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atheistandproud:
I came across a WhatsApp group that they were charging people 2500 to learn how to use Snapseed.

Something we learnt for free here. It's amazing.

I have realized that people only put on things when you charge them money for it. If you give them free, them no go value.

I was going to write sha but your post has spoken for me. Thank you.

kingxsamz:
That is not pregnancy mr man.
Babies don't live in the womb for years.
I'm not a medical expert, but you guys should use common sense at least nw.
Come, which primary school did you attend sef?

raptex:
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Cc ....

Seun
Hakeem12
Martinez39s
Hahn
Lordreed
Capslocked
Lalasticlala
Budaatum

Kobojunkie:
Nah, we don't need dingbats who lie in the name of God here either.

nusdog:
I know I let my guards down. So there was this lady who I would call Miss T. She was introduced to me by her senior sister who I knew through a facebook group. Since I told her I needed a girl for a serious relationship, she said she will link me to her younger sister in Akungba, Ondo state.

So, fast forward to when I began speaking with Miss T, she agreed to come to see me in Lagos but complained of not having enough for transport. So due to the recommendation i got that she was a good lady, I sent her N11, 000 as transport.

So after sending her this money, only for her to call me on the eve of the day she was supposed to come. that one of her relative was ill. So I just had this feeling that this was too coincidental to be true.

So I tried to cajole her to return the money since I sensed she was trying to play smart with me. She said no problem. That I can send my account number, which I did. After waiting for 3 days, I chatted her up on whatsapp that I'm yet to see any alert from her. Only for her to tell me she needs money for now.

So I said she is supposed to keep her promise of returning it, after which, she blocked her on whatsapp. I contacted her senior sister who linked us and her response too wasn't satisfactory to me.

So I'm really bitter with how the whole episode played, any chances of me recovering my money? just pained why someone will block me on top of my money. Please help.

Deicide:
So bill gate is poor?

People who belong to other religion that don't pay tithes are all poor?

plaetton:
International Thief Thief.
Shameless man feeding fat on the sweat of others.
There surely must be a special place in hell reserved for these Shameless thieves.

clockwisereport:
...especially Omoku people.

They give their wards names in pidgin english

mansakhalifa:
Is the girl's name really Spice

What were her parents thinking?

atheistandproud:
Very true

loneprof:
When I was saying this, some rude guys like seanwilliam and bornricch were busy quoting me and saying all sorts of things... See your "Nigerian hacker" is not a Nigerian but a twitter staff

Cc: hahn

loneprof:
Including Bill Gates? Come on, that's a data breach at Twitter most likely.

loneprof:
Some of you typing "Nigerians" seem not to know that IT knowledge in this part of the world is still limited. Scams like this one are usually the work of an insider or from more advanced countries like Russia, China, India or the US itself. I don't really know for sure, but I'm willing to bet it's not a Nigerian. Hushpuppi and co. just send business compromise emails to get account details with fake internet IDs, I believe this is way advanced...

tintingz:
Will and Jada were in open marriage, no need to stress yourself with this epistle.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
I believe you're smarter than this.

WebCreator:
Jesus Christ!!!! May God be with their families

kingxsamz:
You wrote those things based on your superstitious beliefs...
Not everyone is a Christian or Muslim.

tranxo:
Na dinner I go attend

TheSourcerer:
To Every police man out there , keep up the great work

azvm:
2014. i met a guy on Nairaland, i'll call him C. i'm not a new member, only using a new moniker. I was 27, him 29 (now we're 32, 35). i'm yoruba, him igbo. we met in Religion where we were encouraging one suicidal, depressed dude in a thread. he PMed me abt liking what i wrote then the friendship began. we had things in common, had interesting discussions, talked about ourselves and families, problems, etc. we agreed to be in a ldr, communicated mostly over email, whatsapp texts. we've done video calls too several times and till three years ago but i put a stop to them bc he was always asking me to show him parts of my body

2016. i was doing a school research project i needed a website for. C told me he knew someone in Nigeria to build it for me, said he would pay him the money, about $100. after the website was built , a week later he started hampering me to return the money, hurling insults at me, telling me i stole his money and he would tell everyone i took his money and ran. i told him i thought the money had been a gift. we were in a relationship, i didn't think i had to return it. after all the verbal abuse i sent him the money -actually sent him more than $100, then he was happy. it wasn't until i told him how bad his behavior was towards me that he apologized. after this, he wanted me to visit him in Nigeria (we had talked abt me visiting Nigeria since 2015) but i couldn't make it. he soon quit talking to me, disappeared. i didn't hear from him at all for three months, no calls, no nothing. i ended up meeting a man here, a Jamaican. i wasn't attracted to this man, we weren't in a relationship. i don't want to get into these details but i was sexually assaulted and lost my virginity, at 29. i reported to the police last year, it's still an ongoing police case. i somehow blame C. i've felt if he hadn't disappeared i wouldn't hv fallen into the hands of this rapist. C knew my goal was always to save myself for marriage like i had been doing.

