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No need to judge anybody. We shall all stand before the judgment seat of God and give account to God for all we did with our lives while on earth.

Youth exuberance I guess. They will grow up to learn,they will look back at their lives and see how foolish some of their past actions were,just as some of us do now.

RiyadhGoddess:
Waoooh in other word, Afonja means Betrayal or Greed...
Experiential, Now I know that some people are Descendant of Afonja what I call evil pattern from genertion to generations.

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I know you commented just to add your adverts,just as you do on almost all posts on certain sections. But try to hide your tribal sentiment because you never know where your God sent customer might come from.

Zimri:
Because I request for likes now makes me a child whose parents are still feeding.

Some people dumb a swear. Minding one's business is maturity. Which I think you lack

How can I lack maturity? I have never ever requested for likes on Nairaland, directly or indirectly.
I don't troll or open useless threads.
I have a job,infact I earn more than I need.
I don't comment unnecessarily,I think I have made 3 comments today on Nairaland, and that's too much for a day to me.
You are the dumb one for requesting for likes like your life depended on it. You are the kid,what a shame.

Liars,the man called you and told you all that before he committed suicide? Fake a ss bloggers

Zimri:
Abeg na wetin I see for inecrecuitment.com be this.

Hit like if you applied.

Comment if you've received the supposed mail.

inecrecuitment.com

I NEVER SEE SHI.

lalasticalala mynd44 seun. Abeg push to trending

Some of you guys are unbelievable,so Nairaland likes are your problem? Continue, obviously mummy is there to give you food.Shioor

Reminds me of the movie 'Naked Weapon' featuring Maggie Q

Admin9:
Good afternoon,

I have been dating this girl for about 2 months now and i love her dearly. I am heartbroken as i just came across my girlfriend's tinder profile with "hookup only" written on it.

I need advice on the best approach to confront her.

You still need advice? Ok
Propose to her and make her your wife fast.You deserve each other.

I have noticed something on Nairaland. When a thread is about a guy show casing giving to girls or buying something for girls, some guys will flood the thread and start criticising,abusing or degrading the Op, calling him a fool,mugu,simp etc.
Why do some of you keep catching feelings on other people's life decisions? Personally I think most of you guys are having it so bad financially that it pains you to see guys spend on girls while your broke ass don't know where your next meal will come from.

IAMBlesssed:
Are they begging for ur pity?
So if she doesn't meet the right people to settle down she should just accept any man that comes along abi so that you and ur likes will be happy..
The ones that are killing their partners/cheating up and down are better in as much as they have 'Mrs tittle'..
U people should leave single ladies alone biko and quit creating unnecessary pressures where there's none. Life is more complex than you think so mind ur business.. Or when ur daughters are of age, advice them to settle with any man that says hi to them without proper checks..

You made great points.

Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke /lazy good man ,, u can never know the real him till he has some money,, u can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket !! So ladies don’t waste ur time,, if he doesn’t hv a source of income,, he is a waste ,, always remember that ur time and attention is an investment,, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you , that u go for anything , and don’t ever agree that u can only offer sex ,,, they know u hv a lot to offer , YOU ARE A WOMAN .

Few months after NYSC, 90% or more of Nigerian youths become broke as a result of joblessness or no real source of income,it doesn't mean they are no good.
Even the successful ones you see today must have been broke at a time. I can speak for myself and I know of my Boss. According to him,after graduation,he couldn't go for service because of an issue with a course. His mates went for service,got jobs and married. He eventually got through all his challenges,today he has his own Ltd company,he has government agencies and banks as clients, ranking in millions monthly.

olivegirl:
This dude always feel that life should revive around him. He is very good idiots. I just imagine his relationship with his friends. A man who answered people yes sir but deep down he believed he deserved that yes sir from same person he answered yes sir. I am deleting his songs right now.

How will deleting his songs stop him from being arrogant or reduce his account balance,dude doesn't know you exist. Besides no one is perfect, maybe that's his own weakness,if God should start counting our sins,who will stand?

louiziana:
Some people have no issues purchasing used items. It is for sale sir, you can patronise me and dash it out. Bless!

Yes you right. God bless you too

I can't imagine selling Gotv decoder I have used before. New Gotv is N6900 with free one month Go Max subscription(N3400). Meaning you only spend N3500 on a brand new decoder.
Now how much will you sell a used decoder? You sure can't sell it N3500, not even N3k. Is it then worth it, considering the stress of selling and delivery? Why not just dash one family member or neighbor.

SALTandFIRE:
To the posters above judging the man...
You probably missed the part that it was the girl that 1st stabbed the man

Yeah according to the beastly man you expect him to say,' I killed her cos I feel like killing her'?

Ehya what a beautiful girl If I have a girl like this I will treat her like a Queen,will never ever hurt her or even let mosquito bite her
This is a story of beauty and the beast,that guy is a beast,thank God he was caught.

All those people who keep playing pranks and stupid jokes about Corona virus,and those peddling rumors about it been in Nigeria,don't worry,that attention you looking for you will get.
A disease that kills within few weeks despite all the medical innovation and infrastructure available for patients in China,is what some are joking about been in Nigeria

Lionqueen:
awwww thanks. It's on 27th feb

Ok noted,I hope I remember.

