jmichlins:
so because he is the husband he has every right to cheat and do all sort of things to the woman cause he knows that she always endure it. Life is a one time thing do not allow anyone ruin it for you because they know you will always have their back

I'm having a hard time believing you're an adult because you reason like a naive child. She tells one side of the story and you're already crucifying the husband without knowing his side of the story. And the fact is, from her side of the story it's obvious she's responsible for her predicament and very likely the most culpable between the two; that's why she's not the one pushing for a divorce but the husband is. She's probably holding back on some crucial information that possibly would indict her in this case, so why not ask her to tell you the whole truth, because women are known in cases like this to only tell the part of the story that makes her look innocent and the victim, even though she might be the aggressor. I mean what kind of a woman sublty threatens to kill her husband openly to his face and calls that a joke? He would be stupid to ignore her threats. Wake up, this is the real world and some women have killed their husbands simply based on their insecurity whims or unsubstantiated fabrications. For the fact that she's apologetic further proves she knows she did things wrong and, I think it's a good sign she remorseful — if genuine. But you didn't consider things from every perspective but were so quick to take on her side just because the complainant is a female, thus acting like the typical Nigerian male that is a toadying sycophantic obsessed bootlicker to girls that don't even give the least flying fu©k about you. Maybe you should buy a skirt and wear it around, so people can easily differentiate between us real men and you b!tch pûssy niggas that always suck up to women

cionon:
I confided in my husband when he accused me of listening to people. I then opened up and gave him an instance that if i listen to people i would ne doing what they asked me to do.I told him the advice a former neigbhour of his gave me. Of which I told her I can't do such. Now he uses it against me. I feel bad because he didn't even say what I told him exactly. He changed the story. He lied about it.


My husband goes about telling everyone i am diabolic because I jokingly told him that he should be grateful I don't have a wicked heart if not I will use magun to catch him and his mistress. Which he even replied that he knows i dont have that mind. That i am still a child.
this was said around march of 2015

Fastward to November he started asking for a divorce because he of his mistress he met online. Telling both his colleagues and family members that I am diabolic which is not true. I feel bad because this same man have also confided in me telling me things about his boss and others. We are currently separated

I just regret everything. I regret confinding in him and opening up to him. With pleas from everywhere, he is still insisting on divorce.

You must truly be diabolic because something poked me in the eye while I was reading this — looks like it was your bullshit! So that man better hurry and get a divorce before you kill him with your bullshit. What kind of woman subtly threatens her husband with magun? Obviously, a psychotic over-jealous b!tch that can actually do it, and secretly be ecstatic at his funeral.


NB:

Dear Nigerian men,

The number of Landlady's in Nigeria is exponentially rising. The question is what is killing all the husbands; or better yet "WHO" is killing them - murder or natural death? As far as we know Death is not a feminist. Y'all men should wise up before you go 6ft under. It usually starts with "I was only joking" when a woman wants to harm you.

debola23:


Oh boy....o ti binu, don't have a hernia o pls.
Epistle is too long for wetin no concern you.
Eya sorry, go and refill your meds, I forgive you

"Refill your meds", said an ugly oversized stup!d gluttonous pig-shaped dinosaur-looking dimwit...bwahahaha, good joke. You're so horribly fat that when you passed the front of the TV, 6 episodes of Game of Thrones had gone by. Now go see your doctor and psychiatrist before you have a heart attack, because scientically speaking, over-fat obese people like you don't live long - but you're probably too stup!d to have known that.

Arsenate:
"afromentioned"??
A confirmed bimbo here

the truth has been spoken! That Kenonze or whatever the hell is her name is just an arrogant illiterate slowpoke that has nothing to offer except to put her tormenting ugly face and over-exploited boobs on display. She neither has beauty nor brains. Probably just another illiterate dwarf-sized ugly olosho hunting for gullible guys on Nairaland!

SaintHephzibah:
discouraged not discuraged.
Beautiful Illiterate

Don't be too modest and tell it as it is. She's simply a relentless stark illiterate!

SaintHephzibah:
the thing is. Na your fellow nairaland guys de fu(c)k up. When konji holds them and they take a look at that lady they will be quoting her and professing her beauty and her head swells up. Tell her to look herself twice in the mirror. Nonsense

Which lady's head is swelling up; do you mean the empty head of that arrogant ugly dwarf- how can? I couldn't possible ask that horrendous creature to look in a mirror even once, not to mention twice; because that would be too traumatic for the poor mirror.

kenonze:


Its[b]It's an error.
It has been corrected.
Look at other people 'Look at the other people' or 'Look at those other people' that quoted me,
Trust 'truth' hurts ...and pretty sure the truth is hammering away on your dull brain right now

Hope u aren't in those 'the'' class aforementioned. [/b]

One error too many means it's not an error but you're a chronic halfwit illiterate. So, stop trying to cover up the obvious by lying you made an error. You shouldn't be ugly and stup!d at the same time - pick a struggle you this pompous over-gloating moronic unintelligent dwarf.

kenonze:
She may have German gene.
BTW,
Whenever i see all these NL guys pics, i get discouraged replying quotes and pm.

