₦airaland Forum

Dating in Nigeria. You’d see a woman that is jobless doing a financial assessment of a working man.

ogaemma:
They should charge them for forgery, is a criminal offense.
See how the moral structure of Nigeria have decayed.
Police will forge age
Judge's who are custodian's of the law will forge age.
Civil Servants will forge age.
President will forge age.
Useless country.
Infact Nigeria is a forge country.

Exactly, charge them!

It is not enough to just retire them.

If we can’t trust Judges who can we trust

I don’t know some people’s problem with social media. They just do everything to invite problems into their lives.

Sometging you would just get a lawyer to advise on and document then you kept quiet, instead cho cho cho now half of it the world knows; now you are the target for the wicked devices of some people’s heart.

JoeEeL:
And this is most likely ur quote abiiiiiiiiiiiiii?

She is no different, Women will tolerate a very successful man nothing hin fit do even cheating that is unforgivable. He would be tolerated up the time the women feel they no longer need him.

Women (including her) won’t even mind sharing a very successful man

You want to make olosho a wife, thinking she would change her waka when she is married lol.

The whole of nature will laugh at your folly

musa234:
Must men kneel to propose? Who brought such a rule?

Are you minding them, just following trending social norms blindly.

There is no need for any of them to kneel, but if anybody should kneel should not it be the women?

I pity this generation

Peakdesign23:
No be only bestie, that's why they've been breaking up with you because he's your real husband.

God forbid.

Her “real husband” was on the sidelines while she was taking dicktation in all these different relationships faa lol

Nothing musa no go see for gate

All these years she was ignoring him, just to “settle” for him when her plans don finish. The fool too dey kneel down lol

These jokers are still in Nigeria?? Lol

@seun this your 40 character requirement no make sense. What research is backing it?

When you pay staff shitty salaries with zero promotion and job prospect while senior management cart away billions, what do you expect.

I can never advise any of my younglings to take a zenith bank

MrHandsome2013:
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He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife.
No house of his own, no property,
No car , nothing.
What did he do with those 12 years.

Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities.

If e easy you sef go fit run am.

Please book mark this your trend. In the next 10 - 15 years, you will come back and tell us the legacy you have created for your children

@Seun abeg nothing must happen to Nairaland or this trend. Since this young man has the audacity to come online to disrespect his own father. You think say responsibility easy, your father has ran his race.

Don’t even think of laying blame on your father if you don’t make it in life, cuz you are obviously man enough to insult him then you are man enough to ensure your destiny is as you want.

We would be alive by God’s grace, We go wait you for here

saphiere:
Hit song isn't hot.
Give it away please.


Shfsjsbdksgel

Who has ever made a hit song in your family? (No be bashing, please tell us)

Shidinky:
It was answered in the post you quoted. If you can't understand it. Sorry I can't help

Oga we don’t understand. Tell us naa

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You see there are different kinda characters on the internet. Be careful whose’ opinion you even regard or give any attention.

Shidinky:
Maybe you failed English classes.

I agree with you I failed english

English master, please tell us in plain english how he paid for his university program. So we can understand.

SamuraiXXX:
You're indirectly telling us your cousin is a Yahoo boy for him to have been able to raise over 60% of his 30 Pounds school fees while I'm Nigeria

The english genius was trying to implore, that his cousin got the money working on student visa. That he could work and make enough to finance his program over there. Money wey people working full white collar can’t in a year.

Please let’s patiently wait for his lies

Shidinky:
Update us when he lands in Nigeria
My cousin even came to the UK paid of his 12k pounds schools fees balance in one year lol. (Try raising 12k pounds as a student in naija if you no be yahoo boy)
Una dey compare reasonable country with country wey first class deu drive Okada and tipper for dangote

Stop giving us half-story.

This my guy also paid his fees within one year from his savings from Nigeria, same price range.

…now tell us exactly how your cousin paid his own fees?

nony43:
Should we talk about inflation? You go Market today buy sth 100 naira tomorrow it’s 800 naira. Your friend is right. I have lived in Italy and currently live in the UK I will still choose abroad 100x over 9ja.

So my point is why would you leave a country you can comfortably save $10,000 CAD (most people even save this to Japa) to a foreign country you work like a dog and can’t save same amount in 7 years! (When you are not living under a biblical curse: that you would work and not bring in anything into your store).

