₦airaland Forum

MarieSucre:
So it's now her fault? Why can't men take responsibility for once.

-She did not pamper me well.
-She did not fly from a storey building and die.
-She did not dress like Kim Kardashian.

What about you? Yes you? Will your leg break if you decide to be a good person?
Or are you excusing the man's cheating?

MarieSucre:
Neither is it your home. but unlike you my view point is fighting so a home won't be broken up through HIV and death. What do you stand for?

Caracta:
Take heart!
This your experience must have reduced your brain to nothing.

nubian999:
You really think being at home with your man will stop him from cheating on you? So there aren't women at home waiting for their husbands while he's in bed with a side chick

A man that cheats will cheat on you whether you are home or aboard. Why are you not understanding the fact that it's not her fault he cheated but his fault.

You are not old fashioned you're self hating. You would make an awful judge because you don't understand where the blame lays.

Her PHD from a university abroad will give her a step up in the job market. When she decides to leave that man she won't need to go back to her father's house.

Caracta:
Eeyah. Now I understand your condition.

And how can a woman be husband snatcher again? That's a 'strong' one.

RoadsAndGreen:
because you women are able to abstain does that mean a man must be able to stay abstained?

people have different needs and yes sex is food. it's even sweeter that jollof rice. like it or not.

you pray against the devil but you must not give chance for temptations.

if you like when/if you get married travel out for a year or two OK? Mrs I too know.

MarieSucre:
I don't know where you get the data that most girls here are sleeping with married men.

And how does that answer Op's question?

And if the man contracts HIV from all the unprotected sex he is having and passes it on to his wife, do you still think all thus rubbish you wrote above will be relevant?

He will destroy his home and if care is not taken leave his two children orphans because he wanted to have some "few minutes of selfish pleasure". Keep encouraging nonsense. Kontinuuu

Caracta:
A husband that would cheat would still cheat even if the wife gives up everything to stay at home and be his bedmate.

OP, if your friend refuses to listen to you, threaten to report him to a sibling or sever ties with him.

Gaggi:
My Friend Is Putting Me In A Tight Situation

My very close colleague and friend and I work in the same office. He relocated his family out of town almost a year ago, the wife traveled for further studies. He has a lovely wife, really good woman and two lovely kids. I also live with my family. We used to visit each other and our kids played together while they were around.

The issue now is he now keeps a steady girl. The girl cannot hold a light close to anywhere near his wife. The wife beats her in terms of beauty, class, intelligence, fashion, attitude, just name it.

At first i didn't talk when i saw them together. Felt it was a casual fling, he probably was lonely and needed a little company. However, he now takes her everywhere, friends houses, colleagues parties etc. I have warned him severally but he keeps telling me he'll look for the right time to let her go. He's been saying this for more than 6 months now. He even confessed that they do have unprotected sex occasionally, especially when they are both drunk and she has said she'll kill him and kill herself if he leaves her for another girl.

I hate to see my friend destroy a beautiful family. I don't know what to do to save him. I don't have his wife's number, even if i did, telling her might result to breaking the marriage instead of saving it. For now, all i do is just pray for him. Anybody with any brilliant ideas?

braithwaite:



Really? So your mum is actually unintelligent huh? You are naturally dumb

Youngpo413:
if you are looking for a beautiful, smart and an endowed girl friend, you are on your own, all of them are only conscious of their beauty and nothing upstairs, all of them.....

pocohantas:
What's the correlation?

pocohantas:
Where are those small boys on NL saying all you need to get women is money??

Olu317:
Rest in peace son. I am very shocked sometimes ,infact dumbfounded by the way some of you react to death and your quick allege assertion of swindle by Pastors. Do some of you not know thousands/millions of people surf through this website on daily basis?,everything written on here is sensitive and you ought be careful of what you type on here. @tellwisdom ,even if you are in your 20s or less ,you need be weary of the things you send on here because, today is Solomon's death, who knows whose turn will be tomorrow's ?, death in inevitable, but how one dies is a critical pointer to how soberly human beings need see life. Be mindful of what you type on here. A piece of advice to all of you

Platinumay:
Funny how some of u form unnecessary holy, a young man cannot chill out again abi. Mtcheew

tellwisdom:
Your papa collect our money, take send you go abroad. it didn't end there, u still carry our money enter bar dey drink. Get well soon

Urukpe:
At about 2am on Sunday, November 6, 21-year-old Solomon Odekunle was seen stumbling out of a popular hangout, Piper’s Bar and Grill, in Ottawa, Canada, with blood gushing out of his neck.

Eyewitnesses interviewed by the police said few steps away, he collapsed on Coventry Road. He was later pronounced dead in the hospital.


According to Ottawa’s CBC News, Solomon, who was stabbed by a suspect, who has been identified as 27-year-old Joe Ndikuriyo, was the 17th victim of homicide in Ottawa since the beginning of 2016.



Saturday PUNCH learnt that Ndikuriyo is a Burundian national.

Even though the police in Ottawa have said they were still piecing together the timeline of events that led to the victim’s death, news reports suggest that he was stabbed during a fight between Ndikuriyo and another individual over a woman.

The victim, whose father is a pastor of the Redeemed Christian Church of God in Lagos according to residents of their neighbourhood in Fagba, Lagos, was admitted to the University of Ottawa in 2012 to study Economics.

Saturday PUNCH visited his parents’ house at the Rotimi Williams Estate, Fagba Estate on Thursday, a fenced mansion, where a domestic employee explained that Solomon’s father had travelled while the inconsolable mother had relocated temporarily from the house.

It was later learnt that the father had flown out to Canada after learning of the tragic murder of his son.