Don't let anyone deceive you, you're seriously ugly; so ugly you had to put your boobs on display to make up for your ugliness, but it's still not enough. Let the pretty Nairaland girls do the complaining, not an ugly attention-thirsty dwarf like you....rubbish!

Stuntkid172:
You guys should take a look at this picture and see for your self.

The tallest woman/lady in Kogi state.
she was given the award by former Governor Late, Prince Audi Abubakar.


*Am the one in the 1st pics (the guy in black polo)*

OP pm me at least her phone number or more. I've been searching for her type well over 3 years now since the last one. I'm in love with her genes. I just need 2 or 3 wonderful sons from her. She's definitely never had the kind of magnificent love, romance and companionship I have to offer.

dainformant:
The Chief of the Air Staff (CAS), Air Marshal Sadique Baba Abubakar, boosted the morale of troops in the frontline as he paid them a working visit to Maiduguri and Yola during the Easter celebrations...The CAS assured the troops that the Nigerian Air Force would do everything within its reach to make the personnel comfortable in order to operate optimally.

As a result, he assured the personnel in Maiduguri that their welfare needs would be addressed even as he noted the current shortage of living quarters in the Units.

Meanwhile, Air Marshal Abubakar further availed himself the opportunity of his visit to the North East to pay homage to the political and traditional leadership in Borno and Adamawa States. The CAS visited the Shehu of Borno, His Royal Highness, Alhaji Abubakar Ibn Umar Garbai El-Kanemi, in his palace to express gratitude to the Shehu and people of Borno State for their continued support to the Nigerian Air Force.

Air Marshal Abubakar used the occasion to provide insight into the plan by the NAF to expand its current manpower disposition and facilities in Borno State.

Similarly, in Yola, the Chief paid homage to the His Excellency the Governor of Adawama State, Senator Bindo Umaru Jubrilla; and the Lamido of Adamawa, His Royal Highness, Alhaji Muhammadu Barkindo Aliyu Musdafa, where he expressed similar appreciation for their support to the NAF in the state.

http://www.nationalhelm.com/2016/03/photos-see-how-chief-of-army-staff.html

Why should the chief of air staff of the entire federal republic of Nigeria be bowing to a common overrated unspectacular leader. That's too ridiculous and a deplorable stain on the honorable image of our armed forces. If anyone ought to bow, it is these erroneously over-glorified common citizens that should pay respect to him, because they are no different from any Nigerian civilian. This undeserved sycophantic system by the government to these supposed "royal families" in the entire Nigeria must stop

igwe123:

I laugh at your ignorance, Everything in Igboland is decentralised and tends towards the center. Igbos have Forbes billionaires and the highest number of Forbes multi millionaires. OP decide to stop at five for a mischievious reason. check out this pic

Really? Then you should laugh at yourself because you're truly the ignorant one in this case. You need to stop being delusional and get your head out of the fables you're living in. I'm feeling generous right now, so let me educate you a bit. The Forbes reference you made actually refers to company net worth as per company assets, not personal net worth, which is what we're dealing with here. Cosmas Maduka isn't a dollar billionaire, let that reality sink in okay. I wonder why people like you just think you can concoct imaginary figures and statistics from thin air and people owe you validation that you're accurate. Forbes is arguably the most internationally acclaimed credible provider of global wealth statistics or indices cut across different categories. Here's the list of 50 Richest Africans, in terms of personal net worth; and the first ibo man on that list is #31 Tony Elumelu, and even he isn't a $billionaire...yet. So, don't even dare talk of Cosmas Maduka. He might be a billionaire in naira, but he's not a dollar billionaire, or even anywhere close to it. The pure water seller still has a very long way to go to achieve such a feat.

http://www.forbes.com/africa-billionaires/list/#tab:overall

Rank Name Net Worth Age Origin of Wealth

#1 Aliko Dangote $16.7 B 58 cement, sugar, flour
#2 Nicky Oppenheimer $6.6 B 70 diamonds
#3 Christoffel Wiese $6.5 B 74 retailing
#4 Johann Rupert $6.3 B 65 luxury goods
#5 King Mohammed VI $5.7 B 52 diversified
#6 Nassef Sawiris $4.9 B 55 construction, chemicals
#7 Mike Adenuga $3.5 B 62 telcom, oil
#8 Isabel dos Santos $3.4 B 42 investments
#9 Issad Rebrab $3.2 B 72 food
#10 Naguib Sawiris $3 B 61 telecom

