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Kokaine:
this is the truth. i know where that lady is coming from. i have a close friend who behaves like the guy. he may not intend to defraud you, but his attitude after taking the money will be very offensive. he stops taking calls, thats a very bad attitude. if you have never experienced it before, you will think about confronting him with aggression. life is such a complex matter that can never be read off a book or browsed with a phone

No be small thing, look at his attitude sef, so undeserving and rude. I hope this girl look carefully before marrying this guy. He will frustrate her when it comes to money and financial issues. He won't appreciate things big or small, sacrifice or whatever she will do for him.

Sometimes God has a way of telling us what are about to enter is not the right place for us. They have been going smoothly with no issues, perhaps this is something God wants her to see, the other side of the guy. I hope she listens and see things clearly before she says I do.

rosebuzz:
Only his family members should download d song. mumu boy

Lmao

But the guy didn't try on his part too, for those of you criticizing her but giving lame excuses for the guy are not being fair.

You have the guts to borrow money, not the guts to explain your position? How will she be able to trust him? At least you read where she said she hasn't taken a dime from her man, it shows she is responsible and not the materialistic person who only cares about money.

She worked hard for the money, helped him with it. But look what he did. Not picking her calls and not even feeling bothered to cool her temper. His show of gratitude would have gone a long way.

Let's try to show gratitude abeg, whether man or woman. We should show we appreciate.

Girl run for your life, that man doesn't deserve you. You have a giving heart and it's not bad to help your man when he is in need. His actions doesn't speak of someone worth trusting at all.

Find a way to talk to him to ascertain the reasons for his uncalled actions , if it proved abortive, count the money as a offering to him and move on with your life.

Cold catch me on your behalf o. Chaii only 3years of marriage and husband Don dey behave like this.

Anyway, may God restore your home.

I look forward to our togetherness, our kids, the impact our teamwork will have on them, I look forward to being a wife and a mother, one that makes her man happy and peaceful. Gives him comfort when he's sad, gives him love when he feels alone.

I look forward to kissing him when he comes back from work, asking him if he finds my stomach flat or smooth, if my breasts are still perky and proud like they were before he impregnated me.

I look forward to watching him play with our kids we produced together. Fears about cheating...he better not, I look forward to choking him at night if he does.

I look forward to em hot nights when he will beg for more, saying "baby give it to me" and I'm like "ya ya baby"

I look forward to our old age, fulfilled with grandchildren around us. I look forward to our old age ,with broken and almost toothless mouth we gonna kiss and still tell each other I love you.

"Sorry for my bad English *

dukeprince50:
who is this one? you u deh act like this? somebody steal ur cloth 4 rope?

Hahhahaha, nobody steal my cloth.

But it's weird, ,the excuses and all that she's giving.

She never loved you bro

LadyGoddiva:
Dear, she probably meant 10 months post big chop. That lady could have been transitioning for up to a year before finally cutting off the relaxed ends. You probably just misunderstood her post. In counting how long one has been natural, we don't usually count the transitioning period. So you should have probably just called her out Calmly and expressed your doubts instead of taking such a belligerent attitude.

That was how she said it. I didn't talk out of tune, So she won't give people false hope of buying her wonder hair cream only not to get the desired results as the picture portrays.

It shows she doesn't even knows much about hair if she could not give the specific details about post transitioning or if the lady cut off her relaxed ends. She didn't give any details at all. She summed it with her wonder hair cream and it made me vexed.

Fabulousb36:
One of my friends/customers, her hair is 10months old.
Hair type; 4c
Style: braid out
Hair product used: Hair wonder cream and oil
styled by mua

That hair is not 10months old at all. Stop with the lies. Just say you want to sell your hair wonder cream and bullshit.

Na WA. No be only hair wonder, Na lies wonder.

Let them divorce. I trust whites, once is it obvious they no longer love each other but living like flatmates and like two stubborn goats brought together in a cage they part ways.

Sometimes it is easy for the heart to mend its wounds when it's apart from the one that hurts it.

I do not believe in divorce mind you, but when all possible roads to reconciliation meet in a tiring end then it is better to go apart than to live a lifetime of hate and pain.

Bringing them suddenly together would do no good, it's a gradual process...they should part ways and think things through.


*by the way*

You said your mother's pride is wrecking your home.. what of your father's actions? Not being able to give account of his 400k salary, he impregnated another woman, his shameful show of responsibility? His actions didn't contribute?

