₦airaland Forum

I have have been in a relationship where all we do is sex.

I have also been in a relationship built around genuine friendship and a solid foundation of communication with a lots of sex.

And I can tell which one that have always worked out.

The one with communication.

Here is the thing:

Is the guy or lady carrying baggage.

Is there an underlying jealous streak?

So they have insecurity or a needy attitude?

Sex and relationships are meant for adults. Adults is the keyword. Not for kids.

The above named issues can destroy any relationship.

Sex these days is easy to get. It's about an app away but to get a quality relationship with a guy not even with a lady is rocket science.

I have had a relationship that have spanned lots of years due to proper and articulate communication.

I have repaired relationships through talking.

Making commitments and sticking to set things straight is achieved through communication.

So if over communication as you put it is the problem, you probably in a relationship with the wrong person or you are the problem.

Even the Bible says that a soft word turns away anger.

Label me a sabertooth tiger if this just doesn't hit front page

The husband's village people got his number on fast dial.

Of all places to be caught during your honey moon and coincidentally on a string mission.

He couldn't wait for a work related excuse to ditch the honeymoon shenanigans.

The wedding guests should just come collect their gifts.

That man is as stewpeed as dork

I learnt if you are in a relationship.

Have several other girls too in a relationship.

It's damn costly now, I think.

Here is the deal: if one of them girls screws you over, the other girls will get you over the line.

Now while you are in the relationship.

You have to know what you actually want and you need to discard some and replace them until you come upon one you think will go the distance.

Now there is something, men need to understand.

Be you a redpiller or not.

We live in a civil society.

Women control sex. It's just that plain simple.

You pressure her into sex. It's rape.

So get this, you touch her because she let you. She determines if you gonna get the cookie jar.

This is the simple truth.

Don't exhaust yourself looking for a lady who doesn't give a shit about you and forcing her to love you, you are creating a golddigger or you could demean yourself in the whole process.

Regardless of the outcome.

You are the prize.

You sure need to back that with actions or else you will be just another fück boy whose brains have been messed silly with wet gash

Look for the ones receptive to your advances.

Get your specs in order. You should seat down and a clear and precise idea of the kind of lady you want.

This should be the case because you will probably end up with one of them girls you wanna be starting something with.

You could get hitched.

No need.

If it is a prank then I'd like to know it was done

Dear Nigerians, do we need another reason to not vote out this Apathetic government and party?

After Boko Haram, we got bandits among other insecurity issues to deal with now this.

We are not safe even in the hands of we entrusted to rule us.

They promised us change... We got changed alright.

Insecurity was part of their manifesto.

If we miss this window if opportunity, lots of good people will regret it.

This is beyond ethnicity and religious divide.

This is about survival as one.

Be wise.

Shed more light on the matter.

When certain things happen at the allegedly wrong time, you would think it's actually a bad thing.

The thing is this, you are now full a man.

Do you know how many men out there that wants to have a child but can't.

Some want to get someone like you to add your sperm to their wives egg. Trust me, I kid you not.

I know a lady that couldn't get pregnant back then.

She got a live in lover.

His duty was plain simple: eat, hit and shot his cum. Rinse. Repeat.

She supported his humping with local herbs she got from these local midwives you find in every nooks and crannies in every city.

I heard them quarreling, the guy could not get the job done.

Imagine been paid.

She reneged on their agreement after paying #500k as against #1m.

If you see what people go through to have a child, you will embrace your circumstances.

Little wonder gynecologists are in premium demand.

Sorry, dude.

Don't kill that baby

Embrace this new responsibility: you will be spending your future with your bestie.

Getting your girlfriend money to start something will be bad if the idea came from the dad.

It means the dad has abdicated from his responsibility.

The thing is: what's her character like?

You better put her in a family way if not you might be empowering another man's wife and creating an ingrate in the process.

To avoid, sad tales in the future, abort this relationship.

The truth and lies most times could be a matter of circumstance.

However, women, generally hardly engage in matters that do not suit their needs.

The only woman that can sacrifice for you is your mum, but some women these days cannot pass as mothers.

Men while trying to secure the bag, should also be alert to the wiles of women.

Women understand the dynamics of a relationship better.

Men most times are vast in the direct approach that's actually counterproductive.

Women are maters of indirection and discretion.

In all, men should realize that the relationship with the opposite gender is a game that requires patience and willingness to master.

This is beyond redemption.

Let him do the time for the crime

Reminds me of the theory of evolution: innovate or die.

Every nations around us in Nigeria are becoming the very best versions of themselves. Ghana, south Africa are just case studies.

We are taken back to the stone ages by the kind of people promising change. What a change we have got.

Nigerians, once again, we are presented with the opportunity to choose between life and death.

Obidently choose life that you may live.

Nigeria in the next eight years will be worse than this

Probably, because one's conscience is dead.

Sex, these days is equivalent to changing one's dirty clothing.

Ladies, shamefacedly hawk their body on social media. With their digitals too for a prospective customer.

One was begging to by included in a party.

The thing is that the society we live in has gone decedent.

Sadly, the problem with most African men are their lust or appetite.

If it ain't sex, it's food.

Once these two issues are sorted out, an African man is basically useless.

Don't get me wrong, I like food and sex, but such wanton debauchery is totally unnecessary.

Our leaders, been old men, as can be gleaned from the political scene understands this impeccably.

They have used our hunger for sex and food to mortgage our future.

Little wonder, BB Naija is let to dull our sensibilities to reason and make logical assertions

Who do us this thing sef?

Our mumu mumu never do?

Guys, dust your PVC.......

Go to sleep with it.

It's time to do what's right

Even with time, Obj cannot hide his disdain for Atiku.

However, this doesn't change the fact that south and north power dichotomy should not be addressed.

Pdp actually lost an opportunity with the exit of Mr Peter Obi. But Wike has proven to be a wildcard.

In a nutshell, next election makes an interesting time to be alive.

Let's see how Tinubu the chessman will play his piece.

In any case, the administration, Tinubu foisted on this country has been nothing short of inhuman and callous.

Posterity will not be fair to Nigerians if a repeat of this administration happens come next year.

Fraud doesn't pay

This is supposed to be a tertiary institution for fūcks sake.

It's obvious, the lady was not wearing a provocative attire.

So what's the high-handedness for?

Nothing like you losing your touch.

It's just how she is built sexually.

Had one like that.

She just sits on top.

5 mins.

Either that or you can exhaust yourself being the stallion.
She is done.