ElizaVeta:
How is he a disgrace?

Because he said his mind?

NLanders can never seize to amaze me!

I can see you are still young!

when you reach some certain age when men will be running away from you, come back and read this post.

LadyGoddiva:
Tell them! Nigerian men are the poorest and most frustrated in the world. Anything relating to finances or being broke always strikes their nerves and makes them convulse like rabid dogs
Watch as they quote me to prove me right

I'm just quoting ya to remind you that your father is among the poorest and most frustrated man in the world (base on your comment)

I'm just wondering how did he even impregnated ya mum?

I'm sure he was frustrated when ya mother is about to give birth to you!

ImaIma1:


Are you one of them? Cos you seem to throw insults at women easily and talk down on them. You sound angry.
Your words are always uncultured and crude.

ask google!




hey woman or whatever you call yourself, I have seen how ya women behave and do things base on experience and what I'm going to tell ya is that women( especially naija) place no value or self worth but only put priority base on material things.

I'm one of them? only a fool will brag on what so little he achieved and spent it on a woman thinking he is a man.

I won't tell you weather I'm financially stable or not but one thing I'm gonna tell ya is that when ya base ya judgement on material things, you only ended up with losers like the op who wrote that piece of shit.


so we should come and be telling ya female fairytale story


I DONT TAKE WOMEN LIKELY!

makydebbie:
Op hope you're not encouraging ladies to be lazy?

actually he/she is encouraging ladies to just sit down and open there smelly yansh for who them think is rich!

no wonder ritualist do enjoy using women as spare part

DouglasH92:
I've noticed that a lot of Nigerian men, especially on social media always make excuses for their financial inadequacies. Instead of them to keep quiet and focus on becoming financially well off, they will reveal their financial insecurities by demonizing and lambasting any woman who says she would rather date a guy who has money. Most times you will see them making comments like "Women are hoes" Women are gold diggers." "Women should focus on love and not on the financial state of the man"
You will even see them saying that women should try to manage with a man who is earning low and should stop aiming too high in terms of the financial capacities of the man they want because money isn't all that matters.

I have also noticed that these kind of men are usually lazy. Most of their time is spent on social media arguing, insulting women and complaining about how women love money so much. And these men are usually frustrated, broke and low achievers. It's not surprising that they are in the financial state they are in. Real men who have money don't complain like they do. They know how the world works and they work hard to be financially successful and they let their financial success speak for them and attract whatever kind of women they want. They don't spend all day on social media casting aspersions on women who prefer a certain kind of lifestyle and men who understand and can provide such lifestyle.

Seriously, if you are such a man I feel really sorry for you. No amount of whining and complaining will change your condition. Leave social media and go and hustle. If you have money you won't have time to worry about what women want.

look at them!

I'm sure you are a disgrace to your family.

ImaIma1:


Hey hey! Slow down. Did i at any point in my post say the OP should not travel and improve his career?

OP MY ADVICE HAS BEEN MISREAD. I MEANT YOU SHOULD GRAB THE OPPORTUNITY OF GOING TO CANADA TO IMPROVE YOUR CAREER BUT THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BREAK UP WITH YOUR GIRL IF YOU TRULY LOVE HER JUST BECAUSE YOUR BROTHER SAYS YOU SHOULD.

HAPPY STUDYING OP

in some point you encouraged him to do something betraying to his brother, in other word you advise him to be an opportunist (just like ya women).

life doesn't work that way!

if you are a woman you should think like a man.,....

Lalas247:
Follow your head and not your heart

Look leave her for now an explain all in detail let her u derstand
A good lady will understand and support you if you are serious

Then once settled in Canada or wherever you can send for her ..that way you send for her as a spouse .. or you go back home marry her and the process is much quicker
Look this can be done within a year or two .. if both of you still feel the same way by the time you are settled then it's happy days

Never ever put your heart in someone you are NOT YET married to
Your future and security should come first

I don't know you but you are one if the few reasonable woman I have come across in this section.

ImaIma1:


You do not have to insult me. If you have problems, direct your frustrations elsewhere.

Your mentality is the one that is flawed. So because your brother is making your life better, he should also rule your life. I guess he would pick a wife for you too.

