₦airaland Forum

Slimdada:
Bros,That girl no dey straightforward we have been talking on WhatsApp, I have sent her my pictures and been honest at the same time, but she refused to send me her pictures Always telling me lies about bad network and am the one always calling her phone and sparking up conversations on WhatsApp, if I no text her she no Go text or call,most times she would even go ahead and ignore my texts,. And this na girl wey I don make plans on how I go use spend money and entertain her,whenever she comes to see me..

She already had a mental picture of what she wants her man to look like,the kind of job he does and how rich he should be. When you sent her your details and pictures she saw that you didnt meet that criteria,instead of saying she is not interested,she decided to waste your time so that you can back off yourself.
Bros forget that girl,she is confused and doesnt know what she wanted in life yet. I wonder why she decided to come here and waste people's time.

80%? Ofcourse you would know,because you have sent PM to 80% of Nairaland female monikers. Which obviously ended up with you being disappointed since you weren't able to quench your konji with a random girl as you expected. Next time respect yourself,stop sending Pm like your life depended on it. Stop disgracing nairaland male folks,stop looking for free pu ssy on nairaland

Citytrend:
Blame it on Our Supreme Court and the Greedy politicians including the ones at the glass house, not the Youths

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If you don't have something reasonable to say, keep the f uck quiet and face your useless dead logo building career.
The act of these jobless youths is babaric and condemnable. How is it the fault of Hope that he was declared Governor?
I wonder the time you do your so called logo design sef you are always on every thread advertising against forum rules. I am sure you are wack,no one patronises quacks.

I got My Xiaomi Redmi Note 8,4gb/64gb from Slot at Ikeja shopping Mall yesterday. I am loving it
It was 63k only.

The Lord is my light and salvation,whom shall I fear,the Lord is the strength of my life,of whom shall I be afraid?
May God console their loved ones,may God bless their radio active remains

Wizikal:
If not for foot ball most this guys would have have been in jail as they mostly thugs and crimainal minded

City of God comes to mind, that movie bad

SyrusdeHansome:
I'm using this opportunity to celebrate our women all over the world. You deserve to be respected nd celebrated. May God bless our mothers, sisters, aunties, friends nd our female colleagues nd bosses.


Back to the question.
In 2017 i did a project topic on domestic abuse nd I found out that most married women nd men in Nigeria are constantly being abused by their spouse, nd the most painful part of it is that good women nd men are not left out.
Sometimes it's like life isn't fair to most pple when it comes to the issue of marriage. So what makes you think are the reasons why some good men nd women end up with bad spouses nd the bad ones end up with good spouses?

What empirical evidence do you have to support your claim?
I remember one DMX song from his "And then there was X" album called 'why do good girls like bad guys'

There are Men and there are Men,or you want to count those nairaland guys who open new monikers here daily to troll men? those serial online beggers,those jobless touts who argue and defend politicians,or those slowpokes who create stupid and astoundingly absurd threads about their audio sex lives as men too? No they not,

ahimedua:
A young lady who mistakenly sent an large sum of money to her boyfriend’s church for her tithe payment has taken to social media to cry out.

According to her, she wanted to send N40,000 but ended up sending N400,000 and she went to the church pastor to get her remaining money back but he refused to refund the money back to her, reportedly claiming that ‘it was God’s doing that she sent the N400k'.

Her message reads ;

This is not really a relationship issue.

So my boyfriend made me start coming to his church sometimes around December 2019.

I enjoyed it, it is a very popular church in Lagos. My Boyfriend is a worker and his family goes there too.

I have never missed a tithe payment. My boyfriend idolizes the pastor, treats him like a mini go even. The pastor can’t do any wrong.

So sometimes last week, i wanted to pay my tithe of 40,000 and i mistakenly sent 400,000 to the church account.

I called my boyfriend immediately and he said we will talk about it. When we saw later i told him and he said i should go to the church and talk to junior pastor.

