₦airaland Forum

HajimeSaito:
Seun, Seun the "atheist" who mocks Christianity but is Poo scared to try the same with a certain religion founded by a pedophile terrorist.
You're really "brave" to pick on those who won't fight back.
You're either brave or

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Ginaz:
Sorry if you're guilty, I never met to upset anyone. Pls don't be offended, everybody got principles and that happens to be mine. I not forming holy as I'm not holy myself. Abortion is something that doesn't goes well with my personality, as I have made up my mind never to indulge in it.

My post wasn't to condemned but to encourage.

Bisjosh:
First of all, u dress the way u wanna be addressed.

I have never been in that situation before.
though I dress good but many don't know how wealthy I am.

Modesty I guess...

izzou:
DR APE
Good night

izzou:
Since you refuse to be open minded, I can't force you

Keep hauling insults at Crazyquinn

Cheers

izzou:
Calm down sir

You can actually make your points without insulting people

I disagree with her totally, but that isn't a reason for me to insult

It makes you no better than her

neocortex:
So much hate just for a dissenting view ?
It is hypocritical for a "sinner" to feel that
he/she is better than other "sinners"

izzou:
Inasmuch as I don't agree with her comments, her parents shouldn't be brought into it

Seun, Lalasticlala, Dominique, Rocktation, Mynd44 must apologize to me if you no go exile

Tobyshegz:
Ooh!!. All men are senseless and cruel— except me

Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

Towncrier247:
General Superintendent of The Holy Spirit Mission Church (The Happy Family Chapel). Bishop Charles Ighile who together with his wife Rev. Caro Ighile head the church that has over sixty branches,through their syndicated marriage and relationship programme on television have touched many lives and restored thousands of relationships. In a recent interview, the couple spoke extensively on why many men sleep with their maids, why many marriages are daily crashing among other problems in relationships...

[b]"Men sleep with their househelps when the couple are not on their guards. We are talking about God-fearing men here, who would not ordinarily sleep with their househelps, but somehow find themselves doing it. There is always a division of labour in the home. As the Bible puts it, the man is the head of the home and the woman is the helper. She is the keeper at home. Therefore, according to the Bible, everything about the domestic affairs is for the woman. From what God Himself told Haggai in the Bible when her househelp ran away, God asked her, “why are you running away from your mistress…Go and submit yourself to her.” Therefore, the househelp is under the woman. She submits to the woman. When a maid needs to buy things such as undies, body cream,make her hair or she has to report to the man when she is seeing her period, then there is going to be problem. When it is the man now asking the girl, ‘what’s wrong with you?’, why are you sad? Do you have tummy ache? Ok, come and see me in the room’ etc. There is fire on the mountain. There are certain boundaries that must be set in the home. When the woman fails to take charge of her responsibilities and passes them to the house help and the husband takes them up. She is setting up the husband for temptation."[/b]


The pastors also insist that inappropriate dressing plays a major role in men having sex with their maids. According to them..

[b] "Appropriate must be enforced in the home. A man is enticed by what he sees, therefore, the woman must not allow the househelp to dress indecently in such a way that all her contours are revealed and everything is dangling around the house because the man may be tempted even when he didn’t plan it. So the couple must have rules in the house, as you cannot just come into the kitchen or sitting room with only your nighties on or tie a towel or wrapper around your waist moving around the house. Those are troubles for the man. He should not say, “oh, she is only 14, there is nothing she can do”.

“No, she is a woman and the man seeing her unclothedness could be thrown off balance. Sometimes, the househelp themselves could be cunning. She wants to seduce the man. So, a man must be very careful. Then, the man must show his wife love all the time. The housegirl must not be allowed to see cracks in their marriage. The husband must not disrespect his wife anytime, especially in the presence of the girl, such as shouting on the wife and so on. Doing that will make the girl lose respect for the woman. These are just a few of the very many reasons men sleep with their househelps. If you as the man begins to find yourself attracted to the househelp, just send her away. If you are a man who wants to save your marriage and wants to honour your marriage and God, let your househelp go. I know that when a man begins to have feelings towards a woman, his defenses weaken, so the strength to even send her away is no where to be found. But struggle with your weakness to send her away. I have handled a case as that where the man has already slept with the househelp. Interestingly, the wife is by far more beautiful, but it’s not a matter of beauty now, it’s a matter of the more you live with somebody the more you see something that attracts you to the person which outsiders might not see."[/b]

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/09/even-women-that-cannot-cook-dont-like.html

ChangeIsCostant:
A man slumped during the visit of Nigeria's First Lady, Aisha Buhari to commission a cancer screening centre in Minna, Niger state on Saturday, Sept 3rd. The man was immediately attended to -by emergency officials who were on ground as they administered first aid to him while conveying him to the hospital.

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/09/man-slumps-during-aisha-buharis-recent.html

remedick:
Not really, Nne. It's just a case of girls making mistakes that hurt them. They reject the ones that truly love them and accept the ones that use and dump them. Why isn't there girl referred to in the OP still married by now despite dating numerous guys? I mean one should have been able to ATLEAST marry her. Doesn't that show that something is wrong? Even if the guy she has been with does have money, he should make effort to talk marriage plans and at least pay the bride price ONLY to take her home while celebration can come later.

There comes a time when you have to dump some standards and look out for that guy who really cares about you.

I know of a guy we serve together who really love a certain corper. As in real love, no games. He is values her worth and wanted to start something with her after NYSC when he noticed they guy she dated in that time didn't value her or wanted to make plans that could lead to marriage.

Guess what? She rejected him. Mind you she even gain much attention from this guy in that time than the one she dated.

