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Of course, they need to be patient.

That man, GEJ is very wise, he's probably waiting for who's going to be APC's presidential flagbearer before disclosing his intention of seeking re-election or not and probably how to massively strategise his campaign.

iwakolewa: Funny reality. ...

Yes o, funny reality indeed.
And BTW, i so much love this your username, so unique and filled with indepth meanings. This is what most of our guys do not realise when they run after physical beauty and ukwu, forgetting that the real beauty is inwardly characterised by our attitude.

red101: He was shot dead in her presence.

There is a lot of trouble in this woman's life. I don't think she was financially, emotionally, socially, mentally and physically secure enough to bring a child to this world. not even close.. but God's ways sha...

i really pity the lady sha, she might be mentally derailed, i mean she might be suffering from depression, who knows.
And BTW, why was the husband shot dead?

babyosisi: I will go all Nollywood on him and be like

"Bia Emeka,so you want people to die eh kwa?
You want people to die so that your coffin business will boom and open branches
May God forgive you,I say may God have mercy on your soul!"

Then I will meet meet someone on the way as I walk home and be like

Nwanneka,have you heard the one that is reigning?
Nwanneka will say baby wetin?,what is it?
Then I will claps my hands and add pepper to the gist

" my sister o, hmm,I am just returning from that emeka the coffin seller's shop,I just went to collect the money from the moi moi he bought from me ,when the foolish man opened his mouth and said that he is praying for everybody in this village to die one by one so that his business will boom"

lol.....you're a very funny woman, well, you called it the right word "nollywood"........but emeka go regret confiding in you o

ilotriouzAY: Its simple...tell him to go nd kill pple

hahahaha.....irony......

Ceasar1: She did the right thing by not overeacting at all, for I believe she knows that this is a pretty common occurrence amongst teens.

Now all she have left, is to set the mood and educate her son about SEX and pornography without getting angry. She should give him space but watch his steps and friends.

Next is to get rid of his sources and protect him from the internet. But above all, she should get close to him, Love him and trust him again. That's what my Mum did to Me.

ENDORSED!

ifyalways: Lol. Sorry ooo.

Nobody throws away or reject food in my house. You eat whatsoever is placed in front of you . No questions.

but there will sometimes some exceptions ma?

It's only a man with animalistic traits that raises his hands against his wife.

Mutuwa: My four year old dota manipulates android: she knows where d pix are,d vids and d games,infact she uses d camera for a selfie.
She knows how to put on d dvd disk to play her favourite toons.

can you believe that my 8+ years old have once told me that he also want to be a registered NL member,,,,,,,,,he knows how to access the internet..............chai.......awon omo ode iwoyi, they are just too exposed.............may God help us.

Early education, media/gadgets and level of exposure are the main causes of this seemingly speedy growth with our urban/city kids, go to a remote village and see where a 10-12 years old kid still in his/her pants and delights to play with sand, uses bottle crown as a pot, while the content being cooked is leaves soaked in sandy water and broken brooms/match-sticks as firewood.......lol.......

I was at a place with my daughter in my profile pics, she's just 5.5 years old, and was referring to a girl of almost double of her age a "small girl" because the said girl was eating rice with bare hands......lol, i quickly shut her up, so that the other girl won't feel bad........ Abeg, exposure ni jare.
Our kids are exposed to too many things that are supposed to be acquinted with adults and that's why they reason like adults when they are still suppose to be kids.
May God help us and our kids jare.

freecocoa: Ehen na, let's be realistic here, people do die everyday, don't they?

I don't have to tell him to pray for his business to improve because he doesn't need prayers for people to die, whether we like it or not, people must die on a daily basis, so he just needs to reach out the ones losing loved ones everyday,simples.

you're right.
Bitter truth.

Yomieluv: I will tell the seller to sell on credit,or hire purchase to his family,relatives,and friends.afterall charity they say begins at home.

chai.....you wicked gan o.

beeevan: I will advise the seller to change line of business since death has gone on retirement.

death gone on retirement ke
Na everyday the thing dey strike o, i just pray we get old before it reach us o.

Baddestguyp: he should go to d.mountain to pray for more customers

be careful o

babygirlfl: Please next time be more polite with your reply please. I will ignore you harsh choice of words and reply you as nicely as possible.

Let me explain myself better.

Nigerian men have that mentality that they can get away with cheating. How many women walk away from their marriage BECAUSE their husband cheated on them. Most of them work things out with their husband and stay married to the same man. Some even keep a blind eye. That to me is getting away with it. My dear, until I actually see women who divorce their cheating husband, I will take it that they are getting away with it.

According to the bolded, I think you assumed that my post meant since they get away with it, that means we should do nothing about it and accept it or that I am trying to say all men are the same. I am sorry for not explaining myself BETTER but actually I meant the contrary. If women stopped accepting cheating and men realise that one of the consequences of cheating will be divorce, maybe they will think twice before cheating.

