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Cece23: Just don't understand that after 6 years of marriage,a man will be cheating on u.He doesn't contribute to d family and what pains me a lot is that I have never cheated on him.

was he like that before you married him, or he just changed to the evil habit recently.


If he was like that before marriage and you hoped to change him after marriage, sorry, marriage does not change a person, also, you can't change a person unless he has decided to change himself.

If he just changed to the bad habit, what do you think is the cause?


And now, what do you intend doing about the situation?

queenlabisi: my dear na dere way

Stop generalising, this is not fair on men, we have men who keep to their marital vows religiously.

Bragging and self-confidence are from two different sources, so, they can't be the same.
One is from the mind, the other is from the lips/mouth.
Bragging is just making noise.
Self confidence is taking actions and talking where and when necessary.
Bragging is from the lips/mouth.
Self confidence is from the mind.

A self-confident man thinks before speaking.
A bragger speaks/brags before thinking and later regrets everything he's said earlier.
A bragger shows "fake confidence", which most times is used to cover inferiority complex he's suffering from.
A confident man is just being himself and most of the time, he expresses himself calmly.

TRUTH IS BITTER.
The lady wasn't insultive, she was being truthful and she described you and your action. What were the exact excuses you were giving her to avoid being taken to your folks........she found out you were just telling lies with your excuses and told you directly that you weren't matured enough to be giving such excuses........it was a bitter truth, so, definitely, it must hit a nerve, kpele, if you're indeed mature, start acting maturely by doing the needful.


Sorry, if i sound too harsh, i would have said the same thing if you're my younger brother, and i still believe you're my brother, that is why i have to be honest with you.
May God bless you and give you wisdom to act rightly in every situation.

chaircover: Damiso, Sweetie, this is my proper first attempt at bead making. It took me about 2 hours to make.

Looking in my wardrobe to find something to wear with it tomorrow

Thank you YouTube

Thank you Toynex

wow!wow!!wow!!!
CC, you wan challenge me and i no get time, but i've taken down the pics and i'm going to ask my beadmaker to make me the exact design/colour....................i love beads, i have lots of it but can't ever have enough of it.


There was a time i tried to learn it, but i wasn't patient enough, i bought all the tools i was asked to buy, bought different types and different colours, but alas, got impatient and disinterested midway, and then o, i was only having one kid, what of now that i have battalion, abeg, i no get time jare.........keep it up, don't be like me o.

damiso: I have always said I can't speak English I am going to consult my dictionary in order to understand this post

walahi, you no go kill me with laughter........wetin you know understand here now
Abeg, TV01, ride on jare, i'm really gbadunning you, i enjoys reading your posts.



@post, communication is the key, any partner who feels unsatisfied should communicate with his/her partner, and then, a little compromise won't be a bad idea too.

Drink lots and lots of water, it helps greatly....................but the best remedy is to avoid it.

adedejis: Jokingly, u ask person out, she come say yes, nxt thing, b4 u kno watsup, when u cald hr, she said she just finished telin hr mum abt u. Wetin u go do

lol...........tell your mum about her too................

On a serious note, no big deal here, firstly, it means she and her mum are very close, which is commendable.
Secondly, that tells you that the lady already liked you before you asked her out, she was only waiting for you to "toast" her first. If you like her, go ahead and solidify your relationship with her, if not, let her know ASAP, to avoid wasting her time.

Wishing you goodluck in your decision.

softsparkyy: l love Madam chaircover, greatgod2012, lynpetra, kachisbarbie and MizMyColi.

thanks so much, i love you too and God loves you too

@all........
E ku ojo meta, e ku igbadun o.
It is well with all of us.




@Donxavier, never knew you're still around.....how are you and yours.....my sincere regards.

@naijababe, please accept my sincere condolence and may her soul continue to rest in perfect peace.
It's not easy losing ones parent but surely time heals, but i don't pray to be in your caucus now.......lol.....

Pele dear, are you from ijebu?

@Fant, Honestly, each time i see this thread, i'm always touched/moved and feel like doing something, even though my hands are full with money now, i'm really very rich now but notwithstanding, i believe nothing can be too small, so, if you don't mind, pm me your phone number so that i can send recharge card to you.
My God shall supply all your needs in Jesus name.

cococandy: Shoot the landlord and pack out of the house.



Forgive your wife for all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.

This should be a sarcacism? Right?





#whatisgoodforthegooseisalsogoodforthegander

bennyrazz: handcuffs are used during dominance/surrender sex. You can handcuff your partner to the bed and look for a spot in their body that tickles alot, work on that spot with your hand, your tongue e.t.c then dive into BJ while your partner is still handcuffed to the bed make i stop for here abegg

chai! Eleyi gidigan o.
Na so i go handcuff Mr come dey use am do wetin i want, come put am for.......abeg......who wan help me get one, him don vex me before, na now i go deal with am....ghen-ghen.




