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dammywapes:
I don’t have a book on it yet but you can check my tiktok if you would like too.

Yes.

FuckYeyeMods:
Exactly why we're back together.
She'll just dump the chicken with her mother and walkway.

Suggest to her that you get a divorce and that she gives you custody of the children. They would live with you, and you would take care of them, and in return, you will pay her alimony until the children turn 18. Instead of her paying you because the children are with you, you will pay her.
Women are greedy for money. She will agree. Try it.

FuckYeyeMods:
Have you separated..
I went through same but in my case, I turn the table but I woke up one day and my wife disappeared with my kids just to punish them and me.
Her mind is not in the marriage but she don't want to leave peacefully.
I beg her to leave the children and go start a brand new life she wanted. But instead she disappeared with my children saying I'm the one that wanted her to leave. Unfortunately she's back with the kids. But I couldn't forget everything she's telling people.

We've been unofficially separated for 4 years and officially by court order for 2 years.
You won't get the children unless she gives them to you herself. She needs the children to play the victim in front of others.

Double0h7:
He's obviously enabled her bad behaviour. He could adjust his ways and lead his home instead of running away at the first sight of a problem. He has a child with her, that child shouldn't suffer for his father's choices. Men are always shouting about being leaders but when things become hard they run away from their children. Their marriage is still new, everyone goes through hardship in the beginning of their marriage, until they finally understand each other. He sounds weak af!

You see, unlike him, I went through the exact same thing he did. Identical. But I endured it all for a long time until the children grew up. And then I finally got divorced. Now, from this point of view, I can responsibly say that the children weren't worth it.

White people 500 years ago.

dammywapes:
Br relocate to ibadan and join me in cat fish farming you won’t spend 3M out of the money

You gave him a good idea.
That's a good idea for me.
Have you written about your farm anywhere? I would love to read it.

Nazgul:
That 5m wouldn't even be able to cover your flight ticket.

And you even need proof of funds before you can be granted visa. Meaning if 5m is all you have, nobody would give you visa.

So stay in Nigerian and get married.

He's dumb. He doesn't know anything about life.

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this account).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they supported me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't support me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

Get a divorce. It's not your fault. You're telling the identical story I went through. Get a divorce. The same, literally the same thing happened to me. Absolutely the same.
You have a child with her. How old is the child? How many years old?
Try to arrange with her for the child to live with you. She's the type of woman who isn't capable of taking care of a child. I know from personal experience. How old are you?
We will continue this conversation.

MrHandsome2013:
I recently sold my family plots of land and I received 5m.
I am 40 years old with HND

No wife, no kids , no job.
Only 5m is all I have .
I need your advice

What do you know how to do and what skills do you possess?

[quote author=Starz825 post=135494979]Firstly, if you are in a city like Lagos, pH , Abuja...

Then you need to leave...travel down to a low cost city where U don't get to spend more on rent and buy a small piece of land for farming - yam, potatoes, water melon sells ...and then sell to the main city in that state.

With time you can get a wife in that area ...and have a family


Do not travel with 5m oo ..he no reach anything...

Man, he sold the land and you're suggesting he buy land. If he wanted to work the land, he wouldn't have sold it. Land needs to be worked. What do you think is the reason why over 90% of the farms seized from white people and given to black people have failed? Farming is hard and serious work. He's not interested in that.

Nothing man,nothing. 😆😆

AngelicBeing:
Hmmmmm, how are you doing? Are you back to Serbia? You need to make enough money to set up your bakery

I'm still in Serbia. I'm waiting for my Croatian work visa to be finalized. Well, I don't have enough. I don't. I only have €22,000. That's not much for Belgrade. For a bakery. I could open a bakery in Nigeria with this money.
There are big problems this year with work permits due to the influx of labor from Nepal and India, for whom work permits were issued, but it turned out they have no idea about any kind of work, so now they are being sent back home. One part of them. The other part is going for training. And the cost of that training will be deducted from their salary, which is already low.
I managed to get that little Nepali girl from Zagreb, whom I was in a relationship with, another job so she could at least save something. I'm sitting at home. I work on weekends. Just enough not to spend my saved money. I'm waiting for the permit. Generally, there's a serious crisis in Europe. I hear from this employer I'm supposed to go to. The season has started. Germans, Poles, Hungarians are coming, but they spend very little. Mostly they just walk around. They don't have money. There's a crisis. The war in Ukraine is expensive. Ukraine was the breadbasket of Europe. And Russia was a supplier of artificial fertilizers and natural gas. Now all of that is gone. Along with this crisis, political unrest is brewing. With the change of government in the US, a change in the EU is also expected. And what that means for migrants remains to be seen. Mostly nothing good.
Suzu works her first job for €700 and the second one I found for her for €1000, so she will somehow be able to pay off the loan and save. She took out the loan to come to the EU. €10,000. Her whole family went into debt.
I have a €1500 salary waiting for me plus tips. For about 3-4 months. And then back home. They offered me twice to stay and work. I can't. I hate Croats. Serbs and Croats are enemies. For the last 150 years.