#11 Mohamed Mansour $2.5 B 68 diversified
#12 Othman Benjelloun $2.05 B 83 banking, insurance
#13 Folorunsho Alakija $1.7 B 65 oil
#13 Koos Bekker $1.7 B 63 media, investments
#13 Youssef Mansour $1.7 B 70 diversified
#16 Femi Otedola $1.6 B 53 gas stations
#17 Onsi Sawiris $1.55 B 86 construction, telecom
#18 Aziz Akhannouch $1.4 B 55 petroleum, diversified
#18 Yasseen Mansour $1.4 B 54 diversified
#20 Stephen Saad $1.2 B 51 pharmaceuticals

#21 Mohammed Dewji $1.1 B 40 diversified
#22 Patrice Motsepe $1.05 B 54 mining
#23 Abdulsamad Rabiu $1 B 55 cement, sugar, flour
#24 Jannie Mouton $970 M 69 financial services
#25 Rostam Azizi $900 M 51 telecom, investments
#26 Samih Sawiris $850 M 59 real estate, hotels
#27 Mohamed Bensalah $800 M 45 financial services
#27 Miloud Chaabi $800 M 87 diversified
#27 Sudhir Ruparelia $800 M 60 real estate
#30 Theophilus Danjuma $750 M 77 oil

#31 Tony Elumelu $700 M 52 investments
#31 Bhimji Depar Shah $700 M - consumer goods
#33 Anas Sefrioui $650 M 58 real estate
#34 Moulay Hafid Elalamy $620 M 56 insurance
#35 Lauritz (Laurie) Dippenaar $610 M 67 banking, insurance
#36 Said Salim Bakhresa $600 M 67 manufacturing
#37 Jim Ovia $550 M 62 banking
#38 Michiel Le Roux $530 M 66 banking
#39 Raymond Ackerman $500 M 84 retailing
#39 Mohammed Indimi $500 M 67 oil

#41 Adrian Gore $480 M 51 financial services
#42 Cyril Ramaphosa $450 M 63 investments
#42 Ali Wakrim $450 M - gas
#44 Gerrit Thomas (GT) Ferreira $420 M 67 banking, insurance
#45 Gus Attridge $410 M 55 pharmaceuticals
#46 Markus Jooste $400 M 55 furniture retailing
#46 Narendra Raval $400 M 54 steel, cement
#48 Naushad Merali $370 M 65 diversified
#49 Giovanni Ravazzotti $330 M 73 ceramics, tile
#49 Orji Uzor Kalu $330 M 56 diversified


Take note that this list wasn't compiled by a contributor!

MadCow1:
Interesting how no Igbo Man ever makes the Forbes list.






Anyone care to explain why?

It's because Nigeria is a zoo, Forbes is an amala and ewedu magazine owned by APC and the ibos are still building their country biafra on the moon. By the time they are through, one biafran pound will be equal to USD $1billion, and NnLiedi Kalu will be the Emperor of the galaxy.

OP your stup!d!ty gave her the confidence to cheat right under your nose, with your so-called bestfriend. Any woman can and will cheat once she figures out a way to outsmart you and knows she can outsmart you, and has made a habit of outsmarting you regularly because she sees how stup!d or naive you are. No, woman mistakenly or subconsciously calls out another guys name during sex with her, if she only had sex with him once. A woman can only do that if she's had sex with the guy a whole lot of times, like running into 30 times and above, to the point that he has become her sexual fantasy and will yell his name subconsciously while having sex with you. And it's not just any kind of sex. It's the anywhere and everywhere kind of sex, beast mode, no holds bar on the passion, emotions running wild, brain intoxicated with lust: kitchen, floor, bathroom, bedroom, parking lot, office, loo, car...you name it! Charles has already unlocked the slut in her. And once a woman goes freak there's no going back. Only a freak can satisfy a freak, and you are obviously not one. You'll just be the naive husband she can't wait to leave the house on time, so that her jolly streetwise boyfriend can come pleasure the freak in her.

udumosam23:




[s]Guy, I read your story, and believe me when I say I understand your plight, I talk out of experience.

I have also followed some comments, I'll however, differ a bit from the popular opinion, not because I want to speak differently, but because I made a mistake I wouldn't want you to make.

In my case, I've done the intro, we were preparing to get married ( not soon though). I caught her pants down with a colleague who has rerequested that I allow her to be attending to him, to help him out with a few domestic activities. I trusted him as a pastor, and her especially CIA we've been in the relationship for over 4 years.

I gave up on her, she ended up with him and pleaded with her best friend to accept me after she recommended her to me after we reconciled.

I found out the day I caught her was her first.

She has never cheated on me for the period we've been together.

The day it happened she was not herself.

She is enduring her marriage now, as she was never in love with the man if God. The church just forcefully joined them because of the rumor and scandal.