What is wrong with him going to study abroad and still dating his girlfriend? Does his brother have to know every single detail of his life? Does he not have the right to have a mind of his own or has the brother bought that with the money?

Our opinions and ideas may differ but that does not give you the right to throw insults at me. Do not think u van bully everyone here.

if it is your brother I'm sure you will advise him not to improve on his career!

if you can say this to the op, you are a dream killer and by there words you shall know them.

I didn't mean to insult you but women like you should be aware of for all there ever think of is themselves

ImaIma1:
Even if your brother is helping so much, you do not have to give him full access to your life. If you truly love your girl as you said, continue dating her but keep that detail from your brother. He does not need to know everything. When you are ready to marry her, i don't see any reason why he should have any objection. And if he is disappointed, he will get over it. It is your life.
If you leave her now and then after some years you are ready to settle down, how sure are you of finding a suitable spouse over there.

typically on how women think

by this writeup you will know how women have that greedy, selfish and stvpid altitude!

his brother is trying to improve his life and you are here telling him he shouldn't let his brother to know about his life

that advise is one of the best advised his brother gave to him because he know that when he peradventure get there he will see a lot of choice to make instead of deceiving one girl at home.


there are many fishes in the river, so shut the fvck off and carry your demented mentality Elsewhere!

wristbangle:
The truth is harsh but I would advice you to go for the MSC program and if letting go of your wife to be is the sacrifice to be paid, so be it. If you jeopardise your chance to secure this golden opportunity and settle in Nigeria because of her, what if a rich suitor seek her hand in marriage? You would end up losing your dream and would become a frustrated human being.

Wait sef OP, are u sure village people are not playing with your destiny so? Is this suppose to be a dilemma for you, abi nkan se Eleyi ke?

Book the next available flight to Canada for your MSC program abeg



but why u come dey vex like this na

you put love over your career is just plain foolish!

I don't know why we Africa periodize marriage over career improvement?

Drinkwater07:
In a dilemma right now, please those experienced in these kind of issues should help me.

I lost my Job at the Nigerian Breweries Last year, While I was working I made up my mind to marry my girlfriend of about 4 years now, this December. Both of us are 30 already, we are so much in love, but my job lost really hampered our marriage plans, because she is just engaged in the Npower scheme now and my cash that I saved have long almost finished right now. The reason I did not go into business with the little money I have at that time about 400k was that My elder brother in Canada promised to send me to Canada to join there. So far he have helped me secure admission for MSc. and payed my full tuition fee and even credited my account for the maintenance which the visa officers will see in my account. He also has the plans of sponsoring me through PHD also in Canada or the UK if I want. Now as I await my Visa, there is a really big issue I am fighting right now to manage.

My brother warned me to forget about any girl I have here in Nigeria, that most of them are fair weather friends, gold diggers and desperados, and that if I have anybody here in Nigeria waiting for me while I am away, that it will be a huge distraction for me. He told me he is speaking out of experience and won't want anybody to distract me while studying and hustling abroad. My girl is definitely none of what he described, she is a very good person and is never after money, She just love so much. I told him that I don't have anybody, This is to avoid him withdrawing his financial support for me or may be doubting my seriousness to succeed.

I was planning to come back and get married to my baby after my MSc, but I don't know how my brother will see it. He will be so disappointed with me, I hold my brother in so much high regard, and right from when I was a child he usually protects me so well and doesn't want anything to hamper my success, I love my girl so much, she is everything you will want in any woman. If I don't marry her I don't think I will be happy with anyone else. None of them is aware of what is bothering. How will I solve this issue.

nigga you dreaming?

there are many fishes in the river. don't put one piece of black shiit over your career! you will regret it in life.


guys like you need to be castrated because you are not using your Brain to think put rather your peniss.


WHO KNOWS WHO IS FVCKING YOUR WIFE TO BE NOW?

awillabo:



Hmmm. Your grammatical blunders just made me spill my hot coffee

Are u sure it's our leaders who have block head??

if na English you dey use take feed, in fact I know say you still dey collect Kobo Kobo for ya parent that's why you fit dey talk rubbish for ya mouth

na your father get blockhead.


