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You just talked about your uneducated dependent mother.

Bro your finances should be your number one priority...
Peace.

CrazyMan:
I don't reply frustrated empty heads who can't even maintain a monthly subscription for their device without begging for assistance from a man. That your frustrated boyfriend earns 80k shouldn't make you believe that everyone is within that league.

Get a life and stay away from my mentions.

Will you shut your dir ty mouth.
All this plenty talk because you make 80k Per month.

Dont go and improve your life and finances.
Be looking for a maid you cannot adequately care for.
I pity the woman with you because i know she will always be in complete lack.

CrazyMan:
If I may ask whats your job as a wife?

Most conflicts in marriages today arise because most of you dumb females don't even know your role as a wife. You just want a husband that's all and have nothing to offer to him aside from spreading your legs for sex and popping out babies.

When a man spends 30days struggling to earn a living in order to give you a better life, you see it as his responsibility. He leaves the home very early and ensures that enough finance is made available for the home.

Then comes back exhausted and finishes his food and you expect him to clear the plates. If you can't keep him company while he eats and prefer to play the role of a restaurant waiter then you must play it to the fullest by clearing the table when he's done. That's your own responsibility.

Please listen to me.
DONT EVER WASTE YOUR TIME.
END THE MARRIAGE IN PEACE AND START AFRESH.
THAT COURT PROCESS WILL DRAIN YOU FOR YEAES.
THE NIGERIAN SYSTEM WILL DISAPPOINT YOU.
YOU WILL CRY.

JUST MOVE ON.
IF NAIJA IS TOO HARD JUST TRY TO RELOCATE.

You are not okay at all and i pity the woman you are with.
If she was the husband, will you say the same?

She should be scared of being single because the husband is a Demi God?

Thank God the husband is not as stu pid as you.

RisenPhoenix:
What were you looking for when you found his subscription and where? And what exactly is your objective for confronting him? Go ahead and pour fuel on the fire. Single motherhood beckons.

Use your father to do Yahoo Yahoo.
Let his death bring money to your pockets.
Be smart .
Time waits for no one

No kids for 8 years.
Are you sure the reason for the divorce is not the infertility issue?

Including your mother.

Please stay away from topics as these.
You definitely lack every knowledge attached to it.

mimimile93:
I KNOW A HOE WOULD COME OUT HERE TO DEFEND HER KIND. GOD PUNISH EVERY WIFE WORLDWIDE

Stories.
That was then not now.
Do you still read the news daily? I hope you know where the Nigerian economy is at the moment?

If he schools abroad, best he remains there after studies.
He can apply for a work permit.

Reichel99:
Getting education outside from countries like France, England and USA would make you a priced treasure when you come back to Nigeria.

1. I avoid sex by watching porn. The sex thing makes me feel like you are dusturbing my space.

2. I keep my circle small, too many friends stesses me out.

3. I take only meaningful calls.

4. I am hardly attracted to people but most are attracted to me because of my beauty.

5. I am on Facebook and instagram but hardly do any uploads.

6. I get irritated when people who are not celebrities live their lives on social media. Why do you have to update strangers and not make a dime from it?

7. Only family members and few friends are aware of my birthday.

8. I hate too much attention.

9. I can only be extra friendly when it involves business. After then, my mouth becomes closed.

10. I avoid reading whatsapp chats immediately to avoid long chats.

I understand the kind of Nigerian man you are.
I wont stress on the ho issue.
Overflogged.

crackhaus:
Indeed.

I like how you didn't try to deny it was ho advice.

Shouldnt ho's be with ho's?
Life should be all about balance.No one feels cheated.

crackhaus:
You.

crackhaus:
That's undercover ho advice.

Easy to spot.

Who?

Trash.
Pay him the exact dose of What he has been dishing out and watch out for the tremendous change.

@Olanna

I went through a similar situation like yours.
Was madly in love so i thought.

One day we got down and that was the end.
All the love flew out of the window.

I hope you know its not love, its the In-love stage.
Read more about it on google.

Its been over 9 years and i laugh at my foolishness.

I know you wont rest if you don't get down as i see you are already getting wet by his calls.

So go and do but dont get caught.

But you will look stupid at the end.

My only issue was the unprotected sex on your part.I don't know if your wife's was protected.
Please take your health seriously, that your side babe also has several or few sexual partners.

Now let's talk about the infidelity issue, you are worried right?
Nigeria men can't accept half of What they dish out daily to their wives.

Some how i am happy this happened.
For men who think cheating is their birth right , there you have it.

That your unattractive wife (In your eyes) might be knocked by someone else.

The world is crazy right now.

Have you gone through one before?

Don't let social media deceive you.

Divorce its not ice cream or beans you put on fire.

Lexusgs430:
Ever heard of a word called 'Divorce'?......

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Never listen to this advice.
You dont understand the bond in marriage so i will excuse you.


[ quote author=addictiv post=78785125]except the h ouse belongs to her, if not call ur sister back, talk to your wife to behave herself. if she tries nonsense send her back to her fathers house let her go and learn home training. your sis can be doing the cooking and help take care of your child until your wife becomes sober[/quote]

Poster check yourself properly to see if its not you.
Maybe you are not doing something right.
How do you treat your wife?
I can see your wife has no faith in your marriage;just look at the savings issue and how she brags about it.
How you treat a woman matters.
I am talking from experience.
My first few years of my marriage were full of insults Blows flying up and down because of how my hubby treated me.I was a tiger .
8 years into the marriage we separated.
Somewhere along the line we reconciled and went for conuselling( Not a church).A proper certified psychologist.
We both realized we have been doing it wrong all along.
Thank God for us now.We are not perfect but we are better and stronger.

What am i saying?
Cant you find a way to provide help to your wife?
I can see she has anger issues and pride.She is only suffering from ignorance because she feels her ways are the best.I believe you saw other good virtues in her.

This seperation people talk about everywhere on social media, its not as easy as you think.Nigerians are talkers .
Why will you want to deprive a child of her mothers love.
Hear this very loud and clear, no woman on earth will love and care for your daughter more than her mother.
Take this to the bank.
When i left my hubby, most guys were only interested in me and not my daughter.The ones who accepted were all faking for the time being.
Please find a way to work through this phase.
Shalom

Keep quiet there.
No rich man came for you.
Now who is suffering the hardship?
Please dont use Dangote again its an insult.

Laeroy:







Poverty stricken man like some of your brothers wey dey village abi.... Shey u no know say no be everybody go marry rich man like dangote... I as a person no like rich man, because majority of them go use u play futubollu.... If NA lie make u ask teni... Niniola sister.

Do you really head a school?
Your IQ seems so low tho and your wrirten English is story for another day.
Poor kids �

I am still waiting please.I need to talk privately with this person.
Thanks

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God bless

oknee:
Dubai

Thanks a lot
I am not bothered over the exam but the venue.
Which country did you write yours?

Thanks

oknee:
I did the exam, passed. You too can do it.

Good day everyone
I am a medical scientist and as such my assessment also needs an exam.

The closest venue to me is Dubai.
Has anyone gone through this before?
Was it successful?
Please encourage me.
I sent them a mail but the response I got showed that Dubai is my best bet

Thanks