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[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=148530.msg2470010#msg2470010 date=1215383500]I'm inclined to disagree,

there are people who believe in the idea of love and would brave any challenges in its name. . .

the poor girl may have space for genuine love but the pressures of a life full of hardships will take priroity over whatever fanstasies she has.[/quote]At the end of the day, Money ANSWERETH everything!!!!!
Many men get their hearts broken because they are not willing to accept the chic they are after is a tad more sophisticated than 'em.

mekaboy:
this is exactly the reason why, there is increase in crime rate in Nigeria, because guys who are poor now have to steal and cheap to buy love, since the ladies here say that love is now for sale.

Is that why crime rate has really soared?? I don't think so. . . .
Even when there were moral values in Naija, criminals were lying everywhere.
Let everyone find the class that suits him/her.

Rich boy + Rich babe. . . . . Poor boy + Poor babe.

@ Eldee,

Cayon was the babe that showed her naked butt on a pic when i was Xerxes.
I had to take the Holy Communion after the ordeal.
Has she repented??

@ SLY,

Naija chics are about money. . . .
They are very business-minded when it comes to the issue of money.
Their love has a price-tag. . . . If u match it, then its bingo!!!!

@ Cayon,

U are still here??

mekaboy:
So if she finds someone that will treat her better than the one that treated her nice, she will go for that one and start to grow her love again ?

What has a poor man gotta offer??
The word NICE has 99% attachment to MONEY.

@ Eldee,

The most shocking thang about UNILAG chics is the fact that they have normal boy/friends on the campus.
But as soon as the sun sets and those SUVs with dayton spokes start rolling in. . . . .They become hi-klass hookers.
All those lil boys running errands have bug albums of pictures displaying these gurls in different postures(nude n unnude). . .
Is that REAL LOVE to their chewing-gum boy/fs??

mekaboy:
Any love that is based on materialism is not true love, most of your mothers married your fathers when they had no dime yet there were still rich men toasting them then. True or False ?

False!!!!
Most women married the best they could find in em days.
Wealth is a relative word. . . . . .What is super-rich to Mr A maybe poverty stricken for Mr B.
No woman would set out to date a poor boy. . . . . If u believe in that nonsense, u are toast!!!

Can A Poor Girl Love Genuinely ?

Of course, NO!!!!!!
A poor chic with massive responsibilities on her shoulder can never ever love genuinely.
This is why there are so many Unilag chics doing academicised prostitution.

@ Eldee,

Beware of poor women, they would milk u dry.

The Sly:
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Poor girl will never love a poor cat. . . . . .
Sorry guys. . . .You stand the chance of losing your girl if you don't have enough papers!

Touche. . . . .

One thing about women is their selfish pursuit of comfort. . . .
A successful woman would hardly date a man on the lower rung of the ladder unless there's something wrong with her physically.
However, a successful man would date anyone either higher, middle-class or lower.
Afterall, the young Prince dated Cinderella. . . .

stillwater:
Pleeeaaassseee!!!!! Playing hard to get or not, she has a boyfriend, let's take her word for it!!!!!!
I don't even think the poster is innocent. . .
His username speaks for itself. . . The game What's that?

I am not taking her word for it!!!!
She is interested. . . . . . . .

So a guy has to be innocent to be considered a boy/f??
The Game is a good username. . . . . The guy's got game.

stillwater:
When and where did the poster say all these, mmmhh?
Your spider senses must be filled with mushrooms, no more no less.

Read between the lines.
This gurl is just playing hard to GET. . . . Naija gurls do that a lot to prove decency.
Ma spider senses is top draw. Don't joke with it.

He who tries to steal another man's girlfriend cannot be classy in my eyes.

Steal girlfriend??
The gurl is not legally engaged with the dude so what has class gotta do with it??
How are we sure the so called boyfriend is not humping away as we speak??

stillwater:
What's so personal about saying I have a boyfriend? Remind me what century are we again.
Upgrade? Not as easy as it sounds, dear.

She didn't only say she had a boy/f. . . . She told him where the guy was. . . .whatz his name his n reh reh reh.
Trust me, this babe wants some action. . . She is only playing hard to get.
Ma spider senses tell me this babe is there for the taking.

