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AgricultureRe: Nigerian Kidnap Gangs Drive Big-time Nigerian Farmers Away by Gerrard59(op): 9:15am On Jun 11, 2023
In 2017, Mr Adesina, by then head of the African Development Bank, was awarded the World Food Prize "for driving change in African agriculture" and "his breakthrough achievements as minister of agriculture".

'We lost 300 farms'

All that progress now seems to be unravelling, with nearly 25 million Nigerians at risk of facing hunger between June and August 2023, according to the UN.

"We've lost about 300 farms," said Stella Thomas, who in 2011, at the age of 32, founded Techni Seeds. Based in the north-western city of Kano, the company applies scientific research to produce quality seeds that it then distributes to thousands of farmers across Nigeria, whose work they supervise from planting to harvesting, to ensure maximum yield.

"We call them 'out growers'. We found out that because most farmers use saved seeds - they recycle their seeds - [then] over time, they don't get enough output. So, we give them the seeds that they use, and we are responsible for ensuring that they do the right thing."

The insecurity has forced hundreds of her "out growers" to drop out of the network of supervised farms.

Mr Williams used to enjoy spending months at a time on his farm, organising barbecues for the farmers at the end of a hard day's work, complete with a stereo and loud music.

He is now in the process of moving his rice production to other West African countries, such as The Gambia and Senegal, which also consume rice in large quantities.

His current calculations show that transportation costs would make it unprofitable for him to supply rice to Nigeria from those countries, and he predicts that the rising food inflation in Nigeria will only get worse - if the government continues to slack in its handling of security.

"If there's no security, there's no agriculture," he said. "It's that's simple."

Bola Ahmed Tinubu was sworn in at the end of last month as the new president taking over from Muhammadu Buhari - and the insecurity is his problem to solve.

"We all have hopes that this issue will be dealt with," said Mr Williams, reflecting on the future, "but we will see."
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-65728764

AgricultureRe: Nigerian Kidnap Gangs Drive Big-time Nigerian Farmers Away by Gerrard59(op): 9:13am On Jun 11, 2023
"There's nowhere else in the world where people require armed security to go to the farm," said Mezuo Nwuneli, the managing partner of Sahel Capital.

His agriculture investment firm is in its ninth year of a 10-year contract to invest $66m (£54m) in the farming sector on behalf of the government and its partners, including the UK government and some Dutch investors.

On one of Sahel Capital's farms, a security officer was killed during a kidnapping attempt.

"They used to be comfortable working till 10pm but because of the attack, they don't feel safe to work late. In other parts of the world, you can run a farm 24/7."

'Green revolution'

Prior to the discovery of crude oil in 1956, Nigeria was known for a long list of cash crops, such as palm oil, cocoa, and groundnuts, but the government's focus on the booming oil sector led to the underdevelopment of non-oil sectors, such as agriculture.

This began to change after Olusegun Obasanjo was elected as president in 1999, and made a push to revive agriculture. His government offered farmers improved irrigation as well as new machinery and crop varieties to help boost agricultural productivity.

However, the magic really began to happen when the subsequent administration in 2010 appointed the sleek, bowtie-wearing, charismatic Akinwumi Adesina, as the minister for agriculture.

"When Adesina was minister, he was able to communicate the opportunities in the sector in a way that was exciting for people," said Mr Nwuneli, a graduate of Harvard Business School, who launched Sahel Capital in 2010 when he was 35 years old.

"Around that time, there was a lot of excitement and interest in the youths and the many people coming into the sector at the same time."

The next few years saw the emergence of many young Nigerian agriculture entrepreneurs, like Mr Williams and Mr Nwuneli, in a period that many reports described as Nigeria's "green revolution".

"We had 20 million youths entering the oversaturated workforce from 1990 to 2010. For us, we are committed to unlocking the power of agriculture and job creation with the goal to create 10 million jobs by 2030," said Kola Masha, another Harvard graduate, who founded Babban Gona, which means "Great Farm" in Hausa, in 2010.

His firm uses innovative technology to help its more than 20,000 smallholder maize farmer members to improve crop yields, reduce the cost of production and increase the sale price.
AgricultureNigerian Kidnap Gangs Drive Big-time Nigerian Farmers Away by Gerrard59(op): 9:12am On Jun 11, 2023
In our series of letters from African journalists, writer and novelist Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani looks at why some of those key to boosting agricultural output in Africa's most-populous nation are giving up.

Rotimi Williams was seen as one of Nigeria's most successful rice farmers seven years ago, but now the 42-year-old's land stands idle.

The problem: insecurity, which has ground his farms to a halt.

