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bellville:
That's why customary law, a potent source of Nigerian law, will continue to suffer in the hierarchy of laws. I completely agree that a plethora of cases (Mariyama v. Sadiku; Edet v. Essien) support your position.
However, if I were a judge in this case, I would take a pragmatic and activist approach not minding if I would be tongue-lashed on appeal.
I just hate when a man puts a woman in his house without proper customary marriage. Call it sentiment if you like. Every parent who has raised a girl-child to marriageable age deserves some recognition.

praizeblog:
na u sabi.... u better go pray for mercy like olajumoke n stop hating

CharlesNneji1:
*phew, it's been long. I miss this section jare. Oya, Let's begin*


Come with me



What I am about to show you right now is one powerful psychological weapon.



As a matter of fact; this one thing I will show you now will dramatically improve your results with women and land them in your bed. That is, by practicing this seduction principle I’m about to show you, you would be able to effortlessly make girl want to have sex with you.




Why I’m I so sure about this? Simple – because I use these same secrets too. And they’ve always worked perfectly well for me and I’m sure it would work for you too.



Without wasting much time. No long story. Here is the secret.




PLAY HARD TO GET



Yes, you read that right. To get a woman to chase you, you have to play hard to get.




Did that confuse you? Don’t worry, I will explain. But first I will show you why playing hard to get works so well on girls, and why it can make her chase you.





Why Does Playing Hard To Get Work.




Let me tell you one main secret about women that most guys don’t know. That secret is that “Women Love A Man They Can’t Have”.




Take a moment to read that line again.




I want you to really get it. You see, when a guy is too easy for them and falls too easy or chase them shamelessly they don’t find him interesting. But when a guy is way above their level they become obsessed about him.




The problem why most guys get dumped by guys, the reason why a girl would never want to date you is if you become way too easy to get and way too easy to control.



Just check it out.



To make it clear, let me give you an instance.




Lets assume you asked a girl you just met today to be your girlfriend, and she agrees – almost immediately. Then in the evening of that same day, you ask for sex and she agrees without any argument. As in, she just resists a bit and then gives in.




Would you ever take that girl seriously?




Think about it. I can bet my last penny that you won’t. You will think she is cheap





Now, still on that same girl. she calls you everyday, she sends you love texts everyday, anytime you ask for sex she just gives in, when she sees you with other women she starts crying, she always tells you that you love her more than you tell her, she doesn’t date any other guy – just you.




Now take a moment to really think about it. Would you not get fed up with such girl fast. My bet is that you might enjoy the attention for two weeks then you will loose interest. I’m very sure about that.




IT HAPPENS THE SAME WAY WITH WOMEN

Don’t you get it?

Damn, I want you to get this.

If you are too easy for a woman, just like that girl in my example then no girl would ever take you seriously.




How do you become too easy; by always trying to impress her. By not standing up to yourself when she does something wrong. By not being funny during conversations. By being too careful not to offend her. By always calling her as if MTN pays you to call her. By begging her for sex. By making a girl become too sure how you feel about her. Etc etc.



See…




…Women want a man that they would fight to have. They want a man who is a Challenge. They want a man who is so unpredictable that they wonder to themselves “What does he really feel for me”




Now, most times many guys I have taught this starts becoming out rightly arrogant to women. I read somewhere online where one guy was saying that he practiced my strategy and started treating a girl harshly.





Now, get this straight – this is not about being arrogant. In fact, nobody likes an arrogant person. Not even girls. The secret is arrogance plus humor.





If you say; “You are fat”. That would be arrogant. But if you see; “You are now fat, my money is really going into all the right places in your body” then that is arrogance plus humor. That is what works.




Let me not digress.





We were talking about playing hard to get. If done well, this is what playing hard to get can do to a woman’s head…




At first it would shock her a little bit in a good way.



Then she would start seeing you as someone who is a challenge. This tricks her mind into thinking “What is he feeling like, I must get him to fall for me. Just to show him”




Then she would start trying to make you fall in love. She would start calling you more often, she would say some things to you to get you to like her.




But the more you play hard to get, the more she tries to make you fall in love with her. And before she knows it, she is chasing you without knowing she is chasing you. it always works. In Fact, using just this simple little trick I have made really pretty girls literary beg me for sex.