@op, on a more serious note, i doubt if that guy have this kind of power, with what you described, i'm not sure if he can even do it for anybody, he might just say he could do it for outsider to boost his ego, i dont think he's the type that can have power for your kind, believe me, men love rough riders when it comes to se*uality, but the one who cannot reciprocate the roughness is not wired that way and there is nothing anyone can do about it, it's nature, we are not all wired the same, so i think that is how he is wired, it's either you accept him that way or you move on, but personally, i will advise you to move on in order to avoid cheating on him after marriage.....my little observation.

bennyrazz: if you see a woman that is happily married, her husband is satisfying her on bed. No man is 100% complete neither is there any marriage that is 100% perfect, there are always shortfalls but the shortfall must be an acceptable shortfall. Imagine her to be spouse can do other ladies anyhow on bed but he can't be adventurous with her because he loves her (what a lame excuse) is that a shortfall. Handcuffs can be used to do several things you don't want to know about

please let me know the uses, i want to learn, i want to surprise Mr that emi naa ti jasi.........ko ma fi oju ana wo mi.

bennyrazz: you even went as far as buying an handcuff Honey, you have really tried. The basis of marriage is love and great wild sex. Sexually this man will never and can never change, it will only get worse. Just try and threaten him with a separation and if he does not change, my dear move on. Your happiness is very important in marriage

walahi......the best bet is for them to separate, it's certain that the two of them are not se*ually compatible....the guy should run away and the lady should move on....let the guy find a coollle person like him and the lady also look for a wierd guy that can satisfy her.

This life sha....onikaluku pelu isoro ti e.......enikan nsukun owo, enikan nsukun omo....elomiran nsukun nkan mii.......this life!
I no fit laugh!



Abeg, wetin them dey use handcuff do in the bedroom o......please, i need to be enlightened. Tenks.

I'm forced to log in because of this thread.....




Kitchen
Bathroom
Mouth action
Handcuff
Indecency films......etc....within one month of proposing to you.......it's certain that guy can't withstand your several se*ual adventures......and if i were him, i will take to my heels, because if this complains can be too much at this stage, i wonder how it will be when married...........i pity the guy sha............but mehn, young lady, you need to take it easy o........ther is more to marriage and life than all these.......may God help you to make the right decision o......
I'm out!

Whether he was referred to as "late" or not, the fact remains that he is dead!



I really don't know the reason for the delay.

omoadeleye: so tell me if suppose the kid is entrusted to more than two person, do you think the kid will be found till eternity?

did you get my message at all

DO NOT TRUST ANYBODY TOO MUCH, IT IS DANGEROUS!
Is that too much to understand

Why entrusting your kids to anyone for that matter when you're very much around, what keeps you from letting your kids stay around you..............well....each to his own! If you like, let your kids be sleeping over in their school aunty's house.

Happy birthday my dear sister......wishing you every good and beautiful things you wish yourself.



S M I L E.......

satowind: Ebonyi the land of kidnappers. They are the once doing same in onitsha. Abakiliki people

stop sounding uninformed, kidnapping happens in almost every part of the country, our prayer is that God should continue to protect us and we also should be careful too.

I'm tired of seeing everything that has to do with women being related to feminism!

Mynd44, obinoscopy, this thread deserve FP for parents to learn that we parents do not trust these school "uncles and aunties" too much, some have so relaxed to the extent that the children will think their school uncles and aunties are their second parents, this madness need to stop........please, endeavour to put this on FP for people to be aware and reminded that it is dangerous to trust too much.
The days are evil!
Some people are evil and they can not be identified merely by seeing them, we need to be vigilant.
Thanks!

gratieao: Ogun state and bad news

not again.................
We hear and read bad news fro other part of the country too........ Please, be realistic!

This thread should be an eye opener for we parents, the parents of the victims have their share of the blames, they have trusted the guy too much, how can a parent descend so low to the extent that it is the "uncle" that will be taking and returning the victims to and from the school, even allowing the kids to sleep over in the suspect's house, feed and sometimes pay the victim's school fees, just beause the guy is their kids' teacher, what kind of over-familiarity is that?

I'm not saying what the guy did is right, but as parents, we need, really need to be careful when our kids are involved.
I reside in Ijebu-ode, so i know what i'm talking about, i know how too close the kids' mother have made the kids to be with the guy, i heard how the mother even allowed the kids to stay with the guy for over a week...............infact, the parents to me have the bigger blame, they are too relaxed.

However, thank God the kids have been found and the two suspects tracked down and also kudos to the NPF who helped in tracking them down.

This is a lesson for us all.
As a parent, we need to be vigilant and never trust too much, this present days are evil and people are evil too, unfortunately, it's not written on the forehead, the more reason why we need to be extra vigilant and extra careful.

May God help us all.

RichDad1: Meanwhile....
Waiting for 7:00pm. #Hunger is a bastàrd.

just change the clock to 7:00, and you're free to consume all those 50 people food you want to consume at once...


#nabyforcetofast

Jimi Agbaje............................a man loves by so many lagosians and even non-lagosians

You people dont want me to eat watermelon, abi.....e no go work

This is the funniest thread i've read so far in this year.......sorry op, not trying to discourage you, but alutacontinua and bellong made me laugh sooooo teey till i'm almost sent out of the house for laughing too loud and too much.


Goodluck in your search!




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