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What of lies, cheating, adultery, love of money, not showing kindness to needy people, not looking out for the widow men and women? Not having love for our brothers and sisters... Are these not sins more greater than fornication?

See, I'm a realist and do not belong to the abstain bal bla bla and bla. I belong to those who does good in action and in heart. Cos the heart is what God searches for. What good will it do you to abstain from sex but lie with the very passion of hell?

When the world of Jericho fell down, who was saved among thousands of people? Probably there were lots of virgins too in Jericho. But A PROSTITUTE was saved!!!! A prostitute among them all!!! As in, when I read that verse of the bible my spirituality gets hot like fire. She believed in God and saved the spies of Israelite, at that moment her life changed.

Stop being holy holy people, mostly which Africans are guilty of. They will be wicked at heart but shiny as light outside.

You see how the whites acted in the mist of the recent Florida storm, didn't you see how genuinely caring they were? They helped with food, money, medicals, even saved mere chickens. How many of you here shouting abstain abstain shiit would saved a mere chicken in a face of a storm?

God sees the heart...not your actions. Please everybody let's have a Godly fear in everything we do. You that's abstaining from sex but have a cold blooded heart is not different from the one doing it.

When it comes to Christianity in Africa, there is misconception. That's why I hardly go to church.

Being a Christian is much more than abstaining from sex. Let's get a grip on our overbearing righteousness when it comes to sex.


Sex is not the only sin listed in the Bible.

Nellofficial:

Why na bros? That pix is not good na

Chaiii, people are in danger instead of Nigerians to focus on the validity of the story and perhaps look for ways to rescue those girls, some are commenting about the state of their breasts.

Don't you know the breast under stress reduces and look slack? In their condition you want a standing ovation breast? How long have they be kept captive and how come?

Na WA. God will guild and help us in this Nigeria.

Wow this is so lovely. Your boys are cute and please keep them for my future daughters.

Happy anniversary and many more to you and your lovely wife.

I will say and still say it...some men lack manners and good upbringing. They are worst than a girl and these set of men are vile, full of pride and hate.

God will help us women o. Society will say a girl ought to have good manners but a boy is Good to go so far he is a man making money.

God Forbid!! I will choose a poor man over a rich arrogant, vile, rude, and pride puff man. I want peace in my life.

Some men are worst than the devil. Disgusting elements with dicccck for a brain.

If I talk my own eh chaii. Anyway God just sorry for me and bless me with potable yansh. Make I manage my body as I dey. Maybe when I marry, my oga "natural tin milk" go make me fat.

I don't want war, it's the children, our future generations that will suffer it. It's our women who will get raped and abused on the pretense of war. God I pray o, let war not happen.

This Kanu, the God I serve will not grant you your wish through bloodshed. The bloodshed you are looking for will fall back on your head In Jesus name.

This lady is very pretty o. It's good to have peace and love in your marriage. It makes you glow, I wish her a lasting married life.

Her husband is making her happy for sure

For peace sake she should apologize. There comes a time in a man's life he needs to lie down low under provocation for peace to reign.

Her being apologetic doesn't mean she has degraded herself for her husband, being stubborn headed doesn't mean her husband gonna apologize.

Sometimes we should let some certain things go simply cos we want peace.

Her husband is stomping his foot on the ground already, sighs of "I don't care what happens to this marriage ". Things will hijack from here, probably worsened with time if she is still insisting on being apologized to.

Let her say sorry, later when his mind is calmed she should vet her to her husband in a subtle way, perhaps he would listen.

The things people gat to put up cos of marriage sha.....your spouse will deliberately hurt you and belittle your worth without remorse yet you are expected to still stick with the marriage. Oghenebiko o .

Fourwinds:
are you angry...? misquoted... the like is not the step you are insinuating...those response were according to your previous statement... we can be talking for now

I'm not angry I like asking questions so I get a clear picture of what someone is saying. Happy Sunday.

Fourwinds:
why now... you know I like you... it is not because of that... let's take a step forward

You like me, A step forward? A step forward to where?

Reminds me of a day a friend came to visit me in school. She stepped into my room and I smelled funny stuff oozing around. She removed her shoes and kept it aside....jesu...come see odor. I was almost threw off the ground. I took the shoe from the room and kept it in the kitchen, I would have taken it outside but I don't want a situation they steal it on top my head. Till day break I could not sleep as the house was smelling bad.

It's an embarrassing something I could not even open up to tell her. It's her first time coming to my school for entry exams. I just gat to lock up. Thank Jesus for miracle as the odor died down the next day.

Fourwinds:
marriage things....Ginaz prepare oooo because it is getting close

I'm not ready o. You want to marry me cos of the "tin"

Nice one though you both looked bored in the first pix. You didn't wanna take the pix on that day? You looked tired.

Na WA. I hope you have money to take care of the child.

