A Kenyan woman, Rahab Mugure Nga’nga, has got everyone talking after she revealed that if she doesn’t get married, she would remain a virgin forever without ever having sex.
This was made known after the 33-year-old commercial service manager granted an interview in which she dished out tips on how she has maintained her virginity and stance. Rahab said she has kept her virginity because of her religious belief and desire to please her God.“I am a born again Christian and I do not want to offend God with sexual sin, sex outside the marriage bond is sin. I want to have sex, just like the next person, but because I haven’t before, it is not a distraction.”
She said her eagerness to please her mother and not disappoint her by getting pregnant out of wedlock has kept her strong. She revealed that even though she was involved in two serious long term relationship which unfortunately ended badly, she has remained a virgin.
Rahab said she has kept her virginity because of her religious belief and desire to please her God.
“My first, which lasted two and a half years, ended because our ideals on sexual boundaries clashed. The second, which lasted three years, ended two months to my wedding date. I rush straight home from work and keep my socializing at zero until these winds have passed. I also avoid reading certain books or watch soap operas and I do not kiss or caress men.”
Rahab who has graduated with both a Bachelors and Master’s degree in Marketing says even if she turns 50 without getting married, she will remain a virgin and maybe adopt a baby.
Funfair001: Hello Nlanders, I need mature advice please. I'm a 29years old man....I dropped out of University for business and I'm making stable income but now, I want to go back to school (abroad) which I have started my admission processing. Next year, I will be 30years old and some guys are advising me to get married since I have the money to take care of my family and my studies.
I'm confused even though I wish to get married too but still, I don't know what to do. Please I need mature advise if I should just go ahead or shun marriage for now.
Thank you all
why marry when you can have a baby mama!
travel go that abroad and you go see fine fine chicks dey wait for you!
my humble advise! NEVER MARRY A NAIJA WOMAN!
marry for other country and forget our apelike women!
CertifiedNaija: Udeme Bassey is from Akwa Ibom State and Temitope Jalekun hails from Osun State. The couple recently had an intercultural wedding in October.
Sharing their love story, they said: “Udeme who was based in Lagos was posted to Ekiti state for NYSC. She joined a church (House of Faith Christian Centre) when she left camp.
“Temitope who resided in Ekiti and was also a worker in the church was very single and waiting. Udeme joined the choir in church and would often lead solo for the group.”
“The first time Temitope really noticed her was when she took a song titled I See Victory then he made up his mind to get to know her.”
“They became friends after close observations for 3 months and started dating in the first quarter of 2015. Temitope proposed at the end of the year (2015) and they tied the knot on the October 15, 2016.”
Their wedding took place at celebrations garden hall, Isaac john street GRA -ikeja. Lagos, Nigeria. Temitope is a wedding photographer and made sure his team captured the spectacular pictures at the wedding.
Toks2008: It is believed that a woman is a complicated homo sapiens who has a peculiar nature that is hard to decipher.Trying to understand a woman is harder than trying to understand the universe but then it is imperative for us as men to try our best in unraveling this mysterious creation of GOD and indeed the first wonder of the world.
In my opinion,women are not that complex but they only appear to be.It is believed that women love comfort,good sex,lots of affection but above all,a woman wants to be free,she wants to go where she wishes to and achieves whatever she believes she can...A woman does not want to be relegated,controlled or bossed around by any man in the name of a dad,husband or boyfriend.
The epitome is that A WOMAN WANTS TO HAVE FULL CONTROL OF HER LIFE ...
This is what a woman really wants from her man and it will be in the best interest of the man to allow her.
Many men mistake submissiveness of a woman to mean slavery,mindlessness and a zombie. This type of men are fond of controlling or dictating to a lady the way to live her life just because he is her boyfriend or husband...
Believe it or not,no matter how sexually endowed,rich or romantic you may be,if you don't allow your woman to have total control of HER LIFE then be ready to cope with an unhappy lady..you can only advice her but always let her have the final say over issues relating to HER LIFE.