Whatchu mean by upgrade??
What makes u think this guy is not even classier than the babe??
Don't make wrong assumptions, Stilly.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=148251.msg2467099#msg2467099 date=1215310122]oh that is what it means?
Guys hassle because they believe that all women are indecisive. The lady in this situation knows what she wants and she wants her boyfriend. Why tell him to continue when you know that will generate some confusion in her life? She has said her piece and the dude should move on.
Girls know what they want but they always hope that they are not chasing away the potential hubby. This dude will make the situation harder for the lady and himself.
She has rejected him politely, let him leave politely - do not let the girl disgrace him in front of many people.
Too much of everything is bad but then too little is not that helpful either. Possessiveness has to be in a relationship at a level where they are not jealous but they actually care.,[/quote]I know gurls know what they want and this is why many of em get in a fix with 2 or more MEN.
Let this guy continue. This babe and her boyfriend(that is if he really exists) don't have a future together. . . .Are they married/engaged??
I cannot advise this guy to stop pressing. . . . .He should pursue this issue like a Federal Government contract.

Possessiveness is a female trait. . . . . . I cannot stand it.
The men who engaged in it are social deviants. . . . .Why do i need to know what ma babe was doing where and when??
Let her shag if she wants to . . . .The day i get to know, i kick her out like POLIO.
Nuff said!!!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=148251.msg2467082#msg2467082 date=1215309201]What does "tumbles in the hay" mean?
I have never ever done anything like that o![/quote]Don't lie to me. . . . . .Ya brother gave me your diary.
Tumble in the hay means. . . . .ferocious shagging.

You are doing that because the guy needs encouragement to go after the girl. Once he gets it, he might be able to get the girl's weaknesses and use them against her. That is why I hate it when guys hassle because they hassle like there is no tomorrow till they get you.
If you truly like your girl enough, you would be concerned about other buyers surveying her especially when you have no legal hold on her.

Guys hassle because women are so deceptive u never can tell their GAME from the TRUTH.
If ma girl loves me enough, she would surround herself with a protective shield and swat geezers off like FLIES.
If she's gullible enough to allow men to survey her knickers then she should bear the brunt.
Like i have said, i just can't be bovvered. Possessive. . . . Nah, never have, never will.

stillwater:
For all we know, the poster might not even meet up to the girl's standard.

What standard??
The gurl told this dude about her personal relationship. . . . . .She musta given the guy an audience so thats one foot IN.
Who says the guy can't upgrade his standards to meet the gurl's requirements.

stillwater:
There's no rule that a relationship between the poster and the girl in the same school would last either.

Of course, nuthing is guaranteed but any smart chic would still take this option than someone u don't see everytime.


[quote author=j-girl link=topic=148251.msg2467066#msg2467066 date=1215308621]Well she might be one of the rare ones.
I did NOT date any dude in my first year of uni.
I can swear here - I'm a good girl oooo [/quote]U couldn't have been a good gurl in your 1st year!!!!
J-girl def'ly had some tumbles in the hay.
Lets leave that for anutha day!!!

You are encouraging the guy to help the girl cheat and it's wrong.
Let him leave her alone.
What you don't know will kill you slower than you think because nothing is hidden under the sun not even the guys hassling your girl. You better care now if not, you'll just see your girl dumping you like hot potato for the new guy.

I am not encouraging the dude to help a gurl cheat. . . . .
How did u reach that conclusion??

Why should i care about what i know nuthing about?
I can't be bovvered . . . . until i catch her at it!!!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=148251.msg2467055#msg2467055 date=1215307887]What if she has an actual boyfriend who she loves with all her heart?
She doesn't need a companion in school, she needs a friend because her companion is in another school
In this case, the poster refuses to see that this girl is taken.
Let her fly with her man.
Stop encouraging the girl to cheat - it's just not right.
How would you like it if your girl was constantly being hassled by another dude even though she's told him that she wants only you?[/quote]If she's got an actual boyfriend who she loves with all her heart??  It rarely happens with FRESHERS.
For a female fresher, new school is new environment and maybe new boy/friend.
Swear here u didn't celebrate your admission with a hunk in his sophomore year!!!

