₦airaland Forum

When will people learn to mind their business.

A lot of crazy stuff these days all in the name of social media.

Why will another person determines someone else's priority.

Thank God Hillary Clinton didn’t become US president, I never knew she could be easily made to Change her mind.

This report is incomplete or doctored to favour PMB.

Any report that failed to document the killings by herdsmen is incomplete!

I don't think it's as bad as you make it sound.

From her reasons her expectations were not meant and she doesn't know how to communicate effectively hence the out bust.

Let her realise you are ready to pour everything in now and also explain the reason for withdrawal at previous times.

Before pouring let her decide on the her choice of family planning. Your informed advise will help her to make the right choice.

God bless your home!

I believe you are making reasonable amount of money that you shouldn't be starving.

Your husband doesnt seem to understand love so intead of putting things right at home he seems to be bossing you around.

You and your husband shoukd review the family expenses. Cut cost and reduce spending on luxurious goods. (Your apartment now should not be more than 2 bedroom in less expensive area. Car to be used only if the entire family is going out, etc)

The health and well being of every family members should take priority.

The two of you should work on improving the family income.

Thank you for the transformers. However, if you do not know how to recover your money from the relevant discos or gencos or which one self, then you are not qualified to be a governor.

Abeg, must this SAN talk?

Please remember to list how many of those 450 roads collapse (becomes unmotorable) under one year.

Some roads construction under Ambode and Fashola are big time scams!

Police and tax office should do the needful, simple!!!

Solutions must be bible / word based.

Prayer will work any time any day.

True anointed man of God can break whatever curse there is if any.

Anything other than the above is suspicious!

The man is innocent until proven guilty.

Let's wait as the drama unfolds!

This is what you get when your commissioner of health is a school drop out turn chemist shop operator (Locals will call him Doctor) but through political thuggery and fake result he was able to deceive the government that he is a jobless certified medical doctor.

Go ahead and divorce your current husband and live to regret it for life!

The truth is that you do not love your ex but he was better in some aspects than your current abroad based husband. I guess your ex is a porn star in bed and you are addicted to sex too. (I hope I'm wrong on that)

But don't forget this same ex was already hiding his phone from you and his family was against your union.

If you will listen to sound counsel; forget your ex and destroy everything that connect or remind you of him.

Sit with your husband and work out modalities for the two of you to grow in loving each other! God bless you as you make the right decision.

The Commander in Chief that cannot manage the recklessness of agencies under him is expected to manage the entire country; how is that imaginable?

I want to believe that the students are aware of the rules of the school before enrolling.

This same students who find it had to obey rules will be accusing the government for not obeying the law of the land.

For the record, social media is not the law and not the court.

If you are sure you have a genuine ground to press charges, go ahead and do that.

However, I will advise the school to ensure that each student has personal clipper and at least refundable fee of 10k naira to be for fees incase the school is forced to barb stubborn students.

If the police is smart with their investigation, more murder cases can be unravelled.

For example one of the suspects claimed that the woman was killed as part of initiation rites for joining a cult group. Let police extend the investigation to every member of the group, each of them probably has one murder case hanging on them.

With aides with poor reasoning as this, this government is doomed!!!

Treasure1919:
Smart woman

I'm sure by the time the story finally ends, you will have a different perception of the whole scenario.

It is maturity to owns up to past misdeeds!

Rigging cut across party lines. It is not limited to PDP.

In fairness to PDP, they have prosecuted and sentenced their members for corruption. Some of their members had confessed of rigging elections in the past.

But our Saint APC party never confessed to any crime and never prosecuted any of their member for corrupt practises yet they amassed wealth in billions.

APC we know better, we are no fools!!!

Since the money is needed to empower the youth through seminar, then there is no need for the church to pay.

After the church is completed, all the youth in the community should join the church.

The pastor of the church will ensure quality training with resource persons form RCCG pool through out the world.

IGP please do the needful and restore faith in the police force.

Two things I see here:

1. APC led government helplessness at recovering looted public fund!

2. APC hypocrisy that only opposition members are looters while APC is full of saints.

For a government that came to power on the strength of fighting corruption to be showing this level of desperation and stupidity, it clearly shows that they have failed and they are only looking for sympathy from the people.

The truth is both PDP and APC are birds of a feather.

Give PDP power today, them you will see all the rot in the current PMB government.

Statements made more than 2 months ago, why is someone pushing it now?

Even for the time it was made, it lacks sincerity because it was laced with political biases.

We know the reason for publishing this now, but you should realise that Jim Ovia does not have what it takes to counter Bill Gates.

The one reason I hate politicians or better still Polithieveans.

PMB cited constitutional provision. Rather than contend the issue from their constitution they keep appealing to reasons and cheap blackmail.

Obviously they know the truth, but as it is common with average Nigerian politicians they will rather deny the obvious with the intent to deceive the people and possibly procure judgement in their favour.

Another square peg on round hole!

Sir, are you sure you are competent to be in that post or you are just another confused politician just doing the bidding of your godfather?

Space booked!

I will comment when the road is commissioned!!

100,000 megawatts by 2030

How possible?

Is this man a Nigerian or an alien?

One thing I see here is that the man doesn't know what he is saying.

I expect the journalists to only report reasonably realistic figures and not to join politicians to deceive us.

Our money don enter voicemail!

If you wish to know the truth about the project, then vote in another party!

