₦airaland Forum

petomas:
Please what's the name of the Stanbic IBTC Mutual Funds on apps stores? I couldn't download any to avoid getting the wrong one.

Stanbic IBTC Mobile v3

On their latest app. You would see BluNest. You can use that to view your mutual funds

Esthered:
I can't.

I stopped reading here

[s]But if he loves her, he can help her to get a better job, encourage her to pursue something better as sometimes we just need someone to believe in us[/s]

He has to study her to know if she's laid-back or she didn't have opportunities due to limiting factors from her parents like no sponsorship for higher education....

If it's the later, he can help her get/do something better..... if it's the former, he's preparing to bear almost all the bills as she will be full of excuses to do better and worse when children starts coming. [/s]

You can see where i stopped reading.

You are one of those people that give advise that you yourself will not take/do.

Why advise a man to settle for less when it’s something you will never do. Why don’t you help the 56 year old man to do better if you love him.

Instead love wasn’t even in your equation at all. “I can’t” fullstop. Why should a man even give consideration to such when he like you is in a far better position and can do far better

Note: the polar opposite of a 38 year old, financially unstable and unmarried woman is a 56 year old, financially unstable and unmarried man. It is NOT a 38 year old man - unlike the 38 year old women, a 38 year old man hasn’t peaked and has small chance to pivot and turn around his life (before 45).

Esthered:
Why do you need online validation or invalidating to make to make your decision?

I thought love conquers all.

Lool some of you ehn. You are bad advisers.

Love conquers all kwa.

Esther can you marry a 56 years old man that is financially unstable, please tell us

The level of double standard that is inbuilt some people ehn.

UyaiIncomparabl:
It is wrong to string people along knowing that you won't eventually settle with them. That's plain wickedness. It is better to set them free so that someone else can have them since you don't deem them fit for marriage.

We are not naive here. Let’s stop using emotional manipulation, trying to play the ostrich.

A woman that has decided to be with a man, it is of her own decision. She is not under lock and key.

She would leave in a heartbeat if she finds “someone better” and feels the current relationship is not going anywhere. She is there cause she hasn’t found. Women are far more pragmatic than man.

She is not a victim here. Why didn’t Christian Ronald’s girlfriend leave, for years the whole world (including her), have known he has made a decision not to get married to her.

How do you misappropriate a whopping N4 billion

God is so wise. I have started to see sense in “hellfire”.

Suffering for eternity in a lake pf fire for mortal sins, cause how do you adequately punish this kind of offense in a nation that some children haven’t had anything to eat today as i type

Omoapena:
this wasn't exactly what you said, don't ridicule your wife online.

that's no respectful way to propose.

Mscheww shift away from here with your crowd mentality.

Which one is respectful way to propose. Until he takes loan and spends 3 million on flowers then goes on his knees to grovel like a dog?!

Some of you have no mind of your own.

So far he is happy and the lady in question is happy. Both are happy you opinion no matter

pongwa:
swears...... Only a man can pick a girl from the gutters with no education, sponsor her through school, set up a business for her, and marry her. A woman can never, I repeat a woman can never do that. Our mumu never do

Men should be more pragmatic. If a woman would never do this, why are men doing such.

I have a friend working abroad, I told baba there are babes where you are (even Nigerian babes) marry there! Any babe living in Nigeria would be 100% ready to follow you abroad oo.

You won’t believe 3 months later this baba was in Nigeria doing one elaborate marriage proposal to a babe he wants to carry abroad. Well me just tell am congratulations and moved on.

Even if you no wan learn, life go teach you lessons by force by fire 🔥

CandyOps:
Just call his name- Don Baba J
When una ask why him never marry and without a babe what else did you think was the reason? Baba fit be gaybriel

If they sue you for everything your entire generation is worth now. You go talk say na rich dey oppress the poor.

Even the accuser, who should have evidence of what he is saying no fit mention anybody with full chest.

Don Baba J dey hin lane, You say na Don baba J evil ways make am never marry, you be God?! Na you dey provide better wife for every man wey dey fin wife

No worry, watery beans and plenty mosquitoes go reset your brain. Just pray hin no get your time.

uniquetechng:
All the people you mentioned left on their own, Ties, Rema and Ayra are doing just fine.

Are you minding these idle people.

Price of bread, reduce ke.

The problem of Nigeria is Nigerians. Greed has taken over the souls of too many.

Women don’t mind sharing one single great man. He won’t have any flaw as long as she needs him and he is useful to her.

Kobicove:
I hope he made her sign a pre-nup agreement first before agreeing to this marriage

They no dey tell person. Na why oyinbo talk say “a trial will convince you”.

Exousiang01:
Did you find out your wife was an introvert after your wedding?

Are you minding him.

Instead of him to keep his wife company in peace and quietness, he wants to introduce his wife to waka-waka lifestyle.