In 2012, Mr Williams left his career as a banker and ventured into agriculture. He was profiled in international media and described as the second-largest producer of rice in Nigeria, with thriving farms across the north.
But the threat to his life and the lives of his workers grew too much.

"There was a time my car was shot at on my way back from the farm," he said. "There were also kidnap attempts."

In the past three years, a sharp rise in insecurity has led to gangs kidnap hundreds of people for ransom in Nigeria, and staff of prosperous agricultural enterprises have been particularly targeted, forcing many farms to abandon or reduce operations.

More than 350 farmers were kidnapped or killed in the 12 months up to June 2022 alone, according to a Nigerian security tracking website.

The majority of attacks took place in the northern region where there is swathes of uncultivated land and some of the country's largest farms.

In January 2022, five people were killed in an exchange of gunfire between security agents and armed gunmen on motorbikes, gang members known locally as "bandits", who attacked the premises of GB Foods, a tomato-processing plant in the north-western state of Kebbi.

When the multi-million-dollar factory, partly funded by the central bank, had launched to great fanfare in 2020, it was described in the media as Nigeria's second-largest food processing plant and included the country's largest tomato farm.

Bandits then tried to kidnap some of the staff. They failed, but the plant has been out of operation since.

RomanceRe: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 8:35am On Jun 11, 2023
Brandiebird:
Damn! So effeminate! You can dish it and talk ill about “average Nigerian women” and this girl and the other, but when someone turns the tables on you, you cry and moan. I think you set such unrealistic standards for women so you can comfort yourself by believing that there are no women that meet your criteria, rather than living with the fear that there’s something wrong with you. Be a man and confront your demons instead of hiding behind unrealistic expectations. We all have demons and fears but the best of us confront them head on.
The men on Nairaland who actually talk down a lot about Nigerian women and hastily generalise tend to be very unintelligent. I have been here for too long, and I know their modus operandi.

Nothing dem sabi!

On the other hand, his standards are not unrealistic. Those kinds of women exist. I have the kind of ladies he desires on my contact list, but remember, he has ZERO SOCIAL LIFE AND FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS, and is unwilling to change the situation.
RomanceRe: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 8:28am On Jun 11, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
You need game plus you also need to be going out. That's the only way you can meet women. Try to meet as much as possible and keep a few in your rotation. From there you will pick the best and settle down with her. This is why I say you need game cos without game you won't be able to achieve this feat cos this bitches are way too smart lately they always playing games so if you ain't ready then sorry for you.
Now to all the "hustle and make money then girls will come " gang shey una don dey see wetin op is passing through even with his money. Make all of una Deh play.
No go allow desperation make you settle with a damaged goods sha. Good luck
No, he should not go out. He should do siddon put inside house. Chant and scream I am Intelligent, but I don't see intelligent women to converse with. He should pay Seyi Tinubu for advert placement with the billboard stating COME TO MY HOLE ALL YE INTELLIGENT PEOPLE. I AM INTELLIGENT, BUT HAVE ZERO SOCIAL LIFE AND FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS. IF YOU DON'T COME, IT IS YOUR FAULT. REMEMBER, I AM INTELLIGENT. COME O! COME O!! COME O!!!
RomanceRe: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 8:23am On Jun 11, 2023
Shortcut2life:
Forget that internet yarn or going out to make friends and s[b]ocialize y’all make it sound so easy and just something that everyone enjoys doing[/b] .. That Nigga enjoys his privacy which I applaud humans are full of bullshit especially when you make yourself accessible to everyone some networking can go wrong and sometimes you end up meeting misery out there .
Having few selected individuals will save you from such stress and please don’t translate financial explorations to looking for a relationships they both differ. angry
And who says it is easy? It is actually easier to stay at home, and even cheaper. In fact, as I write, na church I dey come from. I was specially invited today so I could meet the daughter of the invitee and have lunch with the Singaporean medical professionals I met earlier. As it is done in the abroad, you pay for yourself, but the doctors decided to pay for me. Why? We have conversed deeply about various issues. I am proud of myself that there is no topic outside literature, movies and music that I don't know of. Even the invitee's daughter who studies Computer Science at a Canadian university, she and I discussed about the tech industry. She was even interested to meet me. If na OP, he wants the girl to meet him where he is siddoning put.

You think it is every one that would invite a random black guy from West Africa to meet their friends? But I put myself out there and during our various conversations, we saw that we shared the same values. If I was not going to the church, I for no sabi these people existed. If I did not apply to join the university's church group, the medical student wey carry me go her church, I for no meet am. OP wants to meet people, but he has ZERO SOCIAL LIFE AND FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS. For crying out loud, how would he meet people if he siddon put for house?

