Nooil:


A guy who owes you nothing is the one not in a relationship with you. If you want to owe me nothing, then don't disturb my peace. Stay on your own. How difficult is that to understand? Well, I don't blame you guys, its ladies that will be accepting relationship instead of focusing on themselves and earning money I blame. You think being in a relationship is play date?

This una entitlement mentality thats y men have no regards for u and treat u anyhow..so since u feel its ur right to be taken care of since he is ur bf then whats his own right as a bf?abi u are just a baggage on his neck or u just offer him sex?u are not even ashamed to type that gibberish up there.

No be still other women for relationships de buy car give their man?what have u given ur own apart from boxers?thats if u have even given him handkerchief sef..so ladies should not go into relationships cos they want to focus on themselves abi?are u even listening to urself at all abi u just wan type to get noticed?dnt worry keep up the mentality u go learn soon

SweetCunt97:
Just shut it! When he was eating her food without contributing money he didn't know it was shameless? Such insensitive men need to choke on that free food to gain sense.

See this one..oh so cos u just gave him food for a while then its now such a big deal?but women always want and expect to eat free food provided by guys abi?its ur birthright abi?

Why will a so called gf not be at her bf birthday in the first place sef if u really love and care about him?such sense of entitlement..very stingy people these nija females..for me the only thing wrong with the guy here is that he isnt putting enough effort to grow if what she said is true but as for everything else..he owes her NOTHING..relationship no be poverty alleviation program.

My God..im short of words ..like wtf?for real?how did she even agree to date this kidult in the first place?see him jumping up and down like a 3year old that was deprived of biscuit and is crying and jumping throwing arm around to show frustration..the idiot is even saying he will commit suicide,kai this one is already cursed and a disgrace not just to manhood and his family,but a disgrace to humanity as a whole..na him type i like to dey fu.c.ck their babes since them don decide say they are hopeless simps and cant be redeemed..she just wore the ring cos of all the pressure..we will soon read here that he drank snipper cos she blocked him from contacting her after the got home and she ran..what a bastar.d fool of a boy..he just tall for nothing,shikini sense him no get and if u tell him now how stupid he is he will want to object and even fight u..kai it is finished for simps..they should be poisoned all of them cos na them de make girls think they are doing us a favour getting into our lives..spits

KingintheNorth:



I need someone I can care deeply about..lean on , call every night and morning ,someone that can make me lose interest in other girls

Look bro stop been too nice to them and dont ask for relationship.. discipline urself and juzt be with one u want to date and fu..ck and do everything normal and dnt give her ur phone to get comfortable with..have other females too let her know and believe me aftee 2months na she go begin disturb u with questions like what are my to u?what are we bla bla bla..basically stop simping and ul be ok

Anyone the gods want to destroy,they fitst make him mad..How can u goband demolish an airport fence as an Individual?u wan fight government with only thugs?and u already know say dem don warn u of ur house b4 u still get mind go draw wahala for urself?even Ned Nwonko that we know with all his money and connect cant be mad enough to pull a stunt like u pulled..bros who are u first first biko? na Airport u go tamper with o?dem do u from village ni??what a joker,e don be for this guy..

Fake ass story..nice advert of the site tho..at least il check it out but aint paying shit until maybe if i get to nija

This is so sad and pathetic..these are Eiye {humans wey believe say dem be birds] boys and the father is definately a serious Eiye man cos he even wear the pikin blue boxers and blue slipons..and have even taught the kid how to claw sotay one fool dey even claw the boy body up and down,but y are africans like this na?this is real child abuse..I feel sad for this kids future.

Anazp:
Pls edit to Igbo man cries out after Ghanaian authorities close his shop

Iam NOT Igbo but this ur statement is very st.upid and it just shows u are dumb as fu.cck..This is ur fellow nija brother oppressed in Ghana and instead of putting tribal sentiment aside and realise its a fight with another country,ur daft brain didnt tell u that but to open ur gutter mouth to snitch on ur fellow nija blood..e no go better for u and ur kind odeh fo.o.l ..how can nija be great with id.iots like these for Gods sake?who swear for us na?