I still love her a d wish we had ended up together.


My advice, look beyond the immediate, have proof beyond reasonable doubt that she has been a cheat. ( supposed she is right that she is under the influence of something)

Reverse the case, if you're the one in the mess, would she forgive you?

Consider the strength of your love.

Put all these together before you take any action.

You can postpone the wedding, but don't cancel, I repeat, don't cancel until you have more proof that your girl was not hypnotised into this to ruin not just her, but to get to you.

Its just 2 weeks to your wedding remember, make sure it was not a set up too, just incase someone else is trying to get to you.

Above all, I don't know your faith, but its time to get God involved in this business.

I pray this makes a little sense.[/s]

Which hypnosis is this one talking about? Trying to figure out whether you're excessively naive or plain st.up!d, or both. No wonder you got played by your b!tch; and maybe guys like you deserve to be cheated on because you're too dull to recognize a slut even if you caught her in an or.gy with 10 d!cks in her mouth.

alberson:
.I Caught My Best Friend And Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding.

I walked into the room and met my best man making love to my wife
I met Charles on campus. I was in my first year in the university. I had just resumed and was trying to grapple with the demand of university life. One morning I had gone to the cafeteria. While paying for my food, I ran into a young handsome looking guy and we ended striking an acquaintance.
I later found out that we are both in the same department. From then we became friends. In the second year, we ended up being roommates. Our friendship grew from there. We were like brothers. We helped one another in our studies. We looked out for one another. In fact many people on campus thought we were brothers. Charles was a great guy. He was handsome tall and good looking. In fact in our third year on campus, he entered the Mr. Campus contest and won.
That made him become very popular. He was especially popular with the girls. They loved. In fact the attention was so much at a time that he lost focus and his grades suffered.
There were just too many babes jostling for his attention. In our fourth year, Charles had become very used to the attention that it meant nothing to him again. Our association blossomed.
As his fame grew, I became his manager when he attended shows. He also worked as the Master of Ceremony at school events. I was the calmer guy. I made sure I kept my head so I could put my best friend in check. At last we graduated and our parents, who had become friends because of our association, came to celebrate with us. When we left school, we continued our friendship.
We got jobs in two blue chip companies. We also continue to date our campus sweet hearts. Charles and I met our future partners at a departmental event on campus in our second year in the university.
They were both in another department. But we had continued the relationship even when Charles derailed and become way ward. I convinced his girlfriend not to give up on him. Eventually we all graduated and our relationship continued. After about two years of working I proposed to my fiancee. I did not want to waste any more time. But something bad happened to Charles relationship with Adaeze, She had caught him again cheating and had decided to call it quits despite all my pleading. Charles was left to spend more time in my place as he complained of boredom. Adaeze doesn’t come to keep him company again. She had left the relationship for good. I was sorry for my friend. But how many times will I keep interceding on his behalf? Charles now practically was living with me. He also became close to my woman. Gradually I discovered they were both unusually close. When I am at work, they will call me they went out together as Charles had been on leave from work. I noticed their relationship became closer.
But I still thought nothing of it. Many times, I my wife to be will stay glued to her phone chatting. I never thought nothing of it as she could be chatting with her sister s and friends. As the days turned into months, we began the planning for my wedding. Naturally, Charles became the choice for my best man. I had pacified my brother who returned from the United States that I and Charles had gone way back since our campus days. The day of the wedding was set. I was also so busy that I did not notice the change in my fianceé body language. Every time I asked for romance, she was always reluctant and unresponsive. I had thought then that she was reserving her body until we get married. One day, instead of calling my name, she mentioned Charles. Well, I did not get angry because I and Charles are like blood brothers.
About two weeks to our wedding, I had gone to the office to retrieve my computer as I had been granted leave to prepared for the weeding. Charles was home and busy with preparations as usual. I returned home an hour short of when I told my fiancée I would returned.
I parked the car outside our gate as someone had already taken my parking space.I walked the distance to the house. The entire place was silent. I called out but no one answered. I climbed the staircase, and as I made to enter my room, I heard an unusual noise from the guest room. I went to the door and listen.
The noise was a moan of pleasure from an excited lady whose voice sounded like my wife. Why they refused to lock the door is what I can still not decipher. But according to the saying, every day for the thief, one day for the owner.
I pushed open the door and met my best friend, my best man for my wedding on top of my wife. They were both Unclad as they made love furiously. I shouted Charles name and became unconscious. I later found myself in the hospital. My cheating wife was at my bed side but Charles was nowhere in to be found.
He had packed all his things and absconded. I cried profusely as I looked at my wife. When my parents and sisters came into the hospital, I could not reveal to them what brought me to the hospital. I only lied to them that I was stressed out because of the wedding preparations. When they asked for Charles, I could not give any sufficient explanation and I could not tell them that he had been sleeping with my wife to be behind me. I was discharged from the hospital and I am back home.
My fiancée has gone back to her parents place and Charles is still missing. I was later told by his brother that he had travelled finally to Canada and had apologise for the short notice. I know Charles had escaped being confronted with his guilt. But I know he can run but not hide. My fiancée has been pleading that it was the devils work. She said she did not know the charm Charles used for her.
She has refused to tell me how long Charles has been sleeping with her though she swore the time I caught them was the first. How do I believe her? The wedding in two in two weeks and I still do not know what to do. Do I tell my family and cancel the wedding or should I forgive my wife to be.
This is the dilemma I have found myself. I love my wife to be but how can I live with the thought of seeing my best friend Unclad on top of my wife? Should I cancel the marriage and look for another woman or should I accept her apology?
matured comments please ..