The issue is that he is lamenting his situation, but is adamant about not changing it. How on earth do you want to meet people when you don't go out? Who the fvck does he think he is? Even top class researchers attended conferences, but one random Lexzeey believes people should meet in the hole he put himself. Even the doctor's mentor, a renowned specialist in the field globally, went to Singapore and Australia for conferences, but this guy believes people should meet him in the hole he dug. Remember, he stated that he has ZERO SOCIAL LIFE AND FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS. He is the one lamenting of not having a female partner but has ZERO SOCIAL LIFE AND FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS
RomanceRe: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 12:25am On Jun 11, 2023
Lexzeey:
I don't know where you got all this thrash from, I didn't insinuate I was the best thing since sliced bread, Green isn't a pretty color on you, I haven't shown any sense of pride on this thread or in person
Your responses showed the same. You make it seem like the fault is not you. Meanwhile, as I have analysed it, you share the larger portion of the blame, not some imaginary ladies.

I have a situation and I'm looking for a solution, how you interpret it is totally upto you, and about being rich, I have nothing to prove to you, I eat what I want, pay my bills, take care of the people dear to me and have a roof over my head, I'm not otedola but I am greatful for my shortcomings and inadequacies and whatever I ever had, so your attempt to make me feel bad failed woefully,
Otedola is a false equivalence to put up there as someone with financial stability. The thing is, you don't go out. You have ZERO SOCIAL LIFE. Those are your words, not mine. You stated them, I am simply regurgitating what you stated. I did not pull them from my yansh.

Lexzeey:
I am a hardworking guy, I hustle 24/7, I have no social life, few physical friends, some social media friends, I'm intelligent and I'm attracted to intelligent girls too, it's something I find attractive, and I love traveling alot, especially with a now all I want is something serious, someone to eventually settle down with and I feel the best time to start dating her is now before I clock 30, please I am open to suggestions, what tactics do I need to employ to get a serious girlfriend quickly
[b]all my life I've only dated twice and it's so depressing seeing people with Thier partners and I'm some lonely guy who only cares about work and video games.[/b]
How would you see more people if all you do is play video games INDOORS? You stated that you have a FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS, which can mean zero since you stated that you have ZERO SOCIAL LIFE.

I am hard on you because I was in your shoes years back, and it still affects me to date. But I made concerted efforts to GO OUT and meet people. Heck, I am in a place where there are very few black people. Yet, I still go out so I can have a social side of me. If you were in my shoes, you would have wailed and even entered Instablog9ja. When I was in Nigeria, I made concerted efforts to attend weddings, birthday parties, and get-togethers rather than staying home writing and reading (in your case, playing video games). I knew the fault was from my side as no matter how you like intelligent women, if you don't go, how will they know you exist? How will you know they exist? You are doing siddon put for house yet want people to know you exist. Are you crude oil? Heck, even in crude oil parlance, it is the exploration firms that go out hunting for new fields rather than staying put in their air-conditioned offices lamenting that there are no new crude deposits. Total has found oil in Namibia and Mozamqbiue, but if you were Total, you would have said new oil fields do not exist and siddon put for Paris lamenting how others are discovering newer deposits.

Recently, my friend was gisting me how he has grown an army of females he converses with through Instagram. When I explained that I didn't have a similar outlook, he said it was because I put my profile in private mode and restricted myself only to Instagblog9ja. Meanwhile, he is active on almost the major pages relating to Nigeria on Instagram. You see the difference? He puts himself out there and makes himself accessible. He told me he does not message ladies whose profiles are private. So, he can understand if ladies would not bother to message me no matter what I write. But if it were you, you would have wailed and chanted that Nigerian girls don't like you, nor they don't like intelligent men. How dem wan take know you dey intelligent since you don't go out?

the internet is a crazy place full of deluded individuals, any wise person wouldn't let people like you penetrate Thier skin, you know why? Because you're insignificant and inconsequential, so die on the thread or crawl back to wherever you crawled out of, because I won't indulge you anymore, have a great day sir.
This is what you should know about the Internet: once you bring information about your life to the Internet, you cannot dictate how people would respond to it. The moment you bring it out, which no one forced you to do so, expect all sorts of responses, including the ones you don't like. I am not here to make you happy. Your type is the one who rarely accepts correction and believes he is the best thing since sliced bread. He wants to have a girlfriend but he has ZERO SOCIAL LIFE AND FEW PHYSICAL FRIENDS. How on earth is that possible?!
RomanceRe: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 5:10pm On Jun 10, 2023
chidifrank:
Dear op, it's okay with what you desire and seek . It's a sinful world and I like that fact that you are trying to at least live a nice life by getting married rather than just fornicating up and down. Just somehow difficult this generation getting such minded gender like you if sex or money spending are not involved to propel it. Some said we should find a truly God fearing lady. Many of them thinks that way too. Good luck Bro. you are not alone
The problem with OP is that he does not go out and meet new people. He literally said he has no friends. How does he want to meet people ni? huh Which means even with money, he will still encounter problems. I am doubtful he can keep healthy conversations with the opposite sex or even the male gender since he does not meet new people or have friends. What are his hobbies sef?