[quote author=Made4naijaceo post=92786849]A video making the rounds on social media has captured the moment a sex worker attacked a man and his girlfriend at a mall.

In the video, a lady attacked the man and his girlfriend while they were shopping at the mall, claiming that he had sex with her and refused to pay.

The girlfriend tried to calm the situation as she pleaded with the sex worker to calm down so they can settle the issue amicably.

However, the story changed after her boyfriend brought out a ring and went down on his knees to propose to her.

Watch video below


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Dumb ass guy..babe ur fiance is the most stupid man in nija..what a horrible way to propose..spits

SukaBlyat:

You be big f00l.. she is not as dumb as you are

Hahahaha look at this fo0lish odeh child, ;Du get mind call another person fool when ur brain no tell u say u no suppose f.vck olosho wey u dey hardly see without condom..like really?the Daft imp sef dey say she is not as dumb? ??she is obvioisly way smarter than ur ass..u no suppose even open mouth where human beings de talk go hide ur face u this orangutan, u bloody disgrace to ur mum and family..dumb g.oat..HIV no far from u idiat

1StopRudeness:
U know what’s annoying about youths of today you people will be engaging in something wrong and u still can’t give urself brain..ordinary 500 naira condom is hard for u to buy... if you are not afraid of pregnancy, are u not afraid of HIV...

Bottom line.....
U are simp....an annoying simp for that matter
U are having sex with a lady off and on.. u should know u are not the only one entering the hole during the off..
Yet u skin dive as if you have photocopied you life and keep somewhere
You skin dive as if ur destiny have reset button..

Let me give u the gist...there are two things involved
1)She got pregnant before she came to ur side...She has laid foundation of how she will tell u that you got her pregnant in few weeks time...She will remind you of today because she has use style to claim u cum inside

2) she has gone to use postinor already....
Nothing dey happen.... but she will come back few weeks later to tell u something dey happen....she will remind u that u came inside her.....like she has used style to claim....
she will say she wants to abort the air inside the womb....60k... u will beg to 30k .....u will pay... becos u are a simp......

I no even see ur reply to the simp na now i just even see am and its the exact same thing i felt and told him to wise up..better oil dey ur head..the real mvp..op na simp of a beta male

Mumu..the girl is already pregnant for someone else and planning to pin it on u thats y she fu.c.ked u raw and saying u came in her by force and forming vex cos when she comes to pin it on u that time u wont have the guts to say no cos u go dey fear her anger again..use ur head boy...#youngrichandhandsome

sharpwriter:


Hey Bros! Good evening, are you there?

Yeah whatsup man..il reply ur message today..just been busy

IMO01:


Thanks your first paragraph hmmm

Welcome bro..i know u might be in a similar situation but be strong and keep.pushing..no one will do it for u p except u..even ur mama get where she fit push u reach and stop but NEVER quit..u will be fine,change ur clique asap to reasonable mature guys..if u have 4millionaires as ur friend trust me it wont be long before u become the 5th..goodluck man

YoungandDepress:


I regret my past daily. I think about it all the time but it does me no good. I have accepted my fate and moved on but like they say the evil that men do surely lives with them.
I'm suffering from the consequences of what I brought upon myself and pray life gets better for me.

Thank you for your advice.

Look youngman read everything I wrote carefully..let me tell u a story of a friend of mine who we schooled together back in uni in nija,he came from an average family got into cultism dropped out of school in 300level started yahoo and nothing big happened he became so broke,no one cared about him even his family abandoned him and he became a complete write off,his friends even started avoiding him and on somany occasions he walked all the way from town to karu in Abuja..i dnt know if u are familiar with Abj so imagine such distance u walk for hours cos u went to hustle in town and walking back home empty handed and weeping while walking,he even had to sell his last pot to all these ab.o.kis who buy metal scrap and junk for about 200naira just to feed and he was staying alone, rent don expire and to worsen the case he started hallucinating cos of the serious juju he did when we were in school then,the iyah that did the jazz for him started appearing to him when he decided to be born again..even i left him cos i got tired of him cos he became too agressive and confrontational when i tried to advice him...