ITK

Youngadvocate:
Ebonyi state governor, Engr. David Nweze Umahi toured the Waste to Wealth Plant with other state government officials which is soon to be completed.

The plant is built to recycle waste products in the state.

Ebonyi waste to wealth plant is said to be the biggest in the country after it is completed. It located at Umuoghara, Ezza North LGA in Ebonyi State.

The governor has also announced immediate commencement of EXCO estate and many other establishments withing the waste to wealth plant at Umuoghara.

http://igbobia.com/?q=ebonyi-state-governor-toured-waste-recycling-plant-said-to-be-the-biggest-in-nigeria.html

you haven't constructed it finish but yet making mouth

what is wrong with our block head leaders

folakemigeh:
That's Uche Mba and she is a fitness trainer in the US

stop making Guy's preek going up and down!

that first pics is enough

nicky20:
Oluwo of Iwo Kingdom, Osun State, Oba Adewale Abdul-Rasheed Akanbi has proclaimed his Jamaican wife, Olori Chanel Chin as the most beautiful queen on earth.




More @ http://trendzbase..com/2017/09/my-wife-is-most-beautiful-queen-on.html

women na women ohh, as far na dicck dey enter yansh. with time you go dey look for fresh yansh to enter.

ThisTrend:


One Chime Chinedu Afamefuna, 25, has been saved from death after drinking a poisonous concoction suspected to be rat poison in a bid to commit suicide on August 12. The incident took place in a classroom at Uwani Boys Secondary School Enugu.

According to NewTelegraph, he was saved by a member of the Enugu State Command of the Nigerian Legion Corpsof Commissionaires, Ekoh-Clement O.I., who along with his men stumbled on Chime and alerted Uwani police division.

He was then rushed unconscious to the police hospital Enugu, where he was revived. Every effort made to extract the real motive for the attempted suicide has proven abortive.

When the police invited Aneke, the woman whose name was on a suicide note he wrote, it was discovered that she is Afamefuna’s auntie and also sponsored his secondary school education before he ran away from home and joined street boys.

It was gathered that Afamefuna’s mother died shortly after giving birth to his immediate younger brother. Aneke said since the sad incident, she assumed the responsibility of taking care of him and his younger brother.

The auntie was said to have expressed frustrations at Afamefuna’s delinquent behaviours, a development that had seen him in and out of police cells before he finally eloped from home and started living street life.

She was said to have however expressed willingness to keep her doors open if the young man would turn a new leaf and return home. It was observed that street life possibly exposed Afamefuna to cultism.

And that perhaps he couldn’t meet up with cult demands hence the decision to take his life. Also, the last phrase of his suicide note, “IN THE NAME OF FUTA-JALUN my mother high temple”, may have something to do with either mysticism or cultism.

See His Note Below;


Source: http://www.wobegist.com/2017/09/suicidal-25-yr-old-man-rescued-after.html

skull miners will be disappointed right now!

don't go spoiling others business, if you want to die use heavy doses of that poison.

learn from awolowo!

morganist99:
Just had a really bad one can't remember a single thing...please help

how do you know you had a bad dream and can't remember it?

risingrainboll:
My team mates of five have these in common: Language and Religion. This is affecting my performance on the job as they often communicate in their local dialect, leaving me out. Sometimes, I am marginzlised in the process.
Also, my HOD (though of my religion) singles me out for errands such as buying him food even when I am seriouly busy.
What do I do as I always feel depressed over these each day I go to work? I am really worried. Please I need professional counsel.
Also, I think I might need a counselor/mentor. I feel I need someone to help me package myself and develop a professional deamenor.
Somebody HELP ME!

once he send you on an errand to buy food, poison that food of his and you will see a permanent change!

100% effective

badassProdigy:
Malva's hot body transformation photos have got guys swooning and drooling on the internet.
The former skinny lady now a fitness trainer achieved the amazing feat within few months without any surgical procedures.