Till now, she still rejected him and not yet married. To think that the one she was with was much younger than her. I and the guy are still in touch and he said the girl told him she is in a relationship already. What surprised me was the kind of phrased she used to describe her current relationship which means there is NO concrete evidence the current guy will marry her.

What if he doesn't marry her eventually? She would have wasted time with 2 guys while one who really wanted her was rejected.

I have told my friend to just let her be and considering her age (32), it's her lose.

She is good in all ramification which is why my friend really wanted her. When I guy is persistence it means something. But the guys she has been with does not see the value my friend sees.

What could make a beautiful, well mannered lady remain unmarried till 32 if not that something is wrong somewhere-- her choice!

Remember we are free to make choices but we do not make the right choice most times!

P.S: BTW I am long time crush of you.

Nori:
Is it by force to accept advances from a man?? Is it not better to be single than marry a man you don't love? What your saying doesn't make sense at all, and what makes u think the person u married is even better, because she is more beautiful. Maybe she was just more desperate.

God to will give the girl a more handsome and richer guy who is better than you

searchiing4love:



#Teamforeigngirls

uyi26:
Many people don’t seem to realize the benefit of legalizing guns in Nigeria. They think of the disadvantages alone, not the advantages. Why are we narrow-mindedly opinionated about this issue?

1. Men go into a house to rape a defenseless girl. Would they try that if they knew she’s armed with a gun? Rapists want to rape and live, not to rape and die.

2. Many aged parents still cry days and nights, while their broken souls plead for vengeance. Their innocent children were killed in Jos and elsewhere while they were serving their fatherland.

3. In Nigeria, most criminals want to do bad things to people and go scot-free. If they knew people had guns as well, they would think twice.

4. I must be blunt, what gives most criminals the gut to attack people is because people are defenseless. If 20 assassins go to a man’s house, they’ll kill him. But the man can kill up to 3 of them before he dies. This is better than when the man is killed without being able to kill anyone in return.

5. One-Chance, terrorists, herdsmen, militants, money ritualists, armed robbers, thugs, bullies, etc., are able to go away unscathed in most cases because their victims don’t have guns. To be frank, those who attack you have power over you only because they’re armed and you’re not.

6. If most members communities have guns in their hands, do you think armed robbers would like to go to their lion’s den to molest them?

7. Militants that terrorize communities would be afraid to do so; unless they’re going on suicide missions. The same is true of mad Jihadists. No mad or rabid dog would deliberately run into a burning fire.

8. Domestic violence would cease…. A corrupt cop would cease pointing their gun to a poor and helpless okada rider because of N100.

9. Lazy thugs that collect money they don’t work for would think twice before they start cursing or threatening their victims, ordering for money they don’t work for.

10. It’s true, many people would die. But the remaining people alive would sit right. They would show respect for one another. Politeness would prevail and crimes would be reduced to almost zero. Isn’t there any sense in this?

P.S Seun please tell your mods to move this to the front page.

Mraaz:
[b][/b] wetin u find come na barca day play madrid? wetin u find come na barca day play madrid? wetin u find come na barca day play madrid?

Ajusshi:
Anti christ data

whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.

Naijasinglegirl:
Gone are the days when the term ‘gay’ was used to connote happiness. Nowadays, only one definition comes to our mind when the word gay is mentioned.
Statistics say 1 in every 10 men are gay. What if I told you that male gossip partner of yours in the office is gay? That your ever smiling neighbour is gay. That banker you are crushing on is gay. Your fiance of 9 years is gay?

In fact, any guy guilty of 5 of these signs is definitely gay.

1 He owns an umbrella
2 He showers with hot water
3 He covers with a duvet when sleeping alone
4 His bathing soap cost more than N150
5 He wears a pouch on his phone.
6 He applies vaseline/lip gloss on lips during harmattan
7 He applies white powder on his armpits
8 He changes his BBM dp more than thrice a month.
9 He owns a selfie stick
10 He drinks fanta
11 He wears pants rather than boxers
12 He uses a photo/selfie of him as his phone or laptop wallpaper
13 He sips drinks with straw
14 He chews a gum for more than 10 minutes
15 He uses snapchat filters
16 He runs when crossing the road
17 He applies body cream
18 He wears a nose ring
19 He places one leg on a stool/bed when applying body cream
20 He takes a selfie with another guy
21 He has Camera360 app on his phone
22 He ties sponge on his waist after bathing


http://www.naijasinglegirl.com/23-hidden-signs-gay-nigerian-man/

jephito:
Ignore my view and go for a PERFECT woman.

CrazyQuinn:
This is reality tho, even in the animal kingdom the female go for the most dominant and powerful male, you can't change nature

Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.

edoziebobbyyahoocom:
This is Bullcrap!
Ladies these days be wanting everything perfect. Go ask ur mama how ur perfect father was when she met him.

jephito:
What can we do? Yet we "must" marry one of them no matter her flaw(s).

MVLOX:
U are so correct. Honestly been responsible kind takes aways the romance in a relationship..... Sometimes I feel bad just knowing that I don't like been touched but my fiancé loves to cuddle and be cuddled..... Hmmm I just hope I marry her very soon so dat d fear of sex b4 marriage which is d major reason can be eliminated..... A wise man was said ''when you start touching you stop tinking''.... Only marriage will make me stop tinking and just go ahead to touch and feel all d way....lol

Chinaimporter:
we satanists are finally creating a one world goverment and a new world order...very soon we all shall be one and think alike,then later our thought will be synchronized with a giant supercomputer that would be control by satan and we shall all be used involuntarily to fight christ on armagadon then invade heaven where we will overthrow his father and put lucifer on the seat forever. Prayers and fasting will not help you because we own your conciousness and have prevented christ from reaching you guys since 1883.to join satan add me up.