He really suffered o but never gave up,today as im talking to u he is able to give tithe of 1million cash in church,has two big cars and is married with kids,owns properties in Abuja and doing very well..now let me tell u how he got his breakthrough,first u.must realise u have a problem and cant help urself without God so hold onto God and trash that atheism cos its the devil trying to worsen ur case..do u know the story of job in the bible at all?yet he was steadfast in his faith..u are just in ir 20s u never suffer like us or even Job so just relax.

Find urself a good church and fix urself,then find a hustle,trade or biz to do nomatter how little and be consistent..if my friend could walk such distance to town just to hustle for years then my brother u never even start o cos u still de relax chop mama food for house..so people saw his commitment both in church and Agis Abuja where he went to hustle and boom he helped someone buy a good land and thats how he blew overnight o..a church member relocated to the US and now sells properties there and my friend is his link in Abj and gets clienta to buy houses in America in dollars and gets his cut in millions,he even helped me when i bought a property in Abuja. And this is a story of just one of my friend...

Now let me gist u of another who was also a dropout in his 3rd year,he unfortunately has health issues sickle cell and he had different complications and his bones where affected for years he was bed ridden,no school,no job no money nothing,even if he wanted to hustle he couldnt cos he was not physically fit like u or my other friend who could walk long distances,the sick guy got so frustrated and suicidal and hated God and family and life,pushed everyone away from him and got addicted to cigarettes and drugs to help him with the physical pain of his deformed bones etc..

But gradually he picked up his faith in God got better after over a year and started walking like a new baby learning to walk all over again and then did online courses and Landed a small contract job with an international ngo and thats how he started growing o..as im talking to u,today he owns a hotel in Abuja and properties as well with a very nice car and life and would be married in a few days..so i hope u see the point here?NEVER give up..ur own no even near this two guys who are close friends of mine nobe say na story wey i hear,all these happened to my bossom friends in nija so i know..the devil will make u want to end ur life but dnt try it..

See do u know before a diamond and gold is made into a masterpiece of jewelry they pass through hot fire and hard processes but comeout as priced jewelry and treasure so its the same with life,u must pass through these inorder to value wealth and good life God will latter give u when it comes..and by then u would have learnt how to manage life and ur finances so u wont blow ur blessing on gambling so my brother u will be fine...

Stay strong life is NOT for the weak and faint of heart,so also is wealth o..but consistency and faith with a possitive attitude is the key..just try to find a hustle no matter how small even if na car wash or making shoes or palms my guy do am start somewhere and i bet u in a shortwhile u will be back here to write ur own story to encourage others..Goodluck and Godbless and keep u. And one thing u must know is do away with selfpity and thinking too much on ur mistakes,this life no be race o and nobe who start first de win o..somany people graduated and left their friends in abject poverty wishing to live the lives of their friends who have advanced ,but today some of those friends who advanced are either dead or the got stuck in a job of 80k or 100k while the one who was wishing to move as fast as his friend now is a boss with his own biz or outlived the other person so never look at another and wish to be in their shoes o..just polish ur own shoes and u dnt know those ur mates who have advanced and some even schooled abroad while u still dey house might endup coming to work for u in 5years time..

Do u know white men and people with doctorate degreea work for dangote?abi u never hear say Goodluck Jonathan no get shoes when him dey young ni?bros u still de flex make i just tell u so appreciate ur life and God has done for u..what do u want all these beggers on the streets who cant even walk but crawl on their bellies to beg to say?at least u are physically fit and can look up to a brighter future with love in it but people like that have even given up on ever finding love or dreaming of it let alone a good happy life yet them never kill themselves so my young brother stand gallant and thank God for ur own o..if u hear other people story u go go church give thanks to God cos let me tell u there is NOTHING that makes u better than them o yet God decided to show u mercy so be thankfull ok. Stay strong

Bloody lies..fell inside deep hole keh..she u be 5 year old girl abi u close eye de walker ni?besides which sane girl will carry herself alone to a site her dad is building?and how does an estate have a hole that deep?abi is it for the foundation or how deep hole join building matter?abeg f.u.ck outa here joor..u broke legs and someone was watching u in pain who expects his wages from ur dad..to give u brain resetting slap de hungry me..mtcheeww go and buy sense u bloody troll

The f.u.ck?? This dudes ate this disgusting snake with all the eggs..ewwww..

tafrica:
So this snake was unfortunate last night. It was around 8pm last night when a neighbour (pix attached) on the street sighted the snake and was assisted by my brother in hunting it. It put up a fight after the first cutlass cut but eventually met its Waterloo and was killed.