Solomon’s sister, Deborah, who is also studying in Canada, shared heart-breaking words on Twitter that corroborated words of Solomon’s friends, who described him as a meek and funny young man.

According to her, she saw him last a week before the incident.

She said, “If I did know it would be your last, I would have given you more than a fist bump. I would have gotten down on my knees and give you the deepest bro-hug.

“If I did know it would be your last, I would have pleaded with the drama leader to allow the rehearsal to linger a little so you and Peter could make us giggle a little more with some frog jump.

“If I did know it would be your last, I would have treasured those great words you shared with me a couple of months ago in the technical department, have them handwritten with the best calligraphic pens, framed and given to you right after doing those frog jumps.

“To the Solomon I saw last week, to the Solomon that finally got his picture taken properly last week, to the Solomon with an intellectual smile and chubby cheeks, to the Solomon his friends described as kind-hearted and meek, see you next.”

Deborah explained that her father would be attending a wake organised to take place on Friday (yesterday).

“We would be having a memorial service for Solomon in Ottawa Friday evening and it is open to anyone that would like to come. Please, if you make it down, don’t cry because my dad would be there. I also believe that as Christians, we do not mourn, we celebrate life,” Deborah said.

There has been an outpouring of grief by Solomon’s friends and acquaintances on social media since the news of his death broke.

One friend wrote: “I’m lost for words. Rest in peace, Solomon. Such a gentle, polite, well mannered, intelligent, kind hearted young man! This is terribly sad.”

One of Solomon’s lecturers, Ryan Katz-Rosene, also tweeted, “(I am) absolutely devastated to learn of death of my #uOttawa student, #SolomonOdekunle – a kind, thoughtful and bright young man. May he rest in peace.”

The crime scene of Solomon’s death was an extensive area, which the police had to cordon off to gather evidence.

Staff Sgt. Bruce Pirt of the Ottawa’s crimes unit said it was a big scene because they had to analyse all the blood and potential evidence that were found all over the place.

“We do have some bloodletting that covered quite an extensive area, we have to make sure it’s all connected to the same incident. As we investigate further, we’ll be able to tighten up that scene and make it smaller and smaller,” Pirt said in a report by CBC News.

The suspect in the stabbing, who was said to have served a previous two-week jail term for weapons possession, was arrested the day after the attack.

He has since been charged with second-degree murder.


http://punchng.com/rccg-pastors-son-stabbed-death-canada-bar/

bosschinalu:
MILF

bosschinalu:
MILF

Kayleb26:
I can't stop thinking about this in the past few days... Will a Christian go to hell for not paying tax seeing that payment of tax is encouraged in the Scriptures (Rom 13:1-6 and Mark 12:16-17).

Now no adult I know pays tax. I understand everything goods and services we pay for have been taxed albeit I know that's not the only tax we're to pay.

There are many justifiable reasons why most people don't pay tax in Nigeria these include :
1. Lack of confidence in the government
2. Corruption
3. Infrastructural decay despite past tax adherence
4. Multiple taxation

Should a Christian continue to pay tax regardless whether he sees the effects or not, Can he use the above "justifiable reasons" to avoid tax? Will God excuse him on that ground? Will he go to hell for civil disobedience?

Please, people of Faith Let's contribute.

wellstryme:
At around 1:05am I was on nairaland when I heard my shout in Jesus name leave. I was so scared I called on my mum; she told me to go and check up on him, I asked my half brother to follow me, though he was very much just walking with his eyes close, when we entered his room my mum joined us and he said his head felt heavy and he saw someone trying to lift his mosquito net up to touch him, that he only managed to speak the name of Jesus. Is this spirit gone, cause I use to watch movie @ night in the sitting room now am so scared.

Senorita123:
Now u see how mannerless u are. I won't insult ur poor parents because mine raised me well but I bet u that the next time u mention any of my parents, u won't find it funny at all. Now u see the difference between a afonja and a Igbo. #MANNERS# Let this be your first and the last warning. Only IDIOTS like u don't value other people's parents. Be warned and stay away from me!!!!!!!

babyfaceafrica:
what is ayo dada reward compared to miss UNILAG...ayo got peanuts!!!!...grade is good but not eldorado,that's why someone like seun osewa an elect elect student who was one time leading his faculty at OAU ,left and became what he is today,where are his peers who graduated with first class?,probably with shell,NLNG,NNPC or abroad.what do they earn probably 500k to 2m monthly?...do you know how much seun makes a month?..seun is even not utilizing his forum well,if not Linda will be scared!!

Senorita123:
Even a fool knows that you is often shortened as U especially on social media. U really needed to get back at me that u had to mention exclamation mark. U really love the exclamation mark that u forgot that u were supposed to put comma after 'by the way' and not an exclamation mark. Always begin a sentence with capital letter(my five year old niece already knows that). Instead of educating yourself, u r channeling ur unproductive energy on the afonjas. U think u are tribalistic right, unfortunately today ain't your lucky day.

ebosie11:
Twin Nigerian sisters Taiwo & Kehinde Alli got married the same day.The beautiful brides were seen digging out on stage with their bridesmaid. Also the excited brides were pictured receiving blessings from their parents at the wedding.

Congrats to them


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2016/11/twin-nigerian-sisters-taiwo-kehinde-wed.html

Senorita123:
Same way your people are "believed" to have the highest cases of mental problem and d brainless flat heads syndrome...U can't write a simple correct sentence in English language yet u choose to disgrace yourself on a public forum like this. Ode

QuietHammer:
How is this in any way different from boko haram blowing churches up? Christians should condemn this