Oga this is not economics class. Wetin concern inflation in Nigeria with someone that has N30 million. You would always be able to comfortably afford food no matter what, any situation that will arise and make someone with N30 million not to afford food means 90% of Nigerians are dead naa lol

Lol talking about inflation. You are aware Bank of England maintained interest rate at about 4% and inflation is currently high? How I take know, I live in Nigeria lol. Baba the cries of my plenty friends and families there has reached me here in Nigeria.

Never compare inflation in UK to Nigeria, inflation in UK na die! Naija at all at all you go see food chop, UK who go feed you? Dey play

nony43:
If your country is a working country it won’t be enough.

Lol baba don change goal post.

Anyways don’t be deceived with N30 million your quality of life in Nigeria would be x10 better vs £5,000 in UK, take it from someone that knows exactly what he is talking about.

Let me even shock you, at a point I had a conversation with a friend in Canada (I like to weigh quality of life in other countries). This guy has been there for about 2 years and we can argue he has a little knowledge of the system right?

He said most people that have lived in Canada for 4-7 years, don’t have $10,000 CAD in savings. Imagine my shock and disbelief, cause the naira equivalent can be realistically achieved in Nigeria in 3/4 years with a decent corporate or even a small business. I didn’t take his word for it, I had to quickly confirm from another friend that recently japa-ed to Canada. Baba is so so and so true? Yes! (He said the yes so fast, he didn’t need to think about it).

crossbreedwears:
You all leep talkong about insecurity. I will rather have 30m in my account and start up a business than running to abroad to work as a slave

Take this man seriously, he knows what’s up. This is the exact phase a friend recently used to describe life in UK. He was hurriedly making arrangements to return to Nigeria as we speak lol

Just for clarity, my friend’s life situation is different. He was living well when he was in Nigeria. Very well. Like i stated earlier if you are living well, and you port to UK without a decent corporate job. Your quality of life would fall so low ehn. You would think you fell from a 10 storey building.

But if you were living in Ajegunle with your entire family of 7 in one room. No a/c, garri was your staple food, sapa was a house mate that is when UK would be appealing to you. If not body go tell you, you won’t know when you pack your bags and run.

nony43:
💯, 30m in 9ja still you won’t have peace of mind because of insecurity

You talk like people don’t get knifed everyday in the streets on UK, or someone is not getting gunned down everyday on the US streets

Uber drivers are getting robbed and killed in the aforementioned countries every single day.

Back to the OP assertion, it is false. I have a lot of people in UK, they are doing okay but are living cheque to cheque. If you are already living well in Nigeria (you have 24/7 in your house, eat what you want and when, you have a car you drive etc) and you ported to UK without a good paying white collar job your standard of living will fall drastically.

I don’t even have to elaborate too much. Can the person in UK resign and do without a job for 3 years on £5,000, just home chilling? Never. But someone with N30 million in Nigeria can do that comfortably and be grower fatter by the day sef

immortalcrown:
I am a man. I admit that the men you refer to are irrational, arrogant and stupid.

But your write up doesn't portray you as someone better than those men. In all you wrote, you didn't mention any mistakes you have made in your relationships with men. Are you indirectly saying you are perfect? Is there nothing you have done and won't encourage your fellow women to do?

Maybe you are married. Maybe you are single by choice. What about your fellow women who have crossed the age of 30 and are still single because they mistakenly or stupidly rejected good men? How does your post address their situations? Does your post try to save younger females from making those mistakes? Or, are you claiming that no single lady regrets being single? Are you saying that marriage is not necessary for any above-thirty-and-single lady? Even if marriage is not for everyone, is being single good for everyone?

No gender is better than the other. Every gender has good and bad people. In your case, I think you are just a female version of the men you condemn. Your writeup does not teach women how to be good. Your writeup only encourages women to be comfortable with growing old without marriage.

I no wan talk before.

I guess the intent of her write-up was to elevate herself but it just fall flat. I actually felt pity for her.

Whether we want to admit it or not, no lady wants to be unmarried at 30 by choice except she is a nun.

Being unmarried at such an advanced age, points to a something very hard to admit to oneself; No man wants you enough to get married to you it would be a hard pill to swallow myself if i were a lady.

Haven said that biko let’s ease off on the whole gender thing abeg and show yourselves a little kindness.

Dbegining:
How come this same "freedom of association" philosophy doesn't apply to igbos?

Instead you guys have branded them as terrorists just because they want to express their right to freedom of association.