Lala, I hereby bring your favourite to appease to you. May it hit a FP if you so wish.

All animal right activists are welcome.

What part of nija is this bros with this huge snake?una try o to fit kill am for dark without getting bit..nice one

Who is this cow..Anyway i honestly woukdnt blame him cos him de benefit for the regime na like he clearly said 'we that travel with him' so no be him fault..

The govermment has some positive sides but the negative is alot more plus the lack of respect for the role of law is so disheartening..imagine a court order from a high court in Nija to the Nigerian military been ignored by Buratai smh..

Simp...person the tell u say she don get belle for another man and u still de beg am to that u wont breakup with her if she wants to leave she should tell u?and u even de happy shamelessly posting ur pathetic life for everyone to read..smh what a joke u r men honestly u are pathetic no offense. #youngrichandhandsome

Ode thinking multiplying like rats is an achievement..smh poverty is bad..#youngrichandhandsome

Unserious stupid girls..una never see anything,u hear on a daily how people complain and give gory stories of their horrible experiences of how they were tied to a stake and raped without food daily until death in lebanon,libya etc..yet u carry ur legs still go there abi?

So u believe u are special and ur case will be different abi?rubbish make una suffer am well there i have no single sympathy for u gurls..make money o make u no go arab country wey dem go fv.ck ur babe for ur eye till she die and u go just de cry..dm to join the train..hacker extraordinary #youngrichandhandsome jare no time

Make money o make them no slap u on cam still say there is no enough evidence to show or prove u were assaulted,probably the useless judge was high on pig urine or brukutu..choi Nigeria my country,im so ashamed that the poor can be oppressed to this level..Make this money any way possible o, dm me to show u how to ha.ck crypto..hypocrites stay away..#youngrichandhandsome

Xposed2020:
the drill is that they all know that it can take 10 to 11 months to Start receiving salary.
Is the Adjutant a finance officer in Lagos or doing table payment.
When he went to camp local prostitutes for 6 months (that's what 90% of them do.), it did not occur to him the repercussions of his actions?

Hmm na wa o..the guy shouldn't have been allowed to hold a riffle sef considering all these things especially for the fact that he had pointed a riffle at the senior officer before,he was a ticking time bomb,cos he is unready unstable,kai plus the punishment and nothing to motivate him..somany things needs to be adressed in the military or this madness will get worse,this thing could have easily gone the opposite way too of a muslim officer killing a christian senior officer and honestly to me il still say what im saying,cos human beigns have their different levels of tollerance and strenght so anybody can just snap and go on a random shooting spree cos going to war isnt childs play..

I have a friend who was in the military back home in nija,he is muslim,we schooled 2gether when younger..and now we talk after years of loosing contacts. He was telling me how he worked in maiduguri and almost kiiled himself 2times cos of how Gboko haram were almost overpowering his unit and he didnt want to be captured so he was contemplating killing himself with a special bullet he always carried for himself just incase gboko haram wan caputre am.

He also told me how he has been doing drugs heavily cos he use to have hallucinations and see people he has killed in battle,and he said their superiors ordered them to slaughter many gboko haram that were caught and he even mistakenly killed one woman who was married to a gbokoharam so all these things made him unstable and started doing drugs,plus he said alot of other things how superior officers are using them for biz etc.

So bro just imagine this situation,i told him to get help and he said he was working on it and planning leave the military. So this my friend now clearly shouldnt be fighting cos he is troubled mentally and also might snap soon so alot of reforms needs to be done otherwise things like this will keep happening. And now imagine such trauma already they are coping with and still no payment to motivate him..ha that is big trouble..its so unfortunate this is our country. My friend told me somany bad things happeneing in maiduguri and the military that i cant even say here o,soldiers shooting themselves in battle field and their ogas sabotaging their locations to enemies and delibrately refusing to send reinforcements etc..