The right question is have you been able to live above the waters all these years even though your account balance never passed 400k? Have you always been able to pay your rent at the right time, school fees and have your family always have food on the table?
If yes,then my brother you are blessed,give glory to God. Money is meant to meet our needs,in civilized society people are not keen to senselessly saving money like it can buy life. But in Nigeria you will see people saving but yet suffering I diots. Many of them don't give the best to their wives and kids,even themselves. But they have large savings, only for them to die and the banks inherits their money.
Savings is a means to an end. So if you are meeting your ends even without big savings,thank God.

It might be inner intuition (A gift) or it might be paranoia (false interpretation of others action)
If you ask me I will say you bury the thought,enjoy your life and marriage with the husband of your youth,as the preacher said

Every gets Angry but it's the duration and intensity that differs. Anger is bad,may God have mercy on me to control my anger immediately it rises.

GasAndOilTheory:
hello OP I understand your plight... I can be your middle man.
This means I will receive the goods from him on your behalf and I will receive his payment from you on his behalf.

Then

It's still the same thing, what stops you from running with the money? A Nairaland post made by you?
Personally i have done few transactions on Nairaland eg buying hdd from this guy at computer village,a cool dude,can't remember his name. His moniker is also his registered business name. I transferred money to him twice by mistake. I thought it didn't go through at first,did it again,only to receive two alerts. He was the one who told me that he received double alerts and transferred my money back.
Another person is udemzy,he is a cool dude,just last few weeks I went to computer village to buy a mini laptop for my 7 years old niece,I didn't know which shop to enter,I called udemzy and he took me to where I bought a good one.
Another person is Sotall,also at computer village,I have been at his shop few times too.
On Saturday I saw a moniker,omawumi17 advertising Ankara clothes,I wanted to buy but I got discouraged when she said she is at Ibadan. I don't want to do waybill stuff. But I later changed my mind,I sent her money and she sent the goods on Monday,which I have received.
There are many genuine hustlers here on Nairaland but there are also many scammers,which comes in different forms eg
Online begging
Selling and buying
Forex
Odds sellers etc.
The rule is to always transact in person as much as is possible,don't be desperate especially when the price is ridiculous, always check Nairaland for info about the person's previous dealings.

Some animals are more human than some humans,fact.

Free the guy abeg,na hunger oh. Na the small change Dem go give am after protest,he go take chop for the day. Hunger bad true true

You guys ok upstairs? Na who name help? We are expecting a cure,you are naming virus with stylish name will the name cure the infected or bring back the dead

I don't believe this. If he took poison,I would have considered him committing suicide,though still unimaginable for a 12years old to commit suicide. But he used a robe to hang himself? Do you the kind of energy and hard work it takes to hang another person,not to talk of yourself?
Thorough investigation should be carried out please.

Coolkhat:
Come lets give that your Material a sense of belonging....just hmu

We sew
School uniform, male kaftan, shorts, trousers, cardigan, Polo's and design them to taste.. You get a discount if you're a NL member.

Do you sew male native? I have two 6 yards Ankara,which I bought from a Nairalander,that I want to sew

subtlemee:
if you can relocate abroad then do court marriage and live in peace ....when you have like 3kids and it's like 10yrs and they are all old and ridden with arthritis you come back and do traditional rites then they won't have strength to talk

Shooo
@ Op, since both parents disagreed,I would say you move on. Your chances are next to nothing, unless the guy wants to turn to prodigal son by following subtlemee advise.

tyreal:
Text message from your heart just to re-assure her of your love.
I don’t count this val’s day as anything. It’s just a normal day to me. Simple text message from my hubby will do it.

The few matured ones on Nairaland are not hard to spot in midst of hunger striken kids and attention seekers that full Nairaland nowadays.

Ladycewhy:
I will speak from my side , since it's on a budget

a good hair care product e.g leave in conditioner
A good make up product , a foundation even nude3 lipstick sef
A set of pants
A bra
A shoe

If you want to go extreme a scented candle will do.

As far as I am concerned I only value gifts I can actually use

Which gift has someone giving you before that you cannot see?

ghettokid1:
First Of All, I really apologise to you all (Nairalanders) about the brightness of the camera.
REASON:
'Because, i was travelling when i saw the Station and my official Phone is already down. So i have to manage the camera with me.
I really apologise.

Stop lying, which official phone? That's your phone,it's what you could afford but it's okay. You don't owe anyone any explanation. You guys will never learn to stop seeking validation online. Be yourself,no you want to present yourself as what you not.
Guy forget I say fashi, hustle more and get a better phone,don't come here with stupid lie. Manage your 1.5mb camera in peace.

tiredoflife:
Gold digger oshi.
No wonder marriage no dey last
People marry ladies because of their job
See as e dey announce her salary
Bloody materialistic bastard

She made a mistake in marrying u
She will regret it all her life
What a bum
So u dey allocate 50%
Like for real
And u dont know what u did wrong
What an entitled beast
When she no bring money
U go ku ku kill am na

This one go give him wife belle
Say na two of una Bleep so una go share hospital bills
Oponu
Ode raised to the power of mumu

Haaa did Op offend you before ?shoooo