Two weeks is enough time for you to find another wife; or you could go ahead and marry a slut — your choice!

sixtuschimere:
Nigeria's Minister of Finance, Kemi Adeosun, covered her hair as she signed a bilateral agreement with Qatar's Minister of Finance, Ali Shareef Al Emadi, today February 28th. The bilateral agreement was on Avoidance of Double Taxation and the Prevention of Fiscal Evasion with Respect to Taxes Income Doha, Qatar. Behind both Ministers are President Buhari and the Emir of Qatar, Sheikh Tamim Bin Hammad Al-Thani.

President Buhari just keeps setting higher standards in Presidential leadership. Just look at how he's watching out for our Finance Minister Kemi Adeosun with graceful determination. Had it been Jonathan, he would have probably been at some secret lounge somewhere drinking ogogoro, while his FATnance Minister Okojo Iweala sells off the entire South Eastern part of Nigeria to the Qataris.

If you're a girl that isn't 5ft 10" and upwards in height, don't even dream to categorize yourself as tall. You are freaking short!

Rukkydelta:

I'm not short.....i'm 5'65ft tall

If 5ft 6.5" is what you meant, then YOU ARE definitely SHORT!

Jadekitana:
I just saw a thread with mostly short girls trying to give themselves hope! Well it's allowed, but take heart, tall girls rule anytime any day, anywhere. But we know how y'all feel so i'm just gonna be soft here guys don't get deceived here are some advantages of dating tall girls

1) Tall ladies exude confidence: have u ever been to a dinner or evening party,wedding or occasions and a tall elegant lady walks in? It's like magic. All attention is fixed on her, especially the type who cat walks like me! Men we no send anybody. You see ushers rushing to look for a comfortable position for us to sit,now that's priceless unlike the short babes who hardly get noticed even with the 11inches heels.

2) Every dress fits them: from gowns, to jumpsuits to jeans to leggings, every single thing fits. Imagine a tall lady with Sharon stones kinda hot legs on mini skirt? Guys you would release mere thinking of what's under her skirts.

3) Tall ladies never feel inferior: you see them always ready to talk in functions, events and what have you! They have nothing to loose. They possess that self confidence anywhere.

4) You don't need to bend to kiss us: we are bad like that. Luckily if u tall as well we make a perfect couple, if u short we bend to kiss u, you cant put your hands around our shoulders to intimidate us, it's actually very romantic when we put our hands around your shoulder and plant a peck on your cheeks! Short girls ndo, u girls can never do that.

5) We are good on bed: forget the portability of short ladies, tall girls with long legs are ready to hang that leg anywhere! Our legs can comfortably go round your waist. Angle 69 is awesome and easy and above all tall girls have really deep cunts,they can take any size of dick very well without feeling any pain duuuh to dem short girls.

6) We give our men self confidence: you don't need to start looking for us in the crowd when we go out, we don't need heels. Have u ever seen a short guy walking with his tall babe? The look on his face is priceless. You see that self confidence he has, the look of "even though i'm short my babe is proud of me" and for a tall guy you need to see the way they both oppress the crowd, damn my head is swelling.

7) You don't need a stool in your house: we can reach anything without help, we are that good. We fix bulbs, clean the shelf, we don't need to call u 247 to help us out with things around the house, we are that gifted.

We compliment your genes: it's hard to see a tall woman give birth to a dwarf kid. Even if her hubby is short, her kids come out average. So if u a short guy and u dating a short babe, have a rethink! You sure don't want a pygmy for a kid.

9) tall girls are hardly hot tempered: what's there to be angry about? I mean we have it all, guys always wanna associate with us so why have high BP on trivial issues? We laugh a lot and allow things slide.

