₦airaland Forum

Chubhie:
Give the masses the go ahead to clamp em and lynch em in the streets cos we know them.

FriedPlantain:
Oh nice. I have always thought it is only stew that can go with white rice.
Now Lemme quickly go boil some rice, I think I still have some ogbono soup left in the kitchen.

FriedPlantain:
So how do you folks eat it? Eat a spoon of rice and drink small peppersoup with it?

cococandy:
Who knows any other way of making peppersoup without peppersoup spice?
I've searched and searched and I can't find it. Or scent leaf even. I'll substitute that one with basil leaves but the peppersoup spice thing is driving me crazy.

FriedPlantain:
Peppersoup and white rice? Where is the stew?

Kei144:
Funny? Wait until end of September before your laughter.

lagmostkuit:
Op, you're very correct!

God bless and keep my mum who always travel almost every week just to see her children survive and we actually have a father who does nothing.

Noneroone:
you will do very well if you cure urself this slave mentality.
Is this west you are dieing for not where divorce is the order of the day?
Is the west not where you cant even scold your own child?
Is a society where the govt encourage homosexuality fit to raise a child?
European killed themselves and kills themselve more than African do, they practise racism more than Africans, they practice religious bigotry more than African (read history of ireland and north ireland)

Do you really need to know reasons why families should be involved during marriages?

Are u for real?

johnydon22:
Why don't we start by banning Guns, bombs, violence, conflicts, wars, nuclear warheads and other things that are imminent danger to man rather than ideologies like religious or cultural ones.

Right to religion is healthy, same goes to right to question it but calling for a ban on religions encroaches into the rights of individuals and it is totally wrong...

One cannot say religion is the only or the worst problem to man, sometimes religions also have their own good uses

McCarlito:
Most times people see religion as a excuse to justify wrong doings; just calling to mind the extra-judicial killings going on in the northern part of Nigeria; ISIS in the Syrian part and many invisible killings all crafted and twisted to fit into religious sleeves

frank317:
Because he feels the need to help you cone out of your delusion. You believe in an invisible being u have never seen nor felt nor heard from. Isnt that crazy? Is ur father invisible? You don't even give your own father u see such reverence u give an invisible being. You are here arguing for an invisible being that u believe is all over the place, yet he does not even try to help u out and convince people that u are not crazy.
You insult people who see not need to believe in an invisible being and you think u are normal? Can't u see that u need help?

Chubhie:
I trust PMB to copy this model and make it one of his change agendas.

We need a Nigerian dream and identity.

McCarlito:
There's an atom of truth in ur comments even though they seem to sound "philosophical
No hard feelings man...

dearpreye:
I think the system was designed to achieve exactly what you've described above. However, in our state level, we can still maintain some level of sanity.

I agree with the cause of impatience. I'm hardly in a hurry cos I usually plan my day in advance.

dearpreye:
Shockingly, this impatience hardly leads to anywhere meaningful. I'm yet to understand from whence we got this bad habit.

5minsmadness:
Mutual consent has nothing to do with it.

I don't want to serve you. Simple. I don't even have to explain myself.

Don't I have rights over my choices again like the gays do over thiers?

Umuchoke:
Of course, I have that in mind. I'm just waiting for some things to click for me before I make my move. My happiness is that the girl truly loves me as I much as I love her. So I have nothing to worry about

Umuchoke:
Hahaha! You're so on perfectly on point, sir! our so-called elders are tribal jingoists and they've somehow passed the poison to the younger/upcoming generation. And I'm afraid the trend will continue till God knows when. It's such a pity! I thank God I'm not part of it...I see every living being as equal. Thank you, sir

Umuchoke:
God bless you immensely for this post. The emboldened is my best part of your analysis. Europeans understand and value the human right to making individualistic choices. Some of our traditions are the reason we're still lagging behind. Thanks a lot and God bless

Umuchoke:
I guess the title of the thread is a bit misleading. I never opined not to seek counsels from the elders of the family. My own is just to accept their good wishes and blessings but they can't choose for me. If I love my girl and she equally loves me in return, no family can stop us from getting married

kossyablaze:
Nice

ladyF:
Omg

5minsmadness:
He doesn't have the power to sack them outright, but he can report to the overhead. Three reports make them eligible for a sack.

But he's not looking for trouble either, trying to see if there is still any way to solve the problem amicably.

5minsmadness:
DR A was appointed as the head of department in an NGO in the south western part of Nigeria in February. Even though he had four colleagues who were senior to him, the outgoing head of department recommended him as the new head of department and the decision was ratified by the Overall company head.

During the first week of his tenure as head of department, he called a meeting of all staff to articulate his vision for the department and to solicit staff cooperation to achieve his goals. At the meeting, of the 20 staff only 12 attended the meeting which started one hour later than scheduled. No single colleague that was senior to him attended the meeting.

Dr A suspected that the colleagues that were senior to him were not happy that he was appointed as HOD instead of them. He reached out one on one to each of the four colleagues to solicit thier support and cooperation during his tenure.

One month to into his tenure , it was obvious to Dr A that despite his attempts to reach out to the aggrevied colleagues, they were unwilling to support him as HOD. They constantly challenged his decisions and instigated other members of staff to oppose his every move.

Dr A has since identified members who were supportive of him and resolved to work strictly with them in delegating tasks while excluding those who were in the camp of the aggreived lecturers.

The situation became so bad that the OVerhead had to call a meeting twice in two months to mediate among members of staff. Despite this , there has been no improvement in the department as there is constant bickering among staff.

What do you think should be done to resolve this issue?

DeCleff:
Its more real than u can ever imagine