₦airaland Forum

Noigeeriaa:
i'm so sad, my life is going to be ruined now

How old is the child now?

lasunray:
We ve gone Far (Me&her). I'm 2+yrs Older than her. She really loves me & I am very sure about that. She told her mum and Sister about me, but they kept it from the Men in the house (her dad & brother). Her dad is my mum's boss at work, I am usually scared of him but he likes me.
I and the girl could be in the sitting room in his presence & be chatting via fb or whatsapp.
When our other friend talks about my sister, I usually "kick" with a frown or I will just "blast" him; I hope I'm not selfish I doubt if I can allow a friend of mine date my sister but this relationship came suddenly and unexpected (Or is love planned?), I can't explain it. She once told me that her brother wouldn't like it if he knows.

What's your take? Is this awkward? Have you experienced this before?

So OP, you guys still together?

kekakuz:
[size=20pt] nothing new
Everybody in my office is sleeping with our cleaner [/size]

Hahahahah
Werey

Did it everyday for 8yrs
Aged me by at least 5yrs
Thank God there aint no traffic in Perth baby

joliyp:
u are too blunt and direct .. ....

Hahaha...
Ok, i will back down

joliyp:
she is beautiful and simple....tanks for the compliment

Babe, she no fine, plain and simple.
Some people need truth in their lives
You fine, thats not a compliment, its a statement of fact

Follow the advice of the pesin under me

joliyp:
you are beautiful don't let anyone's comment weigh u down

Just cos you are are fine doesn't give you the right to deceive her na
Mamagee, no dey commot for house with out ur brezzz next time.
And b4 you snap pisure, suck belle my the shirt fine

Sh!t fell apart for me like 1998
Just hobbling on is all i can say
But hey, when there is life there is hope for tomorrow os what i always say mate

Kiddo
Go to uni
You will meet your mates there
Heres my advice, hold your horses for now, go to FUTO for 6mnts and if you still feel the same, then go for it

Victim here
Very true

mazzi:
Nwanne RIP! Hustle is real and one thing must kill a man!

Hahaha
This shit cracked me up hard

Beckybeky:
I just wanna know. Does a sacked worker have a right to be paid for that month or they forfeit it?

Its tick tock actually.
Tuck means to tuck in something

Cant end well

Hmmmm
30k work is wot we are celebrating now in naija abi?
Nigeria truly jagajaga

Bjergtrolde:
Take heart Bro. You tried your best. Unfortunately, this is a result of poor health care policy. You can't change the world alone.
Have a beer, get some rest and put it behind you.

You were not the one that made patients abscond without paying bills. You were not the one who decided that the solution to above was not to touch until one has paid. Unfortunately, people will blame the little guy, you, instead of directing their anger in the right direction, the government.

No one is blaming the little guy.
But when the little guy does nothing for the next little guy, he is only lying to himself that the situation will improve.
This is why Nigeria has become entrenched in mediocrity.
We have all come to accept dark age policies as the norm

RedCapChief:
@op, don't let anybody make you feel guilty for heeding the instruction of your senior. I have been a house officer and I understand a bit of the dynamics of government practice. The fact that we deal with human life makes everything so sentimental so people will call you all sorts of names and ask you to lose your job. I have seen where the doctor is ready to work, but the nurses refuse to bring out the instruments because they are on strike. You can't disobey your senior. It is just like a military service system.

Besides, can you guarantee that you would have been able to save the woman's life? No law stops you from giving first-aid but can you continue to give the required care? You were not negligent in your duty.


It is a pity that we live in a country with a messed-up health system and you have to pay out of pocket for the most basic kind of healthcare. There is no social fund for accident victims in hospitals so anybody who is mad at you can go down to the nearest hospital and make a donation. Just continue to do your best for any patient that comes your way. Nigeria will get better soon

I doubt it.
Not with a mentality like yours
People must always challenge the system.
So you met it like that, should you leave it like that?
And if you do, where is the Nigerian improvement of which you speak going to come from?

emmchi:
I think saving a life is paramount irrespective of the order from above.