10) If u ain't dating a tall lady, you need to step up your game

Most of my life, i've dated tall girls until recently. In fact, if a girl wasn't at least 5ft 10", I would never date her no matter what, that was how bad I discriminated against short girls. I once had a girlfriend that was 6ft 5", and she was a lovely person. So, yeah, dating a tall girl has some really good advantages and you would think they are the best until a particular short girl came my way. Well, I have dated quite a number of short girls, between around 5ft 2" -- 5ft 6" and having tasted both worlds, I can categorically tell you that Short GIRLS ARE THE BEST, whether it's romance, sex, or just straight up driving you crazy. So OP, don't try too hard, short girls rule as queens in the world of men. Tall girls are wonderful side chicks though! XoXo to all the pretty short girls out there

SleemBadGuy:
In this days that we all know this girls aint loyal no more...This i bliv is jst a simple yet fastest way of knowing if ur girl aint jumping from bed 2 bed nd claiming U r d only ''Mugu" She opening her honey pot for...






NB...Sorry Ladies..Therez no valid means of knowing if ur boyfriend is cheating on ya tho....I knw my sure Goons dnt leave Traces behind.....

This is only effective with dumb girls. I have so many beautiful smart girls cheating with me, so I wouldn't want to expose any credible practicable means for their slowpoke id.iot!c boyfriends to figure us out. But I do wish such guys good luck chasing the wind.

bellassimo:
I met a man online 5 weeks ago.As with online relationships, I withheld info and told him the age I have on my id and not my real age.I never expected the relationship to go anywhere, but we fell in love quickly we are even planning marriage. He has found out the truth about my age and is taking it badly.he compares me to his ex who he claims is a great liar and had refused to forgive me.He is doubting everything I ever told him about me and is ignoring me.I have apologized and explained to no avail.we are meeting for the first time next weekend, but he has changed totally. He ignores my calls and msgs and I can't eat or sleep. I love this man and want to be with him.I'd it fair that he has refused to accept my explanation? Its not as if I just picked the age from the air, its the age in my ids.how do I remedy this situation? Do I keep begging him? He doesn't even read msgs.this is his first on line relationship ( to the best of my knowledge) but this is not my first online relationship and I was just being cautious cos I have had my fingers burnt online before. What do i do? I am confused.He is a 43 yr old divorcee with 3 teenagers.I am turning 35 this yr( i don't look it though) i told him i was 32 yrs old.I need advice before I go crazy.why is this age issue such a big thing for him.has he got another woman? I am confused
We live in different places but I plan on going to see him next week .I am confused right now.Help!
P:s- it wasn't a random connection online, a mutual friend linked us up because he wants to settle down and I also want to settle down.She decided to connect both of us.We are going to meet and date face to face for sometime before getting married.
I am not desperate even at this age.I have had my fair share of heartbreaks. God makes everything beautiful in his time.this is not about the marriage, its about clearing my name first.Most people living outside Naija have "football" ages on their passports and other ids.I am not trying to justify myself but he found out the truth from me.I could have kept on lying if I really wanted to but seeing how serious we have become, I owned up when he asked.

Dear Single Men, when you meet a mature single woman who wants to marry you that talks like this, please...RUN AWAY! As you can see, she didn't take her age from the air, it was given to her by the National Assembly

Martins301:
I called the scammer... I just ended the call after wasting his time and airtime

You phoned the scammer, yet you wasted his time and airtime Some Nigerians are so talented in telling lies

Pheals:
Got something to say ...i was feeling stomach pain after i return from dad office ,i was dad gal always got nothing to do can't cook I was alone just pick my phone called mum closest pal who was a doc. Mum said they have been friends since school days she has been my physician since infant ,love me for been the only female in the house .I could not reach her on phone so I try to move out and get commercial bus to my destination before the stomach ache got worst reach the hospital saw new faces the lady in blue uniform came up to me after waiting for hours ...have already new mum is not around . "your name ? And your card no. " she said ..i look up at her " i didnt have card " then u will need to get a card and register .... I didn't need that I said humbly . we can't attend to u then , she said now she sound rude as I was about to speak a senior nurse came in " tosin what's wrong? " i explain ...she brings out a yellow card instead of a green card...and directed me to the new doctor office ...

Enter the office sat down and I gave him the card
He started asking questions later he was silent and he said "go and lied down there (pointed to a bed few inches away ) I lied down and he came up to me press my stomach with his fingers and later he said "raise your cloth up little" I do that and he start to examined again asking "here or here " I don't really no where the pain was really from so I nodded to reply him a quick no he later stop and clean his face with handkerchief and said " will you take off your skirt then" I quickly raise up my head ,face change "may be I will come back " why he asked

Nothing when mum comes I will be here" I said and walked towards the door and he later said " which mum?" Mum m.o.j
Are you m.o.j he asked no ! I reply (frustrated) ok wait .he pick up his pen and prescribed some drugs for me...I move out. U stay long tosin the senior nurse said as I handed her the note and the card she then direct me to the other door ...I was given drugs and receipt total of 15k the nurse there look up to me for cash and the other one said "aunty pls sorry you can go, can't you see the card is yellow" i used the drugs and I was alright. I kept wondering so this man knows the right thing to do "why asking me to take off my. ..."


