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Oh! This thread again!
I'm soooo loving it!


What a small world!



It's a confirmation that this world is actually a small place! So, if you like, be nice, if you like, don't, nothing shall be unrewarded.

A'toore, a'tika, okan kii gbe.


May God help us all.

Baba Oyo: Really deep my sister.

I love the name too.

But what? LOL

Something tragic must have happened before thinking of the proverb/name.

Baba Oyo: Oluwatobiloba.....thank you so much. He was just being himself. He said I ought to be with my family after all the dissapointment we both faced.

I learnt something big from it.

Never discriminate when you can help. You never know who it is that is watching you.

Baba oyo, you know something about this particular post I quoted? My head usually swell whenever anyone mention or write or type my name fully, I sooooooo love it, this is how my hubby use to call me whenever I'm not being myself and he want to take me back to my real self, I just love it when I hear my name in full, my mum gave my hubby that key..........".call her full name when she's angry and she will definitely smile back at you". I'm so happy tonight since ileya day.




RR, you see what you have caused, I can't but thank you for this.
God bless all of us.

Baba Oyo: Yes ma,there is a real life story about it. Will dig into the achieve and post it here. Nice name you picked for yourself

Ileobatojo..............Ewalobusi.



It's a very deep name with a very deeeeeeep meaning.


I also love the name, because it's a beautiful name........but........

Sincerely, sincerely, I'm impressed about this news and I believe we will all learn one thing or the other from it and spread the love.
What amazes me more is the religious tolerance RR exhibited, he was helping an Alhaji, and I'm damn sure that he's a xtian, without knowing that he was actually doing the help to a nairalander and not that he knew that the person he was helping is a Nairalander.
Another thing that is also worth observing is that, such kindness is already part of him, if he wasn't that kind before, he wouldn't be kind to Baba oyo the day he did, afterall he didn't know he's baba oyo.


This is a lesson for all of us and I believe that what happened between the duo is for a purpose.

May God bless RR and replenish his pocket and thanks to Baba oyo for sharing.









Baba oyo, e kaabo o.


#im highly impressed

And just yesterday, some Nigerians died of stampede because of sallah gift, which may not worth more than 500 naira.


May God help this country.

Rexsul: gone were the days when our elders do tell us stories especially @ 9t which usually make us happy 2 bed bt ds days notn of such happens again n i beging 2 wonder what could b d reasons behind it? guys shear ur tots plzzz...

Who told you it doesn't happen again, it does, my brother, but only in villages, do you live in a village, if no, your research have no base, because moonlight tales still happen there live and direct.

As for the towns and cities, no kid is ready to sit with any elder again, our kids have been brainwashed that those older citizens are nothing but witches and wizards, so they prefer to sit with the TV or their lappy or their tablets or playing games to sitting down to listen to tales. No wonder these days, our youths lack basic wisdom.
May God help us all.

Sincerely, I still don't understand why girls must dance unclad in videos, not to talk of live shows.


Later now, they'll be running helter skelter saying they can't get good man to marry, after they've degraded themselves to zero level.


Thank God for the deputy governor jare, atleast, for behaving the way a good mother should behave.



By the way, are those girls not daughters of some parents, do we say they weren't properly trained or that they didn't accept the proper training.


Anyway, the end justifies the means (igbehin lo ma ye oloku ada).


May God help us all.

@op, even though, I don't understand the correlation between the title and the body of your thread but, I will comment based on the title.
I believe that those who pray for the good of Nigeria will enjoy the fruit. If you believe negativity about Nigeria, it will bring you negativity, if you believe positivity about Nigeria, it will bring you same. Always have a good mindset about your country, god who allowed you to originate from Nigeria knows what He is doing and has reason for it, he saw USA there before making you to be born here. Confess it is well for Nigeria, and you are confessing it for your life and for yourself.
May God help us all.

@op, please, expantiate more on s*x phone, I don't really understand.

The truth is that, we all know the type of parents we have, we all know those who are emulatable(if there is an english of such) and those who are not, if they are, emulate them, make them your models, if they are not, there should be no whining about that, choose your models, it could even be someone you never see before, but have read so many things about.
As for me, I can't and will never make my dad my model and as for my mum, not in every area, but definitely in parenting.
So, in a nutshell, it depends on the type of parent one has.
May God help us all.

mantop7: We do sex occassionally, but each time we av sex she always want me to appreciate her immediatly even though she always have zero response during d act. Is it right pple to say thank u to ur wife wen she reluctanly give u sex once in a blue moon?

@op, you seem to have so many problems with this your wife(that is if you are a man, because one of your threads described you as a woman). My prayer is that God should give you the wisdom to make this your marriage work, seeing a marriage counsellor won't be a bad idea, if everything in many of your threads are true.
May God help you.

One thing I know is that everyone has his/her own time of achievement, some may have had some achievement earlier, while some are later, I know someone who started her University education at 36, and now, she's doing fine in her chosen field, she's a mentor to so many, even though, she started late, my prayer is that God should give us the grace to identify our time and seize it.
May God help us all.

Nice write up@op, but I wasn't computer literate until after 30, does that make me a failure?