I am not encouraging a gurl to cheat. . . . I am encouraging the geezer to press ahead and take whatz his!!!!
How do i know ma babe is not constantly hassled by anutha dude? Do i even care??
What i dunno won't kill me? The decision lies with the mamachula NOT me!!!

stillwater:
As usual, blame the girl  and leave the girlfriend snatcher out of it.

Thats not the point, Senora!!!

This gurl is just using evasive strategy to put this guy off momentarily!!!
She has got no boy/f anywhere. . . . and even if she has one, it's only a matter of time before the cookie crumblez.
95% of Freshers had boy/fs but after one or 2 semesters, they dump em and sync with men they can see n monitor.
Asking this man to layoff is like telling him to pave way for someone else who would walk away with the goldmine.
Like NIKE: he should JUST DO IT.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=148251.msg2467039#msg2467039 date=1215307083]How are you sure she gave him the awkward eye?
What if the guy is just blindly chasing and cannot see the signals, huh?
He should not guilt the girl into dating him - that's wrong on so many levels.[/quote]This babe is not 12/13 . . . She is an adult!!!!

Besides, her phantom boy/f is in anutha school. . . . .The poster n the babe are in the same school.
If the poster does not make a move now, somebody else would. . . .This happens in schoolz from time to time.
How can a guy blindly chase a babe?? Is he a BAT??
Trust me, this babe needs a companion in skool(She's a fresher).
Let her FLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=148251.msg2467028#msg2467028 date=1215306584]@ poster, leave her alone - do not cause a girl to cheat on her love abeg.
Just close your eyes and move on.
It's much better.

Very soon - the other guy might come on Nairaland shouting that his girl is cheating on him[/quote]He should close his eyes and move on??
If the gurl was serious about her boy/f. . . . She shouldn't have given this guy the awkward eye!!!
How are we even sure she genuinely has a boy/f.
Poster should forge ahead and get this babe by hook/crook.

chiogo:
@Hannibal, let's be honest here, fiddy is wack. He used to be good but 'curtis' was bullshit, no kidding eg. 'Ayo technology' (what's that?), 'follow my lead'. Kanye west won, plain and simple. Rocafella records bought kanye's album??, what a joke! I just looked below your user name and you stay in UK, how do u know all this? No, seriously. Kanye was better than 50 in '07, just accept it. And about Kanye's lyrics being too clean, big lie. He curses a whole lot! I never heard his songs at no bank, who feeds u all these lies? . To be honest, I don't care about kanye's music either but u gotta admit he killed 50 last year. Truth is nobody feels fiddy's music anymore. His music is meant for OGs my ass. The G-unit crew are homo thugs.

Fiddy is wack because "CURTIS" didn't slam 5 mics?? Thatz the joke of the century.
What about his other albums?? Get Rich. . . ., Massacre and The Soundtrack of his motion picture??
Seriously, go n listen to T.O.S.(that should convince u).

What has where i reside gotta do with ma vault of information?? Chiogo. . . . .don't make me leave a gash on ur pretty face.
Kanye is this, Kanye is that. . . . . Kanye is wack!!!!
Nobody feels Fiddy anymore so who buys his album? Poltergeists or Fallen Angels??
G-unit are homo thugz?? Vivica Fox didn't see it that way and i can bet Ciara is not seeing it that way too.

stillwater:
Whether it washes with you or not, tell your brothers, you inclusive, to please WASH YOUR MOUTHS, ah, ah

Me inclusive??

Don't make me kick your butt!!!
You cannot compare me to your aproka boy/fs.
Dang it!!  You should tell those sisters too with dracula-ish canines to take it easy on Naija brothers.
Kissing is not about biting a man's tongue with the same jaw pressure as cutting sugarcane.

stillwater:
My response. . .

Halitosis factor don't wash with me. . . .
It's not as if these Naija girls are orally hygienic as well. . .
Some of em have eczema on their teeth too so what are u on about??