When i got to the church, the pastor started telling me that it is Gods doing that 400k entered and i should leave the money with them that i will get blessings.

I said i needed the money to my shop rent and equipment, they gave me bad eye.

I told my boyfriend and he said i should be patient. He was already angry that i insulted the church. I called my bank, they said the church has to refund it that they can’t do it.SleekGist reports.

Even my boyfriend’s mother and sister was not so nice to me when she saw me. They make me feel like i stole or i’m a thief.

I am confused, this is my money, i have bills to pay. Business has been slow this year. I love my boyfriend. It is a 2 year relationship which may lead to marriage. This may be the end of our relationship. I don’t have much money, i can’t give 400k i did not plan.

Click to see screenshots here
https://sleekgist.com/viral/church-allegedly-refuses-to-refund-tithe-payer-who-mistakenly-paid-n400k-instead-of-n40k/

No wonder you guys come here to sell your blogs for miserable 5 Fu cking K,why not write on something people can Google and lead them to your blog? Or you think some will just go to Google and Input your post topic on it on a normal day? No.

You damn right, money doesn't guarantee happiness but I am happier now compare to when I was broke. It's not the money per se, it's the fact that I am more productive with my life,makes enough to get anything I want.

Me I am happy okay and sure knows things that do.
First,I Hate drama and avoid anything that takes away my peace of mind or makes me restless.
Knowing that my Mum and siblings are fine wherever they are gives me joy and happiness.
Knowing that God has forgiven me my sins and he is there by my side gives me joy.
Giving to the needy makes me happy. Certain Genres of music too. Eating fruits, Vanilla ice cream and yoghurt gives me butterflies in my tummy.
Knowing I can buy anything I need makes me so much happy too. All glory to God

Drlimao:
Where is ur own fool Nigerians with their mouth for wetin no concern them if u had a laptop will u even open the thread if no be joblessness cause am elitebook name ancient what of u hopeless maggot even iPhone 6s.wey ancient de no de use am mumu find work do or ask people to help ur life

Calm down,this is Nairaland. Trolling comes with the territory.
In case of next time package what you want to sell well. Take good pictures. The picture of the laptop makes it seem you are hiding something. I am sure you are.
Next time you want to sell a laptop,take it's pictures with the screen and keyboard clearly visible.

chinoxstock:
If you see an esan girl and a snake, kill the esan girl first before killing the snake - An Edo proverb.

No be me talk am o

I believe this thread was meant to make the respective people to see they both humans and no need for the unnecessary discord. But you have to bring your bigotry and Aba made hatred into it.

DModeCntStopMe:


I guess, Nigerians should be blamed for this

I warned them not to have anything to do with the failure, they refused.

Since their president with his entourage visited Mr lifeless in Abuja during the xenophobic era, their economy has never been the same hence the lifeless situation they found themselves in

They should sue the terrorist in Abuja

You mean the guy your unborn generations will get to read about till the world ends. At least he achieved a lot in his lifetime. Infact at your age he was already a head of state, while you still hopeless and without direction in life
Don't transfer your aggression to an innocent man,he is not your father who refused to prepare you for the future. Now you are a Menace on Nairaland, useless to both your family and the country useless guy opening new monikers like he is been paid. Useless Fu cking jasonscholari or what do you call yourself.

I think you might be sincere but that school fees part is a lie. Do you still have the Facebook account for sale?

You want to further your education,less than a year of graduation? The Bsc you have what have you done with it? Collecting 20k salary. I don't know why lots of youths are so senseless..
First,how much will you save monthly that will be enough for your masters?
Secondly, after the Masters what next? Job will come? Big lie. Why not safe to start a small business or use the money to learn a skill .

Lamanii22:
Give birth to the baby please... Let me adopt it....