Just tell me years of having this experience why wont some of them go AWOL? Then the worst part is they watch how their enemies are treated like first class citizens and kings because they were boko haram b4..ha this life just no balance o..its just sad that the superior officer had to die for attention to be drawn to some of this terrible things happening. God help us all.

Xposed2020:
why didn't he kill himself if he has been true a lot or Christian officers or soldiers from the east?
So only a civilian lives matter?
Is that what your religion told you?
To kill an innocent soul?

Pls I beg u with the God u believe in to be rralistic and stop making this about religion,u are even saying is that what christainity thought to kill innocent souls?like really?u want to go into that? It isnt christians that shout allah is great b4 blowing themselves with innocent souls and kids and even some other muslims so lets not go into that aspect oga..

As for killing himself if he is so aggrieved lol u try..is he the cause of his plight that he will kill himself? Im sure u have been sick with malaria or even headach b4,y didnt u kill urself?y did u take medications to kill the sickness?u should have killed urself na if u were that ill..i beleive u are a full grown adult so pls be realistic.

Dnt get me wrong im not justifying his actions but there were things that led to this disaster and if they were handled well all these would have been averted..if he went AWOL im sure that period he wasnt paid too so y still keep punishing him 8bloody months latter?8 months o..even if na 1 or 2months extra ok fine but 8months and he should be smiling abi?if it was u shey u will be happy?

einsteine:



He went AWOL for six months, that's why his salary was blocked. In any case, how does no salary equate to the need to kill? If it was a Fulani private killing an Igbo lieutenant, I hope you guys would justify the killing same way.

Yes we will if the fulani soldier was treated unfairly and had been suffering for months without pay..how do u expect him to feed and survive?what do u want to motivate him?see put urself in people's shoes before u just talk anyhow..

Yes he went AWOL so what?if u treated him well in the first place will he run away?u dnt treat him well yet u treat boko haram millitants well under the useless guise of some stupid amnesty rehabilitation rubbish. Forget sentiments and religion,like I said if it were a fulani or muslim soldier who did this il still say the same as im saying now cos I have muslim brothers and sisters so this has NOTHING ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH RELIGIOUS SENTIMENTS..its just common sense and reality

Xposed2020:
See Christians should StOP justifying killing in cold blood.
- the adjutant is to responsible for blocking or opening of account or denial of allowances.
- before an account is block one must have gone on AWOL or committed an offence.
- it was not the first time Private Uzonna Maduabuchi a Christian from SE nigeria has cocked rifle on the said officer.
And had it been the officer took necessary action earlier, ethnicity will be the next card played by uzonna's kinsmen but at least the officer would have been alive by now.
- when does killing a superior becomes justified because of grievances?
- The soldier is an indiscipline bastard & his guarantor needs to be arrested if this trend is to subside.
- Christian soldiers killing Muslim officers is now the trend. But if the foolish Muslim soldiers refused to retaliate, I'll see how they will get justice or fairness in a system filled with people who despises them.

Oga what u are saying is just baseless religious sentiments, if a soldier went AWOL and u block his account then why still keep him on the war front to fight with a riffle and nothing to motivate when u are not paying him?can a hungry man think rationally let alone fight? If that wasnt the first time he had cocked a riffle at the said officer then y keep them in close proximity and still let him have a rifle and still provoke him by denying him his earnings? U no want pay am oya leave am make him go na na by force ni to play with venomous snake? A ticking time bomb and u still provoke him by denying him his wages and refusing him to leave?

Ask urself y did he go AWOL in the first place?oh he should stay and fight for a country that cares not for soldiers but rather prefers terrorists and treat them better than those helping to fight them?how can u reward a terrorist and even send them out of the country and yet normal good citizens cant even afford a meal in a day let alone soldiers on the war front risking their lives to keep the country from collapsing?