Let the lifestyle catch on, his next post will be “my wife doesn’t like to stay home”. Problem dey sleep, yanga go wake am

They talk say na “chinese eyes”.

What a racist comment

Originality29:
This is very good. At least the prisoners will have something to do.

We have wasting human resources in these prisoners. They are very much useful to us.

If we can establish more prison business and pay them even if its N100 per hour many of them would be eager to join the program. By the time they are out they have how know of a business or two.

Were you ever strong.

women!

You follow portable became his baby mama, you say you are tired of being strong, how?

And she accepted the money

This things begin from home, while when most are hungry why won’t she accept.

I remember those day, you dare not come back home with even an extra pencil that doesn’t belong to you.

Just watch as girls of nowadays won’t see a problem with it, when most if them were not brought up right.

Do you know what good book says about the thief and their theft? God himself cursed them, Stolen money/items will become fire 🔥, that you bring to your home. It will then consume itself plus all the thief’s possession - [Zechariah 5:4 - And this is what the LORD of Heaven’s Armies says: I am sending this curse into the house of every thief … and my curse will remain in that house and completely destroy it—even its timbers and stones.”

Dating in Nigeria. You’d see a woman that is jobless doing a financial assessment of a working man.

ogaemma:
They should charge them for forgery, is a criminal offense.
See how the moral structure of Nigeria have decayed.
Police will forge age
Judge's who are custodian's of the law will forge age.
Civil Servants will forge age.
President will forge age.
Useless country.
Infact Nigeria is a forge country.

Exactly, charge them!

It is not enough to just retire them.

If we can’t trust Judges who can we trust

I don’t know some people’s problem with social media. They just do everything to invite problems into their lives.

Sometging you would just get a lawyer to advise on and document then you kept quiet, instead cho cho cho now half of it the world knows; now you are the target for the wicked devices of some people’s heart.

JoeEeL:
And this is most likely ur quote abiiiiiiiiiiiiii?

She is no different, Women will tolerate a very successful man nothing hin fit do even cheating that is unforgivable. He would be tolerated up the time the women feel they no longer need him.

Women (including her) won’t even mind sharing a very successful man

You want to make olosho a wife, thinking she would change her waka when she is married lol.

The whole of nature will laugh at your folly

musa234:
Must men kneel to propose? Who brought such a rule?

Are you minding them, just following trending social norms blindly.

There is no need for any of them to kneel, but if anybody should kneel should not it be the women?

I pity this generation

Peakdesign23:
No be only bestie, that's why they've been breaking up with you because he's your real husband.

God forbid.

Her “real husband” was on the sidelines while she was taking dicktation in all these different relationships faa lol

Nothing musa no go see for gate

All these years she was ignoring him, just to “settle” for him when her plans don finish. The fool too dey kneel down lol

These jokers are still in Nigeria?? Lol

@seun this your 40 character requirement no make sense. What research is backing it?

When you pay staff shitty salaries with zero promotion and job prospect while senior management cart away billions, what do you expect.

I can never advise any of my younglings to take a zenith bank

MrHandsome2013:
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He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife.
No house of his own, no property,
No car , nothing.
What did he do with those 12 years.

Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities.

If e easy you sef go fit run am.

Please book mark this your trend. In the next 10 - 15 years, you will come back and tell us the legacy you have created for your children

@Seun abeg nothing must happen to Nairaland or this trend. Since this young man has the audacity to come online to disrespect his own father. You think say responsibility easy, your father has ran his race.

Don’t even think of laying blame on your father if you don’t make it in life, cuz you are obviously man enough to insult him then you are man enough to ensure your destiny is as you want.

We would be alive by God’s grace, We go wait you for here

saphiere:
Hit song isn't hot.
Give it away please.


Shfsjsbdksgel

Who has ever made a hit song in your family? (No be bashing, please tell us)

Shidinky:
It was answered in the post you quoted. If you can't understand it. Sorry I can't help

Oga we don’t understand. Tell us naa

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You see there are different kinda characters on the internet. Be careful whose’ opinion you even regard or give any attention.

Shidinky:
Maybe you failed English classes.

I agree with you I failed english

English master, please tell us in plain english how he paid for his university program. So we can understand.

SamuraiXXX:
You're indirectly telling us your cousin is a Yahoo boy for him to have been able to raise over 60% of his 30 Pounds school fees while I'm Nigeria

The english genius was trying to implore, that his cousin got the money working on student visa. That he could work and make enough to finance his program over there. Money wey people working full white collar can’t in a year.

Please let’s patiently wait for his lies

Shidinky:
Update us when he lands in Nigeria
My cousin even came to the UK paid of his 12k pounds schools fees balance in one year lol. (Try raising 12k pounds as a student in naija if you no be yahoo boy)
Una dey compare reasonable country with country wey first class deu drive Okada and tipper for dangote

Stop giving us half-story.

This my guy also paid his fees within one year from his savings from Nigeria, same price range.

…now tell us exactly how your cousin paid his own fees?