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davidylan:
same goes for most men. BUT to put the physical before romance is a sure sign you're not going to last. You mean to say the initial thought that comes to your mind when you first saw her was how to lay her?

No. . . . . .Do u have such a dirty mind??

The woman has to be pleasing/appealing to the eye before ma brain tells me to forge ahead.
That is the physical aspect i am talking about not sex. . . .

Everything has to be put in place.
Her vital statistics must check out and fall in the range of what i want.
Is that sex?

So remove the speck in your tiny eyes before calling me a midget.

onyinye2:
@ hannibal

i have to agree with david on that one.

Please expantiate. . . .

As for me and many people i know, i can only date and fall in love with a woman i am physically attracted to. . .
U will not find me dead beside someone i am not attracted to. . . .I don't date cos i pity or all that rass cloth. . . It has to be right.
I know what i want in ma mind's eye and i go for it.

So it's physical B4 Romance.

stillwater:
Continue deceiving yourself.

Deception from me? Nah, not likely.
I say things in the purest form. . . .and i think you are more Frodo than Goliath.

onyinye2:
@ hannibal

of course physical comes first. unless you are a mind reader. but the girl you were talking about didnt really know you as a person. all she cared about was the physically. sounds superficial to me. after the physical you get to know the person outside their looks.

It's not superficial. . . . . Thats the way things develop.
Relationship starts from the physical before it develops into romance.

Goliath ma foot!!!

Try Frodo Baggins.

onyinye2:
@ hannibal

that "girl" had no romantic attraction to you. it was only physical. probably just trying to get a piece of action from you and leave you. no offense.

Exactly ma point!!!

This is where women get it wrong. . . .
U have to be physically attracted to a guy before u can even date him. . . . . .
Girls talk about romance. . . . .but which comes first??

Midget??
Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeeaze. . . .

Ma close allies would tell u i am a giant. . . . 183 centimetres is not ma idea of a midget unless you are GOLIATH.

eldee:
Blame the movies for the 'fireworks' and 'connection' myths
The funniest one is 'we were made for each other'  

Don't mind these chics . . . . They are so romantically fraudulent.
A gurl was purring over me some years ago how cute i look and reh reh reh and i popped the question. . .
I was like, would u feel the same if i was an albino with a hunch on me back?? She said HELL NO. . . .
If we were made for each other, nothing should matter. . . .Isn't it??

stillwater:
Short man devil.

6'1" is short??
What a laugh. . . . .

Anyways, size zero!!!!

[quote author=made.n.9ja link=topic=146637.msg2438227#msg2438227 date=1214788642]Also it's not like Hannibal has no emotions, maybe they've just flown from his heart and down south of his body and a place where the sun don't shine, lol, dude, trust me, u're a role model to lots of people,[/quote]Come on, dude . . . . .I am not a ROBOT.
I just don't believe in all those "thunderbolt" myths that hit a guy when they see that special woman.

Succubus.

stillwater:
A low IQ is more like it.

6th sense surpasses the brainiest person in the world.
The 6th sense is bionic.

stillwater:
When did you become me to decide my taste? mmmhhh

Scientists call it 6th sense.

[quote author=made.n.9ja link=topic=146637.msg2438199#msg2438199 date=1214787920]@Hannibal, I am laughing so hard at what u said,
but come on man, at least if someone has been with several people, thre must've been that one person that stood out,
even u, i'm sure u've taht 'one person' that u liked the most, out of all of the rest, be honest,[/quote]U make this sound as if i dated all of em in one day and it's easy to choose the best out of the whole lot.
It'd be unfair to judge em like that. . . . . .The "Ronke" u dated 5 years ago was hooked under different circumstances and diffferent "state of mind" to Chinyere you are dating now.  So how do we tell which one is the best??

A gurl that left u when u were still broke 5 years ago wouldn't do the same today if u are rich. . . .Thats the way LIFE is.
Blimey. . . .The chic that is glued to u today might not even look at u 8 years ago when u were still a struggling student, isn't it??

Bored??

Grab your TV remote n watch ur fav. show(Jerry Springer).

onyinye2:
@hannibal

oka i have dated here and there and to tell you the truth none of them made me feel "special" the way i knew it was suppose to feel. but your soul mate will give you a feeling that no other can give. you are denying this because you have yet to meet your soul mate. but come holla at me when you do. watch your responses change.

It's a MYTH.
There's nuthing like "feel special".
How are we supposed to believe u didn't feel tipsy in the arms of your dates. . . . U better start fessing up.

stillwater:
I knew who he was. The question was why Jack Black of all people?

It appears u are compatible with him.

onyinye2:
romance killer. it is so not at myth. i feel that when i meet the person i was suppose to be with that it would be more than special. more on the grounds of magical.

Puhleeeeaze, spare me!!!!

Every guy a gurl got involved with in a relationship made her feel "super special" . . . . Thatz the myth.
If a gurl had been with 6 men before her marriage, any of those 6 guyz could have been named flesh of ma flesh, blood of ma blood. .
Geddit??

stillwater:
No. I like my space.

Is there a standard one must work with?
I can call a chic 40 times on monday and never call for the next 4 days.
Everything depends on what pans out. . . . .

All these boring topics, ehh?

onyinye2:
then i would say you have been listening to 2pac's "i get around" song way too much

Nah. . . . . . . . . .
I listen to 50's "get in my car" way too much.