As for the bold, because a lady is God fearing, no mean say she no like good things of life. A well-educated, articulate and exposed "God fearing lady" will demand greater financial stability than you might expect. I have them on my contact list, and they make it clear that financial stability is very important in the men they desire. E be like say you never meet "God fearing lady" wey get double masters, PhD, participates in gospel outreach yet insists her man must be financially stable and up and doing.

Abi una take the as poor as a church rat of a phrase so seriously? grin
RomanceRe: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 5:00pm On Jun 10, 2023
Raalsalghul:
Ordinary 30 years and you're sounding desperate.

38 years folks like us nko still enjoying life and flexing on a low key.

Oga you better chill and stop rushing undecided undecided undecided

Nigerian men and their desperation with marriage self.
Well, humans are different and varying needs. So I understand his desire, but he wants what he cannot give. That is the problem. I have got two buddies - one married before commencing his PhD program because he cannot stay alone. Another plans to marry once he resumes his highly paid work because he cannot stay alone. Me? My mother would have to point me a gun to marry anytime soon. The issue is that OP does not have the kind of profile the women he desires want in a man. He should build that profile first or bend his standards.

One woman talk for TwitterNG say marriage na business. grin And na true, because during mergers and acquisitions by companies, both parties look out for what they can offer to one another.
RomanceRe: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 4:53pm On Jun 10, 2023
garriAndsugar:
An intelligent girl below 30 might not be interested in you.
Exactly. Dude thinks he is some Nobel laureate material but has not published in a renowned peer-reviewed journal. grin
RomanceRe: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 4:52pm On Jun 10, 2023
Lexzeey:
Lol, so in other words it's unrealistic? Why does everyone keep saying this? So being an intelligent girl that is below 30 is so rare that people see it as something special?
There are many intelligent ladies who can hold conversations. But since you have no friends and social life, how you wan see them? The problem is from you. You think you are the best thing since sliced bread, yet you don't have money, you don't have friends and have no social life. If you had a flourishing career or business that gives you financial stability but live as a monk, one would have said pretty OK. Na women sef go dey look for you. But now, nothing financial dey stable.
RomanceRe: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 4:45pm On Jun 10, 2023
Lexzeey:
Then they'll like u because you have money, when money no dey again they'll japa, If it's about money I'll only looking for sex partner not someone to get married to, I can't marry someone who is drawn to my money, I rather die single please.
Then be prepared to do so o. You think women will follow you not for what you have, but your personality? shocked Na your personality go pay house rent? School fees? Feeding items? Fuel? I think you need to go out more, make platonic friendships with ladies from different walks of life, enjoy yourself. The bold is very important because you cannot enjoy your time again once you marry and have children. You now live for your children, not yourself. So, find time to enjoy yourself as a man now before marrying. Someone mentioned developing yourself to enter the top 10% of men since that group are targeted by women from all walk of life. By being in that group, women do the chasing, not you. However, you should not enter that group because you want to be chased by women, but because you want to live a comfortable life as a man.

You come across as the type that wants to marry before 30 but life has not been fair to you financially during your 20s. Well, such is life, but enjoy yourself before marriage o. There is no room for personal enjoyment and relexation when you don marry and born two children in present day Nigeria. Except you are the type that is willing to sacrifice his personal enjoyment for raising children.
RomanceRe: Lady Gets Angry Because Man Prefers Younger Women by Gerrard59(m): 4:05pm On Jun 10, 2023
Jakumo:
You, sir, are a gentleman and a renowned scholar blessed with superb taste and great wisdom which means you will enjoy life to the fullest, all else being equal. There is nothing on God's green earth that sets alight a man's primal desires than the sight of a 23-year-young woman unclipping her bra to reveal Papa God's most breathtaking sculpture in all its irresistible beauty.

The desirability of FIT and TONED women aged 20 to 25 goes far beyond the fact that they just look better with nice full, upward-tilting breasts, firm midriffs, tight buttocks, and silky skin that does NOT hang loosely like that of an elephant. The major difference between the CHARACTER of young and old women is a direct consequence of the HORMONES that course through the bloodstreams of all women as they age.