See more photos below...

http://www.lubeynaija.com/2017/09/these-hot-lady-transformation-photo.html?m=1

it shows that there's hope for those flat azz apes

rittyray:
I was dating this guy whom I loved so much but he double date behind my back...I recall I that I came here seeking for advice, so I decided to forget about him .
my greatest surprise is that he has been logging into my Facebook account, my gmail and the rest
reading all my chats,an afterwards he will call me to asked who I was chatting with....
please guys what should I do because am confused

what should I do

keep fvcking him or rather ask your father what you should do

Ogashub:
Being Gay Is Not A Sin” — General Overseer Of Higher Life World Fellowship Says

The General Overseer of Higher Life World Fellowship, in Akokwa, Ideato North Local Government Area in Imo State, has declared that being gay is not a sin.

In a series of post he made on Facebook, The pastor identified as Arinze Okoli Mmaduabuchi noted that he may be wrong, but then, God over everything.


Pastor Arinze Okoli Mmaduabuchi
He wrote; “Homosexuality is not sin as am led to say,I may be wrong but God’s everything. When I say gay is no sin, I mean sin is judged sin with no disparity’s, all men have sinned and fallen short of God’s glory, but in grace sin is overlooked to count men righteous through faith even though they don’t qualify.”

He continued: “What is sin?According to James a disobedient of the law,or transgressions of the law, any man that wants the law is indebted to do the whole law, but Christ has abolished it and brought in liberty, in Christ no man is judge a sinner if he works in faith.

The issue here is can somebody be a gay christian. If men are judged sinners because of their orientation of sex,then all men are sinners in did.”

In my post on gay people,I said the act might not be sinful, is a revelation i had, didn’t say I might not be wrong but God judges all men under sin, that they might be justified by faith, that’s what the believe. Faith is the principal here because God grants you, your faith.

http://ogashub.com.ng/gay-not-sin-general-overseer-higher-life-world-fellowship-says/

loving my fellow man's yansh is not a sin

mentally unstable people

black women and there ape like behavior

Jeus:
This picture of a lady's wedding dress is trending online.

Ladies, Will you rock the dress? Yay or Nay.


NEWS VIA: http://www.jamienaija.com/2017/09/ladies-will-you-rock-this-wedding-dress.html

this brea$t will be enough to accommodate two dick.


what a self-contained breast!

suremanpatriot:
...wet dream is the main symptom of spirit spouse. This manifest mostly from d beginning of puberty. Since u aren't havin wet dreams,it is not spirit spouse related.

father spiritualism, tell me more!

RETIREDMUMU:
Please help me nlander, this thing has been baffling me for a year now.

fast forward in 2016, i started having break ups due to the reason: once i have sex with girls i started having hatred towards them especially when the sex is constantly.

i thought at first maybe it a normal thing due to fact that i love taste random........

until this same occurrence happened yesterday on our first love making, toward me and my long term girl, this girl i love her like mad, am even planing future reference with her, i don't want to lose this same girl because of this hatred.


i tried to discuss this with my friend, and fortunately this happen to some of them(having hatred after having sex)


i tried to Google for solutions but nothing useful found



i tried to do dating without sex but the thought still runs in my head,and i always want stable relationships for now.

just help me!!

keep phucking black girls and less thinking of your future

don't you know that black pussy are contagious?

HelenBee:
Who counted the flies?

village people I guess!


lol!

rightwingz:


http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/crime/1317151/nigerian-charged-with-robbing-shooting-russian-woman

someone please confirm the name!

we need that Guy's name for future research purpose.


#NCAN

nwadiuko1:
i wasn't crying because we "broke up" bro..... i cried because i wouldnt see her again ever

is there any need to see her again after breakup?

nwadiuko1:
she broke my heart....... she didn't leave me for another person....... she left everybody....... i cried like a fool every night for close to two months until i became very ill......
RIP kc........

instead of crying like a fool, you should have use that time to do something productive in life!

what a wasted moment.


why should a guy cry for a piece of broken yansh

midehi2:
Girls cry more, guys don't, all they say is "Fvck you, shiit do happens"



But for me I don't cry, why should I but for that one week I drink to stupor, then I move on

I can see that you are jobless

why not learn some work or something and stop wasting your time on some piece if fairytale!

chubbygal:
.

I love this woman!