But there is an art to this. There is a way to do this well so it would really work



The question now is

How Is The Right Way To Play Hard To Get.

What should you do, how should you do it and when should you do it so you can actually make a girl chase you. What is the right way a man can play hard to get




Have an awesome day!

palasca:
Madam pls tell ur husband to bring back our money

HonPatrick:
Like what the Bleep is wrong with some ladies?


Okay, she's my official girlfriend and her birthday was yesterday, so I took her to a Boutique to get her some things she requested.
I told her I have just 30k to spend, cos I know she can buy things worth 80k if you're not careful.
At the end of the whole *Bae, am I beautiful?*parade the sales attendant calculated the total sum to be #29,500.

When I checked my pocket, I found out that I had only 29k on me. I forgot we bought fuel on our way.
So, I told my girlfriend to borrow me 1k...and I promised to return later in the day, but she said "Babe, I swear to god, I don't have any money on me at the moment"
So, to safe the embarrassment, I went to the ATM to get more money. We paid and left.

To cut the story short. When we got home, she went to ease herself in the rest room, while I was in the living room.
Then her phone began to ring so, I opened her bag to get the phone, but I was shocked by what I saw.
I saw 1thousand naira notes inside her bag. Na so I vex comot all the money put am for my pocket. Later, she come dey ask if I took any money from her bag and I replied "I thought you don't have any money on you"

I returned the money though, but I've been angry since yesterday.


If you were in my shoes, will you continue with this kind of relationship or not?

blackpanda:
[s]GOD PUNISH GEJ[/s]!

bellville:
It will especially if the man can not prove the fact of marriage.

sakabe:
op, wetin concern you?

the moment we learn to face our business, that's when we can have a good society... so snapped the picture to show the world on nairaland Abi..... I pity ur condition

godsluvee:
Some women are naturally selfish and wicked. You just have to bear your cross. Marriage is for better and for worse

yemi16:
I courted her for about 1yr..before we got married 6months ago..
Meanwhile while courting, she had told me she left her former relationship because the guy she dated then was like the breadwinner to his family catering for all his siblings and she felt quite uncomfortable with it....

I didnt read much to it coz in my mind it happended to my favour and i already have a well to-do siblings...as at my courtship period though...

Shortly before we got married, my elder brother who also just had a baby lost his job....and i had to support him and his family on a need basis especially with their little cute baby boy growing but i noticed my my then fiancee didnt just like it at all....

After we got married....i got a great job with this good pay and was very comfortable....meanwhile my brother search for job was to no avail....and his wife was on maternity leave.

To cut long story short, each time my brother comes to me for help....and i send him money, my wife complains that i larvish my money on my brother...that he should go and get a job and not rely on me always...we would quarrel seriously for days/weeks before time eventually settles things...

Just last few days ago....we were relocating to a new area within town and i called my brother to pick up a few stuffs (electronics, household items) i know i wouldnt or i planned replacing with a new one......He came and picked them up as i had informed him....After he left, my wife let hell loose....she went completely mad and we had a big quareel...she even called my brother to return a few stuffs he took even when i already bought the replacements...

I am used to going back to her to apologize just to let peace reign ...but this time i have had it upto my neck..!!!!...
I dont intend apologizing one bit as i am sure i did her no wrong......

Now i am thinking deeply.....did i really overlooked the signs...?...did i really marry the wrong lady??....

Please i need your advise on how best to manage this...

Admin..pls help to update this on fp..i really need lots of advice at the moment.

Thanks.

sapiosexual1:
Oh I thought it's 2009. Even if she got me a pencil, i would glory in it.My Xperia phone is costlier but this has become more valuable, besides, it's not about the quality of the phone.
What did urs get you?
You actually sound like ur not used to receiving gifts from ur bae. Take heart broh, i can relate.

yaqq:
good 4 him but how can ds make me. recover all d money i spent 4 val yesterday cos. now am dead "broke

siraj1402:
And does that guarantee a free job?The funnest of it is that recently I saw 2 medical doctors begging for job to sustain their life.Meanwhile our mentality is that once you are a medical doctor you have it all.Seriously, Nigeria ti ko lobae since.so many ND holder with nice job and B.Tech roaming the street.Better pray for favour and ask God for the best in life.What is the qualification of Fayose?

