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If your mother is a single-mother by choice, it very advisable to keep her at bay from your marriage!

Most women subconsciously like to put other woman in their own unhappy situation. “You mean your husband did this!, I can never take such from a man, this is what you should do!”

A word is enough for the wise.

God forbid.

I don’t think hell is enough, God definitely had the right idea to make an eternal furnace though.

If you check it is people that speak the same language kidnapping their own kinsmen all for “money”.

I hear the unspoken from Anambra these days, money is the underllining factor in all of them. Smh

Seunpapa65:
Greed is not a good thing at least she should have stopped but greed got better of her

These kind of women are liabilities even to themselves.

For them its spend spend spend, nothing would ever be sufficient to a leech that only consumes

If were Dangote I would sue the e-goat and make sure she spends time cooling of one mosquito filled cell.

Imagine make a video shouting “Dangote killed your sister” how? Na Dangote dey drive? Na Dangote himself recruit the driver?

Most Nigerians don’t respect themselves, if you treat them in an animalistic way, people would say you are oppressing cuz you have money

nairalee:
When Rema said he's not gonna take it easy on his haters I never knew he meant he'll steal from them

Wetin the boy no dey thief.

From hin “friend” laptop wey hin thief you’d know he can do anything to get ahead.

This kin person fit sacrifice you

irumole1975:
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[/b]and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.

Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.

Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego

An African proverb goes something like “many are mad, only few are roaming”.

A woman that cheated well cheat again and again and again till she ka-put the so-called husband

WINDSOW:
Your village people just give you close marking.

Lool i no even understand the guy story.

The email deleted (okay fine). Then the same mail got deleted from trash again (this one tie wrapper).

Did the entire village vow that he won’t make it in life, cuz i no even understand

bassdow:
But seriously, this people need be careful so as not to raise blood pressure of some people. You need see the way I was giving one baba assurances like say me know first hand wetin happen.

@The Bolden. Az in ehn.

I do find it very annoying cuz na always weekends one person dey try raise one issue or the other.

I no blame them, money matter no easy but make una relax abeg

Validated:
Op, have you been to Redemption Camp lately?
If not, please go there next time there is a progamme. GO said the infrastructure is now overstretched and creating spillover hold up in traffic. The water system and sewage system can no longer accommodate the surging crowd.
Pastor Adoboye, hate him or like him has done extremely well. I do not think he is hungry. If your father, brothers or sisters, uncles and aunts are not among the billionaires donating, how is that your concern?

You don’t have to shalaye to anybody.

People would always believe anytime they want to believe.

Pa Adeboye knew that already, I was fortunate to tune in to the program. When he started talking about water I knew what he was going to ask for.

Then immediately I remembered one if his other sermons, about his children tapping into the blessings of God by undertaking one or two. Trust me he didn’t have to announce it but believe he was under specific instructions to announce, cuz he too knows the backlash that comes with such.

I as one of his children, would send him money. Anybody e pain should cry

RandomFellow:
They're trying to recoup their R & D expenses. I mean, this could easily have been more than $2B in the past few years.

You are spewing rubbish.

If its cost $40 what happened to selling for $100, on top have a patent that can run for decades, they will still cash out.

The point is they don’t need to sell that hight to make profit, allowing people to die cause they can’t afford the needed drug is soulless. The organization and its management will be sent to the hottest circle of hell when they die

spiceadole:
Mom ~~~ £250/month X 8 months now + £500 for her birthday 3 months ago.


I can say I have spent at least 5 million naira on her this year.


Dad...Zero!
I don't like the man.
We don't talk ,haven't seen for years.
He benefits indirectly from mom

Reconcile with your dad.

There is a limit to how far you can go in life without fatherly blessings (especially if he is alive).

Your reconciliation will remove some stumbling blocks you currently have in your life, this i have seen.

Greed runs the world.

Na wa. $40 drug sold for over $28,000 and it is not a crime ?!

columbus007:
If you see thieves for corner and you come see this policeman face, which one you go first fear?

Brother for Nigeria. You better run toward thieves than Police.

Thief will collect all they can, even pray for God to bless you so they can rob you again but Police, God forbid someone goes missing only to find his/her body somewhere months later.

Just ask me why they are harassing the young man, no be hin dey drive wey dey go ask am for driver’s license or anything. You can hear the driver saying if they want to search him they should search. Still they wan carry the young man away, why?

He was wise to record, carry him away to where? Wasn’t it in the news trending that year how Anambra Police dey involve in kidnapping and organ harvesting. No follow Police go anywhere if no commit any crime, stand and record

Racoon:
Chai! One of the worst set of policemen in Lagos. Don't pray anything join you with NPF Festac division. Witnessed same with the ones in Alimosho area of the state. The endemic rot in the police is pathetic

Bruhh!

Festac Police ehn! Several ago, Festac Police wey stop me on bike on my way to Amuwo, saw calculator and test slip with details slated for the same day and said I was a yahoo boy?!

As in ehn i don’t understand, yahoo boy wan go write job test

I para for the e-diot ehn, baba say make i enter their korope I no even answer am again. I just jack my phone from hin hand, waka comot, shebi hin dey wave hin gun make hin do hin worst.

Thank God for life, I don’t know how Police recruitment is done, cause how the worst humans are being accepted into this black organization beats me

Sold an “Asset” to go into an uncertain situation.

Thoughtless move

Freshtruth:
My salary is 480k per month in an offshore job but I can't swim I need advise


I am thinking of quitting the job

God abeg oo.

480k for an offshore is way too low for the risk. When people dey siddon for office (safely on land) dey collect more than times two of that amount.

