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OP, try dey put graphic pictures. No wonder some Nigerians don talk say once they nack strong passports, they are moving back to Nigeria. This is maddening, deplorable and disgusting.

The schadenfreude in me looks forward to, say, 2030 to see the result of this anomaly.

These people think you can joke with biology.

futuregovernor:
She was imprenated by a man who later abandoned her.

Things are really difficult
She has tried her best

She wants to give out the baby to a nice family

She is an orphan

If you can help her
Chat 07047674820

merit455:
Call me,07047674820. Available now

Does she also do POS business abi na you be the woman?

makeherscream:
😂 lol am not broke like you bro, I work and earn cool cash am into aluminum work am not under anybody am a boss of my own

The first bold is typical of people who don''t have money. They are always the first to broke shame. Maybe you should also go through my profile before typing nonsense.

The second bold is typical of the mushroom entrepreneurs we have in Nigeria. Someone running an enterprise that does not generate a million naira monthly will be the first to chant I aM A bOsS oF mY oWn.

just in case your family members or friends that's if you have good friends oo that are doing well in life oo because it's obvious you're too useless , stupid at the same time a sadist for my liking judging by your write ups

You are the one lamenting and castigating Nigerian women simply because your girlfriend, who you promised a phone more than eight months ago, has gotten a new one. Na man you dey date abi your girlfriend an transgendered? Do you know what it is to be without an Internet-enabled phone for close to a year? Na me say make you promise am phone? You did not the financial implications involved when you do such?

Another thing, when you bring an information of yourself online, expect any sort of comment. I am not here to make you happy with my comments.

am not even sure if you earn a dime because you don't even know how it feels like paying bills I guess you are still a mummy's boy don't worry mummy will soon call you to come and carry your food and don't forget to wash plate oo,

I am not the one who volunteered to buy a phone for his girlfriend neither am I the one who agreed to carry all the responsibilities on his head. You did not know the financial implications before doing so?

How much does your aluminium business generate on a monthly basis sef?

TradingGod:
you are the one that is self centered

so do you want the poor people that can't afford airplane ticket to comit suicide since they don't have the means to japa?

No. Not everyone can japa. It is not mathematically possible. However, it behoves on the elites, both private and public in all spheres of life, to condemn atrocities that affect the poor the most. Tell me, why should megachurches' pastors keep quiet when brethren are being butchered in Northern Nigeria?

That is how it is done elsewhere. If almost 140 people are slaughtered within three days in Northern Ghana, Ghanaian elites will ask questions. That is how you know "Who can be against you if God is for you?"

Darlingme:
This has nothing to do with entitlement mentality.

No one is an island and we all need each other to live peacefully.
So, a man died in my neighborhood and his children has forbidden their rich and wealthy uncles from contributing to the burial. Accordingly to the children, their poor father died of starvation, which they have been appealing to relatives, also his only brother who works in an oil company in PH for assistant and he has always promised to help, but never did. This uncle happens to be the first person to send an ambulance to convey the corpse to the village, and the children rejected his offer.
I don't understand. Why do we have rich family members, friends, yet we suffer poverty?
Why is it always easy for people who can save their fellow humans from death, starvation, depression always ignore them, but once he/she dies, it's easy to raise money for burial.

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The children did the right thing. The next is to cut-off such people from their lives. If they could not assist their brother while alive, they will never assist his children now that he is dead.

They should hold the grudge till thy kingdom come. They should not forgive or forget. Hold the malice till infinity.

Covenant97:
Good evening Nairalanders

I write to seek your view on My current situation.

I am a final year student in one of the best Federal university in Nigeria(Name withheld) and certainly, will be graduating with a second class upper within the 4 point range CGPA.( I was on a first class cgpa But my cgpa was slashed no thanks to my department I was a victim as well as others)

Target any good firm that advertises entry-level positions. Throw your applications aka apply like a madman. The most important is to be extremely good at acing aptitude tests. That is where the majority are dropped. If out of 10, you ace 8, your chances of getting a job are very high.

sacajawea:
You are a Phool!
Who is dictating to who? I'm curious as to how they got their, cos Theirs a serious disconnect somewhere

There are South Koreans in Nigeria, but you who missed Geography classes during your secondary school days (assuming you actually attended a school), is surprised how Koreans got into Russia?

TradingGod:
oooKay

Go ahead and see death in your motherland, while I see life in my motherland

Las las 8 years go pass and you will still be in Nigeria wailling like a pregnant widow while meaningful Nigerians have taken the opportunity to be Great in life

Typical Nigerian....so far e no touch me, I no go worry.