farano:
She shared these photos to celebrate her 20th birthday.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BBxrCE7hG_s

blueto:
http://dailypost.ng/2016/02/14/after-buharis-second-term-osinbajo-should-serve-as-president-for-two-terms-el-badawy/

kelechiodo:
Please sir, they are not overated and dont ever toy that line. The wife's family actually own all the kids as no dowry has been paid. What they did to him was just to give him the leeway to claim the children. Without dowry and no wedding of any sort, then the man is just absolutely childless.

olumide81:
Nigerians with cruelty, always taking advantage of a man's problem, while some political aspirants are using the opportunity to sell their candidacy, some family members want to enrich themselves not putting into consideration, the new born babies, the children she left behind , may God bless her soul.

Burger01:
Recovery of 66mila is irrelevant to you 66mila of stolen money! Those yam eaters must vomit all they stole. This is Era of zero tolerance to corruption... This is not Jonathan's 'stealing is not corruption' government

Cutehector:
U dnt have to display ur poverty for the world to see.

Naija9090:
http://www.elombah.com/index.php/reports/5082-shocking-fulani-herdsmen-butcher-man-in-enugu-state

Rolings:
He should be applauded? Where has he been all this while or did Aba just come into existence in 2015?

Anoruo:
no reason can justify why you did not go to church today as long as you are healthy. so don't waste your strength typing any reason

treasureboy:
For the first time since the return of democracy in Nigeria in 1999 a seating president will be vacating office and his vice will step into his seat as acting president!

Meaning, Prof. Osibanjo will become the president and commander in chief of the federal republic of Nigeria till February 10th.

Obasanjo, Yaradua and Jonathan never created such opportunities for their vice. And Buhari is setting the pace. And where are those accusing Buhari of ethnic and religious Bigotry? Where are those who said Buhari is on a mission to Islamize Nigeria?

drnairalov:
but truth be told some lecturers re saddist, i don't know if it's because they have not been paid salary or something, some get enormous joy in failing student!! saying during their time they never found it easy ...bla bla bla and the crap goes on

olaolulazio:
Yeah, all obo are adogan!
Back to back, all pussssssy was a borehole, from ladyh own to aminat own down to Janet's own.
If u have ya firewood, feel free to......

Airforce1:
single and searching at your age

khalleb:
op Lagos state university should top the list

kokoA:
Your letter is very long and has no meaning.

dre11:
Troops on Monday carried out an offensive and rescue operation around Mafa, Dikwa and Kala area of Borno State.
The areas were regularly terrorised by members of the Boko Haram sect.
The intervention of the military saw over 500 persons, mainly women and children being rescued​.​
The raid also led to the killing of about 50 Boko Haram fighters, while some weapons were equally recovered.
DAILY POST obtained images of the assault on Tuesday.


http://dailypost.ng/2016/02/02/troops-kill-50-boko-haram-insurgents-in-mafa-dikwa-kala-rescue-500-photos/

dre11:
Troops on Monday carried out an offensive and rescue operation around Mafa, Dikwa and Kala area of Borno State.
The areas were regularly terrorised by members of the Boko Haram sect.
The intervention of the military saw over 500 persons, mainly women and children being rescued​.​
The raid also led to the killing of about 50 Boko Haram fighters, while some weapons were equally recovered.Hope they're not killing innocent civilians running away from BH?
DAILY POST obtained images of the assault on Tuesday.


http://dailypost.ng/2016/02/02/troops-kill-50-boko-haram-insurgents-in-mafa-dikwa-kala-rescue-500-photos/

Donald3d:
My eyes have seen , my ears have heard, my mouth cannot fit talk am finish (dont mind my english-its my Nairaland english) ,you don see where rat enter person house turn to seven rat ?, ehn ehn, , and i dont believe in witchcraft,I believe in Jesus Christ, but witches exist whether you choose to believe or not .if you dont believe me, please go to benin , and shout around 12 am "witches dont exist and they cannot do me anything " then you will know that introvert is not .airforce1

nikkiking:
People can be so cruel.

I see no reason beaten her up.....its an accident, not like she purposely want to kill people for no reason.


May the souls of the victims rest in peace.