The two key hormones in question are TESTOSTERONE, the male hormone, and ESTROGEN, the female hormone. As a boy becomes a man, the level of testosterone in his bloodstream gradually rises from age 16 and reaches a peak at age 19, before starting to taper off linearly for the rest of his life. Testosterone deepens a man's voice and increases his AGGRESSION, RISK-TAKING BEHAVIOR, and willingness to be confrontational. These male traits are essential for the battle of life, where the ability of a man to prevail in conflict and competition is VITAL to the survival of the species. By the time a man hits age 40, his testosterone levels have declined significantly, such that his basic character starts to soften to become more FEMININE and passive with each passing year leading towards a man's old age.

Testosterone, that key male hormone, also flows through the veins of WOMEN, gradually increasing in concentration as they age above 30 years, whereby the male traits that enable a man to be a good breadwinner, competitor, and warrior, begin to manifest in WOMEN as well. By middle age, above 40, women become progressively more MALE in demeanor each passing year, displaying aggression, short tempers, deviousness, vengefulness, greed, treachery, jealousy of younger women, and unwillingness to forgive petty grudges, while physically their voices deepen, and their faces become more masculine in appearance, such that many of them cannot be distinguished from men by the time they hit 60 years of age. Estrogen, the female hormone that softens a woman's character and gives her the alluring femininity that is so sexy and completely irresistible to men, DEPLETES gradually after age 30, as it is replaced incrementally by testosterone in the manner described above.

The above biological FACTS are the basis on which the vast majority of men CRAVE the company of under 25 women whose testosterone levels have NOT begun to turn them into honorary members of the MALE gender due to the passage of time. Opposites attract, and men are naturally attracted to feminine women with soft seductive voices, full breasts that defy gravity, toned midriffs, and vaginas that are tight and slippery for sex that drives men wild with desire. While married people may CLAIM to be perfectly happy and blissful in their marital unions, the simple fact is that the men in such unions ALWAYS desire younger women, and will take every opportunity that arises to approach those younger women for sex, regardless of what those men tell their aging wives to pacify them and preserve their marital unions for the sake of their offspring.

Of all the Nigerian married men that I know personally, not ONE of them is without a secretly maintained under-25 girlfriend whose feminine sexiness fulfills all the desires that can no longer be met by his old ball-and-chain wife, who he regards as necessary for rearing children, but singularly undesirable and utterly boring for sex. The above-delineated biology lesson will certainly enrage women over 30 years old, yet there is not a damn thing they can do to change the fundamental evolutionary FACT that men will ALWAYS crave younger women below age 25, just as they have for millennia, and as they most certainly will for the rest of all time. Personally, I have never felt any attraction whatsoever for women outside the age bracket of 20 to 25, and I do not see that preference changing until the day I die. God bless Nigeria.
In hookup we trust. grin grin

CelebritiesRe: Evan Okoro: From Being A Gospel Singer To Actress & A Social Media Slay Queen by Gerrard59(m): 3:55pm On Jun 10, 2023
obembet:
Maybe we should read her story first before we judge her

Nlfpmod
I can understand her point here. Giving away your youth for the hustle and bustle, you relish that part you missed and want to enjoy it as you become stable. Just like a Turk, I am told; he was focused on his books during his undergraduate and had less for extra-curricular activities so he could make a first class. During his graduate program, he toured every attraction he could, ate at every restaurant, and attended shows. When asked, he said, "his aim to get a first class made him miss those pleasures".

So, I understand her.
PoliticsRe: A Tinubu's Nigeria And Nigeria In 2050 by Gerrard59(op): 3:42pm On Jun 09, 2023
Gerrard59:
In simple terms, Nigeria is not for you as an Igbo person or ethnic minority from the south-south. The earlier you know this, the better for una.


1. As an Igbo person, the bulk of your investment should be outside Nigeria. Tinubu’s administration would deal with Igbos economically, just as Buhari did militarily.

2. Ethnic minorities from other parts of Nigeria, especially the south south and even Northern Christians, should expect strong and in-your-face discrimination during property search, job search and anything official. You would be regarded as an Igbo person. This is more peculiar to Ibibios and Efiks as they look like Igbos. Another close group is the Binis. You should prepare to be denied access to certain places and things because you would be categorised as an Igbo person. You don’t know how to speak Igbo and are not Igbo. In fact, you might even hate Igbos, but whatever ill treatment Igbos face, trust me, you would experience the same.

3. Igbos in Igbo-dominated markets in Lagos should be prepared for the mother of all economic destruction. Computer Village, Ladipo, Alaba and other markets would be converted to other uses by the government, forcefully or otherwise. There would be an increase in fire incidents across major markets, leading to loss of goods and properties. Your investments would be razed down, and no one would rescue you.

