₦airaland Forum

Nazgul:
To me sex isn't necessary.

From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?

What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.

Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.

To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.

My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.

Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand.

On point

I am here to learn. However, I think a guy will not bother a lady too much if he doesn't spend heavily on her. He thinks sex will be his only gain if the relationship did not lead to marriage

3:0 in favour of Chelsea

Blues all the way

pocohantas:
The problem with Naija guys is they hate to take correction. Always acting like they are perfect and women are the problem. Ask them why they are single and 100% of the problem is Nigerian women.

Some of you are so dirty, the dirtiness can be seen right from your cars and fingernails. Body odour and mouth odour, arrogance and other turnoff.

Take correction, no way! This thread should be a learning curve for some of you, but you rather attack.

I like your comments.




God bless Federal Republic of Nigeria

Noted

Let me park well

Good investment, it is people oriented.

God bless Federal Republic of Nigeria

4teenblaq:
Brighton 2
Chelsea 2

quote me after the match.

How market?

Let me grab a seat

Rescort:
Here is South Africa, Shoprite is for the poor... No big man goes to Shoprite, Avarage and wealthy guyz shop in Woolworth..

But in my Country, we see Shoprite as everything... ���

I doubt.



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Just like that?

The list is inexhaustible, however, it can be summerized to be followership

Nice one from LASG

Good news, I have been clamouring for this move.

God bless Nigeria

I am coming

The signs had been there, I am not surprised

I am not surprised

NDDC? I am not surprised

Seeing some comments here make me wonder how some Nigerians reason. How will u say what is happening in the country does not concern you. Do u know that whenever our Naira is devalued it make u poorer? except u saved ur money in strong currencies. whether you like it or not, this Naija debt concern all of us, stamp duty on deposit, rent, deed, etc are one way or the other byproduct of debt.



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nairalandankrah:
Sorry oooooo..I think say nah my own worse pass

Thanks,
They charged me in Feb and March, now they are charging me again for same months. That's not fair

Access bank is the new Yahoo plus

True talk

True talk, just heard on Nigeria Info.

Meticulously noted

Vyolet:
Everytime a woman leaves a poor man or reacts badly to him, the man always end up having a well paying job and the woman always want to come back...
Op, you forgot to write the part where she is willing to come back and live with you in Lekki .

May be that is the story that worth sharing

They are loading 100% with 100 to 300 percent increase of fare in some selected locations.




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NDDC should be return to presidency.

God bless Federal Republic of Nigeria

rotecch77:
You are right when the suckaway/ septic thanks done in a proper way by professionals but NOT all were constructed with reinforced concrete. Many are still constructed with block,
Mostly water lodge area were constructed with reinforced concrete.

True talk, the Op makes it look like snake can enter all toilet which is not true.
I don't think the article was written by someone in the building and construction industry.



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jidxin:
how do u mean.... U mean rat can walk on the wall of my sceptic tank into the hole I'm not understanding.

As in ehhh. I don't even understand. I think OP is not in the engineering field (especially construction). How can reptiles find it's way into a well concrete septic tank and reinforced pipes?
It is only possible for low quality work.



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Olaolex:
The thought of snakes in the toilet sink or bathroom is enough to make most people to get creeped out or irritated. The real truth is that these slithery dangerous reptiles really gets into people's toilet and bathroom.

Most people wonder how come these reptiles get into toilets and bathrooms, some people don't even believe it is possible but I'm here to analyze how this happens and what you should do, precautions to take in order to prevent such an occurrence.

Normally, different reptiles and rodents such as rats, frogs and even cockroaches find their way into people main building through the pipes. Snakes are very much dangerous, that is why it is of higher concern to a lot of people.

Now let's get down to business.

When talking about snakes getting into the toilet sink, some people think or assume that there's already water inside the toilet sink, but if you know about plumbing you'll discover that the toilet sit is designed in such a way that the water stays only in the sink and the pipe that leads to the septic tank or soak away is always empty and free of water.

Also, some people wonder how come these snakes get through their pipes even though there is not a broken pipe outside the house.

I'll give an explanation on how that happens, as you know snakes feed mostly on rats and rats are known to burrow or dig holes in the ground. So as Mr.Snake chases after Mr.Rat, Mr.Rat runs into it's hole thinking it is safe but Mr.Snake still continues it's chase after Mr.Rat into Mr.Rat's hole and Mr.Snake might catch Mr.Rat if it's lucky.

If Mr.Snake gets unlucky and Mr.Rat Escapes Mr.Snake would have lost it's way and then tries to find every possible way to get out of the hole and the only way it can do this is to follow the direction air is coming from and unfortunately again, that air is coming from your toilet pipe that is connected to your septic tank under the ground.

The snakes then follows this path and ends up in your toilet to give you a warm surprise when you're about to perform your daily transaction with the toilet.

There are different ways in which this can be prevented from happening.

Firstly, Always make sure that all the bushes around your house are properly cleared and well burnt so as to prevent any rodents or reptile from harbouring around the house.

Another thing you should take note of is to Always ensure you fumigate your toilet sink at least once in 6 months, there are special pesticides that are made specifically for this purpose.

Keep your toilet lid closed at all times and you can also make use of a flat tile to cover your bathroom filter when you're not in the bathroom so as to stop any further movement of the reptile though the pipes and also ensure that all pipes are well fixed and closed.

Lastly, always make sure you check inside your toilet sink before you make any transaction with it, so as to avoid any form of "stories that touch the heart."

I hope you have learnt a thing or two from this article, if so, kindly like and follow for more interesting contents.

Reptile cannot find it's way to a well engineered mechanical systems (plumbing) of a building. These days septic tanks are casted with reinforcements and high grade concrete. We now have quality pipe which are very difficult for rodents to bore hole on.
The above painted scenario can only occur when there is a poor engineering work and low quality pipes.


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