Share yours ladies

OMG , can you see what happens when many Nigerian girls chat all day, all night with nonsensical jargon such as 'Kkk', 'Lolzzz'...? RIP English!

echelons:
I wanted to buy a compact car of recent and I set my mind on Ford Focus or Honda Civic till of recent when I saw advert and promo for Innoson IVM FOX and IVM UMU so I decided to send a mail to @innoson for prospectus and their showroom in Abuja.
I received a mail from them three days later with the Abuja showroom No 10/11 Pope John Paul street off Gana street Maitama so I decided to visit yesterday. Here are my observations.

Positive
* I only saw IVM Fox (Pics below), Buses and pick-up trucks.

Negatives.

* I didn't get to see the IVM UMU
* It's not really a showroom, more like a car park - an unkept one at that.
* I didn't get to meet any staff (met the kind and courteous security staff). I came after office hours (few minutes past 6pm) anyway.

I suggest that Innoson Motors should extend their franchise for auto sales to private investors that can manage the marketing of the vehicles more efficiently so they can channel their energy on production to meet demands. There will definitely be high demand soon.

The IVM Fox is more of ladies vehicle, the size of Peugeot 307 but it is really a beautiful car, but i want something a bit bigger so I'm still gonna request to see the IVM UMU.

They should please erect a showroom, no matter how small, with all their vehicle models available at all times, and they should sweep that compound. Coscharis showroom and Honda place are far better managed, but YES Innoson can do better.

You're a wicked person ! Now that kind and courteous security guard will probably lose his job because of you. Visited the place after office hours, only to take pictures and circulate a negative critique online with specific details. That security might be kind and respectful but the person was obviously very st.u.p.i.d to have let you in after the close of official working hours. See where his courteousness has led him - falling victim to a snitch! Now if you were truly a helpful critic, then you should have stated that the first thing Innoson needs to review is its incompetent security team. Because had they done their job properly, you wouldn't have had the chance to broadcast that they keep an unkempt environment and should clean up, which on one hand is a positive critique but on the other hand is a knockout blow to Innoson's public image. Well, it seems Innoson doesn't care about that, and neither do I.

kilode100:


Big grammar ontop of another person virginity?
Hian!...

Don't start what you can't finish . I suggest you take some strawberry chocolate milkshake with blueberries and fruit bread, and go to sleep.

laidback:
There's something wrong with this story and OP's reaction. In addition to the posts by @Dyt it seems the OP is a 'scammer'. Those trying to give her money should restrain themselves and exercise due diligence.

Is she an Economics grad or English and Lit?
Her story seems too touching. Had to be a virgin from Great grand mother.
She's too eager to collect funds. Normally people with a strong resolve to remain a virgin will only tell this kind of story more to get a listening ear than to solicit funds.

Anyway ..

I felt so emotional at first, in fact had her account number been stated in her initial post, I would have wired her money instantly without even blinking an eye. However, I thought about the scenario a little after and I think it's best for her she gets a dignifying job. I think that's the best form of help in this case of hers.

pinkiecutie:
Oh What A Life! Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job?

good evening Nigerian's..

my heartfelt greetings goes to you guys once more as you this forum was instrumental to my getting a job last year August...

This is my story. I work for an auditing firm , name withheld by me. early this year I occasionally caught my boss staring at me provocatively I.e lustfully but I just took it as nothing serious because he has never made advances before to me.
Earlier this month, he started complimenting my looks and all, but I still not suspecting anything reciprocated by complimenting his good looks too..
After all who doesn't want to be in the good books of his or her boss..
On the 21st of Jan , he called me into his office and offered me a seat.
I sat innocently, and from there he started his talk about how hard working I was and all.
As if that was not enough, he drew closer and tried to fumble my breast..this man in his mid fifties , had no shame when I politely told him that I was still a virgin and that he should stop..
He apologized and asked me out of his office..
About three days later, he sent for me and presented my termination letter. When I opened the letter, a tear dropped off my eyelids as I saw in block black and bold letters "TERMINATION OF APPOINTMENT DUE TO REDUNDANCY" . I stood there for close to five minutes not knowing what to say.After a while I managed to utter a thank you sir and left to pack all my belongings out of the company..
I went home to meet my sick mom(my father is late, I am an only child), when I saw her state I couldn't just bring it upon my self to tell her that I was just sacked..
right now, all the money I have been spending has gone to my mother's treatment..
even to eat now is a problem, right now having 1000 naira is like a million naira...
I have considered giving in but my vow to keep my virginity till marriage is still strong ( this virginity till marriage is a family thing. my mom,mom's mom and so on where Virgins)
so confused right now lord please help me, in your loving kindness touch the hearts of men to look upon your daughter who has chosen to live according to your ways amen...

