₦airaland Forum

Okija_juju: How did this become a problem biko nu?! Okay!! Igbo men call their girlfriends 'Nwa Baby'm'.. Does that make the Girl in question their 'baby'?! MEN!! This unemployment wahala for this country don make Nigerians dey reason go far sha!!..

Mrs.Chima:
It is not really a big deal...it just something that people like or enjoy saying to their partner. Before I married my husband...I would call him my hubby or king and people actually thought we were married. My husband never referred me as his girlfriend or friend...I was always his wuyeh or wife. Imagine me introducing him to my family and his family saying this is my wife.....both families were confused and upset!

They were like why we didn't get invited to the wedding!

fluid26: No offence please, is there anything particularly spectacular or extraordinary about you?

D-Explorer:
The lass got nice curves, blacksliding bum and great cleavage. I think that's an extra to the ordinary at first sight

sanb: Girl...no need to chop my head off...I gave you an answer!!! To note, there is nothing wrong in being honest and in refusing to date when you know you won't love him and it ain't no crime. But as I said before be firm...enjoy!!!

sanb: @Op...Interesting!!! When we women don't see suitors we complain; when we see suitors we complain again just shows that we can never be satisfied...my advice to you would be let your yes mean yes and your no mean no. Be firm and let the guys know that you’re not giving them your number and someone has suggested here to give them your e-mail address instead. Be sure not to drive all your suitors away and as you know age is not on our side.... (Smile)

AJJ: * always stay indoor
* always put on the full hijab (kimar)
* alwaya pretend to be deaf and dumb
* dress shabbily
* don‘t v ur bath regularly anymore
* stop brushing ur teeth
* i ll b back 4 odas

daisyella: I don't understand why sum1 could open a thread on how to avoid men, if u r pretty men will kepp coming, it's no new thing
If u r already in a relationship, tell them that u r already hooked up, if not pray for God's guidance in choosing d rite one buh seriously u sound like a teenager

shawn5ng: Well let see if my lost half will call me from here 08039192101
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I no want odogunma ooooo. Fyne chick pls alter is certain for u but not desperate ooooo.

pleep: Be really mean, avoid eye contact etc... keep convo's short, say you are married.

Its not hard, i highly doubt this is a real problem for you.

D-Explorer:
They will kindly make way for you to pass. Sure formula

D-Explorer:
Ok! Try walking like an handicap

D-Explorer:
Young woman, if it was me i'd hang on till i confirm Really defaming excuses isn't a option. You can disguise to be married or something. Things like that could spread and be ref you know.

k2039: [size=18pt]If you dont feel comfortable, tell him to give you his number,then you can call at your convenience. or not at all...[/size]

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Mynd_44: It might have worked but it will lead to those stories going around

D-Explorer:
You haven't because i should've heard by now

donigspain: ASTHMA?
I got a cure (remedy)... YES, I know orthodox medicine asserts it's a life-long manageable ailment but am 100% percent SURE of this herbal mixture. I was skeptical, at first, towards believing (am a science guy myself) but not until I saw it's efficacy.
I know of two persons with chronic asthma having recurring attacks but since they took the 'medicine' for a period of two months (early last year) they have not had a single attack. Please, am not saying this so that you will BUY it from me. I DON'T SELL IT. It's just an old trado-medical recipe which the 'doctor' holds tenaciously classified. Am ready to PAY for anyone interested (just one person o) so that through his/her testimony Nigerian Govt. and the Medical Association might look more into this 'medicine'.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]When i notice i have symptoms of malaria, can't i say malaria is around the corner?

Now she noticed her asthma is around the corner, and you say it is technically a lie. This is what you copied and pasted "some of these symptoms go only to come back at interrupted periods called asthma attacks."

1000 likes!

So, a girl's asthma symptoms came and went and while it is yet to come back as asthma attacks, she writes her boyfriend to tell him that her asthma is around the corner, and you called it a technical lie? Even after reading what you pasted?

You must be technically dumb!

That is my opinion.
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Mynd_44: That will only lead to malicious lies being spread around about you. Bad thing

omo_to_dun: Tell them you have HIV.

Mynd_44: Its quite easy girl, dont give them your number. They will be persistent but as long as they will not steal it from your head, you will be in the safe. You can't continue to joke and laugh about iy but dont leave an avenue where they will be able to contact you.
And if you can't hold out for long, offer to give you e-mail address

190-the-clown:
keep avoiding men and end up marrying yourself


You're not the first

mecussey: When she changes without my consent.

frosbel: so I should tell you my church name and city so that my enemies can find me, lol.

MRbrownJAY: of course i am MAD, any man with sense would be!!!!!!! I AM DAMN PISSED that "supposedly" educated people talk the way you do.there can be no joyful communication with me, NONE!
MBJ's solution is very simple: women should LEAVE and take care of their own self, and look at themselves in the morning with RESPECT and SELF ESTEEM. they may be looked down upon by society, but nobody will ever treat them like garbage.

on the other hand, YOUR solution is to let men treat their women like garbage, disrespect women that have no reason to be disrespected, women who care and work hard for their families. i dont want to live or even dream of such society where selfish and weak men make women believe that this is the way to go in life. I have daughters (and sons) and if any of them ever settle with a man like you, i will send 50€ crack addict to chop off your dick....i swear....then with no dikc you will go right back to loving your wife as she is surely the only one who will want your sorry behind, lol!

if you really believe that cheating is wrong then EDUCATE these men instead of focussing on women, educate these stoopid women who cheat with these married men, and educate yourself that the problem is not going to stop so long as there are deluded women who allow to be treated like aasss wipe. the day they start saying NO, then thats the day some men would give them the respect they deserve.

women MUST leave their cheating husband because if they dont, then THEIR children will follow the trend and believe that cheating is ok.....thats the only way to STOP this PLAGUE THAT IS MAKING WOMEN DIE OR CATCH SILLY DISEASES due to their husbands carelessness.

as for me insulting you, pls show me where i called you a bastard? a quack counsellor yes, but thats what you are isnt it? i mean there is no institution that will educate you to teach the garbage you advise these women.



man thats because that said woman has absolutely nothing BUT that marriage, where is she gonna go? how is she gonna take care of herself? these women are in BONDAGE, and thats different. i mean do you think these women, who allow men to disrespect them in such manner, respect themselves? do you think any woman who is in such nonsense r/ship WANTS IT or WOULD STAY IF SHE HAD A JOB or a way to take care of herself on her own (and not brainwashed by the stigma of divorce mother in Africa)?



who cares about SPEAKING about it?! first we have to make something clear, NOBODY should give a damn about what society thinks/want, each and everyone should act RIGHT BY THEMSELVES, and if being disrespected like that is what YOU are looking for, then so be it. if complaining has made the man worst, then pls sista, tell us all if NOT saying anything has made the matter better?! LOL!



the reason why you wrote what you just did is probably because you have NOTHING for yourself....you are ONLY a wife/home maker. the only skill you have is to care for baby and clean and cook, so i understand why you would stay if your man cheats on you........where are you gonna go with such skills? how are you going to care for yourself with such skills? being married at ALL COST, hey!
but as i always say: TO EACH THEIR OWN!
but here is a clue, if your man cheats then he ALREADY doesnt want you any longer, the only reason he would stay with you is because of CONVENIENCE!