Are you for real? If you love babies this much why not have yours,don't forget to invite me for naming ceremony

Samfloxin:
He said 6 months... don't be too quick to call people names. You don't know what he is passing through

He said a year before,he edited the topic. Now you see what I mean, deceptive fellow right there

Moji12:
Good evening house. Please i seriously need to recover an old conversation from whatsapp. It is very important and urgent. Can anyone put me through or hpw can i go about it? Thanks in anticipation.

You can only if you backup your previous WhatsApp messages. If not, they gone forever. To avoid the same mistake, better back up the ones you have now

sketchlyrics:
i noticed for few days now I'm having symptoms of the virus... fatigue, weakness of the body, and mild fever... how can i do a test to make sure I'm not infected yet... please help me

When last did you have a balanced diet meal? My friend, inter switching between garri and indomie is not a good meal that is what is causing this mild fever you having

If I have the power to help you I won't, because you are a liar,a dishonest person and probably a potential ingrate. After working hard for a whole month, spending thousands on feeding and transportation,you will receive your salary and transfer it to another man for 12 consecutive months? You are a Desperado,I see you has someone who can say anything or do anything to get what he wants without recourse to the future.
I will run from people like you.

Liar,how was the power bank closed,if such amount of fufu was placed inside? Don't go and do something meaningful with your life,be posting stupid thread on Nairaland to make Seun rich,why you sit on your broke ass

Almost all posts above are not objective,asking if the guy will give her another job,no critical thinking,most Nairalanders are suffering from bandwagon effect.
How can a woman who is engaged and about to marry a man who lives and works in Enugu, leave her state of residence for Lagos because of a job?
Let me see, after the wedding in Enugu, she will move back to Lagos,the man will be in Enugu working cooking and living alone and jerking off because the woman he just married needs a job?
My dear,you obviously want to do something with your life before marriage,which is a good thing. So tell the guy you are not ready for marriage now that you want a level of financial Independence before going into marriage. So that he can decide to wait or he will move on.
You cant eat your cake and have it. A new marriage won't work if the couples live separately from the beginning of the marriage.

kamikaz1:
Hello boss, I have been trying to seek your assistance on this. Please reply. Thanks.

What did you want to do exactly?

Offpoint:
That feelings every idiotts have when they fall in love newly, it always feels like it's the best thing after garri ijebu.

He/she is always the best, but we the Elders know better.

Enjoy while it lasts aunty, make every moment count because it went sour.

Are your words influenced by the blow Nigerian economy has dealt you for the past 5years or is this your natural attitude? If its the former you have hope,but if it's the latter, i pray you dont end up as a lonely bitter old grump in years to come.

He is Intelligent? how did you figure that out so quickly? you went there with Phamtom Physics mathematical problems and he solved it

It's not liverpool loosing that's the problem,it's loosing to a team that has lost 3 and drew one of it's last 4 games.A team thats battling relegation,I guess it's overconfidence or the god of football just wanted to humble Liverpool. How else do you explain this? A lot of pundits has thrown money into the sea today

Slimdada:
Sorry for late reply I was busy at work just replied u now

Bros,show that girl how responsible and honest Nairaland guys are,don't fall our hand oh. I hope it works between you two

You speaking to the choir.
An average Nigerian is selfish and hardly cares about others unless he is been watched or he gains social media popularity from it . You expect an infected Nigerian to leave his shop or business so as to protect others,or be absent from work and lose his job,just so because he is experiencing Corona symptoms? Hell no?

englishmart:
Lol. Branch had been disturbing me, they threatened to report me to credit bureau which I didn't care about. After 9weeks of threatening me, they went back to begging again, they were like "Don't let old debt stall till march". Damn, I thought you were reporting me to credit bureau? Why didn't you report na? Well, I just pitied them by paying them their useless 6k today. I thought they had anything serious to do to me, but they were just threatening. Aje kpako no suppose fear treats, it's our lifestyle.

$6k or £6k ? Chai Nairaland guys dey fall hand oh,no wonder Nairaland girls always call guys here broke.