You are the Cause of Suicide; you killed them.*

I know everyone wants to write or read something, either against rape or suicide. We are posting everywhere – “Suicide is not the option “, yet daily we make them do it.

The permanent solution is most times not the best option… We’re writing all this shit everywhere, trying to teach people how to face their pains, their fears, their doubts… I Temi Badmus, am going to write about that same shit today, I will write the truth which will sting you. I say you killed them!

Some of you are hypocrites, yes you parents and you also make your children grand rapists.

What about teaching your kids not to be dicks?

What about teaching your kids to know when to keep their mouth shut?

What about teaching your loud kids some other kids across street have phobia for noise; phobia for been touched and phobia for been judged?

How about looking your child in the eyes and say “This is Worng” and giving that child reasons why it is than saying “This is wrong, don’t do it again OK? ”

Few months ago, a final year student committed suicide, and everyone started writing “Suicide is not the option.”

What about the society letting lecturers know that there are certain words you ain’t expected to tell students?
What about teaching your girl child to learn to always mind her business?
What about blending with 21st century and teaching your child how to move when dressed in the the new “world’s clothes” so it won’t turn sexual – you will agree with me that 99percent of the clothes girls wear from 5years these days are sexual compared to the 90’s below….

I once had a friend who almost committed suicide because everyone never believed a part of her story, so I stood up listening to “Prayer for me by Kirk Franklin daily,” standing in gap for her, and with me and some other good people she has been able to face life amidst the agony and we are still following up on her.

What about also teaching your girl child that she doesn’t need to be close to everyone if she feels she is “Miss popular” who every ants and elephants want to be friends with?

What about teaching her that some hearts are fragile?

What about starting an action against “How the society judge people?”

Some people kill themselves because of what the society does or not do.

What about teaching your kids to always find people who can do good when they are too low?

Depression starts when your mind is in the same level as animals, that moment when you can’t make proper decision.

A forty year old man committed suicide, someone said it’s because he never had hope or dreams for life, life was not important to him they said, what about teaching people around you to keep quiet when they have nothing good to say?

Let me tell you something you probably don’t know. In the university, a lot of kids think of committing suicide daily, sometimes just because your kids have bad mouths or perform actions that should not have been done if you had taught them to be better.

Why not teach people that the world may not accept you anyways, why don’t we teach people that you don’t need plenty people on your side, you just need few good people.

Why not teach some fathers not to say what they can’t say to their children to other people’s children?

Why not teach some mothers, that not only the child that comes out of their belly should be loved by them?

Instead of writing stories on why suicide isn’t the best option why not teach the world at large that judging people is not your duty, you are far too dirty, too unimportant to do that if you can’t love them thoroughly.

If everyone picks a part… Why not let’s tell ourselves to act right in all you do because You are the reason why someone out there will never or will ever think of committing suicide.

Every person we have lost to suicide starts with your actions or in-actions…
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FEMINISM… THE MEN ABUSE
Temi Badmus by Temi Badmus June 15, 2019
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Feminism… The world biggest fall.

In their own world… Men are been bullied.

Few years ago while I was still very little I know men found it interesting to make the sentence ” it’s the men’s world ” which of course made it look like everything was actually working in favour for men than it does for women. Hell no!, nothing of such has ever happened since creation, since creation man was made to do more, take more responsibilities, some of them faced it squarely, from having sex to been a father, thinking of How To provide for the family because the society had placed the rule that a man must be able to provide if not he is irresponsible.

So recently I really want to ask men if they are really happy that the world is men’s world.

Man has become a matter that can it’s full potential like they used to anymore.

Then some set of unlearned women started with feminism, to be candid, I feel the constitution should put a law that support gender right but certainly not feminism because this has been used wrongly in our world.

Feminism as of the old means
A social theory or political movement which argues that legal and social restrictions on women must be removed in order to bring about equality of the sexes in all aspects of public and private life

But this century, some learned women who have high level of confusion has confused feminism to be equality with men.

I’m a woman, I do not believe and neither do I accept that men and women are equal.

A woman is to be treated as fragile, but not weak, as a queen not a king, a king protects, a queen needs protection.