Why should you only blame your mother ? Your dad nko? .

Na WA o. Everything for marriage Na only woman dem go blame.

It is OK for your dad to cheat and won't find it disgusting but your mom does the same you find it so.

O.p, in all sincerity, you are not a good son.

Put yourself her shoes..how would you feel when your husband neglects you emotionally and physically? Goes to meet another woman for a month while you're there at home feeling unwanted? Gives you disgrace?

she might be suffering from self esteem as a result of your father's action, Perhaps also be depressed. Her actions are just desperate measures of being happy.

She needs counseling not this your childish and unreasonable yeye attitude. You're only a child not her God. Mtchewwwww.

She won't have sex with them, claims she refused them sex and kiss but what's she doing in their midst ?

They should shut up abeg, when they were killing innocent people with their cows and herdsmen nobody said anything.

Well I do not blame them o, if not kanu that made things like this, who dash monkey feathers?

Igbos, I no sorry 4 una at all. You guys need to get rid of kanu or else he will put you guys into deeper trouble and shiit. Even a rat will wake up one day and throw insults at you.

I love you grandpa, I'm sorry I never had the courage to tell you that I love you. Rest in peace.

Dem don chop your money . Just go sit down and drink water cos very very I say unto you, your money Don enter one chance.

monex:
fornication is a sin and we know it is not the only sin. What is your point exactly?

that we fornicate does not mean we shouldnt acknowledge is a sin in most religions

Drinking too much is a sin, smoking is not one of the trait of a good Christian. Go to the hospital and see people dying cos of liver and lung disease yet how many fanfare have people given it? Or you think it's only fornication that can give you disease?

Nobody talks about abstaining from drunkenness and the dangers, nobody talks about the rape of little children, nobody talks about the danger of dishonesty but when it comes to sex everybody will have a thing or two to say so as to feel holy
and righteous.

You see why Christianity is a joke? It stinks of hypocrisy and eye service. Do what they like and you a good in eyes of men.....but not God cause he sees the heart.

Talk about sex and everybody is saying yes yes yes, talk about Lies, drunkenness, dishonesty, sheer wickedness, adultery, domestic violence and lots more and watch them shrink into their holes.

My dear, what I'm saying is that, let our heart be pure. That is the true identification of a true Christian.

A driver urinating on one his motor wheel

Na WA. See someone future mother getting naked.

She's a cutie, see her small 2naira teeth. She wants to start chewing meat now.

God bless your home.

Yoshy:
Saying I'm abstaining to avoid STDs can never be absurd in anyway, while I agree with you that there are some non sexual ways to get STDs, the chances are higher and the disease deadlier with the ingnorant stigmatization we see in this part of the world. So my friend, if abstinence can give one 90% chance of staying safe, it's the best we have got.

Let God lead us amen. It's not by self righteousness but by Grace, protection and mercy. Goodnight.

WORDWORLD:
THE TOPIC IS ON SEXUAL ABSTINENCE!!! IT IS NOT ABOUT LIST OF SINS IN THE BIBLE. FOCUS ON THE TOPIC. WHY DO YOU HAVE TO MAKE IT SEEM AS IF THE POST IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH UNLESS WE MENTION ALL THE SINS EVER. HAVE YOU EVER COME ACROSS ANYONE THAT DOES NOT COMMIT SINS? DO YOU NOT COMMIT SINS NO MATTER HOW LITTLE? INFACT YOUR COMMENT IS EVEN A SIN IT STINKS ENVY. SO, A PROSTITUTE WAS SAVED. ARE TRYING TO PROMOTE PROSTITUTION OR WHAT?!

I'm not trying to promote prostitution rather telling people they should work on having a pure heart than picking on a sin to abstain from while they go all the way doing others.

You don't have to write in capital letters and what envy are you saying? Pray tell? Anyway I won't quote you again, it's a total waste of time as I do not have the strength to debate on matters everyone opinions differs from.

Yoshy:
Pretend God is not in the picture and see the point of OP, STDs does not know all these things you've said. Abstinence is still the ultimate, the peace of mind alone, cannot be overemphasized.

Ya I know, but most point they focus on is God. And besides, sex is not the only way to get STD, you can get it innocently through a blood transfusion or airborne disease, rape, body contact with semen or saliva.

You should be informed about sex, STDS, or you choose to abstain .A Virgin can have STD without knowing. Saying you're abstaining cos of STD is absurd.

Let God Guild us amen.