I only feel pity for the wife of the deceased especially if her husband was just collateral damage but i highly doubt he was just a random target because like u said the shooter had raised his riffle at him before so im left to suspect he is the cause of the shooters plight and still gambled with his life when u know u are poking a an angry hungry lion in the eye..oh u expect him to hold the guys hands and be happy singing kumbaya abi? Im not justifying his actions but some things are just common sense to avoid disasters.

SAMBARRY:
All these mummy's boys sef wey their brain still dey under their mummy's armpit

No maturity from the boy at all.cant he respectfully Tell his Mom to move back for peace to reign?

Awon my mummy said men.... tufiaaaaaa

See them all over the thread spewing rubbish

No common sense, they cannot make independent decisions without asking what mummy thinks about it.soon they still ask their mummy what part of the v@gyn@ they should put their preek inside

See him woman wrapper..simp of the century..so cos u cant put ur di.c.k in her veejay then u should kiss a girls ass over ur mums?pus.s.y whipped is what u r and a disgrace to ur mum..hide ur face man

NockMedia:

Whenever a lady tries to get violent with you as a guy, the best thing to do is to walk away from the heat of the moment.

What are u even saying?in order words women should be allowed to misbehave anyhow,anywhere and to anyone they feel like right?no punishment or consequence should await her bad behaviour because she is a woman?u never serious yet oga..that means u are saying a woman should always be allowed to have her way in this life regardless of ths situation,its people with ur kind of mindset that is the problem of humanity..u better change that wrong mindset u have.

hotwax:
I met her a virgin and she made it clear from unset that she wanted to keep her virginity till wedding date. I agreed with her, afterall, I intended to marry her.

Meanwhile she is a friend to a man at her office. She even introduced him to me as a friend. When she call me on video while at office, I usually see this man at the background. We call him 'your office father'. January 2020, her workplace where she is undergoing internship organized a 'get-together' party in one hotel at Ikeja. Throughout the event, she did not pick my calls till the next day . It was unusual of her. I just told myself, party don enter body be that. She later off her phone.

Sometime in February, we got playful and we were over the edge to the point that I wanted to penetrate. But I quickly controlled my self. Then she started stoking my dck . I watched her with surprized. She noticed and started pulling me towards her telling me to fck her, i refused to continue and sat. I asked with anger, "so you have been having sex". She started crying that she was sorry she kept it a secret from me. She said she was afraid I was going to kill her if I get to know. She said the man I called her office father raped Blahblah. In the party she took 3 bottles of smirnoff and she sat with the man. Late night, when she was going, the man told her he already book a room that she should not go home late at night. She said she was not thinking straight and it was as if the man used juju. She followed him to his room, while she was sleeping the man raped her multiple times overnight.

It was shocking, I was filled with rage. I asked why she did not raise alarm, why not report to the police? To their HR. She said its going to be shame for her, people r going to mock her. How did she get into a hotel room with a married man. The man's job is also at stake. It took me days to take her back, but I couldnt touch her, because she disgusted me. . She noticed begged me. She tried for us to have sex, but i wont just be in the mood.

Although she is a secretive person. She has been battling various STDs. Virginal discharged, candida e.t.c I do see drugs and creams in her bag.
But now she is battling hepatis B. She was admitted at the hospital and incurred huge medical bill which I was involved. I asked if she treated herself after the rape experience, she said a nurse friend treated her. And I asked if she has been seeing many guys. She said it was the only man she ever had sex with.

1 Sexual encountered spiraled to unending STD and sicknesses. Its painful for me because my dream woman just wasted away like that.
I am not even sure she had sex with only one man.

Do me a favour and gerarahiamen..u bloody simps will never learn,its guys like me that keep fvc.cking ur girls and taking their virgi.ni.ty cos u guys are pathetic ;Dkeep been good guys and let us continue helping u service ur h.oes..the simps never learn..they always feel ohh my case is different hahahaha

Recieve sense u simp..my friend grow some fv.cking balls and f.vcck ur share and move on..kill that stupid feeling u think is love..u no dey shame to fall inlove with olosho..gerarahiamen,fv.cvking beta male simp

proxillin:
She has been mounting pressure on me to follow her to meet her parents. We have been in this relationship for a year now. Although she is not the only one I am dating. I am not sure of the other lady, but atleast this one is ready to marry me.

