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While I don't like his lifestyle, I like his personality. He speaks maturely.

Momful:
I didn't want to dive into so much details.., but the part about me hawking.., my sis once tried sending me jewelries to sell. he seized them and accused her of trying to introduce me to prostitution.

I have always been told to hang on by both families and I have done that and more.., but things went from worse to worst to unbearable

I now wish that I had not listened to them then and walked.., things are so so complicated right now

Things would have been easier if you didn't have this much kids. 3 is a lot to cater for by one person alone , a person who doesn't have a job, it is a burden.

Get the thoughts of moving out from your mind for now . right now , it is to look for an alternative way you can survive. If you can plan with your sister to set up a business for you where she is , then you move with your kids . you can't leave them, they are too young to be left alone .

If your husband comes back for you, you tell the whole family and everyone you're going back if he let you work and be financially independent. Give him a condition.

Make a plan so when you move out, things will be easier for you. You can ask family and friends to give a financial support to start a side business so you cater for your kids if you so wish to leave your marriage .

Pls don't move out without a backup plan. You will move from fry pan to fire when frustrations start coming . children complicate a lot.

Momful:
ok

what about these accusations of me trying to kill him? I can't cope anymore and he's very serious

A guilty conscience fears no accusations. If you didn't do what he is accusing you of then why are you bothering? Let him talk however he wants to so far you're clean at heart .

Madam, life is not as easy as you think. You have no job and who will sponsor you in your family if you decide to leave ? So you will just be walking about town while your kids are not with you ? At this stage they can't fend for themselves for crying out loud.

You have already brought children into this mess. And about the abuse , try to get out of his temper for now, When your last born is in school then you can look for a job. You sound like you're just tired of the marriage and have no fight in you to strive .

Leaving isn't the thing , what are the plans you have made to live a productive life after leaving your marriage. What would be the fate of the children ? How are they going to cope with just their father if you leave them ? How do you expect a 2yrs old child to cope without his mother? Eh?

Look for a side business, Just don't sit there. Sell pure water , soft drinks , small chops. Do something madam! Fight for your right to earn a living.

Sis... Calm down. Try to look for an alternative first .

The kids , how are they gonna cope without their mother at this stage if you leave them ? If you decide not to, how are they gonna cope without financial support since you have no job?

I would suggest you start looking for a job anywhere you can. Start from there , it is not as easy as you think to fend for children in this economy by yourself and I'm having a feeling that your husband won't help you financially if you decide to move away with the kids.

Kindly wait till your husband has enrolled your last baby in school , then start looking for a job. You don't have to tell him till you have started working . I know you're tired of the marriage but don't rush out of it just yet. Still push through.

No bad luck. You are simply a careless person in a coincidental way.

Small small OK?

No go break madam nunu cos of children biko.

She's dead.
She was not only brilliant but pretty. I didn't know she had died years back till I met her bro one day by chance and I asked after her and I got the devastated news of her demise .

Oh life !!! I got home and I lost focus , I kept reminiscing a lot about life. Such brilliance, such magnetic brain she made us felt like we had no brain.

Whenever her soul is, may she keep resting in peace. I wept for you my dear friend, like candle in the wind, you were cut short unexpectedly.

God knows best.

ayeesha:
I know it's easier said than done cos the human mind will always be naturally curious to know what's going on with the other person but please, stay away from his Facebook page for a while.

Focus! Focus!! Focus!!! On you and your children ALONE for now.

I don't know what she saw in that man. Instead of her to focus on her life and kids, she's stalking a man who never did anything for her. I saw her pictures and I was just shaking my head. She looked so stressed , I was shocked.

Had she listened to her parents advise to leave the man she might not be going through the hard life she's living now and on top of her suffering , she's still stalking a man who adds no value to her life or children.

Na wa. May God help us .

Goodtimesahead:
See this one o. Person dey hustle to meet economic needs, at least Garri and okro soup on table but you are talking about stressed out and relaxation. How many people in this category ever have time to relax in this country? Was the time even enough to hustle talk more of relaxing?

So one should die cos they want to make ends meet?
Have you seen her formal pictures ? The stress is taking a toll on her judging from her recent appearance. Biko... Make person hustle but not to die put. Once in a while , she can take a chill coke , buy meatpie , relax and chill away the stress.

You look very stressed out, Try to find time for self relaxation once in a while.

Good luck to you on your business

You're in lust with the ex friend of yours cos you never mentioned anything remotely substantial about him except how attractive and how wet he makes you feel.

You better get the feelings off your head , I feel he accused you wrongly to get you off him and it worked .

Work on yourself and never contact that guy , it will cheapen you greatly . rule number 1, never cheapen yourself for a guy, it's a big see finish.

You're in lust babe and it's a pity you're mistaking it for love. You have no ideal what love is.

Kindly break up with this current boyfriend.. You're doing him great injustice. Imagine if he was the one who hasn't gotten over a girl while dating you?

"I even bought ice cream for her yesterday and she collected it and lick".

I procrastinate a lot. I want to stop it.

I like to cut the penis of rapists in 3 ways.

1) tie them up and pour fuel only in the useless dickkk and light fire to it. They will be alive while seeing their dickk burn .

2) tie them up, unleash bulldogs to ear their dickk off.

3) pour very hot pot of oil on their rapist dickk.

Instead of you to look for helpers , I suggest you look for a Job to do to keep your soul together instead of just being hopeless.

Stop feeling hopeless. May God make ways for you.

What they see in him that they have to wife him by all means I don't know.

Disgusting piece of trash called 9ice, cheating is in his gene.