MrHandsome2013:
You want to kidnap me and take the only property I have

Right.

RodgersAkpafu:
This analysis doesn't make any sense
There is an empirical study in which dating sites data were used, and the desirability was white men first, black men next and the Asians last

It's not about income alone
Desirability is multifaceted
Okay let me make it easier for you

Line up a white man, black man and Indian man who have near identical profiles and line up 1000 women with a healthy mix of races

Tell them to rank who they find most and least desirable, and the results will shock you

Ain't no way an Indian geek with outrank a black wall street executive
Lai lai

Okay. You're right.

MrHandsome2013:
I recently sold my family plots of land and I received 5m.
I am 40 years old with HND

No wife, no kids , no job.
Only 5m is all I have .
I need your advice

So, you have somewhere around $3150.
And tell me, how much land did you sell? What area and where?

I'm not even going to read that crap.
There's no friendship with women.
There's no hanging out with women.
Either you're immediately ideally interested in me, or you don't exist.

Feldie:
black men (not charcoal black ugly ones) are some of the most sort after men in the world. The only problem is economic difficulties. If a good looking black man has enough money to maintain good look white and Asian women (not Chinese) will flock around them. It's extremely insulting to put black men and India men in the same category when blacks are even almost rated higher than whites except that whites have more money and are generally from better places.


Who do you think women will find more attractive amongst these people?

:The first picture shows a biracial man. The second picture shows a white man, and the third and fourth are also biracial. So there are no black people. If we're talking about skin color and facial features. Then. I don't see what you find offensive. Hindus in the US earn the most. After them, whites. Then South Americans. And finally. Guess who earns the least? Then. The percentage of divorced interracial marriages is highest in the black man-white woman combination. What do you think is the reason? You mention money...so why don't they have money? Then. What happened in Europe and Great Britain when they received migrants from Africa? Did they get employed and start working? Tell me. What are they doing in Europe? They are raping women and killing white children, the old and the helpless. The same thing is happening with BLM, which will eventually be categorized as a terrorist organization. All of that is being taken into account and watched. Do you know that absolutely no white man will want a divorced white woman with a biracial child anymore. Not even one who has no arms or legs, as they say. Everything is being watched, and nothing is free.

Most of these white women are fat,ugly like hell and no one else wants them. That's why they are in relationships with black people, indians..

I don't know who told her she's beautiful.
That she's naturally beautiful?
Who did she hear that from?
How did she come to that conclusion?
Let's leave out other races for now and focus exclusively on black women.
Based on what did she conclude that she's beautiful? What are some of her beauty parameters?
First of all, she has lipstick on. Or is it some bizarre Photoshop? So she's not without makeup.
Then, that evil, savage look in her eyes. Blackheads and subcutaneous pimples and some acne all over her face. Who told her she's beautiful?
I know what type of men told her she's beautiful.
It's not her fault, poor thing.



She is cute.

Well, look. A married woman can certainly arouse me and can certainly attract me. However. I will always intentionally distance myself from her. There are two options if I try to get closer to her.
* She will reject me.
* She will accept me.
If she accepts me, it will happen that I get into an affair with her that I don't want anyway. I don't need that. Such a woman is a problem waiting to happen.
Even if it's completely serious, and I want her for myself and for her to get divorced and marry me, I simply cannot trust such a woman. Nor should such a woman be trusted.
And if she doesn't get divorced, and if it's some kind of occasional meeting while we are both still married, that's just a special kind of disgusting.
No quality, serious man who is worthwhile, who has something to give and provide on both an emotional and material level, will ever be in a relationship with:
* A divorced woman.
* A married woman.
Such women are involved with trashy men, various losers, wretches in both a material and emotional sense.

Nice text.
However...
Unconditional love is an ideal.
Young people can love unconditionally up to about 17-20 years old. And after that, love gets tainted - by reason.
Men love unconditionally more often.
Women much, much less often.
And that's OK with me.
Looking at the men on this forum, I completely understand everything.

I can't wait for you to leave and come back. Tell us how it was. Take pictures and post photos from Uzbekistan.