4. As an Igbo person residing in the south west, you would be excluded from ALL state and federal government assistance and policies.

5. In the next twenty years, Nigeria would experience another civil war. This time, your properties would not be seized but razed down. Last time, you got 20 pounds. By 2040-2050, one pound or even one kobo, you would not see. Again, as an Igbo person, move your wealth outside Nigeria. Open offshore accounts. [/b]Buy citizenships of other countries. In this case, do it strategically. Don’t buy that of St Nevis but Grenada as it leads to the EB1 visa of the US. Get insured, but this is for the short term. The long-term is offshoring every money you have. [b]Do not put all your wealth, savings and assets in Nigeria. It is better to live with racists in a prosperous place than reside with tribalists in the world’s poverty capital.

Tinubu is coming. Do not say I did not warn you. As usual, there would be some people who would say otherwise, but when it happens, I would always be here to remind you and gloat at you. I am very good at gloating. Ask around.

Lastly, YOU CAN NEVER LOSE BETTING AGAINST NIGERIA. NEVER HAS IT HAPPENED!
I no suppose open church by now? grin grin grin


Lastly, YOU CAN NEVER LOSE BETTING AGAINST NIGERIA. NEVER HAS IT HAPPENED!
FamilyRe: Can I Survive In Akwa Ibom With 1M Account Balance At 22? by Gerrard59(m): 5:07am On Jun 09, 2023
kingsceemark:
Ebi like say you be CULT guy? You want to run away from your members right?
I am forced to say this is the reason he is running. Benin and PH were mentioned, but he declined to move there because of cultism. If one is not into cultism, what is your business with them? Now, he plans to move to Akwa Ibom wey get her own version of cultism with members having strong networks in Calabar and PH.

I commented because I am interested in his case and know Akwa Ibom to a significant extent. I want to see the end result in June 2024. His brash reply to a harmless question says a lot about someone who needs valuable advice.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Gerrard59(m): 3:58am On Jun 09, 2023
jedisco:
This is something I keep pondering on. Many times, many second generational folks I've seen especially in less diverse cities have some identity crises. They're neither here nor there, worse still, they don't have enough numbers or a distinct culture.

Even on this thread, folks using denigrating words for new Nigerian legal immigrants are almost always second generation. Yet they strive to have some 9ja connection cos they want to be seen 'connecting with their roots'

Seems their thinking was their parents belonged to some 'prime stock' of Nigerians that the the white man gave the 'privilege' of immigration. Hence they want to set their own bar for immigrants. Fact is, their parents were just everyday Nigerians e.t.c with some opportunity.
It is universal. Second generation folks see themselves as higher than those who came in recently, even when they share the same skin colour and heritage.The second generation is even too far, those who migrated, say in 2010, see themselves as superior to those who entered the UK recently. On the other hand, they are not the natives and can never be. The natives group them (both first and second till infinity) as the same. I must say some have to do with identity/inferiority issues, others are classism - seen as richer than the new migrants. The second reason is apt because if present-day Nigeria was as prosperous as say, Malaysia, the level of respect will be higher. Tell these second generation folks to return to sub-Saharan Africa (the dominant home of black people), dem no go gree. One of the ways they use to dilute or shed off the connection is by marrying the natives, this time, their offspring get less strong connections with those in sub-Saharan Africa.

One solution to this is for parents to ensure their offspring spend some time in Nigeria or other parts of Africa. Let them know how home is, what made the parents japa and inculcate positive aspects of the home culture to the kids. It makes them confident, because, trust me, pikin wey grow up where people who look like him are very few or non-existent, will have personality issues growing up. The same applies to children from poorer families that attend schools filled with children from richer homes.

The UK is even better as there is a substantial black population. Then imagine for second generation folks in Germany, Norway, Finland etc. All the same, in the eyes of the white man, we are one and the same.
FamilyRe: Is There Anything Wrong With This Advice by Gerrard59(m): 2:56am On Jun 09, 2023
mariahAngel:
Many men of this generation have successfully manipulated women into sharing their responsibilities equally with them, and so many women have fallen into that trap, trying to prove what they need not, thereby, overexerting themselves.
You wanted feminism, you got it Why, then are you complaining? Na so South Korean women complain so tey the men voted for a man who cancelled most of the feminist policies by the previous administration. Now, they are pushing that women should participate in the mandatory national service since birth rates are low. You cannot ask for equal rights in the household and do "my money is mine, but your money is our money".

If you want right, get ready for the responsibilities that follow.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Student Arrested In UK For Dating Children Just 3 Months He Arrived UK by Gerrard59(m): 5:18pm On Jun 07, 2023
CuriousStudent:
Does one need to study before knowing approaching minors is indecency? Or sending people penis picture is indecency?