Confusedlove:
Before you insult me, please read this carefully.

I fell in love with a married man. This is a very complicated story because I know how wrong this whole situation is but I know it's very easy for anyone to say "just leave him and find your own" but this situation has led me into depression.
I met him some time ago through a friend and I felt it was just going to be a friendship thing.
FAST forward to some months later, he's even better than all the boyfriends I've had combined. He's always there when I need him, he's always all over me and he's just so sweet and to top it all up, his D game is 100%
Everything was going all fine till the friend who hooked us up started to spread lies about me to him and everything has changed now. He's distant now and acts like I'm a whole new person in his eyes.
This whole new situation is almost driving me crazy because I didn't even do all the things I was accused of. I know dating him is wrong but I'm in love with him.
Now I can't accept the fact that everything's changed just because someone lied about me.

Like I said, I know this is wrong but one way or the other, I can't seem to do what's right.

Leave married men alone, Leave people's husband alone. I don't care about your damn feelings but I want you to know what you're doing its wrong.

noeloge82:
Good job

Thank you

bozz007:
congrats. More wins!

Thanks.

SaveMeLord:
5.8Kg is a very big one, how many weeks did it take before they attained such a weight?

4 months

Everyone I hope everything is good o. I just sold my birds for 10k each. They weight about 5.8kg . I hope I tried .

The ones not up to 4kg was sold for 7k. So far so good. The birds are not even enough cos customers keep coming , as I am right now, all my birds have been booked and sold .

My first poultry experience is somewhat stressful but beautiful. Thanks to those who helped me along the way, may God bless you all.

I've not calculated my profits yet cos the remaining birds are yet to be taken by their owners.

Yamiriflathead:
Your post reeks of persecution complex syndrome and victim mentality..
Yawns... Bye

That sounds exactly like what a loser who has nothing else to say would say. Run off.

Yamiriflathead:
Put yourself and myself to a vote on a thread and let's see who's more popular..
Start from politics section and then to romance section.
I'm happy you couldn't refute my claim about Martinez's popularity

Popularity gotten from riding on the women folks. Wow!! The achievement got to make scientists green with envy . I wonder why the popularity hasn't gotten him an award outside nairaland. Ooops! I forgot ! What's where the need of him ends . hahahahh.

And as for you, you can lap the poo off your master if you want which I'm gonna obliged you ( you can't drive a dog away from it's master)

Now as for that vote , I rather read a good book than waste it on your assumed popularity.

Run off and go back to where you from.

Yamiriflathead:
Martinez has carved a niche for himself on Nairaland. He's not anyone's wannabe
You, who are you?
Never seen your moniker before

Carved indeed!!! Apart from women's matter, what does he to with his life. And you, who are you? I'm just seeing your moniker in this forum.

Martinez39s:
You are still full of śhit. Good day.

Failure get back to the hole you came back from.
With your life like an undigested vomit .

Martinez39s:
You are so full of crap. In your tiny lizard brain, does that "well selected" screenshot serve as irrefutable evidence of your claim? Are you telling me you couldn't have made that up or even a full contrived chat if you wanted to? SMH.

You're so mighty that I would bother myself to clone a chat na. Cos you're dangote or the president of Nigeria or cos I want a job appointment with you abi?

Get down from your high horse, Ubuja wannabe. I won't disclose full chat cos of privacy reasons.

Deal with it and stop being a sadistic unsavory element, not all women who's cut out the way you think. You're so full of crap that even if you were washed with hypo you remained a crappy poo of wasted element that you are in this forum.

Martinez39s:
I thought I was the only one that didn't believe her bullśhit story. I don't trust the stories or words that come out of a woman's mouth without evidence because they are full of śhit, and to boldly speak the lie as if it is the truth is their speciality.

As for the ladies shouting "it will soon be the OP's turn" or "karma is real" should swear that they will help a close man friend before a female acquaintance. How many guys have they helped without looking for something in return?

You're full of shiit and crap. If its a Guy's story you would believed right ? Keep the same energy you have right now for your daughters when men treat them the same way the o.p story went.

That was my reply to him. You crappy piece of poo.

DrayZee:
Guys have a lot of responsibilities, fine. As you didn’t see any guy to give, you couldn’t even help your “besties” out?

You aren’t a friend to them. If you truly saw them as friends, you wouldn’t have hindered any opportunity from reaching them.
It’s even worse that the stupid reason you have is that “they won’t appreciate it”?
They should bow down and worship you just because you decided to help them out?

Even more stupid is the fact that you’re judging your “besties” (people you are supposed to know better than anyone) by worthless gender stereotypes.
Wahala for who no fit think for himself.

Exactly . you summarised everything as it is. He's just being wicked . there was a guy who offended me. A work opportunity came and I gave his contact so he could get the job. He was called for the job at my street . my house is close to the location. When he was coming he saw me and I could see how ashamed he felt when he saw me.

He sent me a message apologizing for his mistakes but I waved it off as nothing .

We should learn to keep differences aside when it comes to helping people.

tyup:
I never said i was trying to Help expecting anything in return, my paragraphs stress on Appreciation and girls doing little or nothing for Guys/male and it's wrong they shouldn't always have to be at the receiving end that's why i was looking at giving Guys not girls. The stuff would have favoured Guys more knowing the fact we gotta live with responsibilities all our lives

What you did is extremely wicked and unchristian. God shines his light upon the wicked and the good. He shines his light upon the rich and the poor and gives them food to feed from the soil.
What if those girls were your sisters ? You judged them based on theories. May God have mercy on your soul .