I am not sure if I genuinely love her or not, but a part of me love her..A part of me want to treat her bad, whenever I remember what she did to me in the past.

3 years ago, I started noticing and showing interest in her being my junior sister’s friend. I discussed with my sister who encouraged me to approach her that she had no boyfriend. We were on talking terms before which was an opportunity. So I leveraged on that to get closer to her. When she noticed I was getting closer, she started giving me attitudes, stopped talking to me. Finally she stopped coming to our house. She would give my sister thousands of excuses why she was not chanced to come to our house.

We met at a friends birthday party, to my surprized, she warmed up to me, greeted me. I though she must have repented. While the party was on, I asked her to come to my table and spend sometimes with me, she said “ok”. I waited for hours, she didn’t come. I later saw her in the room with the celibrant. I jokingly said to her “You dey whine me abi”. She just went off, started ranting, she said I should say whatever I want to say now infront of everyone..infront of her friends. “Why do you want me to come and sit with you?” say it now “let the whole world hear”. It was so embarrasing for me. I just said to myself “whats there..are they not aldult?..dem never toast all of them before”.

My sister was there, got angry and left us. She had already warned me to leave her alone. That I am interfering with their friendship. On my birthday, she replied to my whatsapp pictures with love and kiss icons. She went to facebook to like all my birthday pix. Facebook was alerting me as she was clicking. She finally sent me happy birthday..where is my cake..we started gisting again. She apologized for what she did that day, that she was not in a good mood that day (someone who met, joked and laugh with me, even agreed to come sit with me on my table).

We continued chattin for weeks, I made sure I didn’t get intimate with her. One day, my sister was playing with my phone, then saw our chats, read through our chats. She was mad at me. She confronted me and nearly slapped her for disrespect. She later calm down and explain to me that if I knew what this girl said about me on group chat, that I would shoot her if I have a gun. She said she didn’t tell me so that I wont feel bad.
She then show me their caucaus group chat discussing me. Tears was just coming out of my eyes. I felt cold. They were just laughing at me. My sister was just fighting for me shutting them off.

This lady said “how come some men behave like he goat. Why can’t he leave me alone?” “am I the only girl on the planet? Oh God I hate that idiot.” “Gosh, I can never be close to such person talkless of dating him” ANOTHER girl said “That’s how those guys are…you need to disgrace him more next time he try something stupid with you. Blahblah.

That’s when I closed her chapter. Blocked her on facebook, whatsapp, instagram. I moved on. My sister did photoshoot for her birthday and some of her friends came. I saw her and just greeted her, minding my business. Then I was dating another girl then, so it’s a win win for all. She stayed behind, when everyone left, she asked my sister to help her beg me. She knelt infront of me started telling me “she was sorry..she was being childish” This was someone that was in her 24 when I was chasing her. I said I forgave due to pressure from my sister. Since then, she will come to my apartment, do my laundary, cook soup inside my freezer. When she is coming from work, she will branch at my place prepare food on my table. At times she offered to sleep overnite, that she cooked till late in the night, which I will refuse.

But one thing led to another, one day, we had sex. And that changed everything. I couldn’t resist her again. But a part of me still hate her whenever I remember those disgraceful moments. Now she is 26, she want us get married. If I marry her, I may treat her bad.

In a dilema seriously and its giving me headache.

Guy u never serious..before u no want make she do shakara?one of my friends travelled to another state to see a girl in nysc camp and she refused to come talk to him even when he cpuld see her from a distance..she still kept him under rain but today they are happily married..this babe no do u anything na.

I have heard of stories of girls arresting guys who ended up their husbands and some pouring water sef..this just means u won na..u conquered all her stupidity and she is under u..u dnt know what the other girl may do to u even as ur wife..for me o this girl has madeup for her wrong and even fv.ccked u b4 starting a relationship..baba give urself brain and marry her..she will treat u like the only king in the world o..no go carry worsw gbese o..#youngrichandhandsome