You make it seem like it is only when they are abroad they should be cautious. What about here,why can't they decent towards us all?

This is what we women complain of dailybut we are tagged bitter and man hating. @AdvancedDNA like I said in my last post to you, we women may be shameless, but I don't know of any Nigeria woman that goes abroad and disgraces the nation by sexual offence.
When I keep preaching that the vast majority of Nigerian men are foolish and unintelligent, dem go say I be simp. Few days, one monkey was sacked from a stable company after he was caught pestering a lady for sex. Like a random lady o. Asking her brazenly for sex and sending pictures of his pen!s. Now, this donkey has done a similar thing. Tomorrow, his foolish cohorts will open their smelly mouth to scream foreign women love Nigerian men. Ask them to show you the foreign women wey like Nigerian men, na those wey short, very fat and extremely ugly.

Bunch of idiots! They think abroad is like Nigeria. They think abroad men are useless and stoopid like them. When time reach, na Barbados I go dey claim. These people are too foolish!
CrimeRe: Nigerian Student Arrested In UK For Dating Children Just 3 Months He Arrived UK by Gerrard59(m): 5:08pm On Jun 07, 2023
RaptorX:
Just another one in the long line of Nigerians going to the UK to do fake masters, this one is certainly an economic migrant not a student.
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CrimeRe: Nigerian Student Arrested In UK For Dating Children Just 3 Months He Arrived UK by Gerrard59(m): 5:06pm On Jun 07, 2023
1Sharon:
Ndi "women are cheap" " team foreign women"

"Nigerian women are trash"


This man doesn't belong in the West. Who gave him a visa?

He doesn't even understand the gravity of what he's done, he's zoned out and looking off into the distance.
Ndi foreign women love Nigerian men.

Lock up the bastard!

CrimeRe: Nigerian Student Arrested In UK For Dating Children Just 3 Months He Arrived UK by Gerrard59(m): 4:57pm On Jun 07, 2023
solmusdesigns:
cool


Weyrey dey hungry for White kpekus

Na their type they insult Nigerian women on Nairaland


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CrimeRe: Nigerian Student Arrested In UK For Dating Children Just 3 Months He Arrived UK by Gerrard59(m): 4:55pm On Jun 07, 2023
Goalnaldo:
He may not have known they are under aged. White people kids grow like agric fowls.
But they told him his age, and he pestered on. Not one, not two or three. He should be dealt with ruthlessly! grin
CrimeRe: Nigerian Student Arrested In UK For Dating Children Just 3 Months He Arrived UK by Gerrard59(m): 4:54pm On Jun 07, 2023
These are the donkeys who will later come online to chant that Nigerian men are hotcakes.

grin grin

Lock him up and fling the keys to anywhere belly face.
HealthRe: The Part Of Woke Culture We Don't Talk About (Xtreme Graphics) by Gerrard59(m): 4:48pm On Jun 07, 2023
cc: dominique, Sissy3, Seun, Mukina2, Mynd44.

Please send this thread to the front page o. Wokeness no good o. If na so e be, na to enter Nigeria begin dey worship at Deeper Life or Lord's Chosen or Mountain of Fire. No to House on the Rock, Christ Embassy and those phonee pastors wearing suit and tie. As it is, we are fighting against principalities and powers.

Die by fire, die! die!! die!!!

ahiboilandgas:
Good warm weather at no cost ! Low cost of living relative to income , ease of setting new business , more return on investment .prestige, culture , bigger houses (all paid ) zero racism and no glass ceilings. Natural organic food . For electricity we now have over 22 hours daily band A solar cover up for the rest .no student debt (70000 USD) per child, no 40 tax on incomes no inheritance levy no Mass shooting .family values ( state promoting gays and gay bishop) cheap subsided fuel .low debt burden car insurance is just 20k .no property sharing on divorce. Polygamy .community engagement (no invidualism) no old people home to dump me when am old ! no child care bills ( 400 USD per months ) .
Odikwa very important. You were right o. embarassed embarassed

Baba Kumuyi, na you biko o. In Kumuyi I trust. Say no to woke culture. It is for your children's sake o. embarassed embarassed

Wahlai ta lai, I don't envy Nigerian parents with young children who relocated to Western countries. I know what it takes to properly raise children. Then imagine doing your best in an environment where the state backs demonic characters to teach your children. Tufiakwa! Once una nack passports, jejely return to home o. Tinubu might be corrupt, but he would never force your kids to claim another gender and mutilate themselves. Imagine your three-year-old daughter telling you she wants to do a change of gender and become a boy? Mmmbo atata mmbom. embarassed It is either I send you to my mother or donate the child to orphanages. I no fit.
HealthRe: The Part Of Woke Culture We Don't Talk About (Xtreme Graphics) by Gerrard59(m):
womaniser:
We are in the gay pride month of June. See them everywhere. Men wearing mini skirts and shit. Boys in full make up walking like they got no spine.