I am married and I have not tolerated neither will I tolerate cheating. I broke up at least two relationships before I got married because of cheating and I have never regretted it.

and please o, where did i insult you o, you yourself agreed that you didn't explain yourself better, so when you didn't explain yourself better, how would you expect me to know what you meant.
Now that you have explained yourself better now, can you now see that we are on the same page on the issue.
You said you broke up with a guy before marriage because of cheating, i broke up with a guy because he told me a lie, if i couldn't tolerate lying, can i tolerate cheating then?
Before we got married, we already know what we couldn't tolerate for each other, and we agreed on Cheating and any form of abuse.
So, can you see that we are on the same page now, next time, endeavour to explain yourself better in order to avoid being misunderstood.

freecocoa: I'll simply tell him that people die everyday so he prolly needs to improve his advert skills.

you these people, ehn, improve his advert skills.....nne...

softsparkyy: Just tell him it's same everywhere. that even hospitals, mortuaries and undertakers are complaining.

really?

pickabeau1: The supply is not an issue

Like any biz.. he may have issues with location, advertising, quality service and pricing..

you no go kill me BB, abeg, i no fit laugh.

taryour: Haaaa this question na Syntax Error oo. I will just get up and leave the person o.

pickabeau1: He is not running his biz well

what of if he asked for tips to run his business well

How will you react or respond to a coffin-seller who complained to you about drop in sales.

I overheard someone making the complaint to someone else, but the other person couldn't respond, she was just having a repeatedly deep sigh.
How would you have responded if you are the one who was complained to.
As for me, i don't pray that such thing be complained to me o, because i don't i know what to say in such circumstance.
Over to you.

chaircover: Thanks dear
I just wanted to pick up a hobby to keep me out of mischeif
and this seemed the less stressful. I can sit down and do these while I am doing other things
Its also relaxing
Ive bought equipment so I hope I dont get fed up of it.

My dear I know its not easy especially with kids. I had to give up cake decorating years ago. There just isnt enough hours in the day. it is well my sister

P.s These beads came loose in a set and I stinged them together myself in a style that I wanted. What I can do is to buy you a set and when next I am in Naija bring them with me and you can give them to your beader to make something nice for you.

lol @ "keeping out of mischief"
which mischief is that o, if i may ask.


Thanks my dear sister.

Cece23: But that is their belief,that they will always get away with it. Besides when they cheat with unmarried lady,it is not a sin

and again, where did you get this belief from
It's time for you to examine the kind of people you keep as friends, confidants and counsellors. They are probably feeding you with BS or you're the one feeding yourself these beliefs.
Goodluck to ya!

Cece23: It is rare to see a man that keeps to that vow.I keep on hearing same issue of cheating in most marriages and someone is telling me to ignore him.My question is if I continue ignoring it,when is he going to change.

this is where the problem is, you have already accepted that, that is how all men are, it tells alot about who you keep as friends and confidants.
There is no amount of advice here that can really get to you, you have already gone with the lady who said all men are the same, which means those of us who said not all men are like that are only deceiving you. Since that is what you want to believe, it's ok.

Even, if you separate or divorce, you're still going in with the same mentality with whoever you remarry and the whole cirle starts all over again.
May God help you.

babygirlfl: @OP

The simple answer is because they can get away with it. There is no consequences for their actions.

and please where did you get that idea and mentality of "getting away with it and no consequences for their actions" from

My dear, nobody gets away with any evil deed done, except you allow it.
And also, everyone gets the consequences of his/her actions, be it good or bad, stop feeding yourself with this type of BS, it aint going to do you anything good.

SAMBARRY: why are you speaking for me when I am still alive




I will give you blow now

you're my personal person now, so, you know whattsap, abi you wan deny amlol

chaircover: sambarry are you kulyie?

YES!
Any similarity in altitude

5minsmadness: Common problem for the well to do families.

Get a measuring cup. Have a certain standard amount you cook for all meals. E.g 4cups of rice for lunch, 3cups of garri for dinner. N1500 meat for a pot of soup that will last 3days etc. Maintain this and eventually your family will adjust to it.

All the best.

what about measuring everything accordingly, and after serving, one or more kids refuse to eat, what can one do?

alutacontinua: You should try your best to avoid these scenarios.
Stop forgetting food in the fridge!!!
You appetite should stop sky-rocketing suddenly!
Sometimes, you could just try to be smart, as in if I bring out rice from the fridge and it doesn't look attractive to me....I just cook another rice and combine the old and new, that way, the attraction radiates from new to old

Just remembered I have some boiled potatoes in my fridge and it's been there for about a week, I'm sure it might not be 100% appealing again but na porridge tinz sharp sharp


I really dislike wasting food, so, I try my best to avoid such.

wait till you start having kids

Food waste is almost inevitable in homes, especially homes with kids.
I also felt bad each time i have to inevitably waste food, but now i've been relieved of feeling guilty since hubby thought of keeping poultry of chickens to be used during Xmas and new year period, so he bought 20 browlers and that is where our "would-have-being" wasted food goes.

So, you can do the same or get a pet like dog to be fed with the food that would have been wasted.

Marriage for men..........35-40 years of age

I sigh........

The boy need to be examined medically and mentally.