Ndi this government will favour me. Na so una talk during Buhari's time, yet insecurity skyrocketed and the number of poor people shot up.

souljaslim:
Don't dull yourself...if you have 10 million naira in your account to day no embassy will refuse you visa...its not by bsc
...plus even if your looking for a job with your bsc...you will do exam to prove you meet them standard...
Professional certification is stronger than bsc...the producers are the ones testing you and you must retest every two years or get a better certification

This one has never been to any embassy before stating that no embassy will deny one a visa even if the applicant presents an account balance with 10 million naira.

You people just make categorical statements as if you don't conduct basic research before typing rubbish. On Reddit, a Ghanian was lamenting how he got denied Canadian visa even after showing an account balance close to 100K dollars. Una go just dey open una smelly mouth waaaaaaa

ReactJs:
That’s a big lie boss. A very big one in fact! What are you even saying. Bro i have 2 friends in Frankfurt and Berlin. They both got jobs from here and i know them personally they do not have degrees. I trust you know HNG internship right? A top guy there that i know personally is also in Germany. He left Ambrose Ali. These jobs with options to relocate literally take care of everything for you.

Another Nigerian who rather than ask, which countries mandate work visa applicants to possess a degree goes on to categorically state that it is a lie. Look, in most developed countries, it is either you have a degree or at least ten years of verifiable work experiences. For most average folks, getting a degree is the best option. The folks you mentioned are probably in the top 10% of coders (you stated it), but the majority of folks are average. No employer in the abroad is going to stress himself to employ an average person who has no bachelor degree when others possess it as it is what the immigration office is interested in, not whether the applicant can code or not.

TradingGod:
If God be for you, who can be against you?

More Christians have been killed in Nigeria than in China. There is a reason the term life expectancy rate exists. That is what you use to assess whether people will live longer rather than whether if God is for you or against you. Or is God against the more than 8K slain Christians mostly in Northern Nigeria?

OP needs to understand that people relocate for various purposes. This thread already has some people planning to return, but they will do after attaining citizenship status and hold the passports.

Any rich person in Nigeria who intends to relocate is doing so mainly as a way to get the passport. Not every rich person has more than 100K dollars to fork out for citizenship by investment.

ednut1:
The op is probably trying to japa himself. People will do what ever they want. You are in no position to tell people what to do

The OP was caught lying about what he does for a living and where he resides:

https://www.nairaland.com/7682281/disadvantages-living-abroad-obodo-oyinbo/1
https://www.nairaland.com/7682281/disadvantages-living-abroad-obodo-oyinbo/1

These people are not mentally OK. On the other hand, there exist people who will return to Nigeria and other African countries after attaining naturalisation status.

makeherscream:
common sense is not truely common a stupid fellow spotted,

A foolish cretin who comes wailing online that his girlfriend bought a phone after he made a promise more than eight months ago. This modafvkcer, rather than find ways to make money, is lamenting that he has too many responsibilities on his kon kon head.

Unam ikot!

duality:
I'm not viewing it from an African culture. I'm viewing it and it t as someone who understands the word of God.

Take a flight to Russia and demand they dress the way you want.

Deputy God, Nairaland branch.

sacajawea:
What are they now doing in Russia?

Well, a random Sacajawea should not dictate where Koreans decide to reside, should he?

Progressivegee:
I don't think it will affect those who are already on the system. Like the student dependents ban, it might take effect from future applications. In my opinion, I don't think it's worth it. One primary reason many choose to migrate to the UK over other western countries is because of its easier to do so. Tightening their immigration policy may see people shifting their focus. Currently, Europe and the UK has an increasing aging population which necessitates the demand for more skilled professionals. While other countries are looking to attract the best brains, the UK is looking for ways to eat their cake and have it. Australia has added additional 2 years to post study visa making it 4 years depending on qualifications and students are allowed to bring dependents. Newzeland has introduced the healthcare assistants route. The USA is granting over stayers a new type of visa route so they can work legally in the USA. But children of immigrant parents are doing everything to stop legal and skilled migration.

It's their country, their rules. But like Brexit, they will come up again and look for who to blame for the insufficient workforce admits a declining working population.

Apart from the UK, Germany and maybe France, becoming a naturalized citizen in most developed countries in the EU is getting tougher and stricter. Rules are being changed. So the options are limited. Australia and Canada are the better options. Except through marriage, the US doesn't have a straightforward path to being a naturalised citizen. As for the proposed change of rule in the US, just hope the Republican Party doesn't win next year. They will change everything.

hustla:
I would rather head to far away Australia or US with all their gun wahala than wait 8 years
Very confused country. The one they are doing sef, person still dey vex and ponder.