Na WA sha. Was it not the same nairaland I read when an American guy saved his gf from death by pushing her away from a car which he ended up sustaining injury and was ridden in a wheelchair.? The thread graced FP I think.

Everybody was hailing and calling him brave.

So we have a similar situation here now and everybody is calling this David a fool.

I dislike this country with a passion eh. They will never support their own. Never never. People's own will always look better in their eyes.

For those of you cursing the young man, he is braver than all of you combined. Some people cannot even defend themselves from being beaten up from a fight sef.

Na person like dis dem dey call man. Brave heart. Not men that are good at beating women at home.

It's the new world we live in, everybody want to belong. A young girl has Facebook account, IG account, twitter, snapchat just for pictures posting and a sense of belonging.

We need to set our priorities right! Too much of every thing is bad. Life is not a competition....you should not do things cos others are doing it.

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I can hold a conversation to any length, even if I don't know much about a particular topic I try to be humorous and jovial. The only downside is I'm an introvert (always indoors)

lovelygurl:
Lol, I do they are now in braids. It's whenever it's not in any protective style that I do it every week. Usually when it's open then it is for at least a month before making another protective style

But someone told me that if you wanna maintain a natural hair you got to get it fixed immediately after taking the former one off. I find it horrific, won't the hair be given a moment for rest? How can you make your hair immediately after the other? They said my hair is strong because I leave it too much before the next fixed. Is it true?

Ramos16:
It is 2:00 AM where I am now, and I can't sleep, trying hard but it is not coming, that is why I am here, and I have work by morning.

Use my remedy and thank me later. Onions is the answer. It's a sedative.

I take onion, slice it in hot water and drink. In The next minute I'm dozing. It works, I used to suffer from insomnia, I would take sleeping pills till someone just bluntly told me to stop since I got addicted and couldn't do without them. At a point they stopped working.

Onion is natural and few side effect like not sleeping immediately then you developed a slight headache cos your body is shut down and ready for sleep but you're disturbing it.

Try it guys, it works. I drink it before I sleep. (those suffering from severe sleeping problems like me.)

Oh my God!! Four abortions

She get mind o. I can even imagine the pains

Girls should please learn about their bodies, when I was in SS1 I had a fair knowledge about ovulation, pregnancy, and menstruation circle. I bought a book which helped me greatly in understanding my body. I knew my safe periods, I knew when I'm ovulating , when my period gonna come, the days, Circle and all that.

I will keep this precious book for my kids, so they learn more about the human body.

All my mom told me the first day I started to see blood as a woman was "make boy no touch you o, you go get belle, make dem no deceive you. Start to wear bra to hide your breasts" . My brothers and sisters, na so my mama tell me o

Thank God I was reserved, all my mates got pregnant in fact two of my best friends (they never had any information from their mothers about how a woman's body looked like). If not I was insatiable for knowledge, I might have gotten pregnant cos the information from my mom wasn't what actually happens, a boy can't touch you in the arms and you get pregnant of course.

So please, let's teach our children the vital information they need to know about their bodies. Let's be a friend to them, we might be saving situations like this.


When I become a mother, I would choose to be a friend instead cos a lot of children have mothers but no experienced friend to teach them right so they go the wrong way.

I'm sorry for the predicament, o.p have the courage to move forward. I ain't gonna blame you or be harsh with you. We are all humans and make mistakes. You are pardoned, you are only human. Stay blessed.

rattlesnake:
they will soon burst his drug cartel

Haba, bros be happy 4 him na. If na you, you no go like enjoy life?

EternalTruth:
ur fada

You lack manners. I will not degrade myself to your level. You belong to the dirty ground where goats that lack manners are kept. I'm better than exchanging words with you.

EternalTruth:
then die in ignorance

Then go to hell!

EternalTruth:
having scabies isn't a nice thing to experience. Send me a pm lemme tell u

Oga you will have to tell me here or you will wait till old age for my PM

EternalTruth:
u mean u don't know the meaning of scabies or u're just kidding?

Seriously I don't....the reason I asked.

If it's just a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship it would have been easy but marriage is quite different . You took a vow o.

He should have to forgive, after all God forgives us upon all our sins. Moreover love covers a multitude of sins. Thank God he still loves his wife, he should for the sake of love forgive her wholeheartedly.

Hope, faith, love but the greatest of them all is love.

EternalTruth:
scabies can be defined as the process whereby Prick and Toto meet together

But that's sex na

This whywhyogun is just outright disgusting. I wonder what the mods do when they are supposed to do their work instead they go banning innocent nairalanders for little mistakes.

I find whywhyogun and igbeshit threads so revolting and I cringed anytime I see their worthless, uneducated, meaningless topics. Without checking the moniker I can accurately tell who would create threads so useless to humanity. Even a goat won't see anything worth accumulating let alone a sane human being.

Whywhyogun, please do us a favour not posting whatever trash your brain could think of. The world would be a better place without it.

Jesus! Is it a crime to share the same air with a fellow human being? Damn!.