@ Pataki,

When was the last time u went to Lagos??

Jeeeeeez, u would be surprised at the dentition of most Naija babes . . .It's terrifying.

stillwater:
@ poster

I can only say halitosis could be the reason they feel irritated with your kisses.

This drives me mad when i hear em as excuses.
Halitosis in the 21st century?? What kind of men do u kiss??
Men carry altoids in their pockets these days so forget Halitosis.

The Sly:
Most of 'em are rookies. . . . .plastering spits all over your face all in the name of kissing

Plastering spittlez in one's face is manageable.
Some of em would nearly bite your tongue or yank it off your tonsil!!!
They sometimes get carried away thinking a man's tongue is plantain!!!

SLY, where is Eldee??

sugeray:
I have been with alot and not too many of females and Only out of 100% i have kissing contact with Only 30% of Them which i am not always confortable It.

Most time i start the mood by trying to Kiss them all tthey excuses they give me in return her as below:

1. Irritation
2: In ability to With stand the Stress
3. I think it increases the Love in between but when they refuse to be submicive they wont.
4. Illitracy
5. Social Life 0%

This is my View regarding This,  I enjoy it and would need a partner who is a freak aswell.

Let me hear your View.

Most women are not good at it. . . . . .so they feign irritation.

RedHotChic:
Even if you have 3 kids with her and run the risk of losing them if you decide otherwise?

Why didn't she think of that before dialling 999 in the 1st place??

RedHotChic:
Question:

Will you still go back to a woman that called the popo on you and locked you in jail for a night?

Go back to who??
More like kick her out like POLIO!!!!

RedHotChic:
Theoretical self confidence!!!!

U shall see it in practical one day!!!!

RedHotChic:
Your lack of real liver is really affecting every specter of your life.

Trust me, i am yet to meet anyone that can match ma self-confidence.
Nuthing fazes me. . . . . .not even RedHotChic that hails from Ilesha.
To me, you are just anutha chic from Osun State.

RedHotChic:
Whatever! Talk is cheap!!!!!!

Funmi, you are a super-prat!!!
Did ur boo tie u up last night or engaged u in a 3some??
Why all these lewd questions?

RedHotChic:
But Hannibbal and Sly claimed they don't ever have butterflies?

Butter-flies me ass!!!! Try mosquitoes.

RedHotChic:
Even when it's a chic you've been looking for the slightest opportunity to nail and she gave you that option as the only way?

She should take her honey-pot to Sodom n Gommorrah.

RedHotChic:
Question:
Will you as a guy agree to a party if it involves another guy and just one chic?

Never!!!!!
A thorough bred Naija guy's definition of 3some is basically one guy and 2 HOT chics.
Naija men don't short-change themselves.

RedHotChic:
You mean if you stand on the sycamore tree after climbing it and look down on her?

Stop this already!!!!
Ilesha babe.

RedHotChic:
Stop lying, if you broke that barrier at 15, how come you played the junior soccer championship @13 which takes 4.4? Did you grow over 1 ft in two years?

Junior soccer championship?? Never.
I was buried in ma Physics and Chemistry at that age!!!

For your side, Ibkaye just bounced you because of height. damn!!!!! If it were me, I'll eat one bag of beans in one week to add more height

Ibkaye is a dwarf to me. . . .
If i stand, i would be looking at the centre of her head.

RedHotChic:
That means that Cannibal AKA Jackal no get hope for your side na because he's like 5.5 with an ego than is taller than the sears tower.

Hope for whose side?? Are u on cheap crack??
5.5?? I broke that barrier when i was 15.

RedHotChic:
Most Naija guys are into handcuffs now. Whats going on? Are they watching too many movies or is it just a fantasy thing?

I doubt it . . . . .
Trust me, i don't see any Ilesha geezer toying with handcuffs and whips.
Naija guys just jump straight into the main course . . . . . no appetizers.

RedHotChic:
Even at the detriment of your life? What kind of pleasure is that?

A certain degree of trust must be established to have S & M with a chic!!!!
White peops are crazy cos to be honest, it makes no sense to me.
There's no pleasure in PAIN!!!