Anyways, it's their country, they can do as they like

Make them Sha dey play

The same eight years applies to the US, except through marriage and intra-company transfer using the L1 visa.

ojtopsy:
Good afternoon House.
please I need the best of advice/ideas to solving this problem before someone does what he no suppose.
An ex patient or service user raised a sexual complaint against her previous carer since last year August and he has been suspended from work ever since. We first thought it would be over soon that its just to do investigation and come up with findings which will either proof guilt or innocence. But loo and behold up till now the issue is still on the table. The last action that sparked outrage was during one session he was asked some questions in which he mentioned hes schooling in a university, so they now went ahead to write the Uni to inform them hes under investigation so the uni asked him to stay away until he is cleared. I cant stomach this injustice anymore. Please how does someone fight this kind of battle. It took months for the details of the so called offence that led to safeguard was even known o. the police have been invited and they couldnt find any evidence of misbehavior. Yet these people are hell bent in destroying a mans life. the only thing was that the girl was given a lift and the discussion was going intimate and he claimed he stopped it and dropped her off at the hospital and went his way. that very week wahala started and up till now na on top of the matter we still dey. No work since last year and the small consolation traing hes trying to do they blocked it without any formal conviction. this BS has to stop.

Please any great advice will be welcomed
Thanks.

You people never learn. Why did he give her a lift? Is he a Taxi driver? If you had followed the #MeToo events more than four years ago, you would've known that you should have nothing to do with a woman you're not dating/married to in a secluded place. In fact, you should be afraid of being in a secluded place that has no CCTV with a woman.

You people never learn...

Western media has demonised Russia so much. I don't mind pursuing a degree in Russia just for fun and living in the country. The world is an oyster, one has to enjoy it.

duality:
You don't like to pay tithes and offering (coz i can see that in the spirit of your writeup) but think the free food didn't come from offerings.

They don't tell you about hell. Well, the Bible is clear about it, even if your Russian church refuse to tell you.

They hug and kiss and you like hugging and kissing the ladies. bro the Devil is an Old serpent. Older than everyone in that church. BE WISE!

You said the ladies put on skimpy clothes to church and it seem not to matter. Let me tell you.;You can't play games with the devil. If the church is interested in righteousness, it will matter. They will not drive people away but they will teach them.

Peace

You are viewing it from an African culture. They have nothing against wearing skimpy dresses in most of these countries, as a result, the society does not discriminate against such.

Raskimonojendor:
Your American class mate is brave staying in Russia. I have a western country passport but will never travel to countries not friendly to the west before I get used for bargaining chip.

I doubt Russia is interested in using black Africans as a bargaining chip with western passports. Maybe second generation black Africans, but not first generation. In such situations, when you are asked where do you come from, you mention Nigeria not a country in the west.

sacajawea:
How come there are many Korean Girls on that particular part of Russia
Also , what makes them go to Church for that matter

South Korea has the highest percentage of Christians in East Asia.

Give it ten years, parts of the Benue and Plateau would become Muslim dominated. They agitate for deputy governorship position, house of assembly, local government areas chairmen etc. I thought the new governor will stop the tide since he was loved by Benuians?

Anyway, the state is gone. Nothing can stop it.

davidodufote:
All of you saying "why didn't he get her a phone since all this while"? As per what abeg? Is he her father, her blood brother? Abi she no get parent or what? Whats with the entitled mentality.
Dude just over look her getting a new phone. See ehn, in the law of women, its combine effort . So choose either to add to the contribution or walk away. Shior

He made a promise. He was not pointed a gun at his head to say he would buy her phone. Was he?

makeherscream:
he can even spell correctly you are too dumb bro , na you 9know weather poverty dey wear you wrapper oo as for me am doing well in life

If indeed you are doing well in life, you would not be lamenting that you have too many responsibilities to cater for. Someone who is doing well in life will not keep his lover waiting for eight months before buying her a phone no matter how basic and inexpensive. The truth is: you are not financially capable of being in a relationship. You come across as those newly married men who begin to have side chicks yet complain that they charge a lot for their time.

You never chop belly full, you don dey carry responsibilities for head like gala.

makeherscream:
phone is a pitty thing right you are senseless Sha Nigerian girls are just too useless swear , the fact that I have not bought her a new phone is not because maybe am broke or something , I have a lot of bills to pay and some family members to feed is not that easy for me she should understand all this , afterall I was already planning to surprise her with the phone on her birthday,

But you talk like a bitch

You write like a very foolish man!