I believe the starter of feminism is a mentally dismayed woman any time I think about it.

Man and woman can only be equal when all women accept that men should not be responsible for protecting the world, society and the family.

If you happen to do a survey of how men and women take action towards or against situations, you will realised women are sentimental while men are proactive and this is one Of the reason the world is in more mess.

I’m not saying, women ain’t trying, I’m a follower of gender equality to a level but I’m no support of anything relating to feminism. This is been passed to our younger women generation, and of course it’s causing more havoc if not treated in the tight way.

You can’t force the horse to the river and force it to drink at the river at the same time.

You can’t claim to be same with men, but make them do the harder work, feed the family, focus on the major problem of the society.

I’m a person for gender equality but I’m a person who feels feminism is the world biggest fall.

And if we are not careful, we are breeding a group of women who do not know their values but are fighting for rights…

I have met men, responsible and irresponsible, I have met boys” Who will definitely still grow up but only God knows when” but you can’t compare men with boys, so I find it an abuse on men when you say women are equal to men

A woman should know, he was created out of the sand, then you call him son of the soil? she was created out of him, then you are saying you are equal to him? If he is not equal to the soil, how then can you be equal to him?

Feminism is also like saying you are equal to God… It’s an ideal from Lucifer… No person in their right sense buys it.

Because if you were to be equal,there will be a sand from which you were created, not a pieces of his ribs.

How do you make use of a right, when it’s value is not ensured?

So many female celebrities are busy celebrating how not to be submissive, how not to be guided by a man, how not to have a head…

And at the end we called that Feminism.

Miss Candace Owen, a 55 year old woman said in her own word
“I LEARNT TOO LATE that feminism was a scam. Today I am 55, I am unmarried, I have passed the age I can have children and I have to take medicines to help keep me happy, I am on my medication and that is the scam of feminism.”

-Candace Owens (quoting a respondent)

Don’t deprive yourself of the happiness life has to give by fighting what nature had stamped from the beginning… So many things can be changed, but this particular one… Being equal with men… Can not

http://gimmehear.com/feminism-the-men-abuse/

Temi Badmus

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Bring the dead, take the living.

Dear God, I ain’t here to do a blasphemy.

I know and understand that you have power to change who should leave and who should stay.

Therefore I want to do my negotiations with the hope that it works.

Give back Yar’ Adua take Buhari, that man has created more problem that he can solve.


Take Li Kesh, give us Dagrin, I’m tired of listening to raps that constantly contaminate my soul.

Take some police, give back those soldiers who died in war, fighting for the peace of our dear Country, the police are really of no use.

Take two idiots singing praises to our wicked politicians, bring back Fela Kuti, that dude is got no one preaching his legacy of truth.

Take some of our lecturers, give us the right one back, those guys do not know education should be taught steps by steps.

Bring back Paul take Daddy Freeze, that dude is causing more problem on earth with his lack of understanding.

Give back Josiah Akindayomi, take Rev. Jide Macaulay, that dude understands nothing about inordinate passion.

Bring back, those course mate we have lost, take some alive, those one I want you to take have no value for life.

Bring back Awolowo, take Oshimole; that man has caused more problem than the world can handle.

Bring back Abiola, take Elrufia, his wisdom isn’t useful though you gave him much.

Bring back Professor.Dora Akunyili take Mrs Christiana Ayodele, bad foods and drugs are being produced yearly and Nigerians are losing their lives.

Take Professors of your words who are no doers of your words, give back Pius Adesanmi, the man is a lover and a doer of your word.

Bring back those good students union government who died for the passion of change, take those we have now, they will end up becoming bad politicians who make life unbearable for your people.
Give us Herbert Marcualay, take Tinubu, he is become a curse on the children of Odua
Give back all the Martyr who died in your name, take everyone who abuse, kill, or inflict pains on people because of religion, power, affluence and influence… The world deserve some peace, with too much weed, the seeds will not grow.

That in beseeching you, we may find hope, and peace.

A letter to God Almighty.

Written : Temi Badmus
http://gimmehear.com/bring-the-dead-take-the-living/

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