Hope this makes sense.
you most have been constantly going to ashawo house, that's why you can't think anymore!
anytime I see your post I just know that something is wrong with your brain
men are advancing while people like you still want to go back to the cave and start behaving like cavemen!
he did it first time but the company didn't work because of bad management and that got him arrested before he was later released. .......
he still got his vision to help the poor and started it again ( unlike people like you who can't even give account of helping his neibour or the poor but coming here and spreading old news like mad man! infact mad man are more civilise than you ) and this break way for many county to participate and we are enjoying what he work so hard to accomplish. HIS VISION TO HELP THE POOR AND BREAK AWAY FROM THIS WORLD SYSTEMS.
I guess you didn't read that part in Wikipedia were he start all over again!
scopusng: The question is where is MMM getting their 30% on investment monthly to pay people? MMM is a scam and a ponzi scheme and CBN has already issued a circular warning Nigerians. Another wonder bank.
keep asking mumu question while others are celebrating that there have provided and get help!
kuchikau: Let me use dis opportunity to advise guys who foolishily follow/live their lives to please girls. U are on ur way to your early grave. See the way nairalanders adores some stupid girls here makes me go gaga. I dont really undastand whats so special about their toto or nyash or breast. It takes only a woman to bring a very strong man to his knees. For Gods sake why do men follow women about like sheep with direction. A gal dat mensturates evry 28days, wets her dirty smelling pants, yet u behave like an idiot before her. Wetin they hungry u for her stupid body? ThankGod for my kind of friends.
iukpe: It's advisable to be mature and go after a woman a lot younger than you. But a girl should get married about 20 yrs, most of our mothers got married about that age in the 60s and 70s. That is why they have enjoyed life and lived to see their grand children and many have even witnessed grand children's weddings. But I think lovers should follow their heart in marriage. The obstacles these days are dependency, poverty and society's general view of marriage ceremonies. However the truth is that, this lady will most likely look older than the boy in their 30s and beyond. A man should preferably wait a bit more about 25 years for marriage to a younger girl so that many years after marriage she will still look younger and attractive to him. This is not a law but an advise. The girl needs to sit up on this boy and look her wedding-day, for many years to come.
It's good to marry young, not that I'm saying that it's good to get married this young. I hope the guy grows into the system and fits in, though it's not easy doing that without the help of God, so I hope he seeks him [God]…
Oshikoyafrank: dnt quote me... I hate nairaland.. how will this people be doing me like dis... I posted something waist my mb... then den gave sum1 DAT didn't post it here backlink.... I just wich.. I have my permanent traffic.. I will nt be subjected like a fool
Once in a bar, one guy said to another.. "I slept with your mom last night." after that the whole bar was waiting for the other guy's response. After a while... he laughs and says: Let's go home, Dad, you are drunk....
Drikojigzy: A STORY OF A BOY NAMED MUSTAPHA WHO IS HATED BY HIS FELLOW STUDENT BECAUSE HE IS FROM THE NORTH WERE TERORISM ORIGINATED FROM. HE IS ON A QUEST TO PROVE TO THE SOCIETY THAT TERORISM IS A DECISION NOT A RELIGION.
the full film is set to premiere in Lagos nigeria Next month. a film directed by - mr umanu ojochenemi elijah produced by - benny black sfx by - kalu kanaga
ferdison: These are the pre wedding photos of my very good friends. Faith and Dennis.... Save the date: Nov. 5th, 2016. Here in warri....
very soon we will be hearing pre divorce pics
well! let follow the line of madness.
as for our fellow naija women! keep on forming hard to get while your mate will be posting pre wedding pics and you will be here saying " I thus know, I thus know, why me why me why me"
Yeyegist: Nigerian professional footballer, Asisat Oshoala, who plays for Arsenal Ladies, took to social media to flaunt her newly purchased Christian Louboutin &Giuseppe Zanotti sneakers. I'm not your girlfriends mate Asisat declared.
totorimi: They should keep an eye on that guy closely, I dont trust people of this generation at all when it comes to things like this. Maybe he has a plan.
same here!
I was thinking that the guy want to use her for blood money!
and I'm suspecting the guy must be from that tribe! (Y) =X
finalboss1: Photos of this beautiful couple has been circulating on the Internet and they are so adorable! The man got married to his girlfriend of several years, who was born with Down Syndrome. They look so cute May God continue to bless their union.