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LuvU2:
If a woman forgives and takes back her partner for same, we applaud her for being good.

I think this one deserves a standing Ov Thats a real man right there

PapiNigga:
The internet has gone agog as a lady recently disclosed how her sister got the surprise of her life when her lover proposed to her with a brand new car. She share the good news on instagram, and of course her sister said yea.(why won't she)

See how her sister captioned the photo below.
"The planning begins... countdown. My sister is getting married. Sooooo excited. I lost my voice that night. Could not stop screaming. She never hexperetit. Lol.. Can't wait to glam her up.We will be going all out on all her dresses. Watch this page Can't wait... so many dresses to be made. The list is unending. Congrats babyyy. *rolls up sleeves* time to get to work. #ProposalOnFleek#lovebirds"

http://www.certifiednaija.com/2016/09/recession-wat-man-proposes-to-his.html?m=1

MrPresident1:
Una see them, smh.
goingape1 and hardmirror, make una come see them o

rebella:
@fullofregrets , you had an abortion the deed has been done. Personally I think instead of crying, you should thank God for making you avoid a fair weather husband, that is someone that will only be good to you when the going is good. That man didn't love you. When a man starts saying you should get pregnant first before the marriage can hold, that's a warning sign.

I know you probably miss him a lot, but remember a broken relationship is better than a broken home.

lonelydora:
Bro, I'm married with kids already. All my sisters are happily married with kids too. Do you know how many girls out there that have done abortion? Most married couple have done that too. Go and ask your doctor, you will be shocked from what he will say. It's a normal thing for married peeps. Not saying I have done it shaa.

habsydiamond:
The only sentence I can pick from what u wrote was I try to remember my past. Are u saying u have forgotten all ur past or its just a camouflage.

adedayoa2:
you really don't have the right to judge humans cuz you are human. Let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone

Harrisee:
Remember he said he wants you to get pregnant before marriage. So he would still have left you even if you didn't tell him about the abortion, since you can't conceive. Infact without a baby in your womb, he wouldn't marry you whether abortion or no abortion. So you see why youths are warned to stay off premarital sex. Believe me if you were a virgin, that guy wouldn't give you that condition. Its because he doesn't trust your past ( even without you telling him). Also you have no justification to feel suicidal since you have committed murder yourself. You murdered a child who could be a parent tomorrow. You destroyed a lineage. But it can only be well if you go to Jesus Christ on your knees, and plead for forgiveness. Then ABSTAIN from premarital sex. That's what leads to abortion. I wouldn't like to marry a lady with an abortion case myself. It brings generational curse.

Twerky101:
I have a lot of respect for my dad cos I had most of my best memories with him . my mom tot me how to be quite n respectful because that is how women are expected to be buh on the other hand I was tot to speak out and fight for myself by my dad .
it's nt abt pride buh I believe am special . I dnt have any hatred for guys cos I dnt hav any cause to be. u r d proud one thinking u better Dan someone else jxt cos ur parents are still together, who knows if they are just managing one another. u dated someone who left u n u here giving us a bias side of d story

JerryTemi:
My Dear hear me no man born of a woman that exist in this planet earth have the right to judge you expect God in Heaven,according to the word of God which says "let him without sin throw the stone" let that guy that made himself judge against you come out and say I am without sin. The said all sins are equal before the eyes of Jehovah. OK assume you take in now and you two settle down and after marriage you had miscarriage what will then happen? I am a sinner and I always pray for His mercies which I believe endureth forever.

Twerky101:
y'all saying u wouldn't marry someone from a broken marriage/someone raised from a single parent, let me ask u dis. wat should d mother do, when the husband disassociate himself from d marriage/wife? if nt to b strong for two n take Kia of her children, provide for them, protect them n pay their school fees. she would struggle day n night doing the jobs meant for d man combine with hers just to make sure her children gets quality education. or is she supposed to leave the children also just like d man did? if I turn out strong like her then dat will b a great achievement to me, that doesn't mean I wouldn't respect my husband buh it means that I would also deserve same respect in turn

lefulefu:
this is why its always better to let sleeping dogs lie

Eliteklaus:
is abortion not murder?

Twerky101:
never said we were better ok.point of correction I learnt from both sides, stayed with my dad for a while before coming to stay with my mom, whatever I am now I owe it to her. n if a man thinks jxt because of who raised me he wouldn't get married to me then he missed out.

cococandy:
so the boys turn out okay all by themselves with no input from their single mothers? How typical!

Ratello:
Chief Justice of fellow humans, you must be a kid. I am happily married. I pity your stance on your fellow human. *spits on his face again*

Ratello:
You are a weasel for this comment how are you sure your future wife or wife wouldn't have committed many abortions. *spits on his face*

SirVintageCock:
As in ee.

Imagine the sob stories.
Mod kindly hid my post if found offensive but this lady deserve what she is getting.
What happened to condom? The aftereffect of abortion is disastrous but people won't listen. This is one of them, if the guilt did not kill you at least it will help you to keep your legs close.

You have not even learn anything, you are yet to even marry yet you are still opening legs hoping to get pregnant. Maybe God is stopping you from getting pregnant and aborting all the babies he had kept in store for you. Maybe he is waiting for you to get married before he opens up your Womb.

Dumb bitche

Twerky101:
I take it dat ur parents r still together abi? n dat it's because of your strength that they are both alive n together right? when did it become a sin to b raised by a single mother huh? was raised by one n m so proud of dat cos it might hav been worst, dat doesnt mean u better dan me cos ur were raised by both parents. for d part about them being wayward, u nt a saint so stop casting stones

lonelydora:
Never let this kind of secret out until that ring is on your fourth finger. Even though i don't support abortion, but 98% of married couple have done abortion.

fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

Dayg88:
This is the dumbest response I have ever read on nairaland.com. Does a single parent always mean the mother?
What happens to guys raised by their fathers alone?
Or guys raised by their mothers?
I've seen kids raised by single parents more ''marryable'' than those who have both parents who raise them.
Its worth noting though, that kids of single parents will always have an/some orientation that is not ideal when it comes to relationships/marriage.

sidnen:
What about boys raised by single mother?

youngboi:
When I see a very good gal raised by a single parent soon...... Its marriage next year.

pumpingmachine:
Listen to this wise person cos it's true. My brother married one and the marriage has collapsed. I also married one and I'm so fed up with her. I grew up in a complete happy home so nothing prepared me for the stuffs she's throwing at me, not to forget her mum that wants to turn me to ATM machine. Run if you can, if not, do what I do - take solace in your career if you have one.

blueseacats:
Don't go close to ladies with single mother, they are time bombs waiting to explode.

CuteMorriz:
it is not simple generalisation. Ladies often take after their mum...

sidetalk1:
Joke Jigan very well known Yoruba actress , has made headlines with her very appealing photos which got her boyfriend into the lime light.
Joke Jigan in one of the pictures with her boyfriend made a racy pose known as the 'doggy' posture which has caught the sight of many internet users talking.


http://celebrityvoic..com.ng/2016/09/nollywood-actress-poses-in-very.html

UndisputedBosom:
A girl that truly loves you will hardly accept somethin from you talk more of requestin from it you but until you find that girl your theory remains valid