste the real world. You can never compare someone that started out in life as early as 20yrs to someone that got spoonfed by the parents up till 40yrs. The way they see life and manage resources would be different.

The summary of my post is if you have a job and have the means to be on your own at 25yrs, just go and live your life.

For you to be successful, you must be ready to leave your comfort zone and survive in the wild.

seanwilliam:
bro ,
Don’t pressure yourself.
Na poor man pikin Dey think of moving out of his parents house without genuine reasons . Most of them do that just to feel among and have access to different girls. Some of dem are extremely broke.


With this economy recession , only a foôl will be mounting unnecessarily pressure on himself for wetin him power no reach . The most important is, ensure you’re doing the right thing to improve your situations and make sure you contribute financially to the house no matter how small. May God be with you.

JILF:
Is it ok for a guy to be living at home where he grew up or with his parents between age 32-39? if you are a lady, will you find such men as someone who is serious with life or someone who is unserious?

I understand the economy has not be smiling for many and also understand that some men cannot afford to pay rent due to unemployment.

chinchum:
Quite wrong. It is more prevalent for an 18- 25 to be out of rheir parents home in Europe and North America than Africa. The reason is the easier availability of survival jobs to sustain livelihood in those continent than sub saharan Africa.

The demand for sex by men is rising and consistent. As long as men crave sex and women are the only suppliers, nothing can be done. For hookups to reduce, Nigerian men should reduce their insatiable quest to have sex with random women. It is like having a department where male lecturers don’t do engage in sex for grades, ladies who are open to such will be forced to read their books whether they like it or not. Men create the system and women integrate into it. To buttress this, when women who have been doing hook-up attain 30+ years, there is a declining demand for their services because sexual service is tied to age and how young a woman is. As a result, she is either forced to retire or accept lower fees. This is because her customers – all men – have either stopped patronising her or are offering less cash. The men control the system.

Ilekokonit:
Not necessarily. Some people are just generous and their generosity extends not only to the Ashewo they sleep with. Some men just like spoiling their women be that a pay as you go ashewo or a girlfriend.

Also some men don't have time for the nonsense drama of toasting a girl that will turn round and use sex as a weapon against them and so they just want to shag and get it over with. Life is too short to be chasing a stubborn drama queen of a woman up and down.

Godoverevery:
This thread isn't intended to bash any woman but just to let them no we men ain't fools cos I don't no why women will hardly make sacrifice for a man family but will expect the man to be making sacrifices for her own.



She later called her mum to inform them to get someone else to do the job that I can't do it.
Am close to her mum and I don't want to create this impression of not being a good potential son inlaw.

So am thinking of calling her mum today and explaining everything to her ....so she can understand things properly or should I just lock up.....(advice needed).

Honestly I want to pay her back for what she did cos she not even remorseful saying she even did me a favor collecting the 90k for the food.

Nazgul:
That girl has shown you over and over again that money and her family tops her priority list before you. How you still refer to her as your fiancee is what baffles me.

Honestly most men are the architect of their misfortune in marriage.

donbachi:
Bro, wetin dem wear for hand,dem no dey take mirror look am .

LionInZion:
This article on Metro sums up the whole motive behind the Ukrainian settlement scheme.

https://metro.co.uk/2022/04/14/we-should-care-about-all-asylum-seekers-not-just-ones-who-look-like-us-16440666/

The whole summary of it is it wasn't particularly motivated by care for humanity, but rather by care for "humans who look like us".

pansophist:
This is the first time in a very long time, perhaps in 500 hundred years, that the West will have to not only share power for the time being, but deal with an increasingly stronger global south, and if we know anything about strength, it is that you have to be strong to get justice. Justice never applies to weak countries.

Now that there is a strong, competent challenger called China, others can come out and assert themselves. We are living in an interesting time. Indeed.

Raheeqilmaktoom:
Great points.

Considering how divisions have been coming into the EU between the Americans friends and not so good friends, this isn't far from right.

Macron was recently in China with talks of collaboration and alliance of sorts - the EU acknowledging Americas waning interest and commitment, the UK pulled out of the EU and is leaning heavily more to the US than her neighbors.

Most of the EU doesn't see China as that much a threat they can't handle, America on the other hand is in a must win situation with China.

In the end, I think it's all a question of China.
It's a rising power that the Americans are very wary of - Democrats and Republicans, though both employed different approaches to it.

Trump was heavily invested in courting Russia, portraying the country as not an enemy of the U.S, something the Democrats and the American bandwagon doesn't seem to support completely. His major attention was China, the rising economic powerhouse.