Penguin2:
Masha Allah!

But Victor Osimhen’s incredibility has exposed how racist Italy is; including the leadership of the Seria A.

After Napoli won the league, the crowned the guy who was making assists as the new king of Naples.

Now, at the end of season, they went ahead and decorated the guy who was making assists as the Seria A player of the season and had to carve out “Striker of the Season” award for Osimhen.

All these rigmarole is just so an African doesn’t become the face of Seria A.

Very racist idiots.

Nigerians, who are chronic tribalists, are accusing Italians of being racists. At least, Italy is a rich country. Wetin una don use una tribalism achieve?

yrhuhfy113:
MARRY IN YOUR 30s
you don't have any major ASSETS TO YOUR NAME....

the ladies of today ARE NOT BUILT TO BUILD WITH ANY MAN, they come in after the man has started enjoying his own money

HAVE SENSE and get your life straight abeg

Leave him, with time, he would understand. I was in that stage, but thanks to friends who warned me and research articles I read.

He wants to find true love at the age of 21. Bwahahahahahahhahahahhahahahhahahahahhahahahhaha

Steverolly:
Bruh, I normally don't do this but I've been avoiding girls almost all my life because of my self development which have seen massive improvement. I'll be 21 by the end of this year with no form of love or whatever.... people be thinking the boy is gay "cos he's fine and they've not seen him with a female", why do you think I shouldn't also face this aspect of my life?
So I'll just meet somebody and marry no dating or friendship, I know what I want please and my family issue shouldn't be your problem. Thanks

Bro believes love exists.

Hypergamy never do you something. Hypergamy will teach you a lesson you will never forget. You are 21 years, which implies the girls on your radar are 18-21/22. You are competing with men in their late 20s and early 30s, plus sugar bros in their mid-30s and sugar daddies in their 40s and 50s. Better take the advice you quoted o. But if you refuse, we are here to always remind you.

Just know that hypergamy is not your mate and will teach you a lesson.

kehindemejii:
Nigerian Tiktok is very strange, you have Big busty or booty ass yansh Nigerian girls dancing like their lives depends on it. Then they do some " agbero diva " faces while they pretend to count money. No wonder Nigerian Women are labeled materialistic. Check out their Ghana, South African counterparts they don't dance with such frenzy and they don't do any of those cash counting gestures. You'd think if a girl had big boobs she would relax and be a lady. Not in Nigeria the hustle must go on. I'm through following Nigerian busty girls on social media, they lack class

Nigerian men have spoilt their women with money-induced love. Na why other African men no fit cope.

kehindemejii:
I think my problem is I only look out for massive ass on the road, if it's big I note it but I forget. When it comes to massive I give it to Yoruba Babes but Ibo girls also have big ass. You should have seen the Ibo girl I saw yesterday on my way back home. Oh my God, about 6ft tall , yellow spotless, Big boobs , thin waist and very sizeable ass. Straight and curvy hips, straight legs, I have to say she is the most physically complete girl I have seen this year. That type is never on social media, too many men in real life will be after her so why bother with Instagram?

Yeah, they are many of such girls whose highest social media is Facebook. Me sef, no be all social media platforms I dey into.

because Iv learnt it's wise to leave pretty girls alone, no matter how down to earth they appear they know they are fine and arrogance can get the better of them. Even Ugly girls once you give them too much attention it gets into their heads. So me I just don't click like or comment to any girls pictures on social media ,I know what I have gone through online with genuinely loving a chick and trying to make her happy and being treated like a piece of shit as a reward.

It is akin to those who target girls in high-brow areas and then later complain that nowadays girls are too expensive. Target the polytechnics and colleges of education around you. Ultimately, be a man of high value. From my experience, every lady no matter how lascivious or prudish like men who are of high value. I prefer physical communication as I can read your behaviour. Maybe it is how I see modern-day relationships between men and women - strictly transactional. I am always in for what I can benefit. My capitalism is that toxic.

I am curious, when you meet these ladies, what are your intentions, to fvck or to be a boyfriend/lover?

Meet Ellie The Empress /EllietheEmpress. Her breasts are my Infinix screensaver. I think Sade Johnson is the closest thing Nigeria has for a world class beauty export. She and KaraChika

Good boobs. KaraChika has moderately thick laps. Sit on my face, and daz ol.