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ileobatojo: Wow, Debrief deactivated her account! Goodbye. I wish you complete healing in Jesus name.

now im beginning to dislike this deactivation of account idea.


Why would someone like Debrief deactivated her account when there are so many, i mean so many lessons can be learnt from her posts.

@Debrief, perfect healing IJN but............., well, im speechless!

Since you already know that she's a temptation to you and you know within you that you cant conquer the temptation, why then do you want to tempt yourself and at the end of the day blaming the devil for it?

dayokanu: A rich man knows he can get some benefit back from another rich person so he would be nice

talking about "olowo nsore olowo, olosi nsore olosi"
in Ebenezer obey's song

Take him back to a dematologist, instist on proper testing/ evaluation and diagnosis on the boy.
It is well.

Amazing!
May God bless the parent o

When are we nigerians going toget to this selfless stage.

May God help me to get to this level o.

Sorry about your experience

I have always said it and iwill say it again. "Do unto others what you want them do unto you"
Im sure this ex will never accept what she did to the op, i wonder why she now did it to her.
God dey sha.

But sincerely, @op, you just need to discuss it with your hubby and put your feet down as to this ex's subsequent visits and the expected decorum and maturity that is expected of her, else........
May God help us all.


P.s......as for me, im sure no ex can try to dare such with me.

kayalla: Morning peeps.
Help Thank God as my younger sister who is going to camp for her POP would have gone missing forever.
She boarded a bus from obalande going to iyana paja just on third mainland bridge one of the tire broke out while the driver was on top speed.
It is Only God that can save people at much point.
And God did save them.
My sister souls have been missing and I will NEVER know where...
Thank God for us Abeg.
Accidents and untimely death shall not be our/ur portion in Jesus Name.
Amen.

thank God o
May God continue to protect us all.

Yes, it is better to know the sex of your baby before delivery, because it will definitely help in preparation for the baby, but do we know that this scanning sometimes f*cks up; you dont?abi, ok, i will tell you my story



when i was to have my last baby, who is close to 3 years now, i did the first scan at 4 months old, and the scan revealed that it was a baby girl, we were happy, we werent actually looking for any gender because, we already had both genders, so we kept on preparing, and to cut the long story short, i did scan up to 4 times, i even did at 39 weeks, because of the weight, and they all revealed that it was a baby girl.

Ok, if my hubby was not in the labour room with me the day i put to bed, we would have thought there was a mixed up somewhere, ok, when i was to put to bed, i had already passed through the first stage of labour at home, before i asked my hubby to drive me down to the hospital, it was in the middle of the night, and many people were not on duty, plus i had already told my hubby that this time, he should be with me in the labour room, so, in the labour room, it was me, the doctor, two nurses and my hubby, immediately the baby popped out, it was my hubby that he was given to, i didnt even know until i overheard the doctor asking my hubby to give him the baby for him for clean up and scrotal check then i screamed that how can a baby girl be checked of scrotal check, and the doctor asked me not to work myself up, that, afterall there werent two women in labour in the room, i was the only one, so, it meant its what God want us to know that He reaveals to people.


And meanwhile, it wasnt in his hospital alone that i did the scans o, i did it in another hospital .

So what happens next, my MIL quickly rushed to the market to go get me baby boy's wears, because i dont really like all those unisex wears.
And what happens to the baby girls wears i had bought, i bought them in stages up to when the baby would be 1+, .........................
Gift galore!



Lesson: Trust absolutely in God: it is what God want His people to know that He reveals to people

Nashville: I completely agree with you. In fact the husband sef is very disrespectful. Didn't you guys go for marriage counseling? How can he invite his ex to your house, let her visit every room and even see her off. It may be ok if someone was showing her around but not an ex. Please OP, tell your husband you do not like it at all. Tell him it is rude and disrespectful and there is nothing mature about it. How would he feel if you also invited your ex to see the house?

God bless you my brother!
Thank God this is coming from a man.
God bless your marriage.



@op, ask your hubby if you're free to bring in your ex as a family friend, and see his reaction, then start from there.
May God help you and all of us.

lorretta u: Thanks madam

You are welcome ma

Omo eni ko ni buru ka le fun ekun pa'je.



Inasmuch as I don't support gayism, I think the mother should have shown more love and keep on educating and the guy instead of kicking him out.
That her action lacks love.
May God help us all.

My condolence!!!


May the dead rest in peace.

May God give him and other members of the family the fortitude to bear the loss.

You may find some useful tips from this link........


http://moinsights.com/10-simple-ways-to-deal-with-insomnia/

My dear, as far as I'm concerned, I don't think anything is wrong with you, since you said its an habit that is developed while at school, it mean your body system is already adapted to waking up to read in the night.
Now, since you wish it changed, then what you need is to change your lifestyle, change everything you have been doing that can make you awake in the night, for example, if you sleep in the afternoon, so that you can keep awake in the night, stop sleeping in the afternoon, even my kids, when they sleep in the afternoon, they would all wake me up, because they will wake up at odd hours.
Secondly, if you have something that is bothering your mind, empty it, leave everything at the feet of Jesus, let nothing disturb you, everything will pass away, except God, so try and empty your mind, don't talk, don't read, don't involve your mind in any cognitive activity, just blank your mind, have Psalm 23 in your mind especially where it says that "he makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my soul"

Another thing, make sure you do something that will make you get tired before going to bed, that will make you fall asleep on time.
However, if you are able to have at least 4-5 hours of sound sleep, it is better than 8 hours of skeletal sleep. So, never worry, it is well.
Warning, never resort to sleeping pills, they have their bundle of negative side effects.
Lastly, if you're not still comfortable with your situation, see your doctor, that is one of the reasons God gave human scientific and medical knowledge.

It is well with you.

obadiah777: eggs is nasty. thats eating foetus. like so like totally gross dude

So, unfertilised eggs are now foetus.
Its okaaaaaaayyyy.

@op, I believe you because everything God created was good, including eggs.

More market for poultry farmers.

Abere!

Which one is forehead cancer again

yellowpawpaw: Aaaaameeeen!!!!

(, sorry o! Its well.)

thank you my sister.
How are you and yours too?
And keep up the good work you are doing in the fun room o



Love youuuuuuuuuu
#hugs

I do not and will never support what the lady did to the guy, infact, its very bad and should not be encouraged at all.


However, i want to look at it from another angle. I see some "what ifs" in this relationship.


What if it was the guy who first scammed this lady in one way or the other before, i meant before their first separation and the lady has been looking for a way to revenge?


What if it was the guy who first broke this lady's heart in a very hard way and the lady thinks this is the best way for her to pay him back in his coin?
Many what ifs...............


Since we are not able to hear from the lady's mouth her reason for her action and also we dont know what really transpired between the two of them, i think its better to tread carefully when judging the lady.


Once again, i do not support her action, but its only God who sees what is hidden.

May God help us all.

In addition to Bellong's point, such irresponsible fathers usually believe that the training and upbringing of children belongs solely on the mother. What an irresponsible opinion.
May God deliver us from such a man.

If im a man, i will go with the 3rd woman, she has good sense of business, as well as futuristic in her approach, with her approach, there is going to likely be less quarrels as regargs money issue, with the additional money she made and will be making, she would be able to do what the other two women did and still have enough to keep for the future. A good wife should be able to plan ahead, even beyond her hubby's expectation.
May God help us all.