The Democrats on the other hand believe they can weaken Russia, perhaps, even engineer a regime change through and as a result of the Ukrainian war, a weakened Russia they reckoned will align with them more than China, bolstering their 'squad' and giving them more power to confront the actual problem: China.

We've not seen the end of the fallout of Ukraine, perhaps even the start.

Reference:
Where did you get this bed time story from. The fact is rather the opposite. That Trump's America was actively seeking to water down ties with Europe seeing that lopsided bills on security. It was Biden that has tried to reverse, restore and strengthen ties.

Get your facts straightened out. Europe cannot stomach Russia's lack of democratic progress.

pansophist:
This is the first time in a very long time, perhaps in 500 hundred years, that the West will have to not only share power for the time being, but deal with an increasingly stronger global south, and if we know anything about strength, it is that you have to be strong to get justice. Justice never applies to weak countries.

How the world fell for that scam, I don't understand. My only guess would be that the world was weak, and had to live by imposed rules of the strong. Now that there is a strong, competent challenger called China, others can come out and assert themselves. We are living in an interesting time. Indeed.

Tiopii:
Leave them here, they don't understand most developed nations are interdependent on each other and their own interest determine their foreign policy.

China is an exporter and it's biggest market is Europe and US. China needs the West/US more than the US/West needs them. same China is actively following the sanctions the EU placed on Russia.

Even the Biden signed a bill to move all the US owned production companies back to the US. most here don't understand global politics, they don't understand the importance of allies.

They were shouting Brics one time, even the China transact with the US in dollars, their debts would be repaid in dollars. Very shallow mind and background in history

Morphinne:
This is why we’ve been saying that you folks are naive to the Nigerian political climate. There was widespread anger in the land against the ruling party and Buhari especially. If Peter Obi had stayed with Atiku and if Kwankwaso didn’t leave PDP, then the party would have garnered a total of about 13-15 million votes being the summation of the individual votes of Obi, Kwankwaso and Atiku himself. Tinubu getting just 8 million votes showed that that last election was the most accurate election Nigeria has had so far but una mumu too much to do simple mathematical calculations and analysis.

The party (APC) that you couldn’t beat in 2015 and 19 while you were still United, you then decided to divide into splinters thinking one of these splinters would be able to beat this gigantic monster the United family (pdp) couldn’t beat. What were they thinking?

DMerciful:
You're too gullible!

So you believe Pat Utomi collected money from Tinubu? You guys are extremely gullible!

Raalsalghul:
They are apes now.

Very backward race.

It was the same way they sold their brothers to slave European ships for things such as mirror hundreds of years ago.

You'll never see Indian or Asian people throw their people under the bus like this despite running huge rackets.

I just hate black people with passion.

MrBrownJay1:
wicked how? its THEIR country, THEIR laws....who are we to dictate what other countries should do in their own countries. weed is legal in many country around the world, bt it aint in many Asian/gulf countries. if you knowingly want to traffic illegal drugs to these countries, you should face the penalty!

GloriousGbola:
Unlike kaffy all ms baci seems to be about is slay queening unfortunately.

Am I going to push a half naked self objectifying and financially wasteful person to my daughter as a role model?

Charx122:
Spending that much on Junk food with $250 I can get as much over here..

Tzar:
Her money, her life!
With this aggresive attention seeking by her, looks like she is trying to nail a high value man.
But all these social media presence and attention seeking doesn’t make her a high value woman or wife material tho!
Character, humility, purity, youth, being reserved and homeliness are fundamentals to a woman being high value or wife material.

XAUBulls:
Or rather you mean "having her for breakfast?" To each his own bruv... She ain't my type though.

I just listened to her speak eloquently in a short video with a good diction, but the girl's pics give off some ho vibes. If she wants to be a bad girl, she should stay bad and stop trying to mix good girl vibes and bad girl vibes together for the public ... Mixed messages with her nudity and skimpy dressing plus the church girl vibes.

Balance is the key here.

ponishah:
You are the hypocrite, you can criticize the way a loaf of bread is wrapped and it doesnt stop you from eating eat. it only implies you want it wrapped better.

If you support her xplicit and highly provocative dressing, then be ready for all sorts of reactions

I thought she was a genuine hardworking Nigerian, i didnt know she was a corporate CSW

Charx122:
Nigerian girls too much you never win the record the next thing na to dey show us your luscious breast and Big Nyash like make i
Show them se I no be just chef I be olousho..
That's why I recpect Tems she didn't have to show off her asset before winning the Grammy..
Well Sha na you get your thing..
You don't have to go naked to be attractive you only invite the wrong audiance.

Bridget95:
Honestly speaking i downgraded her after seeing her in those prostitute looking pictures