Don't mind the idiot.
He let her die and came her to post it
Heartless fook

cosmatika:
Tears run down my cheek as I type this. I went into d medical profession to Save lives, but today I watched a patient die and I could do nothing.
It was around 11am today, 26th Dec 2015, I wz in the emergency room as the only Dr & House officer on call in a state Specialist hospital wen a peugeot wagon followed by a police van drove in. They opened d doors & trunk and started bringing out Accident victims. I did a quick triage & saw dat d 2 in d trunk were in a more critical condition, So d immediate plan was to refer d 2 to FMC wia dey hav better hands and equipment to handle it. So I asked d policeman who d driver is so dat d 2 will be rushed to FMC & he said he died at d Accident scene. I ran outside to buy airtime to start calling other HOs, b4 I could return, dey had dropped d 2 & drove off.
I called other HOs, only 2 showed up, others had travelled. To my greatest suprise, I called a medical officer who is a snr colleague in d proffession, she said I shud nt touch anyone till dey paid. That I shud Infact refer all of dem. I was incapacitated, d patients were in pains, crying, calling on us to help, some already unconscious, but we couldnt help cos we have an order frm above.
Within 5mins, 1 young lady in her early 20s died. Abt 10mins later, another police van came and carried d remaining 7 to FMC.
This evening, some road safety corps came to inquire if any Accident victims were brought to our center. They had retrieved d manifest frm d vehicle and contacted d families of d passengers. Dey came wit d relations of one of d patients, and wen I told dem 1 of dem died, dey asked for d Description of d 1 dat died and I showed dem d pix of d gal dat died, behold she was d 1 dey were looking for and right there was the gal's fiancee. Their traditional wedding was to be in 3days tym
I want to use this medium to call on the govt to make policies dat"ll enable Drs treat patients in such condition. Let's Save the human race

But you did nothing
You stood there and let her die
How are you better than the snr colleague who told you to stand down?
Have you not heard that all it takes for evil to prevail is for "good" people to do nothing?
If you had attended to the dying lady, would you madam have killed you?
You just stood there and let her die.
When the family came did you tell them this story? Of how you watched her die cos she was in a coma and couldn't walk to the atm to draw money so yo could treat her?
You are part/a product of a failed system.
If all doctors took responsibility and stopped ranting like you are doing now blaming someone else, Nigeria would be a better place.
No wonder some moronic misguided fool sitting in the gulag has the temerity to call the place a zoo.

sotall:
They have all failed including the failure-in-chief called Dullard Buhari




The present minister of petroleum is a bastard and a big fool

For someone posting such vitriol to also put up his contacts?
Think for yasef na

grad2012:
what are u saying?

Sorry, typos
I said wouldn't you like to know if the OP's girlfriend later gave birth to a cute baby or not?
Its an old thread i dug up. I wanna know if the girl was pregnant.

grad2012:
No now it's not possible.

Don't yoy wana know too if she don born?

Enoeasy:
Hello Nairalanders,there is this friend of mine who broke up with his girl lets say two weeks ago. They had protected sex that same day they broke up because she said she was ovulating.Before the break up they had unprotected sex.Now she said she is having symptoms of pregnancy.The question here is can a lady be pregnant and stil ovulate?

Bros she later born thr pikin?

SeverusSnape:
Its PassingShot, you forgot to add omenka, Those ones will blame GEJ for this.

I didn't even expect to receive any pay before Xmas because I never believe any thing coming from this government led by an illiterate dull'ard.

Let us suffer it together, So much for change.

And yet there you are, instigating another e-quarrel
Shio...

Anasko:
thank god my corper allawee don enter.

Hahaha...
Worrying about only yasef i see

echeonyilo2:
kai..nawa oo. dis 1 nar 1 chance oo.

Hafa?
Dem nefa still pay ne?