Why is it difficult for the police to respond to a simple enquiry about whether the case of missing ID was reported at their station?

Must everything be by other from above?

Are Nigerian police cursed?

The police needs to know that only truth can put things right in this country. The police ought to respond to the enquiry with convincing proof by even showing their record to the press.

@OP; Saudiboy

Please take time to read and understand.

I will respond to each issue as I know best.

Your request is on the marital issue, I will like to advice also on the business side as I believe that is also needed.

Marriage

I noticed from the word go, your wife sister's influence over your wife, though you have tried to be the man of the home but you have not been firm in some decision.

The influence of your sister inlaw over her family (wife and wife mum; I guess their father is late.) is so strong. Her wings need to be clipped or break. Your decision to go bring your mum with the family car contrary to their (wife and sister inlaw) advice is a good decision. That is how it's supposed to be.

OLOSHO WIFE

For your wife to be arranging a married Olosho for a white man in her office means that she is equally of the trade stock with the same woman. The only sanity restraining her now is the fact that you can still make ends meet and the believe of better tomorrow. With no fear of contradiction if she is promised of good money or things turn against you, the chances of her sleeping with the man or any other person is high.

She was so unrepentant to the extent that she had to change her phone password. I am strongly of the believe that her sister is involved and the idea of leaving you and travelling out may not be unconnected with the same with man. Trust me man, you wife is a potential Olosho just looking for the right time or right excuse to step out.

WIFE SISTER'S CALL

Your wife sister called you to call you name and went to the extent that your wife did you favor to have married you because she could have ended up with a better (richer) man; possibly the white man in the office.

How did you handle this? This is where you goofed big time.
Issue like that you don't treat it lightly. Because of the way you handled this, that is why your sister inlaw is able to wreck more havoc in your home.

You ought to have dealt with your sister in-law ruthlessly. Sever ties with her and declare her a personal non grata in your house. Infact you should make it a sin for your wife to speak to her until she apologize and ready to maintain a safe distance from your home.

Don't ever make the mistake of making an enemy a friend. That someone has been good in the past does not mean he will continue to be good. Every situation must be analyzed separately and adequately.


YOUR MUM MAKING HER HAIR

Your mum did the right thing for making her hair without involving your wife.
Trusting a daughter inlaw who openly confronted her husband to choose between her and her mother inlaw is nothing but suicide mission.
Why is your wife so bitter to the extent of punishing your mother with hunger, if there was not an initial ulterior plan to work something against your mum which was thwarted as a result of her mistake which turn out to be a blessing for you and mum? (Do you think I'm wrong on this? )


PACKING OUT OF THE HOUSE

Your wife packed out with the full backing of an enemy (your sister inlaw) that you failed to curtail earlier; your wife mum denied involvement in the first packing out.

Second packing out enjoyed the support of your mother inlaw, the old enemy sister inlaw and they brake into your house!!!

MY CONCLUSION

1. Maintain your stand, she can come back but you should not be resposible for bringing those goods back. Infact you should not pay for taxi. How the goods return to your house should not be your concern but that of your wife and her sister and mother.

2. Sever relationship between your wife and her sister if she returns. Tell the sister never to call your wife or pick your wife call for the next two years. If she has anything to say she should pass through her husband to you then to your wife or through her mother to your wife. No phone call, no whatsapp, no FB, etc

3. Keep close eyes on your mother inlaw because of her involvement in the last packing out. Her excuse base on what you said that your mother will not visit again is not strong enough. If she were to be your mother, would she be willing to visit such home?

4. Sever relationship between your wife and the Olosho friend.

5. Sever relationship between your wife and the white man.

6. You and your wife should have unrestricted access to each others phone and all social media platforms.

7. Get enough training material on marital life and listen to it with your wife. You need a lot of work to do on your wife.


HEARTBREAK

To be frank I don't see your wife coming back. Aside the sex, she seems not to be miss you. I see her only coming to her senses after making very costly mistake. I see that happening between six months to a year and I see her and her sister fighting dirty!!!

Though you don't want divorce, if your wife wants it, there is nothing you can do about it.


UNSOLICIED ADVISE ON YOUR BUSINESS

I wonder why you have to incur so much expenses from the outcome of the accident involving your truck.

Didn't you have insurance policy for your vehicle?

Even 3rd party only would take care of a lot of things and if at all you need to spend more it should be far less.

There is something you didn't do right that made you to lost so much money.

Please don't sell the truck!

Find what you did wrong in the first time and use the lesson learned there to make your business stronger.

Also learn to pray for every area of your life, (Wife, children, business, home, future).

My thought is with you at this critical time and I pray that the good Lord will see you and your wife through in Jesus name, amen!!!

When security votes goes directly to god father or somewhere else, this is the kind of thing you hear!

Some men can't even rule their house yet they are voted as governor.

Yeye dey smell!!!

The simplest answer is don't give him.

If he is truly powerful as the man claim then he should be able to tell your mother's name.

There have been several cases of spiritualist duping and even killing people, I hope you won't be the next!

I now understand what you meant by saying you and your wife are good Christians. Obviously you don't even know who a christian is.

If you are interested in your wife getting pregnant and delivering early next year visit this site, www.firesprings.com

I sense lies here!

Where do they get money for the travelling?

Many if not all have not recovered from the indebtedness in cured in the first journey.

But then let's assume I'm wrong, I wish them what they wished themselves.