God help.
ednut1:
yes o. I see them. There is a lgbt neighborhood near my gym self . To me dem be clowns. They are going after kids so they can transition before puberty . As those that transition in old age are ugly looking and ackward . Canada govt is offering 75k dols for anyone trying to transition for surgery. Even white people are complaining but scared of being cancelled. With time people will rise up to this shit
I no lie you o, if I dey Canada, na Catholic managed schools my children go attend or I move them to Nigeria or Ghana. I can't imagine raising children in a society that says a man can be a woman and vice versa when basic biology says otherwise. It is just pure madness.

As for the bold, maybe in Canada, but those in the US are fighting against it. The Republican does not really favour black people or immigrants, but it is the only force that can fight against this scourge. America is too powerful and influential, should the Democrats win next year, they will spread this cancer across the world. Nothing concerned the GOP with gay rights when Trump was in power, but when Obama was there, he was hawking gay rights around the globe like gala.

Gay rights should have never been legalised. Give these people a yard, they go on to take a mile.

American media is too powerful. New age parents dey try o. God be with them cry embarassed
HealthRe: The Part Of Woke Culture We Don't Talk About (Xtreme Graphics) by Gerrard59(m): 9:10am On Jun 07, 2023
1Sharon:
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You should be happy na. Don't you like them? grin
FamilyRe: Leaving A Marriage Because He's Not Taking Responsibilities, Make Me Bad? by Gerrard59(m): 9:07am On Jun 07, 2023
seanwilliam:
I support the bolded. But divorce? Ha, provided there’s no domestic violence and the man is not a womanizer, she should devise other means to tackle the situation.
I’m telling you bro, single mothers are not finding it easy , infact , the stereotype is too much and believe me , she’ll regret 97% chances ( this is not dem say dem say ). Taking such risk doesn’t worth it especially since children are involved, and if God one punish her make her kids be girls .


She is a dumbas marrying him in the first place when she knew he’s irresponsible. This is Nigeria not yankee, she’ll turn a menace in the society if she becomes single mother
I do understand your point sha. Maybe she should just assume she is a single mom but remain in the union for union's sake. Maybe because na woman and considering how Nigeria is, but in a situation where woman give me problem, I am filing for a divorce. I no like stress.

As for the bold, she is fully responsible as she knew ab initio that he was up to no good. If na my sister and I warned her before marrying such a man, I will not be responsible for her upkeep. I will only care for her if she did not know.
FamilyRe: Leaving A Marriage Because He's Not Taking Responsibilities, Make Me Bad? by Gerrard59(m): 4:12am On Jun 07, 2023
qtguru:
What's going on, why are men not hustling like before? Depression?
To be fair, competition has gotten stiffer for most men as resources got scarcer and women folks entered the workforce. Most men can't keep up. The solution for such men is to postpone or forgo marriage and childbearing and focus on their self-development. Find hobbies to keep oneself busy.
FamilyRe: Leaving A Marriage Because He's Not Taking Responsibilities, Make Me Bad? by Gerrard59(m): 3:58am On Jun 07, 2023
seanwilliam:
I don’t know if your story is true, but verily I say unto you , if you divorce him , even though I detest irresponsible men, I swear there are 95% chances that you’ll regret it .

Single mothers are finding it hard out here, prepare your puna for general shagging wether u like it or not for crumb . I know this won’t go down well with u and you’ll want to claim “ mrs capable” but trust me, a bird at hand is better than thousands in the bush. Dem go knack u so tey, at some point, you’ll even wish to only bare a man’s surname. And if you genuinely love your kids, single handedly raising them is the greatest disservice you can do to them .

Don’t be fooled by this woke generation .
So, what should she do? Stick with a never-do-well man? I don't get it.

If OP has a comfortable family, she should return to them. I cannot allow my sister to be in such a condition. She is moving back to the family house. I detest irresponsible people.
HealthRe: The Part Of Woke Culture We Don't Talk About (Xtreme Graphics) by Gerrard59(m): 3:55am On Jun 07, 2023
ednut1:
Insurance stops to cover them, the infections get worse etc. see that one with artificial penis. It cant get erect,it cant hold urine, gets rotten too hahaha
Una dey try for there. Do you get to see any? All the pictures I see are very ugly people. As I worwor reach, I fine pass them.

they will still commit suicide.
Good riddance. grin cool

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