Wickedness of the highest order!
That woman is the real devil, even if she had issues with the mother of the toddler, what concern the innocent child? Its people like this that can make someone learn how to repay evil for evil.


I pray that miracle happens in the life of that innocent child and not be HIV+.

[quote author=soul_glo]Did he just tell her to buy her husband more condoms so that when he cheats he does not bring back an STD to her? I think I have had enough of this section for today.[/quote]Exactly!
Its posts like his that sometimes makes me log out and come back after 2-3 weeks.

Can you imagine
Buying more condoms for him because of diseases.
Wonders shall never end.

@op, you deactivated you account because you were corrected..........smh.
Talk of abuse of opportunity.


I don't know how you're going to learn better if you find it difficult to be corrected. You're too big to be corrected, abi


I pity you, and you want to be a wife!
Smh.


We learn everyday, op, don't be too proud to take to correction.
It is well.

Thank you all for your wishes!



And where are the celebrants


Come here o and bring us our cake and drinks o

@op, I would have advised you to take it easy, but I don't want to compromise my standard, because I don't and will never advise anyone to endure physical abuse, so that the case won't end up like Toyin Arowolo's case.

Therefore, I wish you goodluck in your decision. I believe you are an adult and you know what you want for your life.
Goodluck!

onlyme07: You saw a condom with him and response was not good. Dear,men(not all though) cheat that's no lie, all you have to do is to make sure you buy more for him to avoid diseases. Am serious, WE think doing it outside is fun due to friends,what the young lads wear and how they seduce and believe its a sign of respect keeping the woman at from suspecting.

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WOW!!!
Just WOW!

I never thought I could see anybody who can reason like this!
I give up!

Happy Birthday to my family members of NL : Nashville and Bukatyne.
Your posts here on NL are inspiring and we can't do but appreciate you and wish you well on your birthday.
I pray that God continue to be with you, guide you and grant you the desires of your heart.
By this time next year, may your thanks to God be more that that of this year IJN.
May you never fall.
May you never regret your living and your life.
Wishing you long life and prosperity.

yellowpawpaw: E concern u?
Holy nwejesin!

Is that now one of the criteria to consider before one can be considered marriagable

@post, this is a visible sign of lack of self control.
Even, if konji wake up, are they not going home, can't they control themselves till they get home or a hotel, instead of behaving like their lives depend only on s*x.
What of infection they may even be inflicting on themselves in a public toilet. Some people and their sense of reasoning sha.
May God have mercy on them.

yellowpawpaw: Gistmelove, is this not u and that ur babe?

Haba! YPP, this question is too heavy o!


Or do you know him personally

#justjoking

Thank God I'm not a cheat, so there is nothing to tell my hubby about cheating on him, and my hubby is also not a cheat, so, there is nothing to tell me about cheating on me.



All in all, everyone should expect to be treated the way he treats others.

If you cheat on your spouse, expect your spouse to cheat on you. If you don't like to be cheated on, don't cheat on your spouse.
May God help us all.

Aunti Ify, may God bless you for the good work you're doing here, may God reward you accordingly.



@fineboy, it is well, may God grant you the desires of your heart. There is nothing impossible with God, just believe, and your faith shall make you well. And don't forget that, this too shall pass and you shall live to testify to the glory of God. It is well with you.

It is well with you, I had been there before, to make the matter worse, it was when I was still in school, I came home for a break and my mum told me that she's been experiencing pain in one of her bosoms and that she noticed that there is a lump there. Immediately she told me, I just concluded that it was cancer, I cried my eyes out, I was still in school and we weren't financially buoyant, all I was doing was to be crying as I was in great despair, I was thinking she would die without enjoying the fruit of her labour, so I called on our first born and my aunt who calmed me down and took her to the hospital for test and lo and behold, it wasn't what I thought, not cancer, the lump was removed and she has been doing well and fine since then, talking about what happened about 19 years ago, each time I remember my action then, I just make jest of myself.
So, my dear sister, calm down, not all lumps are cancerous, let her go for the test first before conclusion.
Remember, 80% of what we worry about never happen.


Meanwhile, I have this for you:


DON'T BE DISTURBED
DON'T BE FRIGHTENED
EVERYTHING PASSES AWAY, EXCEPT GOD
GOD ALONE IS SUFFICIENT.

Wait o!
Can this marriage work again
If it doesn't, what will they tell their children the cause of the separation
What will be the children's reaction.
Na wa o!

Imagine
200k
Do we call it poverty or greed
Wonders shall never end.

It takes a courageous and strong mind to apologise for a wrong doing, so, since she has apologized and sent down your own I.V, I think you have to honour the apology and the immediate correction she made to convince you that it was indeed a mistake/an oversight and attend.


Moreso, if she even intentionally decided not to have invited you, once she has been accused and she denied by saying it was an oversight, she has given you your deserved respect, for that also, you have to show her that you're more matured than her, especially by giving her a worthwhile gift or fat envelope.

Personally, if anyone can deny an evil doing or backbiting about me when I approach him/her about it, I take it as respect for myself, and forgive or let go.
A person that do not respect you will say, yes, I did it or said it, do your worst! If she acted that way, I will say, don't go, but if she denied, then, she still has respect for you. Reciprocate the respect and attend.


May God help us all.

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