[quote author=made.n.9ja link=topic=146637.msg2438150#msg2438150 date=1214786592]@Hannibal, u are one funny fellow, have u really met so many that made u feel that way, lucky u, i haven't even met one,[/quote]Just kidding. . . . . .
All i was tryna say to Onyinye was. . . . Chics that makes one feel special is just a myth.
People say that on wedding days to massage the ego of their spouses . . . What can one possibly say on such day??

NubianQ:
There is nothing wrong with being single @ your age. enjoy life,

You are wicked!!!!

stillwater:
Jack Black?

U should know that dummy-looking comedian/actor/musician . . . .
He starred in King Kong.

@ Doyin13,

You are onyoshi, onyara and anuofia moulded together.

onyinye2:
i don't want this to sound like a cliche but you will know when you meet her. i mean you will really know. you will have a feeling for this girl that you havent experienced with any other. she will make you feel like the king of the earth and also make you feel below it also. just let God lay his path for you and your wife shall be given on to you.

Is that how to tell one's flesh and bone??
What if i tell u i have met over a dozen chics that made me feel this way??

doyin13:
Oloriburuku

What the Bleep is oloriburuku??
If i find out it's some curse or shittery, u are in for a long night of trouble.
I'll be back for u.

[quote author=made.n.9ja link=topic=146637.msg2438113#msg2438113 date=1214785484]@Hannibal, of course I have hobbies, who doesn't. I'm an active basketball player, in fact that's what I do with most of my time. I simply love the game and I don't' even know what I'd do with out it. I watch the NBA alot and play all the the time.

Abt making money, I don't mean to blow my horn but I feel like at this point in my life, I've attained a reasonable level of success, I'm an engineer, been working with a multinatinational oil company for a couple of years now, lots of trips to europe , US during the holidays and I got lots of girls around(not sounding cocky again), I've a master's degree, always wanted to get a PhD, later in life, maybe I should start it now sef,

But at the end of the day, I still feel like there's something missing[/quote]Nuthing is missing.
Human beings are naturally insatiable so we always feel something is missing every single minute.
Granted, you are educated, successful with a lot of hobbies but is marriage the next step? At 27??
Slow ur roll, hombre.

U got a lot of gurls around? Get busy with em until you are fully matured to handle marriage.
Go for the kill when you are ready to marry. . . . .
These days, it's not sumthing u plan 5 years in advance. . . .a lot of em sisters out there are phoney.

onyinye2:
Well Hannibal i feel 2pac was a very gifted rapper. is lyrics were ill and can be recited all over the world. i went to italy and there were folk rapping "Smile"

Of course, 2pac was gifted in his own way but then Biggie was legendary(apologies to Eldee).
I went to Hong Kong and Asian chics were were miming "Mo' money mo' problems"

@ Kaydee,

Biggie borrowed ideas from Nas??
You could get shot for saying such. . . . . . They were totally different in style n suave. . . . .
Biggie was a man of his own . . . . . . . .Go and listen to "We will survive" and see how Nas was purring over Biggie's enormous talents.

stillwater:
When did I ever say that?

Oooooops, ma bad!!!!
I was meant to say Keanu "Constantine" Reeves.

eldee:
Nah . . . I'll still prefer to marry smone that you'll take out and no one will ask 'Is that you mum?'
Freshly tapped? that's the fun na . . .

Ok then. . . . . .I just felt u like em old n beefy like Doyin13.

[quote author=made.n.9ja link=topic=146637.msg2438028#msg2438028 date=1214782913]Hannibal,

What I'm trying to say exactly is that I'm tired of "thuggin on", I mean, one can only do it for so long, u'll definitely burn out and get tired,

All the clubbing thing doesn't really appeal to me anymore, not like before at least, I think thre's more to life,

Like just earlier on today, I saw this amazing young couple eating out, with their cute little daughter, it was so nice watching them, I said to myself, "that ought to be more, right thre",

Maybe I should just wait for my time like Onyinye says, But man, I've been waiting, and waiting and waiting some more,[/quote]Senor, If u are tired of "clubbing" then i suggest you try other activities like swimming, skiing and climbing mountains.
Of course, one gets tired chasing women up n down the city but that ain't reason enough to get married just like that.
90% of the peops that rushed into marriage seperated after few years. . . . . .

Marriage ain't that easy. . . .The thunk of putting a woman in one's house for the rest of one's life is a huge task.
At 27, you should be thinking of stashing enough cheddarz in a Swiss account. . . . leave marriage o'utta the situation now.
Be patient and wait for the right time to marry. . . .

eldee:
Place your cards fast . . . he's buying me to his side already

U wanna listen to a man eater??
The same chic that feels Naija men ain't worth the salt plus she wants to date Tom Cruise(married)??

@ Poster,

At 27, you are a tad young to be thinking about commitment.
When you are ready to marry, a bride will def'ly show up somewhere.
Thats the rule to the game but for now. . . . .THUG ON!!!!

@ Topic,

Stylee. . . . . . . . . .DJ Jimmy Jatt, 2Face and Elajoe.

onyinye2:
truly questionable. i think biggie is [b]one [/b]of the most gifted rappers.

Name us the gifted rappers, please!!!!