rewind. some background. before i met C, i was in a relationship when i was 25, in 2012.
2012. i met a yoruba guy my Uni. he was an international student. we never had sex due to me wanting to wait for marriage. we kissed, hugged during our weekly outings. we saw each other once a week for movies, dinner, bowling. he ended up cheating. 7 months later, i broke up w him. this dude is history but is who i consider my ex if you ask who my ex is. i consider this relationship my first ever relationship, the only real-life relationship i've ever been in all my life, though a non-sexual one.

back to C.
2017. he did encourage me after i told him what had happened to me, provided moral support. but he then disappeared again. when he contacted me four months later, i was upset, we exchanged some words over email- mostly me calling him dishonest, unfaithful, untrustworthy, which were all true. he took things too far and was verbally abusive calling me horrible names and using the things i've told him about myself to insult me, like the sexual assault. he apologized later but i was quite hurt. we decided to start anew for a relationship mostly doing whatsapp texts and email as usual. he isn't a phone call person, he has the tendency to need his space for a week a two- i never complained.

2018. he disappeared again this time for 8 months, from april to november, no communication at all. i had told myself to forget about him. he suddenly called my phone one november afternoon 5 times. when we got to talking he confessed he was engaged to an igbo girl in Nigeria, was busy making preparations for the marriage but her family were making too many financial demands so he opted to call it off. i was shocked to hear he had been engaged. i told him he only contacted me again since the marriage plans didn't work out. he apologized, said it's me he wants to marry, i'm a simple girl, i'll give him peace of mind, blah blab blah. he wanted us to start where we left off. i told him i no longer trusted him but said we could try again, see where it goes

2019. we continue and things were fine till Valentine's Day. a week before V-day he said he loved me, promised to never leave me again. on Valentine's day i got no Valentine's message from him either or email or whatsapp, no call, nothing. meanwhile i would see him on whatsapp. fast forward to two weeks later i needed a logo for a blog of mine. i found a guy on nairaland for it. initially i wanted to send C the money to give to the guy but i decided to send him the money myself, i sent him the money then C started ignoring me. long story short the guy didn't send my logo after receiving the money. i told C, asked him to call the guy for me to release my logo, he refused. after this, i stopped communicating with C myself this time, he didn't contact me either, not till later last year

2020. fast forward to last month he told me abt his laptop which got damaged after a power outage. i started looking online to buy another laptop for him ( i didn't tell him ). my plan was to surprise him, send it to him for his birthday in October. we chatted on whatsapp the next day, i was doing my best to make him feel better, asked him what laptop he's using now, other questions to show him i care. all of a sudden he went of on me calling me deplorable n all sorts of names, saying stuff he knows will hurt me. i dunno maybe he was having a bad day or what. i told him i was planning to buy another laptop for him but he carried on insulting me. i blocked him. asides, his communication towards me recently has been sexual -he's always talkn abt wanting to make love to me, how attracted he is to me ( he has my pics ), how i'm his fantasy. he emailed me days later talkn abt me being the love of his life. he first refused apologizing for all his insults said over whatsapp, he said he doesn't need to apologize before i forgive. he finally said "i'm sorry ok" days later, i told him there's no more relationship. he says he doesn't want to let me go, i'm the only one who understands him. lately i've been thinking abt sponsoring him or going to nigeria to marry him. despite the fights he hs been my friend over the years. plus i'm thinking being in the same place may help us bond a lot better, start a family someday. my fears are he may not be a good father or husband, will be abusive, or i may find out he's got a wife in Nigeria. what do u guys think i should do?


*he's still on nairaland though not too active. he may or may not see this thread... it wouldn't matter either way.

*please, before anyone writes this is a fake story, everything above is what i've been through, my experience, 200% true.

alexvic12:
Please, anyone with a link to live streaming mention me.
Thanks.

Righteousness89:
All I have to Say!
Thank you JESUS for Saving that Child!

tsephanyah:
Like seriously.. What type of economic system does Nigeria have, socialist or capitalist?

tillaman:
He’s very good but it’s a no no if he was my kid!!!
I’ll rather have him attend judo or ju jitsu classes other than ballet
That’s me though

Nooel1:
And the bible says, God created man in his own image and likeness.

The brain, wisdom and intelligence behind that successful surgery was made possible by God and him alone deserves all the praise and glory.

What other miracle can be greater than that?

Thank you.

CAPSLOCKED:
I'M NUMBER 14 ON THE DEATH LIST.

MATURELION:
lol the guy is some fvcked up extrovert like that you know those type of peope who feel anything goes

Hakeem12:
lol, an idiot, that's who. I've actually heard someone in passing compare his camon12 to iPhone XS max, I stopped and stared at him so hard, to tear him slap dey hungry me.

MATURELION:
that was how one wanna be tech guy in my school who uses infinix wanted to cast my Samsung device saying his own camera pass my own I just kept quiet and let him have a feel of my device while I ran out to meet a lecturer via clearance stuffs I did not ignore him completely I kept an eye on him as he was comparing both cameras and other things, he seemed to be full of regret for getting that infinix it was showing on his face cos he's the type that don't hide his mouth if he wants to say something, I just smiled and took back my phone as he quietly gave it back to me