Me wey dey risk my one life go come collect 480k? I dey craze. @OP go and learn how to swim ooo lol. The day kasala go burst, all your swimming lessons go turn practical

Jokes apart being in an hazardous situation in the middle of a water body (sea, lake, river) is a very terrifying experience. No be joke.

meobizy:
Swimming is an option in such a job. If you’re dropped in the middle of an ocean, where you wan swim go? After forty hours, you will succumb to weakness and eventually drown. If anything, someone who can’t swim will die first without wasting hope.

People have survived 3 days lost at sea.

When

Brendaniel:
My annoyance now is Seun and his mods have disabled right click because of people copying and pasting their rules, they are just making the platform more stressful to use, they are behaving like Tinubu who will leave the cause of a problem and be fighting symptoms while damaging things because they are part of the cause of the problem.

You guys will keep going in circles till you get rid of political influence and tribal bias on Nairaland which you Seun and almost all your mods are part of...

Omo ehn.

No lie here. It is really as if Seun is just trying to make the platform more difficult to use.

Don’t even get me started on the spam bots, if I can’t speak my mind freely (without insulting anybody or cause any social discord) why am i logging into Nairaland?!

immortalcrown:
You have a foundational problem. The course is not useless. You are the one who used the course to render yourself useless at the moment. Many that studied Political Science are gainfully employed. Even some people that studied Medicine or Nursing are jobless. To show that the problem is with you and not with the course, you said you don't even know where your certificate is.

But there is still hope because you are still alive and very young.

I get your drift, but mehn na grace. No be who run pass dey carry 1st.

But you are right, even Bsc French people are very gainful employed lol.

I checked out a girl’s profile on Friday, She has Bsc French but Mama dey work for a private company wey me with my prestigious Bsc, MSc and other professional certifications dey currently hustle to port to lol life no balance

Till all Nigerians do away with greed, Nigeria can’t get better.

Nigeria is now the kind of place there are powerful people working against our national interests in place of their personal interest, for example as you are praying for stable electricity; one powerful Nigerian with loads of wads can go to NEPA office and meet with their Oga at the top; pay so there won’t be electricity in a particular area/state for a particular period

So what do we tell God to do to people working against our national interest now ehn. Most of these people won’t stop, except God calls them “home” (to hellfire).

MufasaLion:
You don't need anyone to tell you that the figures in the attached screenshot is their annual income.

Blood of Mufasa!

I had to ask cause even graduate trainee dey collect above this per annum in most mid sized firms talk less of bigger firms.

RevolverOcelot:
Never trust a guy that shaves his eyebrows. Wether white or any race.

Lol Baba resemble one of the characters in “Mad Max”

MufasaLion:
I'm above who you can argue with.

Check below:

Is this monthly salary?

Matter for Nigeria always dey sensitive, so much that I don’t even know which side to take.

Whether to applaud her for showing up to work, preserving or not riding with her colleagues to demand better welfare for her profession.

God, Nigeria is in your hands. Help us.

budaatum:
Had a cousin live with me once. I gave him my bedroom and I slept on the sofa. He paid no rent, apparently assuming the government paid citizen's rent, and would eat everything left in my pot after I ate.

One day I went to Peckham, bought fish and Guinness and went home to cook rice and dodo. As I was eating, he arrived and asked if I'd taken all I want so he can eat the rest as he normally would, but I told him I hadn't, and would be eating it all as I didn't cook any for him. All the Guinness was mine too, I said, which shocked him as I usually share. "Oh", I said, "and when I finish, I'd like a word please".

"Did your family (my maternal) tell you my family owes you and you should come and collect", I asked. That's when he told me he thought the government was feeding me and paying my rent.

"So, when you see me go to work l, What's that", I asked.

We decided he'd be paying rent and would contribute to electric and water and buy his own food or pay for mine if he eats it. He stayed for 5 years and sensitised the 8 other people who stayed with us in that time.

He did run up my landline with calls to America so I got a £200+ bill. I called the person, got number from itemised bill, and found out it was his friend before confronting him. He said he thought it would not count because the phone was locked and he'd found a way around it.

Lool UK people una dey try. Bills, bills, bills, UK can turn someone to a heartless human but can you blame them, no lap anybody if you never siddon well

MufasaLion:
These are the ladies that the younger generation of girls should emulate. They should stop emulating those jobless hookup ladies disguising as influencers.

Emulate as how?

Younger generations of girls should manufacture her own father who is a billionaire, who would give them good education, provide all their basic needs and put them in position of power when they are old enough? Lol

Just dey play

Shimbo96:
most of those hook up girls, use that money to send themselves to schools, pay their bills and feed themselves... I'm not supporting them but this harsh world turn them to what they never imagined from childhood. Please judge nobody bcuz not everyone is born with a silver spoon.

I’m not in support of hookup, but his comments didn’t even make any sense.

When a fat person tells me being fat is in their genes i just laugh.

Oga your stature (slim or fat) is 80% food intake!

You are fat cause you eat like a hungry lion, so you always have calories than your body needs. When you are calorie deficient (take less calories than your body needs), you lose weight.

It is as simple as that.

ntyce:
Why not buy ozempic instead of going through this dehumanizing step.

No easy shortcut in life. If you know the long term side effects of most drugs, you will avoid them.

Mariangeles:
Maybe you're the man God sent to rescue her.

Nobody is beyond redemption.

Even you would never agree to your son marrying a former prostitute.

Women are so pragmatic ehn, say something about young men not making single mothers first choice for marriage and see them come for you, in the single mother’s defense (in this case ex-prostitute’s defense) but let her own son want to settle for one, you go see how she no gree for hin choice

Anyways they talk say Op na Captain Save a hoe

Just give him the mask and cape already

EmmySparky:
Even though I am a tribalist and don’t even know where you are from or why it matters… the only reason why I don’t go back is cause of the unknown gunmen…ogun and o sun states remains the capitals of ritual killing in Nigeria…