OP, this country undoubtedly has plenty A-list devilish people, like that former boss of yours. Nevertheless, many Nigerians are also among the kindest good-hearted people in the world. I wanted to tell you to drop your account number, no name, just digits only to send you some cash. But I think it might set a bad precedence as some other people might want to exploit such a gesture and bastardize the trend, by posting all kinds of HELP ME, I NEED MONEY stories that are without proof of authenticity. So I think it's better you state your qualification or skills and drop your email. Let's see what the good Nigerian people will do for you. It's better you are taught how to fish, than to be given handouts that won't allow you to harness your potentials. I believe you will get good job offers before this week over, a job where your human dignity is valued and your sexuality won't be violated or exploited. ‎

And some useless militants doing nothing useful with their lives and with nothing useful to offer Nigeria are still on government payroll, collecting salary simply for being criminals, whereas legitimate law-abiding citizens who are contributing to the growth of the nation's GDP are abandoned to to suffer whatever fate a decayed country throws at them. From past to present, the entire Nigerian government Presidency, Senate and House of Representatives need total psychiatric treatment from mental disorder, because such a government characteristic behavior of rewarding criminality and crime is clearly a trait of chronic acute ingrained madness. The Nigerian government is simply crazy . I hope President Buhari can bring about a true change in this regard.

blessingee:
Daniel Dada Ayodele, will be the star to watch out for during the 2014/2015 Convocation of the University of Lagos (UNILAG) next week.

He made a Cumulative Grade Point Average (CGPA) of 5.00, which the Vice Chancellor of the university, Prof Rahamon Bello described as a perfect score record during a pre-convocation briefing Wednesday.

Bello said the Psychology student is one of the 178 First Class students ‎that would graduate during the three-day convocation programme. ‎

This year, a record has been set. A graduating student in the Department of Psychology, Faculty of Social Sciences, Mr Ayodele Daniel Dada is graduating with a CGPA of 5.00.

“A perfect score. This means he scored As in all courses he took in the programme. I congratulate the graduate with a First Class‎.”



The first time in the history‎ in what seems to be the first of its kind in the history of Nigeria’s education system, the University of Lagos, UNILAG, Akoka, will this year graduate a student who has been graded ‘excellent’ in all the courses taken while on campus.

The student, Ayodele Daniel Dada finished from the Department of Psychology.

This was disclosed Wednesday morning by the university’s Vice-Chancellor, during a pre-convocation media briefing held at the university’s Senate Chamber.

According to the VC, the university was glad to break another academic ground, saying the candidate showed exceptional academic prowess.

He said a total of 10,907 students will be graduating including 5,472 undergraduates and 5,435 postgraduates, adding that a total of 177 others will be bagging First Class degree‎ certificates along with Dada.

The convocation programmes, which has formally kicked off with the media briefing will also feature a convocation lecture to be delivered by the Minister of Science and Technology, Dr. Ogbonaya Onu on Monday, February 28.


Source: http://thenationonlineng.net/unilag-produces-first-graduate-with-5-0-cgpa/

A Yoruba boy, not surprising. Thank God it's not a South East ibo boy, we for no hear word again. By now, this thread would have reached 1 million pages of noise making. Once upon a time, ibo traders would import cheap 2nd-class motorcycle parts, generator parts from Asian countries to assemble it in Lagos to be sold. Now, Innoson borrows that idea into automobiles and is importing cheap car parts from Asia to assemble in the East, and miraculously they call it made in Nigeria. Can you imagine the farce? Then there's a dramatic hype been promoted by these people to brainwash the Nigerian populace to settle for poor quality. We're not fools. If ibos like, shout Innoson from now to eternity, i'll never buy it. I'm perfectly okay with my Mercedes-Benz, Ford and Land Rover regardless of cost. Senator Ben Bruce representing the Twitter Constituency of Devalued and Disgruntled Noise Makers can shove his Innoson vehicle up his arse...

divinehand2003:
Don't they know that Diezani is under house arrest in the UK and her international passport has been seized? How then can she honour your invitation?

Stop asking s.tu.pi.d questions. She can be deported without a passport or visa and handed over to the Nigerian government. The same UK that placed her under house arrest are the ones that will package her and deliver to the Buhari government when the time comes. The summon is just the beginning in a series of formal protocols to effect her extradition back to Nigeria.

mynd1:
Is it possible for her to honour d invitation?

Yes, it's possible! We have a valid extradition treaty with the UK. But obviously, she wouldn't want to show up because she knows she will get jailed. So eventually, the government will compel her to come because unfortunately for her, she's already under the surveillance and hold of the British government, who are and will always be our allies.