Have you ever heard the phrase “people don’t think about you as much as you think” - it is a scientific fact. People are obsessed with their own personal problem to the extent they think of others as much eg you thinkI don’t like you while the thoughts of you hardly crosses my mind.

Tinubu is the President of a whole Nigeria, he has many problems to solve. You think he has space in his mind to carry hatred of igbo people, you’d be greatly mistaken.

AMINDA:
His tenure will be remembered for its infamy. He balkanized the ECOWAS leading to 3 member states leaving the bloc. What a legacy! He's currently in the process of doing same to Nigeria.

Why naa.

There is freedom of association. If they didn’t want to belong, was he supposed to tie them.

This man is doing alot, let’s treat our President with kindness

meobizy:
All these plenty lies which populate the internet. I will soon take a hiatus to protect my mental health.

Recently i had a friend that went to UK through student route, baba was very eager to come back to Nigeria. So baba had to give me the full gist of the situation because he knew i would try to dissuade him.

I believe this story because UK is currently the proverbial between a rock and a hard place. It will test the love of a new couples, cause finance in UK especially if you don’t have a high paying blue collar job is very difficult.

Most of the these Nigerian women leaving their husbands is majorly cause of finance, either they are earning more and don’t want to keep carrying the financial burden or the divorce provides more financial incentive- ie richer new partner/income from divorce minus some other financial burden.

If she never loved you lol. Carry your wife go UK, when una start madt budgeting, na there you go know

Imindmybusiness:
She is now making the plans with someone else. Don't just sleep on the matter, be alert and prepare yourself and your mind to lose her.

Only a fool would make such plans with her lol. Over 20 million to relocate an already married woman? No mentally balanced Nigerian man can do such. Baba no need bother himself lol

omoredia:
To forget is not biblical. The bible says forgive and forgiveness is encouraged but not mandated. Don't get things mixed up. A sin u will not comit u are not under any obligation to forgive.

You would be a fool to forget. Fools get stripes on their backs for their folly.

Even Jesus never forgot the kinda people he was dealing with

John 2:24 states, "Now when he was in Jerusalem at the Passover Festival, many believed in his name when they saw the signs that he was doing. But Jesus on his part did not entrust himself to them, because he knew all people.

Never forget. Those that treated you disdain when you had nothing to offer them. When you have everything they want, you would be a fool to trust them and admit them into your inner circle. It can cost you your life.

Starhearts:
D news breaker been to be arrested.

Hw she take knw say.. she slumped..

Read what you wrote, you too can see why people like to mind their business in Nigeria.

If na you now, notice say your neighbor na to keep shut. Cuz as the new breaker we for don follow your advise arrest you

Coooloooo:
I love this girl seriously.

I have known her for years.
But we just got in relationship early this year.
It happens that she asked for data sub from me and I couldn't assist.

I was really broke then.

She was already doubting if I loved her.
I actually do love

But I couldn't assist her.

Now the relationship has ended.

I am thinking I made a mistake

I need to make my finances better.

You never had a girlfriend, you were catering for an orphan.

Your finance shouldn’t have anything to do with your love life except she is in for the money, if she is there is no difference between her and a prostitute you pay

These terrorists have phones, they ride motorcycles oo

But farmers shouldn’t use any modern equipments lol

Righteousness2:
When GOD ALMIGHTY, The GOD of ISRAEL was to DESTROY Pharaoh, Everything on Earth fought against him.

From Water, to Darkness, to Locust, to Frogs to Lice and Flies, to thunder, Lightning, hailstones, Deaths, etc. EVERY Thing fought against Until He called for Moses and Aaron by Night after all his braggings and Said ;
GO FROM US! TAKE EVERYTHING YOU WANT TO TAKE AND LEAVE US ALONE. AND PLS BLESS ME BEFORE YOU GO.

The Same GOD that Dealt with Pharoah and Destroyed Egypt is the Same GOD that says HE will STRIKE THE MULLAHS IN IRAN and their FOREMOST STRENGTH!
Everything on Earth is HIS Weapon, including EARTHQUAKE!

You know average Jew in 2025 do not believe that Jesus of Nazareth was the Messiah or Prophet nor do they believe he was the Son of God. They would very likely hit you if you tell ‘em that

tobby98:
If it such a good deal, you use your money to buy it then

Are you minding him. He would have done that if it was a good deal naa, even borrowed if he didn’t have the money.